Subconscious Ways You're Hurting Your Inner Child Without Knowing It
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Date: 2024-02-21
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HarvestOnBreak
You can’t change the world. So stop trying. - My dad
I'm teasing you! Knock it off! - my dad every time I tried to tell him I don't like him making fun of me, or telling him to stop pranking me. (Thankfully I never fell for the toilet plunger in the toilet with the lights out prank)
Its all in your head. - my dad every time I tried to reach out cause pain.
This is why you don’t have siblings, cause you can't share. - my mom when I finally cracked cause she showers some other ladies 2 y/o with love and forgot I even exsist.
Your grounded cause you don't trust me. - mom after she found out i was being bullied.
If you wanna leave, then leave! - mom when she pulled me out of bed at 1am in the pouring rain cause I did something bad apparently. (I think I broke the back ceramic lid to the toilet Idk was 9)
I learned to accept I'm at fault for everything. Even when it's not my fault it some how is. Also don't know how to set boundaries.
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You can’t change the world. So stop trying. - My dad
I'm teasing you! Knock it off! - my dad every time I tried to tell him I don't like him making fun of me, or telling him to stop pranking me. (Thankfully I never fell for the toilet plunger in the toilet with the lights out prank)
Its all in your head. - my dad every time I tried to reach out cause pain.
This is why you don’t have siblings, cause you can't share. - my mom when I finally cracked cause she showers some other ladies 2 y/o with love and forgot I even exsist.
Your grounded cause you don't trust me. - mom after she found out i was being bullied.
If you wanna leave, then leave! - mom when she pulled me out of bed at 1am in the pouring rain cause I did something bad apparently. (I think I broke the back ceramic lid to the toilet Idk was 9)
I learned to accept I'm at fault for everything. Even when it's not my fault it some how is. Also don't know how to set boundaries.
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GnopKing
I recognize all of them. I've been through all of this, had a very bad childhood with lots of traumas and I'm starting to heal a little now (after bad new explosions of these old traumas)just by looking at my inner child. I look pictures of myself as a child, I see how much I was a beautiful baby boy, smart, funny, with all best qualities, and feeling a deep love for him, giving him all the love I didn't receive as a child.
I may not deserve love by other humans, and maybe at this point I really don't care of that anymore, but I deserve love by myself.
That child deserves it, and the hostile environment he grew up in was not a reflection of his self worth.
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I recognize all of them. I've been through all of this, had a very bad childhood with lots of traumas and I'm starting to heal a little now (after bad new explosions of these old traumas)just by looking at my inner child. I look pictures of myself as a child, I see how much I was a beautiful baby boy, smart, funny, with all best qualities, and feeling a deep love for him, giving him all the love I didn't receive as a child.
I may not deserve love by other humans, and maybe at this point I really don't care of that anymore, but I deserve love by myself.
That child deserves it, and the hostile environment he grew up in was not a reflection of his self worth.
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psych2go
my response to each
1. it's not that I don't need anyone, it's that I can't rely on others because they have always failed me, into adulthood.
2. I'm actually pretty good on this point. Others don't make me who I am
3. I don't react, just do what I need to do
4. sure idk, depends on the person
5. I'm very emotional, doesn't change that NO ONE else embraces that lol
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my response to each
1. it's not that I don't need anyone, it's that I can't rely on others because they have always failed me, into adulthood.
2. I'm actually pretty good on this point. Others don't make me who I am
3. I don't react, just do what I need to do
4. sure idk, depends on the person
5. I'm very emotional, doesn't change that NO ONE else embraces that lol
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365ral
#3 applies to my school life. I was special-needs, and many kids and teachers bullied me for years. I ended up with an inferiority complex that still cripples my self-esteem to this day. When both the teachers and kids act like being different is bad, part of me was convinced that it was true. I'm 'weird, ' and everyone else is 'normal. '
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#3 applies to my school life. I was special-needs, and many kids and teachers bullied me for years. I ended up with an inferiority complex that still cripples my self-esteem to this day. When both the teachers and kids act like being different is bad, part of me was convinced that it was true. I'm 'weird, ' and everyone else is 'normal. '
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Overvaluing independence 0: 44
2. Passive-aggressive behaviour 1: 27
3. Self-criticism and low self-esteem 2: 04
4. Feeling highly reactive 2: 48
5. Self-defeating behaviour 3: 41
6. Emotional suppression or repression 4: 36
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Overvaluing independence 0: 44
2. Passive-aggressive behaviour 1: 27
3. Self-criticism and low self-esteem 2: 04
4. Feeling highly reactive 2: 48
5. Self-defeating behaviour 3: 41
6. Emotional suppression or repression 4: 36
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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patilsandipb
I am going through really bad situation. I am having tinnitus and hearing loss. I have withdrawn from being social. Sometimes I think thing happening with is because use of too much screen or my health condition I don't know. I cant find solution. May be therapist can help.
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I am going through really bad situation. I am having tinnitus and hearing loss. I have withdrawn from being social. Sometimes I think thing happening with is because use of too much screen or my health condition I don't know. I cant find solution. May be therapist can help.
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OnCloudMind
I used to try so hard to suppressed my inner-child, hoping one day I could feel better. Lately, I've found that accepting my inner-child, living with her, treating her as a close sister rather than someone I should avoid makes me feel more of myself, and much happier.
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I used to try so hard to suppressed my inner-child, hoping one day I could feel better. Lately, I've found that accepting my inner-child, living with her, treating her as a close sister rather than someone I should avoid makes me feel more of myself, and much happier.
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AceKite00
I’m wasn’t expecting much on this topic in regards to me, but the first point actually got me emotionally a little bit. I don’t like to depend on others because I was alone for much of my childhood. So much silence. Silence that never ends.
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I’m wasn’t expecting much on this topic in regards to me, but the first point actually got me emotionally a little bit. I don’t like to depend on others because I was alone for much of my childhood. So much silence. Silence that never ends.
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Iwan. _
Dude did I traumatized myself as child at least to a part because my parents I feel like always were good but still feel those things
Ok the emotional repression or so I have very much after getting bullied for 2 years
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Dude did I traumatized myself as child at least to a part because my parents I feel like always were good but still feel those things
Ok the emotional repression or so I have very much after getting bullied for 2 years
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bethmiller9774
What are you supposed to do when everyone you meet forces you to not need anyone Our society is selfish and self-sentered. You need to look at all the FACTS, not how you want things to be.
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What are you supposed to do when everyone you meet forces you to not need anyone Our society is selfish and self-sentered. You need to look at all the FACTS, not how you want things to be.
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Pumpking1984
finding someone to trust to talk about these things are very hard to find. and for some us we can never afford the help. I think this video hit a little close to home for me.
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finding someone to trust to talk about these things are very hard to find. and for some us we can never afford the help. I think this video hit a little close to home for me.
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fewd3
1. I don't need anyone
2. Being overly self critical and low self esteem
3. Feeling highly reactive
4. Self defeating behavior
5. Emotional suppression or repression
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1. I don't need anyone
2. Being overly self critical and low self esteem
3. Feeling highly reactive
4. Self defeating behavior
5. Emotional suppression or repression
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sach4997
can you make a video about how to help. how to take tale care of our inner child please: ( I relate to EVERYTHING but dunno how to change and I can't pay for therapy
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can you make a video about how to help. how to take tale care of our inner child please: ( I relate to EVERYTHING but dunno how to change and I can't pay for therapy
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psych2go
In my insanity I found all the answers I ever sought and even more. I am content, not probably happy but certainly content and that's all that matters to me.
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In my insanity I found all the answers I ever sought and even more. I am content, not probably happy but certainly content and that's all that matters to me.
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arthurpenfield8229
Oh, God. Somebody been reading the comments again. This cut deep. I'm everything that was said in this here video. I'm 35 now, Lord have mer-say.
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Oh, God. Somebody been reading the comments again. This cut deep. I'm everything that was said in this here video. I'm 35 now, Lord have mer-say.
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rhondajohnson8310
This is so true. all of this. Especially as I get older that healing is so very important to living the absolute best life you can
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This is so true. all of this. Especially as I get older that healing is so very important to living the absolute best life you can
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psych2go
Try writing a loving letter to your inner child and tell yourself what you needed to hear back then, to promote healing and acceptance.
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Try writing a loving letter to your inner child and tell yourself what you needed to hear back then, to promote healing and acceptance.
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luckeymistry8177
37sec ago wow. i never miss update. Can I get a heart. Hope y'all watched this vedio. doing good. Everything will be alright
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37sec ago wow. i never miss update. Can I get a heart. Hope y'all watched this vedio. doing good. Everything will be alright
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Blueberry_009
Does anyone know anything about engaging thoughts with worst-case scenarios I have them for over a year and I don't know why.
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Does anyone know anything about engaging thoughts with worst-case scenarios I have them for over a year and I don't know why.
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