5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Having Sex With Someone
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Date: 2025-01-19
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psych2go
This reminds me of the desperation I felt for so many years to be in a relationship. So much so that I actually sometimes downloaded dating apps before realizing social anxiety is unbeatable for the 45th time and getting depressed about it only for the cycle to start again when my desperate desires flared up. I'm glad that depressive cycle is over, though giving up took hope away too. No longer do I dream of a reality where me and a soposed girlfriend laugh together while we play a platform fighter. I still dream but I'm not naive enough to call it some sort of possible reality anymore. I know exactly what I'm capable of. There is simply no reality where I can make friends or lovers. I'm just not compatible with people. 23 years of running around in the dark has taught me enough to at least know that much. And without the burden of a desire I should have known all along that I couldn't have, I'm the happiest I've ever been, but also the most empty. False hope goes a surprisingly long way, huh.
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This reminds me of the desperation I felt for so many years to be in a relationship. So much so that I actually sometimes downloaded dating apps before realizing social anxiety is unbeatable for the 45th time and getting depressed about it only for the cycle to start again when my desperate desires flared up. I'm glad that depressive cycle is over, though giving up took hope away too. No longer do I dream of a reality where me and a soposed girlfriend laugh together while we play a platform fighter. I still dream but I'm not naive enough to call it some sort of possible reality anymore. I know exactly what I'm capable of. There is simply no reality where I can make friends or lovers. I'm just not compatible with people. 23 years of running around in the dark has taught me enough to at least know that much. And without the burden of a desire I should have known all along that I couldn't have, I'm the happiest I've ever been, but also the most empty. False hope goes a surprisingly long way, huh.
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BabyNoob270
As a 14 year old, I'm waiting until marriage. However, I'm aromantic. It's because I'm sarmassophobic. I fear the romantic vibe. When I watch POV videos of being in a relationship with a girl, I have the panic attack feeling without the panic nor attack. Imagine when I actually am placed in a romantic setting. I don’t know if I can be in a relationship. The only difference between being in a relationship with me and being friends with me are dates and being in a relationship. I don't like physical touches like all these couples at my school do, I DEFINITELY DO NOT like kissing; I'm waiting until marriage. How am I supposed to date someone without them feeling bored I kind of am attracted to a girl, but I don't want a romantic nor s-xual relationship with her. Kind of like a platonic love or something. My feelings and emotions are like math problems that are within the difficulty for me to solve, but complex enough for me to still say, What the frick is this!
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As a 14 year old, I'm waiting until marriage. However, I'm aromantic. It's because I'm sarmassophobic. I fear the romantic vibe. When I watch POV videos of being in a relationship with a girl, I have the panic attack feeling without the panic nor attack. Imagine when I actually am placed in a romantic setting. I don’t know if I can be in a relationship. The only difference between being in a relationship with me and being friends with me are dates and being in a relationship. I don't like physical touches like all these couples at my school do, I DEFINITELY DO NOT like kissing; I'm waiting until marriage. How am I supposed to date someone without them feeling bored I kind of am attracted to a girl, but I don't want a romantic nor s-xual relationship with her. Kind of like a platonic love or something. My feelings and emotions are like math problems that are within the difficulty for me to solve, but complex enough for me to still say, What the frick is this!
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ava4689
Also, for my young ladies out there, your first time shouldnt hurt, or make you bleed. It shouldnt pop your cherry, rather if anything, it'll stretch. Bring lube, because you'll most likely need it. The first time is awkward, and youre not very likely to be completely aroused for it. Especially if you're both virgins. It takes time to learn each other. You may not finish, he may not be able to find the clit, he might go too low and make contact with your booty, he might be stressed and nervous and unable to get it up, and that is all ok. As long as you take your time and have open and honest communication, and know what to do in the times following the first time, that is what matters. Also, plan for pregnancy. If an accident happens, you should both agree on what to do. If you can't agree, you shouldnt do the act of procreation with that person.
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Also, for my young ladies out there, your first time shouldnt hurt, or make you bleed. It shouldnt pop your cherry, rather if anything, it'll stretch. Bring lube, because you'll most likely need it. The first time is awkward, and youre not very likely to be completely aroused for it. Especially if you're both virgins. It takes time to learn each other. You may not finish, he may not be able to find the clit, he might go too low and make contact with your booty, he might be stressed and nervous and unable to get it up, and that is all ok. As long as you take your time and have open and honest communication, and know what to do in the times following the first time, that is what matters. Also, plan for pregnancy. If an accident happens, you should both agree on what to do. If you can't agree, you shouldnt do the act of procreation with that person.
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longredroad4249
Gents the first question you have to ask is do you really want to get involved at all
Are you ready to pay the massive costs you can or will incur
I would encourage all young men to be very warry, never make a commitment for a moment of fleeting pleasure.
instead go for the PQFD life;
Peace, no drama; don't pack another's baggage on your back.
Quite; do not let the loud and unruly into your life.
Freedom, above all else stay free, again back to the main point; never make a lifetime commitment to an emotion or to a fleeting pleasure.
Dreams, don't let commitments kill your dreams.
Stay Free, Stay away, the winning move is not to play.
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Gents the first question you have to ask is do you really want to get involved at all
Are you ready to pay the massive costs you can or will incur
I would encourage all young men to be very warry, never make a commitment for a moment of fleeting pleasure.
instead go for the PQFD life;
Peace, no drama; don't pack another's baggage on your back.
Quite; do not let the loud and unruly into your life.
Freedom, above all else stay free, again back to the main point; never make a lifetime commitment to an emotion or to a fleeting pleasure.
Dreams, don't let commitments kill your dreams.
Stay Free, Stay away, the winning move is not to play.
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duckgo8755
I'm 19 and what surprised me about my girlfriend is that she said she only mbed once a month (and it was to relieve her menstrual cramps) so everything we did (foreplay, kissing, etc) Was completely new to her and I had to guide her. We're both firsts so I really agree with the video here, every new move that we would do we would always ask for consent. There is also communication after the deed, sharing what we thought we did wrong and giving feedback, sometimes making the mood better by playing jokes and the occasional flaunting and teasing.
10/10 vid
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I'm 19 and what surprised me about my girlfriend is that she said she only mbed once a month (and it was to relieve her menstrual cramps) so everything we did (foreplay, kissing, etc) Was completely new to her and I had to guide her. We're both firsts so I really agree with the video here, every new move that we would do we would always ask for consent. There is also communication after the deed, sharing what we thought we did wrong and giving feedback, sometimes making the mood better by playing jokes and the occasional flaunting and teasing.
10/10 vid
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JohnDoe-on6ru
One question you really should ask is if she's a space alien (I speak from experience. So I was dating this girl and her skin was green but I didn't want to say anything in case she was like self-conscious or whatever. Anytime she came over to my house she parked her spaceship in my driveway, that part really made me suspicious. So anyway I found out she was a space alien. And I mean I was totally cool with that, but then I found out she puts pineapple on pizza so I immediately broke up with her.
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One question you really should ask is if she's a space alien (I speak from experience. So I was dating this girl and her skin was green but I didn't want to say anything in case she was like self-conscious or whatever. Anytime she came over to my house she parked her spaceship in my driveway, that part really made me suspicious. So anyway I found out she was a space alien. And I mean I was totally cool with that, but then I found out she puts pineapple on pizza so I immediately broke up with her.
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Veil_ofthevoid
I’m so tired of trying to remain positive in a life of no good consequences. I’m so sick of the repetitive cycle of feeling hope, and then having it torn away from me, subverting any and all expectations I had, over, and over, and over again. I’m one more bad day from becoming a nihilist, and I want something to happen that panders to my wants and deeply rooted desires to prove me wrong.
But I know that’s not going to happen.
It hasn’t happened in 21 years, why would it now.
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I’m so tired of trying to remain positive in a life of no good consequences. I’m so sick of the repetitive cycle of feeling hope, and then having it torn away from me, subverting any and all expectations I had, over, and over, and over again. I’m one more bad day from becoming a nihilist, and I want something to happen that panders to my wants and deeply rooted desires to prove me wrong.
But I know that’s not going to happen.
It hasn’t happened in 21 years, why would it now.
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ArtistSoul
Wow. The algo knows my life too well I'm supposed to meet up with an ex today for 'fun' and tbh I told myself I wouldn't. On the other end another friend has expressed interest in playing tomorrow. All this happening after I've been out of the game for a year or two I'm feeling super insecure about my appearance and physical abilities after a year without being active.
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Wow. The algo knows my life too well I'm supposed to meet up with an ex today for 'fun' and tbh I told myself I wouldn't. On the other end another friend has expressed interest in playing tomorrow. All this happening after I've been out of the game for a year or two I'm feeling super insecure about my appearance and physical abilities after a year without being active.
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gregorymorse8423
We get weird paycho babble here, rather than any consideration of marriage and children literally the whole biological and survival of the species. Instead, we get this modern-day nonsense, which has distorted the foundation of life. No one ever needed this advice for thousands of years until society degenerated, and videos like this capitulate to that.
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We get weird paycho babble here, rather than any consideration of marriage and children literally the whole biological and survival of the species. Instead, we get this modern-day nonsense, which has distorted the foundation of life. No one ever needed this advice for thousands of years until society degenerated, and videos like this capitulate to that.
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Thekingofwatching
When I had my first time with three different activities, kissing and head were done by the same person, and I did not feel the best about it, even though we had spent some time meeting each other before. But I had my first time rounding the bases, as it’s called, I was invited over and I did not like it enough to have a short enough time
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When I had my first time with three different activities, kissing and head were done by the same person, and I did not feel the best about it, even though we had spent some time meeting each other before. But I had my first time rounding the bases, as it’s called, I was invited over and I did not like it enough to have a short enough time
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psych2go
Another thing to add to the communication side of things is setting ground rules like:
- No means no
- This is a judgement-free zone
- You are welcome to change your mind when it comes to things you are or aren’t comfortable with
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions whether it’s checking comfort or something you want to try
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Another thing to add to the communication side of things is setting ground rules like:
- No means no
- This is a judgement-free zone
- You are welcome to change your mind when it comes to things you are or aren’t comfortable with
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions whether it’s checking comfort or something you want to try
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kayleighdriessen
I want to see more videos talking about close platonic friendships (the kind of friendships where maybe alot of typically-deemed couple-things happen not just going out and talk about boys, they're overlooked in today's society way too often, they bring much more fulfillment than some people realize.
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I want to see more videos talking about close platonic friendships (the kind of friendships where maybe alot of typically-deemed couple-things happen not just going out and talk about boys, they're overlooked in today's society way too often, they bring much more fulfillment than some people realize.
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kenoalbatros
This is a very good and important video which everyone should understand deeply in my opinion. To be save and to be able to do it without hurting themselves or anybody else involved!
Thank you very much for taking the time and effort to produce and share this wonderful piece of art and knowledge!
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This is a very good and important video which everyone should understand deeply in my opinion. To be save and to be able to do it without hurting themselves or anybody else involved!
Thank you very much for taking the time and effort to produce and share this wonderful piece of art and knowledge!
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NavigatingReality
Why are the vast majority illustrations and naming of female/male partnerships This means people feel like the messages don't apply. Just as we are is more than binary partnerships. Especially for the first couple of minutes. A thought, anyway.
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Why are the vast majority illustrations and naming of female/male partnerships This means people feel like the messages don't apply. Just as we are is more than binary partnerships. Especially for the first couple of minutes. A thought, anyway.
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IloveconsumingDBD
we went from how to keep yourself maintain a good mental stability to how masturbating can affect your brain or using a brainrot slang like gooning which is just masturbating, but not reaching the thing (which is orgasm. crazy.
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we went from how to keep yourself maintain a good mental stability to how masturbating can affect your brain or using a brainrot slang like gooning which is just masturbating, but not reaching the thing (which is orgasm. crazy.
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psych2go
1. Is this person awake and conscious
2. Do they consent
3. Is there a possibility my actions will result in a police report
4. Do they want to be there
5. Have they said no or set boundaries
6. Am I respecting them
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1. Is this person awake and conscious
2. Do they consent
3. Is there a possibility my actions will result in a police report
4. Do they want to be there
5. Have they said no or set boundaries
6. Am I respecting them
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werex3
Could you do a topic about hooking up in terms of psychology, opportunities, the culture, how to talk about it, . meaning for people who are interested in it, but dont know where to start, how to approach it.
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Could you do a topic about hooking up in terms of psychology, opportunities, the culture, how to talk about it, . meaning for people who are interested in it, but dont know where to start, how to approach it.
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MegaManNeo
I never had any but even so I can say that feeling safe, comfy and respected is super important in any type of relationship.
Taking this as a PSA with words that people sometimes seem to forget: )
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I never had any but even so I can say that feeling safe, comfy and respected is super important in any type of relationship.
Taking this as a PSA with words that people sometimes seem to forget: )
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Norveyboy17
Idk I've never done it with my boyfriend at all we've been together for 3 years now but I'm too shy to even ask him about it
Also we're a gay couple which make it even more awkward
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Idk I've never done it with my boyfriend at all we've been together for 3 years now but I'm too shy to even ask him about it
Also we're a gay couple which make it even more awkward
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GalaxyCat630
.. . Okay, this is making me question My first time, and I'm not sure how to think about that- Very informative, and another great Psych2go video that I'll circle back to!
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.. . Okay, this is making me question My first time, and I'm not sure how to think about that- Very informative, and another great Psych2go video that I'll circle back to!
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