The Rise Of Female Loneliness
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Date: 2024-11-01
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aknakereso7513
I think this videoshown Psych2Go makers really need HELP.
This video is like watered vino.
This video and its form feds me up because:
-Women lonelyness preceeds men'slonelyness. Why Should be firstly a video about men lonelyness then women's.
-At 00: 50, the topic of men's open up made fun a bit, I bet in the men's loneliness video the women's open ups 'bout lonelyness won't be shown such a silly way, of course.
I explain what this video is about:
-Carrierism. Loneliness happens.
-Everybody feels more intensely the lonelyness when they have low social capital. Whether you are man or woman.
- The women who resonate with this misinterpret the world they live in. (People who have weak or/and low social capita get don't giving a cap about the expectations and handle it in a way to fit their capacity.
-6: 23: As I see it, its about wmen's pickiness, isn't it
Some nuances:
-1: 00-1: 30: You have fought for women's right, right freedom, you have got it, embrace it!
-Of course you aren't livin in Afghanistan or in medieval kingdom so you aren't urged to get pregnant.
-3: 00 Attention is nice and women get it and enjoy it. I dont see a problem.
At the end of the day, when women go out of the cave of depression or something like that, they discover: yeh, I 'm needed, I1m valuable for the society, thw world and men showneed for women. It is generally shown and expressed. in irl, TVs, etc.
But when men come out of depression or the cave of hard times they discover this: Oh so I m a man and only thing i can do is showing attention to women and then maybe recieving someattention. All i have to put up with it. Wow, so I just have to be a mindless p chaser or else im idiot Women yet don't show we are needed for them. Why don't show women men are needed The fear of somethin'
After all:
My opinion is that women always get more attention than men: Women are who saved, who innocent, who sensitive, who smart, caring, tender, everything what nice and good etc.
Men who are. what are we We are who always have to work hard to be appropriate (because of women's sensitivity. Unfortunately women don't make their good experients, opinions about men heard. They should!
I dont ' see the women's lonelyness asa problem, It is about their incapacity of interpreting aptly the attention they get.
As I see the situation:
I dont ' see the women's lonelyness asa problem, It is about their incapacity of interpreting aptly the attention they get.
Everybody wants to be free and feel independent.
The solution I think:
Everybody should interpret the world in a way it isnt selfharming. (Sometimes its not too easy)
Man and particularly women should put off their titles. Like Hunter (not, if you are playing Bloodborne) and Princess ( who sweating blood, just sitting and waiting for the dream partner.
If you like someone, maybe its a man, take the step!
Eventually we should getting closer and not farther, but many things follows women's reaction, so I think this time women' should thake the step and effort to develop trust between women and men.
Sometimen in naggings of men and women I recognize that it is about speculations. One put him/herself in a situation when he /she should engage with a pertner who is higly independent and admired by this person. So shouldn't this talk be the conversation of men and women, compatible and caring with one another and not about the incompatible ones
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I think this videoshown Psych2Go makers really need HELP.
This video is like watered vino.
This video and its form feds me up because:
-Women lonelyness preceeds men'slonelyness. Why Should be firstly a video about men lonelyness then women's.
-At 00: 50, the topic of men's open up made fun a bit, I bet in the men's loneliness video the women's open ups 'bout lonelyness won't be shown such a silly way, of course.
I explain what this video is about:
-Carrierism. Loneliness happens.
-Everybody feels more intensely the lonelyness when they have low social capital. Whether you are man or woman.
- The women who resonate with this misinterpret the world they live in. (People who have weak or/and low social capita get don't giving a cap about the expectations and handle it in a way to fit their capacity.
-6: 23: As I see it, its about wmen's pickiness, isn't it
Some nuances:
-1: 00-1: 30: You have fought for women's right, right freedom, you have got it, embrace it!
-Of course you aren't livin in Afghanistan or in medieval kingdom so you aren't urged to get pregnant.
-3: 00 Attention is nice and women get it and enjoy it. I dont see a problem.
At the end of the day, when women go out of the cave of depression or something like that, they discover: yeh, I 'm needed, I1m valuable for the society, thw world and men showneed for women. It is generally shown and expressed. in irl, TVs, etc.
But when men come out of depression or the cave of hard times they discover this: Oh so I m a man and only thing i can do is showing attention to women and then maybe recieving someattention. All i have to put up with it. Wow, so I just have to be a mindless p chaser or else im idiot Women yet don't show we are needed for them. Why don't show women men are needed The fear of somethin'
After all:
My opinion is that women always get more attention than men: Women are who saved, who innocent, who sensitive, who smart, caring, tender, everything what nice and good etc.
Men who are. what are we We are who always have to work hard to be appropriate (because of women's sensitivity. Unfortunately women don't make their good experients, opinions about men heard. They should!
I dont ' see the women's lonelyness asa problem, It is about their incapacity of interpreting aptly the attention they get.
As I see the situation:
I dont ' see the women's lonelyness asa problem, It is about their incapacity of interpreting aptly the attention they get.
Everybody wants to be free and feel independent.
The solution I think:
Everybody should interpret the world in a way it isnt selfharming. (Sometimes its not too easy)
Man and particularly women should put off their titles. Like Hunter (not, if you are playing Bloodborne) and Princess ( who sweating blood, just sitting and waiting for the dream partner.
If you like someone, maybe its a man, take the step!
Eventually we should getting closer and not farther, but many things follows women's reaction, so I think this time women' should thake the step and effort to develop trust between women and men.
Sometimen in naggings of men and women I recognize that it is about speculations. One put him/herself in a situation when he /she should engage with a pertner who is higly independent and admired by this person. So shouldn't this talk be the conversation of men and women, compatible and caring with one another and not about the incompatible ones
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drewlevy9557
Women choose to be lonely, men are more ostracized for it. If a woman is lonely, they literally just have to voice it. If a man voices it there's problems with them among many terms to shame them. Women have a bigger support network and the attention on male loneliness is more about them checking out of society and not doing enough. That's the only reason anyone brought it up. And men are blamed for their own loneliness. Lonely men are a danger and are radicals in the view of society. I don't care about their loneliness as they don't care about ours and are the cause of the current culture.
Those problems with self image and make up come from competing with women on looks and men in terms of money. The forced equalization of society has been screwing men over who didn't create this scenario. You don't just suddenly get equal numbers of women as ceos without forcing it and in turn slighting someone else. Women can be anything they want and they chose this. They chose to go to college and get the high stress jobs, while men were pushed off. I've had women as great bosses, but its this need to force women into leadership roles for equality, not everyone is a leader and bad leaders regardless of gender act these ways. And less time for social interactions from working That's just being an adult. Let's not even get into dating when they set up hook up culture and going off of sparks (hormones) rather than building connections. I can change him is literally going for a guy with the best looks and riches and trying to change that man when they are not expected to change themselves. If anything they should be changing a guy they get along with to look better. They don't want to give empathy and be a place we can be tender then I see no reason why we should be their trauma dumping ground.
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Women choose to be lonely, men are more ostracized for it. If a woman is lonely, they literally just have to voice it. If a man voices it there's problems with them among many terms to shame them. Women have a bigger support network and the attention on male loneliness is more about them checking out of society and not doing enough. That's the only reason anyone brought it up. And men are blamed for their own loneliness. Lonely men are a danger and are radicals in the view of society. I don't care about their loneliness as they don't care about ours and are the cause of the current culture.
Those problems with self image and make up come from competing with women on looks and men in terms of money. The forced equalization of society has been screwing men over who didn't create this scenario. You don't just suddenly get equal numbers of women as ceos without forcing it and in turn slighting someone else. Women can be anything they want and they chose this. They chose to go to college and get the high stress jobs, while men were pushed off. I've had women as great bosses, but its this need to force women into leadership roles for equality, not everyone is a leader and bad leaders regardless of gender act these ways. And less time for social interactions from working That's just being an adult. Let's not even get into dating when they set up hook up culture and going off of sparks (hormones) rather than building connections. I can change him is literally going for a guy with the best looks and riches and trying to change that man when they are not expected to change themselves. If anything they should be changing a guy they get along with to look better. They don't want to give empathy and be a place we can be tender then I see no reason why we should be their trauma dumping ground.
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Eärendil-32
I see people saying men’s mental health struggles are more stronger, and how women are more empathetic and it’s not fair for men, but it all boils down to the biology imo.
Women lean more towards emotional maturity and language arts, and their talents lie within that.
Men however, their specialty lies within solving problems and mathematical problems.
(Now this is information I have collected from what I researched etc. please do not come barking at me that it is wrong, everyone varies vastly)
So, what I think, is that because of it, women tend to be more supportive and understanding, being able to get each other out of depressing times.
They’re more social, and chatty, (you'll often see two mothers chatting away for hours while their children talk XD) and then for men, maybe not so much. They keep more to themselves and are not very talkative.
The point being, maybe men are suffering more because they are not as open
Being unable to express said concerns can have the emotions bottling up, and in turn, stressing you. What does stress do Deteriorating your mental and physical health.
It is a great thing men are talking about it more, and being open more than before, since that might help solve this problem.
Both genders have their own similarities and differences, it’s no use trying to compare an apple to an orange.
What we can do now is to be there, and help each other out, instead of going into a tyrannical or victimized mindset, try to see from an eagle’s view above. One major problem most humans have is their narrow mindedness. We can change that, we have the free will to do that. I think that would be helpful to the situation of mental problems.
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I see people saying men’s mental health struggles are more stronger, and how women are more empathetic and it’s not fair for men, but it all boils down to the biology imo.
Women lean more towards emotional maturity and language arts, and their talents lie within that.
Men however, their specialty lies within solving problems and mathematical problems.
(Now this is information I have collected from what I researched etc. please do not come barking at me that it is wrong, everyone varies vastly)
So, what I think, is that because of it, women tend to be more supportive and understanding, being able to get each other out of depressing times.
They’re more social, and chatty, (you'll often see two mothers chatting away for hours while their children talk XD) and then for men, maybe not so much. They keep more to themselves and are not very talkative.
The point being, maybe men are suffering more because they are not as open
Being unable to express said concerns can have the emotions bottling up, and in turn, stressing you. What does stress do Deteriorating your mental and physical health.
It is a great thing men are talking about it more, and being open more than before, since that might help solve this problem.
Both genders have their own similarities and differences, it’s no use trying to compare an apple to an orange.
What we can do now is to be there, and help each other out, instead of going into a tyrannical or victimized mindset, try to see from an eagle’s view above. One major problem most humans have is their narrow mindedness. We can change that, we have the free will to do that. I think that would be helpful to the situation of mental problems.
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JBerry-ec7ck
So men were lonely and nobody cares, now women are lonely too, should we just give them all our support and forget the good and nice men out there who are ignored everyday by women on the daily so they can go for pieces of trash to make them feel MORE alone
So funny. By 2030 it's said 45-50% or even more, so most women in the US will be childless and single, while Pew Research said quite a while back that 63% of young men were single yet 34% of women weren't, so what happened to the women I thought they were all happy with someone right Well seems it was wrong. The manosphere and people of the sort weren't wrong at LEAST in this aspect, and it's coming to bite women back in the toots. You should've humbled yourselves, because now you got an entire generation of men who aren't even looking for dates, or marriages, the number of men NOT actively pursuing is at least over 50% from the studies I've seen, so now you'll be alone after you all bashed men and telling us how much we are predators and how much being a wife and a mother is seen as slavery and that is absolutely crazy.
And on top of that you have men moving overseas to find more feminine, beautiful and kind women that actually treat them right, I'm only 21 and I soon will have the chance to visit overseas, best be sure that once the opportunity arises for me to go to somewhere like Brazil where I have family in, I am definitely making getting a woman there a priority. I do feel bad for men and women in their sense of loneliness, but in terms of female loneliness you have to admit that women ultimately caused this one on themselves.
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So men were lonely and nobody cares, now women are lonely too, should we just give them all our support and forget the good and nice men out there who are ignored everyday by women on the daily so they can go for pieces of trash to make them feel MORE alone
So funny. By 2030 it's said 45-50% or even more, so most women in the US will be childless and single, while Pew Research said quite a while back that 63% of young men were single yet 34% of women weren't, so what happened to the women I thought they were all happy with someone right Well seems it was wrong. The manosphere and people of the sort weren't wrong at LEAST in this aspect, and it's coming to bite women back in the toots. You should've humbled yourselves, because now you got an entire generation of men who aren't even looking for dates, or marriages, the number of men NOT actively pursuing is at least over 50% from the studies I've seen, so now you'll be alone after you all bashed men and telling us how much we are predators and how much being a wife and a mother is seen as slavery and that is absolutely crazy.
And on top of that you have men moving overseas to find more feminine, beautiful and kind women that actually treat them right, I'm only 21 and I soon will have the chance to visit overseas, best be sure that once the opportunity arises for me to go to somewhere like Brazil where I have family in, I am definitely making getting a woman there a priority. I do feel bad for men and women in their sense of loneliness, but in terms of female loneliness you have to admit that women ultimately caused this one on themselves.
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zephy9208
I think this animation in the beginning is extremely misleading because the woman has a family of her own. - Also it plays right into the hands of those who dislike women in the workspace and switched traditional gender roles. - There's women out there who have NO ONE. And not every health counselor is nice and good to you. To everyone in the comment section: If you hate certain genders because the other one has it so easy: GET HELP! Please go to some groups in real life and not on the internet where no health professional is there to help you overcome your struggle professionally. And regiulate discussions in a civil manner. Everyone is lonely nowadays. As a 40yo women I've seen the decline happen and I can not even begin to understand how bad social media has become as an influence for children and young adults. There's TOO much men vs women everywhere. It wasn'T this bad when I was young. Social media andcertain influencers out there are dividing instead of encouraging getting help and social communication. - Everyone has got their story. And everyone has to GO and take the first scary step: Asking for help. Getting better takes time. Bettering yourself takes time as well. Self reflection can be taught. Take that bitterness energy and fuel it into getting better altogether. I hope EVERYBODY finds a reason to get better, to live and to reach out.
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I think this animation in the beginning is extremely misleading because the woman has a family of her own. - Also it plays right into the hands of those who dislike women in the workspace and switched traditional gender roles. - There's women out there who have NO ONE. And not every health counselor is nice and good to you. To everyone in the comment section: If you hate certain genders because the other one has it so easy: GET HELP! Please go to some groups in real life and not on the internet where no health professional is there to help you overcome your struggle professionally. And regiulate discussions in a civil manner. Everyone is lonely nowadays. As a 40yo women I've seen the decline happen and I can not even begin to understand how bad social media has become as an influence for children and young adults. There's TOO much men vs women everywhere. It wasn'T this bad when I was young. Social media andcertain influencers out there are dividing instead of encouraging getting help and social communication. - Everyone has got their story. And everyone has to GO and take the first scary step: Asking for help. Getting better takes time. Bettering yourself takes time as well. Self reflection can be taught. Take that bitterness energy and fuel it into getting better altogether. I hope EVERYBODY finds a reason to get better, to live and to reach out.
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smoothcriminal2142
we're more connected than ever before thanks to social media and yet there's a loneliness epidemic across the board, gotta love that. everything about social media is so superficial now and as more and more social interaction is pushed online we spend more time talking at rather than to each other. hell i'm doing that right now with this comment. it's no wonder we're all lonely when a lot of our social interaction outside of work/school is nothing but comments and disjointed posts without substance. might get a lot of engagement but it's not the same as authentically connecting with people.
didn't used to be like this, though. back in the golden age of the internet you could make life-long friends online through gaming and hanging around in forums. good luck doing that now though. sure you can still talk to people but it's all so surface-level. so what in the hell caused this cultural shift
while we might not ever get back to that golden age it doesn't mean we can't reverse course a little. all it takes is some initiative and genuine curiosity. so! if anyone's actually read this, before you go on about your business take a moment to answer me this: what'd you do for fun today
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we're more connected than ever before thanks to social media and yet there's a loneliness epidemic across the board, gotta love that. everything about social media is so superficial now and as more and more social interaction is pushed online we spend more time talking at rather than to each other. hell i'm doing that right now with this comment. it's no wonder we're all lonely when a lot of our social interaction outside of work/school is nothing but comments and disjointed posts without substance. might get a lot of engagement but it's not the same as authentically connecting with people.
didn't used to be like this, though. back in the golden age of the internet you could make life-long friends online through gaming and hanging around in forums. good luck doing that now though. sure you can still talk to people but it's all so surface-level. so what in the hell caused this cultural shift
while we might not ever get back to that golden age it doesn't mean we can't reverse course a little. all it takes is some initiative and genuine curiosity. so! if anyone's actually read this, before you go on about your business take a moment to answer me this: what'd you do for fun today
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floral_bunni1076
Incoming personal rant; I really want to connect with people. I really do. But most of my friends have either moved out of town, are busy with work, or are dating. I've been feeling especially isolated these days since some people in my family (my mom and brother specifically) is dating someone except me. And ever since they started dating, it's been making me feel more and more left out. Even when I do interact or hang out with friends, it's usually me taking initiative. And it's nothing deep. It's like I'm giving it my all with people I enjoy spending time with, but they never do the same thing in return. I feel like I have so much to offer, but it always frustrates me when I feel like no one is wanting to connect with me on a deeper level. People like my mom always say stuff like you just need to put yourself out there. Like, I AM And so because of this, sometimes I feel like it's better to distance myself instead of connecting with others since others have disappointed me in the past. Because sometimes I think if I stay alone, at least I won't be hurt by others. It sounds selfish, but is it really too much to ask for someone that would give me undivided attention
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Incoming personal rant; I really want to connect with people. I really do. But most of my friends have either moved out of town, are busy with work, or are dating. I've been feeling especially isolated these days since some people in my family (my mom and brother specifically) is dating someone except me. And ever since they started dating, it's been making me feel more and more left out. Even when I do interact or hang out with friends, it's usually me taking initiative. And it's nothing deep. It's like I'm giving it my all with people I enjoy spending time with, but they never do the same thing in return. I feel like I have so much to offer, but it always frustrates me when I feel like no one is wanting to connect with me on a deeper level. People like my mom always say stuff like you just need to put yourself out there. Like, I AM And so because of this, sometimes I feel like it's better to distance myself instead of connecting with others since others have disappointed me in the past. Because sometimes I think if I stay alone, at least I won't be hurt by others. It sounds selfish, but is it really too much to ask for someone that would give me undivided attention
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BBTheSixth
Seeing a lot of things that share the loneliness epicdemic with men. While men lonliness is worse, it doesn't make women's lonliness not bad. Would even say that they're feeding off each other.
Men are also comparing themselves to others and society via how much we get paid and status. Because everything is do expnesive we are expected to make 6 figures per year but that's eaiser said than done, and not every man wants to be a hustler or go into trades. But if we don't we'll get ignored, like women who don't make the beauty standards.
Work also seems to just be longer for both so no time for dating time, just go to work, eat, sleep, repeat. Any free time given is recovering from burn out from the work week. Asking people out at work and finding love there was common but now the workplace area hell and a taboo to even think about it.
Infrastructure makes everything expensive so people are afraid to be in relationships to make everything more expensive.
Mental problems are a all time high, making relationships of all kinds much harder.
I would go out on walks and not see many people around so everyone is stuck indoors not going outside.
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Seeing a lot of things that share the loneliness epicdemic with men. While men lonliness is worse, it doesn't make women's lonliness not bad. Would even say that they're feeding off each other.
Men are also comparing themselves to others and society via how much we get paid and status. Because everything is do expnesive we are expected to make 6 figures per year but that's eaiser said than done, and not every man wants to be a hustler or go into trades. But if we don't we'll get ignored, like women who don't make the beauty standards.
Work also seems to just be longer for both so no time for dating time, just go to work, eat, sleep, repeat. Any free time given is recovering from burn out from the work week. Asking people out at work and finding love there was common but now the workplace area hell and a taboo to even think about it.
Infrastructure makes everything expensive so people are afraid to be in relationships to make everything more expensive.
Mental problems are a all time high, making relationships of all kinds much harder.
I would go out on walks and not see many people around so everyone is stuck indoors not going outside.
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NerdGlasses256
I really gotta get out of this yt rabbithole. I haven't even watched the video but the toughts of the most disturbing kind are already numerous in my head. I don't want to talk about it with my parents, they will just tell me why didn't you call the terapist yet then in that obvious leave me tf alone i don'T wana deal with this tone. I'm not going to the therapist anymore, bc I got really tired of venting my shit to her that I feel confortable telling, and then she just asks me what i plan to do about it, like if I fcking knew, or tells me those clische lines that i heard a million times, but never known how to make sense of them. Like I go there spend a bunch of money, and it ends up just being go and figure it out by yourself, noone else can help you The same is with venting online, or in any kind of situation. I just feel so disgusting and pathetic telling people the same shit over and over, while they might be actual SA vistims, or worse, and I really just should be doing something about myself other than getting addicted to ppl on discord sending the hug emoji, and saying sorry in variably creative ways.
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I really gotta get out of this yt rabbithole. I haven't even watched the video but the toughts of the most disturbing kind are already numerous in my head. I don't want to talk about it with my parents, they will just tell me why didn't you call the terapist yet then in that obvious leave me tf alone i don'T wana deal with this tone. I'm not going to the therapist anymore, bc I got really tired of venting my shit to her that I feel confortable telling, and then she just asks me what i plan to do about it, like if I fcking knew, or tells me those clische lines that i heard a million times, but never known how to make sense of them. Like I go there spend a bunch of money, and it ends up just being go and figure it out by yourself, noone else can help you The same is with venting online, or in any kind of situation. I just feel so disgusting and pathetic telling people the same shit over and over, while they might be actual SA vistims, or worse, and I really just should be doing something about myself other than getting addicted to ppl on discord sending the hug emoji, and saying sorry in variably creative ways.
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stary_kartofel2137
Being extremely lonely while having everyone around telling you other people have it way worse than you, seemingly to make you feel better, doesn't make you feel better at all, it actually makes you feel worse. If someone said that to me and I'd just think If I have it easier and I still fail there must be something seriously wrong with me. I can imagine lonely women being told that a lot. When people say these things it's like they forget that that a female population isn't a single being. Just because the majority finds it easy to make friends or romantic partners, it doesn't mean it's easy for ALL of them. You shouldn't feel bad about yourself if you find it hard, or even impossible. I've felt like this for way too long and I've fallen into a hole that I can't get out of. Don't make the same mistake I did. I just realized while writing this that if I read or heard this somewhere, I couldn't differentiate it from other mediocre motivational speeches and wouldn't believe it at all, probably like you right now, and yet here I am writing this thing. Funny how the human mind works
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Being extremely lonely while having everyone around telling you other people have it way worse than you, seemingly to make you feel better, doesn't make you feel better at all, it actually makes you feel worse. If someone said that to me and I'd just think If I have it easier and I still fail there must be something seriously wrong with me. I can imagine lonely women being told that a lot. When people say these things it's like they forget that that a female population isn't a single being. Just because the majority finds it easy to make friends or romantic partners, it doesn't mean it's easy for ALL of them. You shouldn't feel bad about yourself if you find it hard, or even impossible. I've felt like this for way too long and I've fallen into a hole that I can't get out of. Don't make the same mistake I did. I just realized while writing this that if I read or heard this somewhere, I couldn't differentiate it from other mediocre motivational speeches and wouldn't believe it at all, probably like you right now, and yet here I am writing this thing. Funny how the human mind works
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Pssst. ByTheWay
Honestly dr k does these kind if videos every now and again.
I think it is importantand eye opening. .
But the female friendly narrative these days semi denys it.
Women are better than men catagorically any but specifically in emotional intelligence and interpersonal relationships.
The girlies band together and lift each other up.
If they are bit or it deviates feom that narrative its engrained misogyny from the patriarchy
Abd i dont get how you want to afford women entire spenctrum of human experience, emotion, being. The full human condition and fundamentally exclude sime of the most potent experiances a humanncan have. Anger, hate, jealousy, loneliness, while only attributing the positive.
It thus even mire valuable to enter this media discourse and contribute that. Hey girls are humans too. With all the same experiences. See here.
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Honestly dr k does these kind if videos every now and again.
I think it is importantand eye opening. .
But the female friendly narrative these days semi denys it.
Women are better than men catagorically any but specifically in emotional intelligence and interpersonal relationships.
The girlies band together and lift each other up.
If they are bit or it deviates feom that narrative its engrained misogyny from the patriarchy
Abd i dont get how you want to afford women entire spenctrum of human experience, emotion, being. The full human condition and fundamentally exclude sime of the most potent experiances a humanncan have. Anger, hate, jealousy, loneliness, while only attributing the positive.
It thus even mire valuable to enter this media discourse and contribute that. Hey girls are humans too. With all the same experiences. See here.
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nikovol555
Female loneliness and female problems. Such a massive chunk of social expectations, issues of individualism and our modern world, living up the standart which becomes more and more impossible to reach, without losing your very self, and a topic worth discussing but. I almost never hear it. And when problems of men is brought up, i very often hear rythorics of us vs them, and this shakes me to the very core. I was ignorant of this problems, untill i met them firsthand, when I was trying to support my girlfriend. And dear god, it scares me. All this you're not enough this/that, impossible standarts of beauty, encouraged unhealthy selflessnes. All of this reminds me that this world has a hell lot of social issues, equally for all of us, and I hope that it will get better, and we all will learn compassion for one another
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Female loneliness and female problems. Such a massive chunk of social expectations, issues of individualism and our modern world, living up the standart which becomes more and more impossible to reach, without losing your very self, and a topic worth discussing but. I almost never hear it. And when problems of men is brought up, i very often hear rythorics of us vs them, and this shakes me to the very core. I was ignorant of this problems, untill i met them firsthand, when I was trying to support my girlfriend. And dear god, it scares me. All this you're not enough this/that, impossible standarts of beauty, encouraged unhealthy selflessnes. All of this reminds me that this world has a hell lot of social issues, equally for all of us, and I hope that it will get better, and we all will learn compassion for one another
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hassanaziz2622
I think it really depends on where you're living. In asia, male and female loneliness are ignored. Male one is ignoref bcz of ppl patriarchal thinking that males can't cry and they shouldn't be emotional etc. which isn't healthy of course. Female loneliness tend to be ignored bcz of male loneliness and other factors like male dominacy, lack of peers love, toxic competitive style in friends, undervaluing your achievements and success by comparing to your peers, lack of proper focus from your teachers. Look, when males get lonely, they have depression and abusive issues then and they tend to dominate bcz why Bcz they're lonely. Ppl here thinks that showing emotions are vulnerability. I think in other countries, it depends. In some, male loneliness is ignored and in some, female one is ignored.
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I think it really depends on where you're living. In asia, male and female loneliness are ignored. Male one is ignoref bcz of ppl patriarchal thinking that males can't cry and they shouldn't be emotional etc. which isn't healthy of course. Female loneliness tend to be ignored bcz of male loneliness and other factors like male dominacy, lack of peers love, toxic competitive style in friends, undervaluing your achievements and success by comparing to your peers, lack of proper focus from your teachers. Look, when males get lonely, they have depression and abusive issues then and they tend to dominate bcz why Bcz they're lonely. Ppl here thinks that showing emotions are vulnerability. I think in other countries, it depends. In some, male loneliness is ignored and in some, female one is ignored.
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Amantducafe
Communication is the key. This is something that took me years to understand but also to master. We are alone and isolated because we can't communicate so we can't build bridges, close the gap and develop lasting friendships or romantic relationships.
In my desperate attempt to connect with people i ended up learning languages other than my native one and the amount of people out there around the globe that feel lonely, disconnected BUT also willing to connect with others is astounding.
Life is already a hard experience but it doesn't need to be an isolated and lonely experience. There is always someone out there that will be more than happy to share this experience with others, you just need to find them.
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Communication is the key. This is something that took me years to understand but also to master. We are alone and isolated because we can't communicate so we can't build bridges, close the gap and develop lasting friendships or romantic relationships.
In my desperate attempt to connect with people i ended up learning languages other than my native one and the amount of people out there around the globe that feel lonely, disconnected BUT also willing to connect with others is astounding.
Life is already a hard experience but it doesn't need to be an isolated and lonely experience. There is always someone out there that will be more than happy to share this experience with others, you just need to find them.
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D32L14N
As a male it didn't really triggered any emotional response to be honest, it's true that women may have more pressure in home roles in general, but I don't see the rest of the points to be honest, like beauty and work standards; the first it's imposed by your own mind, no one imposes it on to you, and the second one doesn't make sense, cause your probably asked for the same or less than a man; there are several studies that show that women (when they apply to it) get upgrades more easily than men for example. And in rewards of the women in a position of power, for some reason most of them are more oppresive than their male counter part, I think it's the same why child and elder murders are higher among women.
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As a male it didn't really triggered any emotional response to be honest, it's true that women may have more pressure in home roles in general, but I don't see the rest of the points to be honest, like beauty and work standards; the first it's imposed by your own mind, no one imposes it on to you, and the second one doesn't make sense, cause your probably asked for the same or less than a man; there are several studies that show that women (when they apply to it) get upgrades more easily than men for example. And in rewards of the women in a position of power, for some reason most of them are more oppresive than their male counter part, I think it's the same why child and elder murders are higher among women.
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ABCDE29860
I’m childfree, meaning I never want to have children. And while this is the right choice for me, I never imagined the impact this would have on my ability to relate to and bond closely with other women. My friends who have had kids have drifted away from me, despite my best efforts to stay connected. They just don’t have the time, and our lives are so different now it’s tougher to relate. Forming new friendships has been similarly challenging because most people my age are having kids. And in the Midwest, the nuclear family is revered above all.
I would feel very lonely without my boyfriend. I still love my friends, but he’s the only one who consistently and regularly spends time with me.
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I’m childfree, meaning I never want to have children. And while this is the right choice for me, I never imagined the impact this would have on my ability to relate to and bond closely with other women. My friends who have had kids have drifted away from me, despite my best efforts to stay connected. They just don’t have the time, and our lives are so different now it’s tougher to relate. Forming new friendships has been similarly challenging because most people my age are having kids. And in the Midwest, the nuclear family is revered above all.
I would feel very lonely without my boyfriend. I still love my friends, but he’s the only one who consistently and regularly spends time with me.
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slowjamsliver7006
I actually picking up on this on a different video male loneliness actually. Mainly yes men have less friends now, but I noticed that women aren't very far behind in the loneliness department. I have seen that comment of a reason it gets ignored is that it means that women are failing the gendered expectation of being more emotionally open making deeper friendships and fostering cooperation. I'd also say that, as someone indigenous to Turtle Island, the Western view of success is isolating by nature, and more and more women are achieving that Western success. There is also less places for people to form community, and a lot of that has been replaced with fear.
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I actually picking up on this on a different video male loneliness actually. Mainly yes men have less friends now, but I noticed that women aren't very far behind in the loneliness department. I have seen that comment of a reason it gets ignored is that it means that women are failing the gendered expectation of being more emotionally open making deeper friendships and fostering cooperation. I'd also say that, as someone indigenous to Turtle Island, the Western view of success is isolating by nature, and more and more women are achieving that Western success. There is also less places for people to form community, and a lot of that has been replaced with fear.
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Megaminder168
I think I can speak for a good portion of men out there, As a 15 yr old teenager growing up in a world where such things are the norm is challenging, but I want every girl out there to know you don't need to follow the trends and garbage all over the internet. Take me for example, I was raised old fashioned so I have golden morals and values, I don't pay much attention to the unrealistic expectations that the world expects from us. There is someone for everyone, but don't get that twisted for someone who js admires one thing about you or can put up with you, You aline in every way. Much love to everyone
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I think I can speak for a good portion of men out there, As a 15 yr old teenager growing up in a world where such things are the norm is challenging, but I want every girl out there to know you don't need to follow the trends and garbage all over the internet. Take me for example, I was raised old fashioned so I have golden morals and values, I don't pay much attention to the unrealistic expectations that the world expects from us. There is someone for everyone, but don't get that twisted for someone who js admires one thing about you or can put up with you, You aline in every way. Much love to everyone
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CalculyticCuber
I guess if men have a real issue that affects them, women have to have it too. Problems aren't real until they start affecting women. Then when the solution for the woman part of the problem is found, it will get applied to men, which will be useless considering the loneliness men suffer from is MUCH different than the loneliness women suffer and you can't use female solutions for male problems.
I find it really difficult to afford empathy for women here when men were ridiculed for having their loneliness epidemic. Something about that doesn't sit right with me.
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I guess if men have a real issue that affects them, women have to have it too. Problems aren't real until they start affecting women. Then when the solution for the woman part of the problem is found, it will get applied to men, which will be useless considering the loneliness men suffer from is MUCH different than the loneliness women suffer and you can't use female solutions for male problems.
I find it really difficult to afford empathy for women here when men were ridiculed for having their loneliness epidemic. Something about that doesn't sit right with me.
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n8zog584
I think one of the most disturbing parts of this kind of loneliness is that there are more people on earth now than any other time. We are surrounded by people but there are fewer deep meaningful connections.
Also unlike with female loneliness, in the male loneliness discussion there exists a counterculture that attempts to ridicule and minimize men for this loneliness epidemic. In my opinion, this ridicule generates far more active discussion than with female loneliness, which is just kind of accepted at face value by most people on the internet.
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I think one of the most disturbing parts of this kind of loneliness is that there are more people on earth now than any other time. We are surrounded by people but there are fewer deep meaningful connections.
Also unlike with female loneliness, in the male loneliness discussion there exists a counterculture that attempts to ridicule and minimize men for this loneliness epidemic. In my opinion, this ridicule generates far more active discussion than with female loneliness, which is just kind of accepted at face value by most people on the internet.
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