10 Things A Narcissist Would Say
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Halcyonistic
i actually started crying the moment that the video brought up you always make things about you and i always defend you to everyone else. he never asked me questions about myself but i was always more than curious to know about him, even if i didnt ask questions hed just throw it out there. anytime i went to say something about me, all i got was oh my. the day that he trampled on my boundaries and the girl that he was flirting with told me what he did, i built up the courage to tell him that he hurt me, but he insisted that i shouldve gotten the facts from him first. on top of that, i kept saying that im hurt and he said you make things all about yourself when im making it about us. i forgave him, but then it got worse because the trust was already broken and i was retreating with every misstep he took. he then said that he showed his entire family about how i was speaking less and less via text (since i didnt want to have another argument where hed bash me, and he came back with they all said that youre cheating on me, but i defended you. he doesnt even like half of his family, so why would he show our business to them? but, anyway. at least this makes me feel a little less isolated. thank you.
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i actually started crying the moment that the video brought up you always make things about you and i always defend you to everyone else. he never asked me questions about myself but i was always more than curious to know about him, even if i didnt ask questions hed just throw it out there. anytime i went to say something about me, all i got was oh my. the day that he trampled on my boundaries and the girl that he was flirting with told me what he did, i built up the courage to tell him that he hurt me, but he insisted that i shouldve gotten the facts from him first. on top of that, i kept saying that im hurt and he said you make things all about yourself when im making it about us. i forgave him, but then it got worse because the trust was already broken and i was retreating with every misstep he took. he then said that he showed his entire family about how i was speaking less and less via text (since i didnt want to have another argument where hed bash me, and he came back with they all said that youre cheating on me, but i defended you. he doesnt even like half of his family, so why would he show our business to them? but, anyway. at least this makes me feel a little less isolated. thank you.
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BangTxTan
Don't let this get to your head is the same thing one of my friend said to me when i was genuinely happy for achieving something which i worked hard for years and i felt appreciated regonised for the very first time and co-incedentally we met after an year when all this happened and that person told me that don't let this get to your head not everytime this will happen don't let it effect your mentally way too much, she tried to make it sound like that she was being kind of caring to me and i thought she might have changed a lil bit but when i showed her message to my other friends they told me she was being narcistic and she haven't changed a bit. I really felt bad to someone i want them to be a good friend but their behaviour just keep making me wonder is it really a friendship what you say. Thinking about all the things made me realise these kind of friends are not worthy of that Friendship. I consider them a friend with whom i will treat them the way they treat me, no expectations at all and to be in good terms at the end if we ever meet
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Don't let this get to your head is the same thing one of my friend said to me when i was genuinely happy for achieving something which i worked hard for years and i felt appreciated regonised for the very first time and co-incedentally we met after an year when all this happened and that person told me that don't let this get to your head not everytime this will happen don't let it effect your mentally way too much, she tried to make it sound like that she was being kind of caring to me and i thought she might have changed a lil bit but when i showed her message to my other friends they told me she was being narcistic and she haven't changed a bit. I really felt bad to someone i want them to be a good friend but their behaviour just keep making me wonder is it really a friendship what you say. Thinking about all the things made me realise these kind of friends are not worthy of that Friendship. I consider them a friend with whom i will treat them the way they treat me, no expectations at all and to be in good terms at the end if we ever meet
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Lilo
I was with a man for 1. 5 years who was very narcissistic. This was the worst experience in my life and apart from the physical traces, this relationship has left deep scars in my soul, which are slowly healing.
I can only advise everyone to listen and look carefully - if you notice that your partner repeatedly forces you into a role in which you feel uncomfortable, don't wait long. The desire not to be alone must not be greater than the love for yourself. The longer you wait, the worse it will be to get away from it. In my case, the only thing that helped more was the police, that he didn't show up at my apartment anymore.
Nobody is perfect and you should be able to forgive little quirks.
But when someone destroys your self-esteem, manipulates you, lies to you, or doesn't give you the appreciation you deserve. run.
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I was with a man for 1. 5 years who was very narcissistic. This was the worst experience in my life and apart from the physical traces, this relationship has left deep scars in my soul, which are slowly healing.
I can only advise everyone to listen and look carefully - if you notice that your partner repeatedly forces you into a role in which you feel uncomfortable, don't wait long. The desire not to be alone must not be greater than the love for yourself. The longer you wait, the worse it will be to get away from it. In my case, the only thing that helped more was the police, that he didn't show up at my apartment anymore.
Nobody is perfect and you should be able to forgive little quirks.
But when someone destroys your self-esteem, manipulates you, lies to you, or doesn't give you the appreciation you deserve. run.
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yummy
i have a friend well had, who's like a master mind manipulator or something and she would always ask me when I was trying to hang out with other people what are you doing? where are you going? and id feel bad for leaving with her so id just hang out with her instead. her, my friend and I were all hanging out and my friend, (ill just call her ILy) went to get a drink or something and she said c'mon we don't need her. And we ran to the toilets leaving my friend alone with no clue where we were. so I forgot about my toxic ex friend for a while until i saw her at the store or something and she convinced her to be my friend again. i still hate her a lot, she uses faot when talking to people. im not asking anyone for advice i just wanted to rant i guess lol.
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i have a friend well had, who's like a master mind manipulator or something and she would always ask me when I was trying to hang out with other people what are you doing? where are you going? and id feel bad for leaving with her so id just hang out with her instead. her, my friend and I were all hanging out and my friend, (ill just call her ILy) went to get a drink or something and she said c'mon we don't need her. And we ran to the toilets leaving my friend alone with no clue where we were. so I forgot about my toxic ex friend for a while until i saw her at the store or something and she convinced her to be my friend again. i still hate her a lot, she uses faot when talking to people. im not asking anyone for advice i just wanted to rant i guess lol.
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Faisal
Ive had someone who always try to change the subject when Im talking about cool stuff that i do or happened to me, they always remind me of how miserable i am, always telling me that they will help and we can do this together but it was only to isolate myself from others (while he kept getting closer with them) and the most narcissistic thing he did is when he kept pressuring me to answer questions about personal things and then started acting so mean and weird with me for not answering something that he shouldnt have asked and really made me feel guilty for not letting him get his way. Im so glad I blocked him and never talked to him ever again
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Ive had someone who always try to change the subject when Im talking about cool stuff that i do or happened to me, they always remind me of how miserable i am, always telling me that they will help and we can do this together but it was only to isolate myself from others (while he kept getting closer with them) and the most narcissistic thing he did is when he kept pressuring me to answer questions about personal things and then started acting so mean and weird with me for not answering something that he shouldnt have asked and really made me feel guilty for not letting him get his way. Im so glad I blocked him and never talked to him ever again
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Honeymixed_Bear
my friend never said these, but stuff similar to this. also i can literally hear her exact voice say this. she's rlly toxic: steals my friends with manipulation, throws my ideas in the trash and puts hers first, never listens to what i have to say and only says ok at the end like it's nothing special, tries to make me look bad in front of everybody, always thinks she is right and i am always wrong, makes assumptions of me doing bad things, etc.
Ive tried getting distant from her. No matter how hard i try, she keeps on catching up. what do i do in this situation?
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my friend never said these, but stuff similar to this. also i can literally hear her exact voice say this. she's rlly toxic: steals my friends with manipulation, throws my ideas in the trash and puts hers first, never listens to what i have to say and only says ok at the end like it's nothing special, tries to make me look bad in front of everybody, always thinks she is right and i am always wrong, makes assumptions of me doing bad things, etc.
Ive tried getting distant from her. No matter how hard i try, she keeps on catching up. what do i do in this situation?
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Maurice
I haven't seen my father for ten years because of his narcissistic behaviour. It also took me ten years to realise his damaging behaviour. In that period I pushed him off and pulled him back, because it was unbearable to be around him, but the lable of family and father made me weak, especially when he brought it up.
I am working on myself now, and doing much better. He actually takes some credit for that. I don't get angry at that anymore. It is just disappointing, as the few good memories we share have lost meaning. But it is better this way.
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I haven't seen my father for ten years because of his narcissistic behaviour. It also took me ten years to realise his damaging behaviour. In that period I pushed him off and pulled him back, because it was unbearable to be around him, but the lable of family and father made me weak, especially when he brought it up.
I am working on myself now, and doing much better. He actually takes some credit for that. I don't get angry at that anymore. It is just disappointing, as the few good memories we share have lost meaning. But it is better this way.
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Eunice
My boyfriend is always been like this. I dont know how to get through it, i want to be free. But i still love him. All he ever do is blame me from my past and all he ever talk is about himself and his right doings of our relationship. Whenever i open up to him, he's always inconsiderate and doesnt give me time to explain my side, even if i explain myself, he always disregard my thoughts and feelings. He also doesnt want me to be with other people. I'm suffering and being hurt by his actions and words towards me. I dont know if he truly loves me.
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My boyfriend is always been like this. I dont know how to get through it, i want to be free. But i still love him. All he ever do is blame me from my past and all he ever talk is about himself and his right doings of our relationship. Whenever i open up to him, he's always inconsiderate and doesnt give me time to explain my side, even if i explain myself, he always disregard my thoughts and feelings. He also doesnt want me to be with other people. I'm suffering and being hurt by his actions and words towards me. I dont know if he truly loves me.
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HODLing
1: 17 1. If you could have just one friend, who would it be?
1: 43 2. We dont need anyone else.
2: 10 3. Youre always overreacting.
2: 39 4. Not everythings about you.
3: 05 5. Wow, no wonder nobody else likes you.
3: 29 6. I always defend you to everyone else and this is how you repay me?
4: 04 7. You only succeeded because of my help.
4: 23 8. Dont let this get to your head.
4: 43 9. Im the best youll ever have.
5: 09 10. Im only doing this because I love you.
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1: 17 1. If you could have just one friend, who would it be?
1: 43 2. We dont need anyone else.
2: 10 3. Youre always overreacting.
2: 39 4. Not everythings about you.
3: 05 5. Wow, no wonder nobody else likes you.
3: 29 6. I always defend you to everyone else and this is how you repay me?
4: 04 7. You only succeeded because of my help.
4: 23 8. Dont let this get to your head.
4: 43 9. Im the best youll ever have.
5: 09 10. Im only doing this because I love you.
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Kevin
I had a therapist tell my wife I was the most narcissistic person he ever met. I started looking into NPD and ask myself was he right? Since then I have worked really hard to NOT do all those narcissistic things and to be a better person - its an ongoing effort and a daily struggle sometimes, empathy in particular -I have to stop and make myself thing about others feelings sometimes. I dont know if a narcissist can get better but all I can do is try to be better
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I had a therapist tell my wife I was the most narcissistic person he ever met. I started looking into NPD and ask myself was he right? Since then I have worked really hard to NOT do all those narcissistic things and to be a better person - its an ongoing effort and a daily struggle sometimes, empathy in particular -I have to stop and make myself thing about others feelings sometimes. I dont know if a narcissist can get better but all I can do is try to be better
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Sana
God! This was my ex! I could relate most of the things. It was for the best we broke up! God saved me from a narcissist. When we were together, i always have been feeling low self esteem and he kept telling me i don't care your insecurities i love you regardless and no one can love me like i do etc. it only made me more dependent on him. Later i started realizing how toxic our relationship was and got rid of it after tons of struggle. I feel a lot relieved now.
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God! This was my ex! I could relate most of the things. It was for the best we broke up! God saved me from a narcissist. When we were together, i always have been feeling low self esteem and he kept telling me i don't care your insecurities i love you regardless and no one can love me like i do etc. it only made me more dependent on him. Later i started realizing how toxic our relationship was and got rid of it after tons of struggle. I feel a lot relieved now.
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Purple
My friend's parents, mainly her mom, definitely has narcissistic tendencies. It's so hard to deal with them every once in a while (whenever I go pick her up or she gets dropped off at my house, I can't image having to deal with it all day every day for over 20 years. And it sucks from my position because there's nothing really I can do to help her other than to show her what it's like for someone to actually love you and care about you
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My friend's parents, mainly her mom, definitely has narcissistic tendencies. It's so hard to deal with them every once in a while (whenever I go pick her up or she gets dropped off at my house, I can't image having to deal with it all day every day for over 20 years. And it sucks from my position because there's nothing really I can do to help her other than to show her what it's like for someone to actually love you and care about you
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KTxTENSkz
Damn i think Im a narcissist. Especially on 9. In my opinion I AM the best that my bf could get just because I see how most other people act in relationships, its like they dont care. I just cant accept that someone else could be more loving towards him or better for him than me. I also dont think its necessarily a bad thing. I think you SHOULD feel like youre the bests match for them if youre already dating.
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Damn i think Im a narcissist. Especially on 9. In my opinion I AM the best that my bf could get just because I see how most other people act in relationships, its like they dont care. I just cant accept that someone else could be more loving towards him or better for him than me. I also dont think its necessarily a bad thing. I think you SHOULD feel like youre the bests match for them if youre already dating.
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bruno
I have a question, can someone help me? My ex-girlfriend left me a year ago, but a few months ago I saw her and she laughed at me, and I called her, and nothing happend she didnt want to go outside, but I still think there could be something there, and also we didnt have contact until that laugh so i texted her randomly to go outside but she said no and after that again no contact
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I have a question, can someone help me? My ex-girlfriend left me a year ago, but a few months ago I saw her and she laughed at me, and I called her, and nothing happend she didnt want to go outside, but I still think there could be something there, and also we didnt have contact until that laugh so i texted her randomly to go outside but she said no and after that again no contact
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Travelling
My ex used to tell me I was born annoyed if I was talking about something annoying that happened. He often told me I didnt need friends when I had him or that he didnt know what hed do if he lost me. He was always laughing at me and if I called him out on it because he was upsetting me hed tell me that he was laughing with me, not at me. Ummm yea, Im not laughing mate: (
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My ex used to tell me I was born annoyed if I was talking about something annoying that happened. He often told me I didnt need friends when I had him or that he didnt know what hed do if he lost me. He was always laughing at me and if I called him out on it because he was upsetting me hed tell me that he was laughing with me, not at me. Ummm yea, Im not laughing mate: (
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10 Things A Narcissist Would Say:
1: I AM THE BEST
2: I LOVE MYSELF
3: I SHOULD BE TREATED BETTER THAN OTHERS!
4: I AM BETTER!
5: I am the best person ever
6: I am the best person ever
7: I am the best person ever
8: I am the best person ever
9: I am the best person ever
10: You are nothing. Only me is good
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10 Things A Narcissist Would Say:
1: I AM THE BEST
2: I LOVE MYSELF
3: I SHOULD BE TREATED BETTER THAN OTHERS!
4: I AM BETTER!
5: I am the best person ever
6: I am the best person ever
7: I am the best person ever
8: I am the best person ever
9: I am the best person ever
10: You are nothing. Only me is good
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Nuppy
I feel like I can be a bit narcissistic, but it's more of in an overly confident way rather than I'm gonna manipulate you and take your soul way. Like I think I'm super smart, and a good person, smarter and a better person than most. That's mostly because I love to learn and I love to improve myself.
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I feel like I can be a bit narcissistic, but it's more of in an overly confident way rather than I'm gonna manipulate you and take your soul way. Like I think I'm super smart, and a good person, smarter and a better person than most. That's mostly because I love to learn and I love to improve myself.
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GothGirlWorld
This perfectly describes my neighbour, Doris. I just recently called her out for lying behind my back (not the first time she's done this) and that makes me the bad guy. She hasn't spoken to me in over a month but the damage she's done to me is there every freaking day.
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This perfectly describes my neighbour, Doris. I just recently called her out for lying behind my back (not the first time she's done this) and that makes me the bad guy. She hasn't spoken to me in over a month but the damage she's done to me is there every freaking day.
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Rachel
One thing I noticed about a narcissist, theyll play mind games with you. For example theyll guilt you into thinking your opinions are wrong. And then when youre forced to apologize, they pretend to be sweet to you and say You didnt do anything wrong. Its backhanded trickery
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One thing I noticed about a narcissist, theyll play mind games with you. For example theyll guilt you into thinking your opinions are wrong. And then when youre forced to apologize, they pretend to be sweet to you and say You didnt do anything wrong. Its backhanded trickery
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Tboypog
Some of my friends are friends with a narcissist which tries to use these but the issue is I dont care so non of their power can be used on me and so they always panic around me its really quite funny because no one else does and everyone agrees he is
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Some of my friends are friends with a narcissist which tries to use these but the issue is I dont care so non of their power can be used on me and so they always panic around me its really quite funny because no one else does and everyone agrees he is
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psych2go
One trait that I've noticed is that they are also pathological liars. They'll lie to themselves constantly and try to make you believe there false reality. It's really sad. Even if you call them out on it, hoping they'll change. They'll never admit.
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One trait that I've noticed is that they are also pathological liars. They'll lie to themselves constantly and try to make you believe there false reality. It's really sad. Even if you call them out on it, hoping they'll change. They'll never admit.
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Seth
Actually, not everything is about you is EXACTLY what a narcissist NEEDS to hear. If someone tells you that not everything is about you or get over yourself, it's likely that you are the narcissist, not the person who says that to you.
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Actually, not everything is about you is EXACTLY what a narcissist NEEDS to hear. If someone tells you that not everything is about you or get over yourself, it's likely that you are the narcissist, not the person who says that to you.
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gigi
My boss! She can drive anyone to the brink of taking their own life. Imagine one saying that she is so great and powerful that all the female employees have their periods in sync with hers. I despise everything about her.
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My boss! She can drive anyone to the brink of taking their own life. Imagine one saying that she is so great and powerful that all the female employees have their periods in sync with hers. I despise everything about her.
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Fiona
Literally a family member told me Ive always defended you when I confronted them on something minor. Cut them out of my life immediately. They act like Im the black sheep of the family for doing a PhD when theyre jealous
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Literally a family member told me Ive always defended you when I confronted them on something minor. Cut them out of my life immediately. They act like Im the black sheep of the family for doing a PhD when theyre jealous
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SESH
Nothing short of everyone I know is narcissistic so I stopped hanging round with them they sent me suicidal been looking for help, they warped my mind and created barriers I made bad decisions but creating new pathways rn
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Nothing short of everyone I know is narcissistic so I stopped hanging round with them they sent me suicidal been looking for help, they warped my mind and created barriers I made bad decisions but creating new pathways rn
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