How To Deal With Loneliness ft. Dr Vivek H. Murthy, MD.
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Date: 2024-11-01
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ryanricks318
Seems theys more interested invested in entertaining bloody bloomin blursed blackbox baka all gorey rythem than actual others err idfk jus meh sharing an ood idea & thought pattern o mine split mind wavering bouts sum focus o mine jus can't always thinky as duh crowds prefers alls duh spimes every spimes such ease to displace minezelf in this awkward environmental conditionings presently really idfk wildly guessing wits instincts impulses vibe checking aways off in the background makings like a wallflower ood looky loo alterings stuff & things wits too much observations & not proper knowledge bouts proper methods sharing spimes eventfuls meh feels so oot o theys leagues whrrrs patience on catching pace wits theys rankings ugh possibly so oot moded n unneeded furs theys shenanigans alls none o meh personal beeswax alls theys business nuffins personal ugh mine communication comprehension skills possibly desperate furs development improvement but still mine feels desires to avoid dablage dealing & dealt ugh mite jus b an awful poser intruding after all appologies tysm is dat a vent to duh void tempting call to explore do they really wanna jettison meh more o dat ood idea theys projections idfk itty is theirs more than mine itty ain't meh anyway am so much more than dat lame idea theys overly familiar wits these days curiousity b killers oops done itty overboards am oot haves dat bit take cares gtg laters so nya sojourneys
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Seems theys more interested invested in entertaining bloody bloomin blursed blackbox baka all gorey rythem than actual others err idfk jus meh sharing an ood idea & thought pattern o mine split mind wavering bouts sum focus o mine jus can't always thinky as duh crowds prefers alls duh spimes every spimes such ease to displace minezelf in this awkward environmental conditionings presently really idfk wildly guessing wits instincts impulses vibe checking aways off in the background makings like a wallflower ood looky loo alterings stuff & things wits too much observations & not proper knowledge bouts proper methods sharing spimes eventfuls meh feels so oot o theys leagues whrrrs patience on catching pace wits theys rankings ugh possibly so oot moded n unneeded furs theys shenanigans alls none o meh personal beeswax alls theys business nuffins personal ugh mine communication comprehension skills possibly desperate furs development improvement but still mine feels desires to avoid dablage dealing & dealt ugh mite jus b an awful poser intruding after all appologies tysm is dat a vent to duh void tempting call to explore do they really wanna jettison meh more o dat ood idea theys projections idfk itty is theirs more than mine itty ain't meh anyway am so much more than dat lame idea theys overly familiar wits these days curiousity b killers oops done itty overboards am oot haves dat bit take cares gtg laters so nya sojourneys
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smoothcriminal2142
all solid advice!
takes some courage but i try to take the initiative and talk to people i find interesting. doesn't matter if it's unprompted, doesn't matter if they aren't receptive initially either, within reason. back in collage my friends befriended me by being persistent and not taking screw off for an answer and there's certainly something to that approach. helps to be insatiably curious too. so i ask questions about their hobbies and interests and treat them like puzzles to figure out how they work. the less knowledgeable i am on the topic the better! admittedly it very rarely works, but i learn new things and hone my social skill even if i don't make friends out of the attempt. it's easier online too since people can reply at their leisure and don't get bombarded with questions while they're out and about.
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all solid advice!
takes some courage but i try to take the initiative and talk to people i find interesting. doesn't matter if it's unprompted, doesn't matter if they aren't receptive initially either, within reason. back in collage my friends befriended me by being persistent and not taking screw off for an answer and there's certainly something to that approach. helps to be insatiably curious too. so i ask questions about their hobbies and interests and treat them like puzzles to figure out how they work. the less knowledgeable i am on the topic the better! admittedly it very rarely works, but i learn new things and hone my social skill even if i don't make friends out of the attempt. it's easier online too since people can reply at their leisure and don't get bombarded with questions while they're out and about.
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psych2go
The problem I've is, I'm a sort of anxious to help others. Normally, my mother wishes that I'd understand what she thinks and would help but somehow, without a proper communication, I don't feel comfortable to help. Somehow, she's not the only person who's demanding this way. So, if I can't help others, I often question myself, Do I deserve help.
Usually, most of the best psychiatrists in our country actually watch the phone. doze off, interrupt, write on the papers when we talk with them, lately I met the 7th psychiatrist I met.
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The problem I've is, I'm a sort of anxious to help others. Normally, my mother wishes that I'd understand what she thinks and would help but somehow, without a proper communication, I don't feel comfortable to help. Somehow, she's not the only person who's demanding this way. So, if I can't help others, I often question myself, Do I deserve help.
Usually, most of the best psychiatrists in our country actually watch the phone. doze off, interrupt, write on the papers when we talk with them, lately I met the 7th psychiatrist I met.
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BondhanClanner
In my case:
I have a hobby that everyone around rarely interested. I can say its very common hobby, but zero interest in here. Already try to advertise it but fail. No one seems care to me at home. Thats my main cause of my loneliness.
Really, loneliness is dangerous. I had a mental breakdown a couple days ago, breaking every plate at home. I dont regret it at first, but then I suffer because of it. Imagine you go to a nearby stall to order food and they reject you because of what I did.
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In my case:
I have a hobby that everyone around rarely interested. I can say its very common hobby, but zero interest in here. Already try to advertise it but fail. No one seems care to me at home. Thats my main cause of my loneliness.
Really, loneliness is dangerous. I had a mental breakdown a couple days ago, breaking every plate at home. I dont regret it at first, but then I suffer because of it. Imagine you go to a nearby stall to order food and they reject you because of what I did.
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LukasWeeke
Loneliness doesn't seem to be an epidemic to me. It rather seems to be a pandemic. I'm from Germany and yesterday we celebrated Halloween and today All Hollows. Reaching out for a professional should always be considered an option, although in my case I have spoken to about 20 different professionals over the last 6 years and by now am not even validly diagnosed let alone effectively treated. But please don't see my example as a reason not to reach out for help.
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Loneliness doesn't seem to be an epidemic to me. It rather seems to be a pandemic. I'm from Germany and yesterday we celebrated Halloween and today All Hollows. Reaching out for a professional should always be considered an option, although in my case I have spoken to about 20 different professionals over the last 6 years and by now am not even validly diagnosed let alone effectively treated. But please don't see my example as a reason not to reach out for help.
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andrewbynon8624
I’ve tried putting myself out there by setting up events for things I like to try and share my interests with new people and getting to know them. But twice now, no one seems to care. My first event people seemed interested, but no one showed up. My second one a few days ago, no one gave any sort of response or reaction to my idea. I’m on the verge of giving up on meeting new people or having relationships if this next attempt doesn’t work
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I’ve tried putting myself out there by setting up events for things I like to try and share my interests with new people and getting to know them. But twice now, no one seems to care. My first event people seemed interested, but no one showed up. My second one a few days ago, no one gave any sort of response or reaction to my idea. I’m on the verge of giving up on meeting new people or having relationships if this next attempt doesn’t work
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kayleighdriessen
I often crave alone time because being around people all the time especially strangers makes me feel lonely because so many people who you could connect with except capitalism, work-culture and other toxic societal norms make us feel isolated and unconfident in our own ability to form more fulfilling social connections all because a bunch of rich jerks love hoarding their precious money. Many humans but the humanity's absent.
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I often crave alone time because being around people all the time especially strangers makes me feel lonely because so many people who you could connect with except capitalism, work-culture and other toxic societal norms make us feel isolated and unconfident in our own ability to form more fulfilling social connections all because a bunch of rich jerks love hoarding their precious money. Many humans but the humanity's absent.
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Lavendeer201
It really is a struggle. Sometimes we end up lonely because of social cliques like me, and having friends online is good. But then it's hard because talking irl is much different than talking online.
Now that I'm used to talking to people online due to never fitting in. I always feel disconnected from people irl. I feel weird and constantly out of place, and like people are just putting on a friendly face to deal with me.
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It really is a struggle. Sometimes we end up lonely because of social cliques like me, and having friends online is good. But then it's hard because talking irl is much different than talking online.
Now that I'm used to talking to people online due to never fitting in. I always feel disconnected from people irl. I feel weird and constantly out of place, and like people are just putting on a friendly face to deal with me.
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Psych2go
Where are you from And what are you celebrating today If You've answered already, feel free to ignore this.
PS: We are so grateful for having such an amazing community who cares about mental health so deeply. We hope that one day, we can create chapters around the world where we can all connect to discuss ways we can take care of one another.
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Where are you from And what are you celebrating today If You've answered already, feel free to ignore this.
PS: We are so grateful for having such an amazing community who cares about mental health so deeply. We hope that one day, we can create chapters around the world where we can all connect to discuss ways we can take care of one another.
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ryan99842
It's all about our decisions and what we do. Discipline is about making decisions that are aligned with our intentions. Inspiration may get us started, but it's the habit that keeps us going. Habits stay with us even when we don’t have the inspiration. All of it I grabbed from the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential
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It's all about our decisions and what we do. Discipline is about making decisions that are aligned with our intentions. Inspiration may get us started, but it's the habit that keeps us going. Habits stay with us even when we don’t have the inspiration. All of it I grabbed from the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Why are we so lonely 0: 55
2. Develop and maintain social network 2: 13
3. Give and receive support 3: 21
4. Strengthen the quality of social connection 3: 58
5. Talk with a health care provider 5: 01
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. Why are we so lonely 0: 55
2. Develop and maintain social network 2: 13
3. Give and receive support 3: 21
4. Strengthen the quality of social connection 3: 58
5. Talk with a health care provider 5: 01
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Hespro
I have a nice best friend and when he talk to someone, i feel abandoned. I was so lonely before. I was just playing games and totally isolated for 2 years and now in college, i have him but very little. His behavior is changed. I have cried so much because of him.
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I have a nice best friend and when he talk to someone, i feel abandoned. I was so lonely before. I was just playing games and totally isolated for 2 years and now in college, i have him but very little. His behavior is changed. I have cried so much because of him.
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MxPotato84
Now tell this to my friends and family who i miss. I want connection, but my autism and adhd stops me from reaching out. No one stops to think of me in their busy lives. I miss being thought of and invited to hang out.
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Now tell this to my friends and family who i miss. I want connection, but my autism and adhd stops me from reaching out. No one stops to think of me in their busy lives. I miss being thought of and invited to hang out.
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sandiletwala3001
I wouldn't say I'm lonely but I'm a lone wolf and I grew and got used to it to the point where I don't want to socialize with people because the more I became a lone wolf the more I don't like people even more
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I wouldn't say I'm lonely but I'm a lone wolf and I grew and got used to it to the point where I don't want to socialize with people because the more I became a lone wolf the more I don't like people even more
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ButterflySUB
I have tried many times to be social, but it doesn't work. I have made online friends but it is just not the same. I love strangers and I want to approach but the embarrassment is too much.
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I have tried many times to be social, but it doesn't work. I have made online friends but it is just not the same. I love strangers and I want to approach but the embarrassment is too much.
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melisrothstein7827
Parents who work so hard to teach their children well and prepare the future for them must also listen to them and be their friends sometimes. Just my 2cent thoughts. Good video.
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Parents who work so hard to teach their children well and prepare the future for them must also listen to them and be their friends sometimes. Just my 2cent thoughts. Good video.
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psych2go
Hey psych2go, isn't it also good to make a video about the psychology of Frank in the movie Manic (2012) This is just a suggestion but not a major thing that I'm wishing to watch ASAP.
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Hey psych2go, isn't it also good to make a video about the psychology of Frank in the movie Manic (2012) This is just a suggestion but not a major thing that I'm wishing to watch ASAP.
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Lavendeer201
Also, do you guys think you could make a video on people struggling with records. I feel like people need to know that their lives aren't ruined and how they are still valued
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Also, do you guys think you could make a video on people struggling with records. I feel like people need to know that their lives aren't ruined and how they are still valued
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ViroVV
this was social engineering that really started kicking off back in the 1960s through empowerment that sought to separate us into individualism thus making us easier to conquer.
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this was social engineering that really started kicking off back in the 1960s through empowerment that sought to separate us into individualism thus making us easier to conquer.
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Eric_Nguyen.
It is a very daunting challenge for help, but it is worthwhile. As said in the video that this subject is a personal matter. Others can't help if we dont ask for it.
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It is a very daunting challenge for help, but it is worthwhile. As said in the video that this subject is a personal matter. Others can't help if we dont ask for it.
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