Quiz: What Your Communication Style Says About You (self-test)
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Date: 2025-07-20
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onesketchEboi
My results:
1. D - I am usually the quiet type who sits and listens to what people are saying. However, when I have something to say every now and then, I eagerly and openly contribute to the conversation, especially when there is tension that needs to be resolved. Whether other people contribute is up to them - I don't call on others to say something. Overall, I am more like option D.
2. D - When I am upset, I keep my feelings to myself when I am in the conversation that made me upset. Then I sit with those feelings and bring them to the person in question when I am ready and able to not only voice my position but listen to theirs. That is why I picked option D.
3. D - I try my absolute best to be considerate of their feelings and give helpful, constructive feedback. I am always honest when giving feedback.
4. A - If I have something to say, I will say it when given the opportunity. But otherwise, I keep my trap shut. I might confirm with the group what the plan is to make sure I understood it correctly, but I don't go out of my way to make sure all voices were heard and the discussions are respectful. So I am more like A.
5. D - I do offer potential solutions if I can think of any, but my first priority is to listen deeply to how they feel and validate those feelings (It's not about the nail, so I am more like D.
6. A - Yep, when I am stressed or overwhelmed I retreat into myself like a turtle. I simply don't have the resources to deal with anything or anyone outside of my own world when I am stressed or overwhelmed. I'm totally option A.
7. D - I initially hesitate to voice my needs because it can be uncomfortable. I want to be as considerate of them as possible, and I expect them to be considerate too. But the more time passes, the more I realize that the earlier I voice my needs of concerns the better (as long as I am being respectful in the process. So I am more like option D.
8. A - If someone is insulting me or giving me harsh feedback without giving me an inkling as to how move forward, I am going to stay quiet and feel attacked at first. I will try to understand their position and make mine known at some point, but at first I am going to be like option A.
9. D - I always do my best to write clearly, thoughtfully, and warmly to people, but I can sometimes be like options A and C, especially when I am not sure what to write. Overall, I would say I am most like option D.
10. B - My first instinct is to bite back, prove my point, and win. But in practice, I never do that. Instead, I shut up, listen to what they are saying, and then talk it through with them afterwards with as much empathy as I can muster. There is no guarantee, however, that I am ultimately going to agree with them nor be persuaded by them. Talking it through is not my first instinct, defending myself is.
Overall: 3 (A, 1 (B, 0 (C, 6 (C)
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My results:
1. D - I am usually the quiet type who sits and listens to what people are saying. However, when I have something to say every now and then, I eagerly and openly contribute to the conversation, especially when there is tension that needs to be resolved. Whether other people contribute is up to them - I don't call on others to say something. Overall, I am more like option D.
2. D - When I am upset, I keep my feelings to myself when I am in the conversation that made me upset. Then I sit with those feelings and bring them to the person in question when I am ready and able to not only voice my position but listen to theirs. That is why I picked option D.
3. D - I try my absolute best to be considerate of their feelings and give helpful, constructive feedback. I am always honest when giving feedback.
4. A - If I have something to say, I will say it when given the opportunity. But otherwise, I keep my trap shut. I might confirm with the group what the plan is to make sure I understood it correctly, but I don't go out of my way to make sure all voices were heard and the discussions are respectful. So I am more like A.
5. D - I do offer potential solutions if I can think of any, but my first priority is to listen deeply to how they feel and validate those feelings (It's not about the nail, so I am more like D.
6. A - Yep, when I am stressed or overwhelmed I retreat into myself like a turtle. I simply don't have the resources to deal with anything or anyone outside of my own world when I am stressed or overwhelmed. I'm totally option A.
7. D - I initially hesitate to voice my needs because it can be uncomfortable. I want to be as considerate of them as possible, and I expect them to be considerate too. But the more time passes, the more I realize that the earlier I voice my needs of concerns the better (as long as I am being respectful in the process. So I am more like option D.
8. A - If someone is insulting me or giving me harsh feedback without giving me an inkling as to how move forward, I am going to stay quiet and feel attacked at first. I will try to understand their position and make mine known at some point, but at first I am going to be like option A.
9. D - I always do my best to write clearly, thoughtfully, and warmly to people, but I can sometimes be like options A and C, especially when I am not sure what to write. Overall, I would say I am most like option D.
10. B - My first instinct is to bite back, prove my point, and win. But in practice, I never do that. Instead, I shut up, listen to what they are saying, and then talk it through with them afterwards with as much empathy as I can muster. There is no guarantee, however, that I am ultimately going to agree with them nor be persuaded by them. Talking it through is not my first instinct, defending myself is.
Overall: 3 (A, 1 (B, 0 (C, 6 (C)
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Ligardian
I wanna share after watching this video and taking this quiz.
As I was going through, I found that, depending on certain circumstances, I may feel I have mixed answers. I only had one question that had only one answer.
That said, though, I think that's valid and I wouldn't be surprised if other people found they don't answer a certain question one way. And yet, adding it up, I came to the following total:
A 6
B 3
C 6
D 9
I'm not saying this to brag because this did gave me insight how there were times I communicated passively or indirectly. and I don't often speak boldly even if there may be moments where it is okay and valid or maybe even necessary. What I find refreshing is finding out that how I've been communicating or trying to make an effort to communicate as has a name: Grounded communicator: Assertive style. I'm not suggesting that this is the best because, as this video points out, everyone has their own style and pace. All I wanted to do is express my personal experience about this.
Being on the autistic spectrum, it really took some time and effort for me to get to the communication style that I've been developing compared to how they were before. It took effort for me to practice understanding myself and understanding others. And I'm still growing and developing that and getting better of course. I'm just glad that, so far, the path I've been taking has led me this far. I've come a long way I feel.
I appreciate you sharing this video/quiz. As for the others if you happen to read this: Just keep to your pace. If you really do care and want to be able to communicate effectively, I'd say take the time to let yourself be introspective. Even if something happens that already passed, it's never too late to learn from it. You may gain some insight about yourself and/or other things that can really help you out in the long term.
Hope you all take care!
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I wanna share after watching this video and taking this quiz.
As I was going through, I found that, depending on certain circumstances, I may feel I have mixed answers. I only had one question that had only one answer.
That said, though, I think that's valid and I wouldn't be surprised if other people found they don't answer a certain question one way. And yet, adding it up, I came to the following total:
A 6
B 3
C 6
D 9
I'm not saying this to brag because this did gave me insight how there were times I communicated passively or indirectly. and I don't often speak boldly even if there may be moments where it is okay and valid or maybe even necessary. What I find refreshing is finding out that how I've been communicating or trying to make an effort to communicate as has a name: Grounded communicator: Assertive style. I'm not suggesting that this is the best because, as this video points out, everyone has their own style and pace. All I wanted to do is express my personal experience about this.
Being on the autistic spectrum, it really took some time and effort for me to get to the communication style that I've been developing compared to how they were before. It took effort for me to practice understanding myself and understanding others. And I'm still growing and developing that and getting better of course. I'm just glad that, so far, the path I've been taking has led me this far. I've come a long way I feel.
I appreciate you sharing this video/quiz. As for the others if you happen to read this: Just keep to your pace. If you really do care and want to be able to communicate effectively, I'd say take the time to let yourself be introspective. Even if something happens that already passed, it's never too late to learn from it. You may gain some insight about yourself and/or other things that can really help you out in the long term.
Hope you all take care!
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RaymondTywaif
I want to do this right but I don't really know how to really pick my answers like some other viewers could, because my communication style changes and adapts to different people/dynamics, their personality/emotional maturity, environments/contexts/timings, importance/urgency/intensity, my mood/energy level, closeness/emotional safety, topics/subjects/boundaries, public/private, individual/group, etc. Like, boss and clients are not the same, peers and family are not the same, adults vs kids, coworkers vs close friends, online platforms vs irl, etc. Q1 already makes me feel stuck when ABCD all could apply, similarly for most questions because I don't necessarily have to or want to communicate in one way or another, all the time, even with the same people I feel like I'd be lying or giving up parts of myself just to fit into a mold and pretend I only communicate in one way.
If I REALLY have to choose, regardless of considerations, conditions and consequences, I suppose my answers would be: 1B, 2A, 3D, 4D, 5A, 6A, 7B, 8C, 9D, 10B.
So ABD, it's a mix of 3 mostly, which honestly makes sense for what I mentioned, but is not particularly useful/meaningful for me to really pinpoint for me to know deeper about myself or to know what this result really says about me. I suppose I'm more of a nuanced person and not so black-and-white, and that people are complex/complicated and social interaction isn't so simplistic for me, just as what I've always thought, if I have to make a meaning out of it, at least for myself
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I want to do this right but I don't really know how to really pick my answers like some other viewers could, because my communication style changes and adapts to different people/dynamics, their personality/emotional maturity, environments/contexts/timings, importance/urgency/intensity, my mood/energy level, closeness/emotional safety, topics/subjects/boundaries, public/private, individual/group, etc. Like, boss and clients are not the same, peers and family are not the same, adults vs kids, coworkers vs close friends, online platforms vs irl, etc. Q1 already makes me feel stuck when ABCD all could apply, similarly for most questions because I don't necessarily have to or want to communicate in one way or another, all the time, even with the same people I feel like I'd be lying or giving up parts of myself just to fit into a mold and pretend I only communicate in one way.
If I REALLY have to choose, regardless of considerations, conditions and consequences, I suppose my answers would be: 1B, 2A, 3D, 4D, 5A, 6A, 7B, 8C, 9D, 10B.
So ABD, it's a mix of 3 mostly, which honestly makes sense for what I mentioned, but is not particularly useful/meaningful for me to really pinpoint for me to know deeper about myself or to know what this result really says about me. I suppose I'm more of a nuanced person and not so black-and-white, and that people are complex/complicated and social interaction isn't so simplistic for me, just as what I've always thought, if I have to make a meaning out of it, at least for myself
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sarfraj-s9g
She told me I was sweet in bed, and I thought it was a compliment until I realized it was the kiss of death. The moment I understood that sweet meant boring, predictable, forgettable - thats when I knew I had to completely rebuild my approach to intimacy. Three weeks ago, I was that nice guy who thought being gentle and asking permission for everything would make her feel cherished, while she was probably fantasizing about someone who knew how to take control. Then I found out about the book Break Her Bed by Jake Black, and it felt like learning that Id been playing checkers while everyone else knew it was chess. His pornstar experience gives him insights that no relationship guru could ever have - he knows what actually happens behind closed doors versus what people say they want. I stopped being sweet and started being confident. Stopped asking and started leading. The transformation has been mind-blowing - she went from tolerating our sessions to initiating them, from faking enthusiasm to genuine addiction. This book doesnt teach you to be a better boyfriend - it teaches you to be unforgettable.
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She told me I was sweet in bed, and I thought it was a compliment until I realized it was the kiss of death. The moment I understood that sweet meant boring, predictable, forgettable - thats when I knew I had to completely rebuild my approach to intimacy. Three weeks ago, I was that nice guy who thought being gentle and asking permission for everything would make her feel cherished, while she was probably fantasizing about someone who knew how to take control. Then I found out about the book Break Her Bed by Jake Black, and it felt like learning that Id been playing checkers while everyone else knew it was chess. His pornstar experience gives him insights that no relationship guru could ever have - he knows what actually happens behind closed doors versus what people say they want. I stopped being sweet and started being confident. Stopped asking and started leading. The transformation has been mind-blowing - she went from tolerating our sessions to initiating them, from faking enthusiasm to genuine addiction. This book doesnt teach you to be a better boyfriend - it teaches you to be unforgettable.
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mrfreefreelover
I realized she was scheduling our intimacy around her least horny times when I found her cycle tracker app. The devastating truth that she was actively avoiding being turned on when we were together should have been my rock bottom, but somehow I convinced myself she was just busy. Four weeks ago, I was that husband wondering why the passion died, why she seemed relieved when I didnt initiate, making excuses for a dead bedroom while dying inside. Then I found the book Break Her Bed by Jake Black, and reading it was like discovering Id been doing everything wrong for years. His insider knowledge from the adult industry reveals what women actually respond to versus what they say they want. I stopped trying to be romantic and started being magnetic. Stopped being predictable and started being irresistible. Now shes the one tracking my schedule, the one making excuses to get me alone, the one who cant keep her hands off me. This book doesnt teach you to try harder - it teaches you to be the man she craves instead of tolerates.
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I realized she was scheduling our intimacy around her least horny times when I found her cycle tracker app. The devastating truth that she was actively avoiding being turned on when we were together should have been my rock bottom, but somehow I convinced myself she was just busy. Four weeks ago, I was that husband wondering why the passion died, why she seemed relieved when I didnt initiate, making excuses for a dead bedroom while dying inside. Then I found the book Break Her Bed by Jake Black, and reading it was like discovering Id been doing everything wrong for years. His insider knowledge from the adult industry reveals what women actually respond to versus what they say they want. I stopped trying to be romantic and started being magnetic. Stopped being predictable and started being irresistible. Now shes the one tracking my schedule, the one making excuses to get me alone, the one who cant keep her hands off me. This book doesnt teach you to try harder - it teaches you to be the man she craves instead of tolerates.
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Fiona-se3db
Idk if anyone would know what I'm talking about, probably not but don't these communication styles sound a lot like the eneagram type 9 Options A sounds a lot like an average 9, trying to keep the peace at all cost and not speaking up, maybe self preservation (that's me, i also got A the most, B could be 9w8 but maybe thats too aggressive for them, maybe it's just straight up 8, some options of C also sounds like a 9 because 9s are known to be pretty passive agressive and withdrawn when upset, while D sounds like a very healthy 9, maybe even the social type, mediating every conflict and making sure everyone is heard
I'm not sure what this all means, maybe we all have a little bit of 9 in all of us that we use to navigate how we deal with conflict Idk I just found it interesting, but anyways if you have no idea what im talking about, its this thing called eneagram, it categorises people into 9 different personality types, you can look it up if you want to
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Idk if anyone would know what I'm talking about, probably not but don't these communication styles sound a lot like the eneagram type 9 Options A sounds a lot like an average 9, trying to keep the peace at all cost and not speaking up, maybe self preservation (that's me, i also got A the most, B could be 9w8 but maybe thats too aggressive for them, maybe it's just straight up 8, some options of C also sounds like a 9 because 9s are known to be pretty passive agressive and withdrawn when upset, while D sounds like a very healthy 9, maybe even the social type, mediating every conflict and making sure everyone is heard
I'm not sure what this all means, maybe we all have a little bit of 9 in all of us that we use to navigate how we deal with conflict Idk I just found it interesting, but anyways if you have no idea what im talking about, its this thing called eneagram, it categorises people into 9 different personality types, you can look it up if you want to
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. When you are in a group conversation 1: 33
2. If someone upsets you. You usually 1: 57
3. When giving feedback. You 2: 21
4. In group projects or work meetings. You're the one who 2: 44
5. When someone shares something emotional with you. You 3: 10
6. When you're stressed or overwhelmed people might say you seem 3: 32
7. How do you usually express your needs 3: 55
8. If someone gives you critical feedback. You 4: 16
9. Your texts or messages are usually 4: 35
10. In conflict, you first instinct is to 5: 08
11. If mostly A's - the quiet communicator passive Style 5: 37
12. If mostly B's - bold communicator aggressive style 6: 06
13. If mostly C's - indirect communicator passive aggressive style 6: 37
14. If mostly D's - grounded communicator assertive style 7: 12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this video is so late.
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Timestamps
1. When you are in a group conversation 1: 33
2. If someone upsets you. You usually 1: 57
3. When giving feedback. You 2: 21
4. In group projects or work meetings. You're the one who 2: 44
5. When someone shares something emotional with you. You 3: 10
6. When you're stressed or overwhelmed people might say you seem 3: 32
7. How do you usually express your needs 3: 55
8. If someone gives you critical feedback. You 4: 16
9. Your texts or messages are usually 4: 35
10. In conflict, you first instinct is to 5: 08
11. If mostly A's - the quiet communicator passive Style 5: 37
12. If mostly B's - bold communicator aggressive style 6: 06
13. If mostly C's - indirect communicator passive aggressive style 6: 37
14. If mostly D's - grounded communicator assertive style 7: 12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this video is so late.
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ZephyrtheCat-x5b
I got Bold/Aggressive. I always share my opinions and talk about myself in monologues. When people try to give me advice, I get defensive and take it as criticism, even when it's not. I verbalize my needs often and selfishly prioritize them over others. My emotions get out of control, and even when I want to hide them, I can't. Socially, I come on too strong in the sense I'm very energetic and loud. A few years ago, I just walked up to a random classmate and asked what their favorite color was because socializing is not my strong suit. I guess a good thing about this result is I'm clear about my feelings. I prefer when people communicate openly with me, even if I don't handle it well. My goal is to try to speak less, listen more, and be less overbearing.
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I got Bold/Aggressive. I always share my opinions and talk about myself in monologues. When people try to give me advice, I get defensive and take it as criticism, even when it's not. I verbalize my needs often and selfishly prioritize them over others. My emotions get out of control, and even when I want to hide them, I can't. Socially, I come on too strong in the sense I'm very energetic and loud. A few years ago, I just walked up to a random classmate and asked what their favorite color was because socializing is not my strong suit. I guess a good thing about this result is I'm clear about my feelings. I prefer when people communicate openly with me, even if I don't handle it well. My goal is to try to speak less, listen more, and be less overbearing.
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dimguy_yaslushayu
1. |> 3. M
2. D 4. E
I had a chat with Ai the other day. Just random questions, and then at the end I asked Ai to analyse me.
Please review chat history as if Ai is a mirror to my higher self. Tell me what my verbal, textual, signal says about me as a person
Idenitfy the childhood trauma that causes me to communicate indirectly. Why am I unable to say No! to authority
Why do I feel angry at myself for not speaking up to defend myself Why did my parents never teach me this Why is human culture so ignorant and absurdly beautiful.
Whenever I don't know what to do, I fart. If people judge me for it, then it has worked. It is a filtering mechanism. Non-judgmental people know how to giggle
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1. |> 3. M
2. D 4. E
I had a chat with Ai the other day. Just random questions, and then at the end I asked Ai to analyse me.
Please review chat history as if Ai is a mirror to my higher self. Tell me what my verbal, textual, signal says about me as a person
Idenitfy the childhood trauma that causes me to communicate indirectly. Why am I unable to say No! to authority
Why do I feel angry at myself for not speaking up to defend myself Why did my parents never teach me this Why is human culture so ignorant and absurdly beautiful.
Whenever I don't know what to do, I fart. If people judge me for it, then it has worked. It is a filtering mechanism. Non-judgmental people know how to giggle
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psych2go
Anyone else felt the need to write down multiple options for the same question
Like, I don't seem to react the same way every time (I don't think anyone does, it depends.
Can anyone relate
I got
1 - AC
2 - ACD
3 - CD
4 - D
5 - D
6 - A
7 - CD
8 - CD
9 - BCD
10 - D
So, I'm taking my results as an average or my most frequent types.
I guess I'd be a D one with C moments That'd make sense since I've been trying to work on my communication, and sometimes I can do it clearly. But I think I'm usually a C, since I use a lot of sarcasm
Edit: If an A one got to practice their expressiveness and eventually be able to speak up, would they turn into a D
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Anyone else felt the need to write down multiple options for the same question
Like, I don't seem to react the same way every time (I don't think anyone does, it depends.
Can anyone relate
I got
1 - AC
2 - ACD
3 - CD
4 - D
5 - D
6 - A
7 - CD
8 - CD
9 - BCD
10 - D
So, I'm taking my results as an average or my most frequent types.
I guess I'd be a D one with C moments That'd make sense since I've been trying to work on my communication, and sometimes I can do it clearly. But I think I'm usually a C, since I use a lot of sarcasm
Edit: If an A one got to practice their expressiveness and eventually be able to speak up, would they turn into a D
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KirgSamson
Wow. this hit me deeper than I expected. I’ve spent years wondering why some conversations leave me drained, while others make me feel seen. This quiz wasn’t just a self-test it was a mirror. For the first time, I recognized patterns in how I protect myself, how I connect, and how I sometimes push away the very closeness I crave. Thank you for creating something that didn’t just analyze, but reached me. It reminded me of a quote from Youth Protocol by Dr. Tessa Voss. The words we choose aren’t just tools, they’re windows into the parts of ourselves we’re still trying to understand. Today I understood a part of myself a little better. And that means the world.
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Wow. this hit me deeper than I expected. I’ve spent years wondering why some conversations leave me drained, while others make me feel seen. This quiz wasn’t just a self-test it was a mirror. For the first time, I recognized patterns in how I protect myself, how I connect, and how I sometimes push away the very closeness I crave. Thank you for creating something that didn’t just analyze, but reached me. It reminded me of a quote from Youth Protocol by Dr. Tessa Voss. The words we choose aren’t just tools, they’re windows into the parts of ourselves we’re still trying to understand. Today I understood a part of myself a little better. And that means the world.
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caleb_mateo
My Results:
B: 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10
C: 4
D: 1, 8
I do admit, I am usually quite aggressive, and sometimes I believe I have to do many things in order to get what I want at times. However, other people, such as my family (and especially my sister) believe that I tend to be sarcastic, curious, and very funny at times whenever I speak to everyone, sometimes I even say things I don't really mean. But I guess all of that could mean I am confident and always trying to stand out even when being asked to fit in with everyone else in life. XD
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My Results:
B: 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10
C: 4
D: 1, 8
I do admit, I am usually quite aggressive, and sometimes I believe I have to do many things in order to get what I want at times. However, other people, such as my family (and especially my sister) believe that I tend to be sarcastic, curious, and very funny at times whenever I speak to everyone, sometimes I even say things I don't really mean. But I guess all of that could mean I am confident and always trying to stand out even when being asked to fit in with everyone else in life. XD
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MegaManNeo
I have a wild mix of results, half of them are in-between results.
1 a
2 c
3 a-c
4 a
5 d
6 a-c
7 a-c
8 a-d
9 a-c
10 a-b-d
A mixture of A and C seems to be accurate for me, when I try to push it further or have a bad day however, my communication style tends to turn or behave like B however.
I don't want to hurt anyone and keep things calm, so D seems nice also, being direct and harsh however often sadly feels like to be the only method to communicate with others in this day of age.
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I have a wild mix of results, half of them are in-between results.
1 a
2 c
3 a-c
4 a
5 d
6 a-c
7 a-c
8 a-d
9 a-c
10 a-b-d
A mixture of A and C seems to be accurate for me, when I try to push it further or have a bad day however, my communication style tends to turn or behave like B however.
I don't want to hurt anyone and keep things calm, so D seems nice also, being direct and harsh however often sadly feels like to be the only method to communicate with others in this day of age.
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VioletMaeve
Overwhelmingly A. No surprised from the last one I did.
I AVOID conflicts, because no matter what I seem to always be the person on the other end, or I feel how the conflict continues. As an empath, and an old soul for Spiritual reasons, everytime I see a kid throws a fit at a store or if two people get into a fight: All types of yelling, screaming and crying I absorb and feel it. The room is more aggressive or sad, the emotion weighs me down. I wish I wasn't so empathic, but its how I can relate to people easily.
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Overwhelmingly A. No surprised from the last one I did.
I AVOID conflicts, because no matter what I seem to always be the person on the other end, or I feel how the conflict continues. As an empath, and an old soul for Spiritual reasons, everytime I see a kid throws a fit at a store or if two people get into a fight: All types of yelling, screaming and crying I absorb and feel it. The room is more aggressive or sad, the emotion weighs me down. I wish I wasn't so empathic, but its how I can relate to people easily.
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madhavbalkavi9923
I got mostly D, with one C and 2 As. So overall D. Thanks for reminder. I do supress my needs a LOT.
And. Other readers.
See the whole point of communicating is it should be comfortable for both. If it's not comfortable for either you, or your receiver, the communication is failed and it will disrupt relations. So. Be comfortable and make everyone around feel comfortable to the most possible level (ultimately u have to compromise on certain things, perfection is not possible)
Happy Day everyone!
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I got mostly D, with one C and 2 As. So overall D. Thanks for reminder. I do supress my needs a LOT.
And. Other readers.
See the whole point of communicating is it should be comfortable for both. If it's not comfortable for either you, or your receiver, the communication is failed and it will disrupt relations. So. Be comfortable and make everyone around feel comfortable to the most possible level (ultimately u have to compromise on certain things, perfection is not possible)
Happy Day everyone!
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psych2go
The thing is, when I tried to answer the questions I realised that my way to responding or talking is different in different settings, with different people and groups. If I chose option A then i suddenly remembered how I'll have to choose Option C because I remembered another conversation i hade with a different person. So I don't know what to choose. All in all it is a good and simple video but my mind made it complicated for me. Also I got mixed results 4 A's 4 C's and 3 D's. I don't know who I'm am
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The thing is, when I tried to answer the questions I realised that my way to responding or talking is different in different settings, with different people and groups. If I chose option A then i suddenly remembered how I'll have to choose Option C because I remembered another conversation i hade with a different person. So I don't know what to choose. All in all it is a good and simple video but my mind made it complicated for me. Also I got mixed results 4 A's 4 C's and 3 D's. I don't know who I'm am
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paatagabelia4271
I got 4 A's, 3 B's, 1 C, and 2 D's, but there were like 3 answers that don't exactly describe how I usually act in those types of situations they're only halfway accurate. Also, it matters which question you gave each answer to, because even though I got mostly A's, my second most was B. That doesn't necessarily mean I fit what the B category describes; rather, I just tend to take the lead in team settings, which is probably why I got B as my second most frequent answer.
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I got 4 A's, 3 B's, 1 C, and 2 D's, but there were like 3 answers that don't exactly describe how I usually act in those types of situations they're only halfway accurate. Also, it matters which question you gave each answer to, because even though I got mostly A's, my second most was B. That doesn't necessarily mean I fit what the B category describes; rather, I just tend to take the lead in team settings, which is probably why I got B as my second most frequent answer.
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MechaboiYT
So i had a two way tie with A and B. I tend to get straight to the point most of the time but if im around people i dont like, know, or if im nervous or overwhelmed i tend to stay quiet(and a bit aggressive when overwhelmed. I tend to stay quiet most the time to avoid starting conflict as conflict stresses me out which makes me aggressive and i dont like being aggressive as it makes me feel like im my dad and i dont want to be anything like my dad
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So i had a two way tie with A and B. I tend to get straight to the point most of the time but if im around people i dont like, know, or if im nervous or overwhelmed i tend to stay quiet(and a bit aggressive when overwhelmed. I tend to stay quiet most the time to avoid starting conflict as conflict stresses me out which makes me aggressive and i dont like being aggressive as it makes me feel like im my dad and i dont want to be anything like my dad
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Kingpin1880
A (8) I'm an introvert and autistic. It's better to stay quiet because I KNOW people won't understand me if I speak. It seems to take years of getting to know someone before they seem to figure out how to understand what I'm saying, even though I think I made myself perfectly clear the first time.
D (6) sometimes it comes easily. which is when I end up saying the wrong thing. I'm still practising. Maybe one day I'll get it right.
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A (8) I'm an introvert and autistic. It's better to stay quiet because I KNOW people won't understand me if I speak. It seems to take years of getting to know someone before they seem to figure out how to understand what I'm saying, even though I think I made myself perfectly clear the first time.
D (6) sometimes it comes easily. which is when I end up saying the wrong thing. I'm still practising. Maybe one day I'll get it right.
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psych2go
I am
A-50% I get it. I am usually quiet and passive with anyone, even if I can get energetic with family. I still shy away from conflict.
B-0%
C-5%
D-45% yes I can be very empathetic, but I usually still keep to myself because I’m afraid if I say something wrong I will make things worse.
For some reason I shut down when the conflict is because of me. I understand the other persons intentions, but also the risks
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I am
A-50% I get it. I am usually quiet and passive with anyone, even if I can get energetic with family. I still shy away from conflict.
B-0%
C-5%
D-45% yes I can be very empathetic, but I usually still keep to myself because I’m afraid if I say something wrong I will make things worse.
For some reason I shut down when the conflict is because of me. I understand the other persons intentions, but also the risks
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