Things That Can Cause Romantic Regret
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It's still early for me today so I can't tell right now whether that has been a topic for Psych2Go already but what I can say is that whenever someone apologies properly, I feel much easier in my mind and feel more open towards a proper conversation with compromises too.
Date: 2024-02-28
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MINIPOTHOLES
Oh boy I don’t even know where to start. She broke up with me because she was/is too stressed with school mixed with the stress of her dad suddenly not approving of me. After all this time of thinking back, deep down I feel she just lost interest in me. I made a bunch of mistakes (regrets. Nothing crazy but I think I wasn’t romantic enough, and I struggle to have consistent emotions, aswell struggle to express my emotions. Of course a bunch of other things but those are the main ones. Also I feel like her being in school, but me not being in school relates to the past the expiration part of the video. I think deep down she feels like we’re growing separately. Idk. I regret so much of what I’ve done. I think about her everyday, and it seems everyday I find something else to regret. I still love her I always will. I think one day I’ll reach out to her again and see how things go, I know I’ll regret it if I don’t. I wish I did things differently: (
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Oh boy I don’t even know where to start. She broke up with me because she was/is too stressed with school mixed with the stress of her dad suddenly not approving of me. After all this time of thinking back, deep down I feel she just lost interest in me. I made a bunch of mistakes (regrets. Nothing crazy but I think I wasn’t romantic enough, and I struggle to have consistent emotions, aswell struggle to express my emotions. Of course a bunch of other things but those are the main ones. Also I feel like her being in school, but me not being in school relates to the past the expiration part of the video. I think deep down she feels like we’re growing separately. Idk. I regret so much of what I’ve done. I think about her everyday, and it seems everyday I find something else to regret. I still love her I always will. I think one day I’ll reach out to her again and see how things go, I know I’ll regret it if I don’t. I wish I did things differently: (
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Skz_Foreverfamily
I wasn't in a relationship with this person but i did like her alot and she liked me to at that time but even though she was the one who lost feelings I still stuck around because I can't just throw our friendship away like that deep down im always gonna love her I'm glad she moved on but I don't understand why can't I when she told me I was confused and sad at the time but like she said people change their mind all the time and its life it's alright but ik deep down it was me i was the overthinker i was the person who messd it up they say it wasnt me but i feel like it was she was perfect and such a amazing person i was the wreak i say right person wrong time maybe besides that she brung out the best in me and opened my mind more and she brung my smile back i will always be thankful for her she was my first love
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I wasn't in a relationship with this person but i did like her alot and she liked me to at that time but even though she was the one who lost feelings I still stuck around because I can't just throw our friendship away like that deep down im always gonna love her I'm glad she moved on but I don't understand why can't I when she told me I was confused and sad at the time but like she said people change their mind all the time and its life it's alright but ik deep down it was me i was the overthinker i was the person who messd it up they say it wasnt me but i feel like it was she was perfect and such a amazing person i was the wreak i say right person wrong time maybe besides that she brung out the best in me and opened my mind more and she brung my smile back i will always be thankful for her she was my first love
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THANATOS-PRIME
One time a girl and I really liked each other. I just gotten out of a really abusive and manipulative relationship and she always found a way to make me smile or feel good about myself. Whether it was her playful and positive attitude, or that smile that could brighten any dark day.
She was a prime example of the right person, but the wrong time. If I could do it all over again, I would’ve let her known how I felt a lot sooner than I did. She helped me out one night when I was really struggling with thoughts of self harm.
It’s because of her, I got to do things such as meet my childhood hero, Brendan Fraser and meet my little nephew once he was born a few months later.
We don’t talk anymore, but I’ll always wish her the best and deep down I’m always gonna love her.
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One time a girl and I really liked each other. I just gotten out of a really abusive and manipulative relationship and she always found a way to make me smile or feel good about myself. Whether it was her playful and positive attitude, or that smile that could brighten any dark day.
She was a prime example of the right person, but the wrong time. If I could do it all over again, I would’ve let her known how I felt a lot sooner than I did. She helped me out one night when I was really struggling with thoughts of self harm.
It’s because of her, I got to do things such as meet my childhood hero, Brendan Fraser and meet my little nephew once he was born a few months later.
We don’t talk anymore, but I’ll always wish her the best and deep down I’m always gonna love her.
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meep16_86
Two years has passed. Why am i still attached She's now with someone else. Can't express feelings anymore. Sadness burdening as much as regret. Can't even tell you how much of regret have i felt before. Wishing if i could turn back the time, fix what's wrong. The what if questions constantly playing in my mind till this day. If only i was matured enough and took it abit serious. Im fine now. Starting off by focusing on myself first. Just realised self love is important. How can you love someone else if you haven't love yourself right
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Two years has passed. Why am i still attached She's now with someone else. Can't express feelings anymore. Sadness burdening as much as regret. Can't even tell you how much of regret have i felt before. Wishing if i could turn back the time, fix what's wrong. The what if questions constantly playing in my mind till this day. If only i was matured enough and took it abit serious. Im fine now. Starting off by focusing on myself first. Just realised self love is important. How can you love someone else if you haven't love yourself right
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walking_one
how to communicate you are in a relationship, without saying i have a bf. becouse then they could try to mock your bf and you dont what that, but still stay amicable, becouse it is on them to realize that not every women is for everyone and if you are not romantically involved and stay friends you are not gay you just you like different people or want to live a life you wont regret, but you cant tell them that, becouse then you are teaching them and you dont want to take a role of a mom and you want to communicate like an adult.
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how to communicate you are in a relationship, without saying i have a bf. becouse then they could try to mock your bf and you dont what that, but still stay amicable, becouse it is on them to realize that not every women is for everyone and if you are not romantically involved and stay friends you are not gay you just you like different people or want to live a life you wont regret, but you cant tell them that, becouse then you are teaching them and you dont want to take a role of a mom and you want to communicate like an adult.
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Absolhunter251
I won’t be seeking a relationship ever again, 11 of them over all my years in relationships all ended the same.
It’s just killing me more and more. Even if I helped and love them so much.
I’ll be okay. I survived every relationship.
Everyone can’t handle my life of responsibility and life of being happy.
I regret everything of trusting and loving people I really do.
My health is my important it’s hard to heal. I want to heal.
Please anyoneyou are great keep going.
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I won’t be seeking a relationship ever again, 11 of them over all my years in relationships all ended the same.
It’s just killing me more and more. Even if I helped and love them so much.
I’ll be okay. I survived every relationship.
Everyone can’t handle my life of responsibility and life of being happy.
I regret everything of trusting and loving people I really do.
My health is my important it’s hard to heal. I want to heal.
Please anyoneyou are great keep going.
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JL15545
Still to this day, I grapple with the regrets what I should’ve done, and shouldn’t, hence it only amplifies my self-doubt. Always feeling like I wasn’t good enough and dwelling on the mistakes I’ve made. But constantly beating myself up over the past really hasn’t been helping. We just have to accept that we’re not perfect, learn from our mistakes, and focus on improving ourselves. It may sound easier said than done, but it’s really the only way forward.
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Still to this day, I grapple with the regrets what I should’ve done, and shouldn’t, hence it only amplifies my self-doubt. Always feeling like I wasn’t good enough and dwelling on the mistakes I’ve made. But constantly beating myself up over the past really hasn’t been helping. We just have to accept that we’re not perfect, learn from our mistakes, and focus on improving ourselves. It may sound easier said than done, but it’s really the only way forward.
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ChunterInfo
There are times when my wife will present me with a decision that I feel she has already unilaterally made. In most of the cases, I don't mind her decision, but she comes to me for an opinion anyway, knowing that my opinion doesn't matter at that point.
It's not something that happens often, but when it does and I point it out, she doesn't seem to understand why I'm pointing it out and not giving an answer besides that.
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There are times when my wife will present me with a decision that I feel she has already unilaterally made. In most of the cases, I don't mind her decision, but she comes to me for an opinion anyway, knowing that my opinion doesn't matter at that point.
It's not something that happens often, but when it does and I point it out, she doesn't seem to understand why I'm pointing it out and not giving an answer besides that.
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lenninmontiel4539
Heres my advice is to never, Ever fall in love if you want to keep on being rejected by your so called crushes you do you but dont start crying and being so damn emotional about it, besides today romance is toxic and cruel so yeh dont ever fall in love anymore and keep being single no matter what.
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Heres my advice is to never, Ever fall in love if you want to keep on being rejected by your so called crushes you do you but dont start crying and being so damn emotional about it, besides today romance is toxic and cruel so yeh dont ever fall in love anymore and keep being single no matter what.
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psych2go
Moreover, regret can help us learn from our mistakes. Researchers have found that thinking about how things might have been better in the past makes it easier to form intentions for the future. So, feeling regret about past failed romances may actually help us find lasting love in the future.
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Moreover, regret can help us learn from our mistakes. Researchers have found that thinking about how things might have been better in the past makes it easier to form intentions for the future. So, feeling regret about past failed romances may actually help us find lasting love in the future.
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user-zq6zv8xj5m
It's ok, to develop feelings for someone , just don't get lost into it, don't go to hard, we must practice self control, all the time so we don't get lost when they mistreated us, be smart and be astrng person as always you welcome remember selfcare is very important
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It's ok, to develop feelings for someone , just don't get lost into it, don't go to hard, we must practice self control, all the time so we don't get lost when they mistreated us, be smart and be astrng person as always you welcome remember selfcare is very important
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user-zq6zv8xj5m
Sometimes, you only have to say I am sorry or I apologize to your parents even you know they wrong you right, that can save a lot energy less pain, less guilty feeling, and don't go over past experiences if you want to heal any relationship , be greatful
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Sometimes, you only have to say I am sorry or I apologize to your parents even you know they wrong you right, that can save a lot energy less pain, less guilty feeling, and don't go over past experiences if you want to heal any relationship , be greatful
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kahale
Now wheres the folks who make the bullet-points lists in the comments
Edit: I'll take these matters into my own hands
0: 42 Not expressing your true feelings
1: 32 Putting your life on hold
2: 30 Staying past the expiration date
3: 20 Not saying sorry
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Now wheres the folks who make the bullet-points lists in the comments
Edit: I'll take these matters into my own hands
0: 42 Not expressing your true feelings
1: 32 Putting your life on hold
2: 30 Staying past the expiration date
3: 20 Not saying sorry
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user-zq6zv8xj5m
It is your responsibility to value yourself not your partner, your partners job is to add to it, sometimes your partner compliment you base on what you want to hear, cause that's the area they you weak at, that's call mind games
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It is your responsibility to value yourself not your partner, your partners job is to add to it, sometimes your partner compliment you base on what you want to hear, cause that's the area they you weak at, that's call mind games
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bobbruce4135
Great points. Handsome Chads can move on easier and are more resistant to the egregious mistakes of marriage and procreation. As the saying goes She's not yours, it's just your turn. So, be in the top 5% in looks and be happy.
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Great points. Handsome Chads can move on easier and are more resistant to the egregious mistakes of marriage and procreation. As the saying goes She's not yours, it's just your turn. So, be in the top 5% in looks and be happy.
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F1-Person
it's been a few months. And I'm still holding on. The thoughts of my past relationship absolutely devour me Whenever I'm alone.
It isn't easy to just move on. God i wished i Could move on now.
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it's been a few months. And I'm still holding on. The thoughts of my past relationship absolutely devour me Whenever I'm alone.
It isn't easy to just move on. God i wished i Could move on now.
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user-zq6zv8xj5m
Learn to let go the old feelings is a good thing, lean not to take things to personal , overthing, over reacting, can push your partner away.
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Learn to let go the old feelings is a good thing, lean not to take things to personal , overthing, over reacting, can push your partner away.
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solesurvivor3179
Why can I relate with some of these reasons and romantic regret even though I’ve never been in a relationship or done anything romantically
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Why can I relate with some of these reasons and romantic regret even though I’ve never been in a relationship or done anything romantically
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freewillgang9929
0: 42 not expressing true feelings
1: 34 putting your life on pause
2: 32 staying past the expiration date
3: 21 not saying sorry
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0: 42 not expressing true feelings
1: 34 putting your life on pause
2: 32 staying past the expiration date
3: 21 not saying sorry
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