What Is The Point In Dating
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Date: 2024-07-08
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dradith921
I have been single for my entire life and I have accepted that I’m not going to find a date. Where my brother and cousins found their parents and/or have been in a relationship they subconsciously rub it on my face.
And anytime I see people with their own partners I feel anger, jealousy and sadness.
I’m 26 and I’m the only one on the family that doesn’t have any experience in dating and feel pressure because I see my family and the ones they have and been askedwhen will you bring someone I just respond with that’s an impossible situation for me and I have accepted it
And the only 2 times a female have shown interest in me is when there’s been no one else and/or is the literal last guy on the list. And I’m not taking the disrespect of being the last option of anyone.
Even though I have accepted that it’s not going to happen it’s hurts.
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I have been single for my entire life and I have accepted that I’m not going to find a date. Where my brother and cousins found their parents and/or have been in a relationship they subconsciously rub it on my face.
And anytime I see people with their own partners I feel anger, jealousy and sadness.
I’m 26 and I’m the only one on the family that doesn’t have any experience in dating and feel pressure because I see my family and the ones they have and been askedwhen will you bring someone I just respond with that’s an impossible situation for me and I have accepted it
And the only 2 times a female have shown interest in me is when there’s been no one else and/or is the literal last guy on the list. And I’m not taking the disrespect of being the last option of anyone.
Even though I have accepted that it’s not going to happen it’s hurts.
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JMorgenS
Honestly, I’ve chosen to give up on dating because I see it as a significant commitment, and I struggle to maintain long-term relationships unless it’s mutually fulfilling. Personally, I find more enjoyment in driving vehicles than in dating. Cars are always there for you; you can drive them as much as you want with just a bit of fuel. On the other hand, relationships, especially for a car enthusiast like myself, can be financially draining. It often feels like I have to invest everything in my partner, leaving little for my passion for cars.
To me cars are much more than just a mode of transportation, they hold significant history and each brand tells a story
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Honestly, I’ve chosen to give up on dating because I see it as a significant commitment, and I struggle to maintain long-term relationships unless it’s mutually fulfilling. Personally, I find more enjoyment in driving vehicles than in dating. Cars are always there for you; you can drive them as much as you want with just a bit of fuel. On the other hand, relationships, especially for a car enthusiast like myself, can be financially draining. It often feels like I have to invest everything in my partner, leaving little for my passion for cars.
To me cars are much more than just a mode of transportation, they hold significant history and each brand tells a story
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sadjesus8903
It seems as though dating was always for resource allocation and preservation. There's no reason to date or even have kids anymore because we are off the farm and in the cities now which everything is automated and we can hire people for specific purposes
Gone are the days when people actually needed to be together, now we have technology and other means to make our lives easier
Now people date out of loneliness and for selfish reasons rather than to keep a community afloat, and I even wonder if dating or romantic relationships were even real in the first place or just another means of survival
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It seems as though dating was always for resource allocation and preservation. There's no reason to date or even have kids anymore because we are off the farm and in the cities now which everything is automated and we can hire people for specific purposes
Gone are the days when people actually needed to be together, now we have technology and other means to make our lives easier
Now people date out of loneliness and for selfish reasons rather than to keep a community afloat, and I even wonder if dating or romantic relationships were even real in the first place or just another means of survival
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Chisszaru
I'm currently just in the middle of a period where i both want to be in a relationship and not be in a relationship. It's a bit weird, i know, but i have discovered that i'm into polygamy, where i don't mind having several relationships/marriages, and i'm not a muslim, i'm not religious at all, i'm simply being myself, but like i said, i can't decide if i want to be in a relationship or not. It simply isn't that high up on what i want to do in life. I'm currently trying to find myself, but it is quite hard to actually find my true self, so being in a relationship isn't a priority for me right now
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I'm currently just in the middle of a period where i both want to be in a relationship and not be in a relationship. It's a bit weird, i know, but i have discovered that i'm into polygamy, where i don't mind having several relationships/marriages, and i'm not a muslim, i'm not religious at all, i'm simply being myself, but like i said, i can't decide if i want to be in a relationship or not. It simply isn't that high up on what i want to do in life. I'm currently trying to find myself, but it is quite hard to actually find my true self, so being in a relationship isn't a priority for me right now
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anthonyrepetto3474
You fake your way to get clicks, referring to studies that don't support your claims - a relationship is an opportunity to relate to someone; seeking pleasure OUT of them is called Objectification, and it's dehumanizing. You don't even notice that your own 'reason' is marriage, when the study you quoted specifically said 'emotional intimacy' - you never mentioned emotional intimacy and relatedness; you just inferred marriage. Bizarre, lazy propaganda, kid.
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You fake your way to get clicks, referring to studies that don't support your claims - a relationship is an opportunity to relate to someone; seeking pleasure OUT of them is called Objectification, and it's dehumanizing. You don't even notice that your own 'reason' is marriage, when the study you quoted specifically said 'emotional intimacy' - you never mentioned emotional intimacy and relatedness; you just inferred marriage. Bizarre, lazy propaganda, kid.
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SaurianStudios1207
I’m not in the mode of dating, or even interested in being in a relationship though I’m not against it either. Dating apps are suspicious at best, and just intrusive at worst because it feeds on people’s insecurities, desires, and feelings. I’m honestly glad to be single, because it allows me to focus on my own goals, paths in life, and pursue my own passions/interests while striving to continually learn, be open minded, and seek knowledge.
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I’m not in the mode of dating, or even interested in being in a relationship though I’m not against it either. Dating apps are suspicious at best, and just intrusive at worst because it feeds on people’s insecurities, desires, and feelings. I’m honestly glad to be single, because it allows me to focus on my own goals, paths in life, and pursue my own passions/interests while striving to continually learn, be open minded, and seek knowledge.
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alexurena9424
After dating many guys i would say that while i enjoyed their companny and the feeling of having someone you love, i'm better on my own and feel happier that way, not because i'm afraid or hated it but because thats just the way i am. It took me a lot of effort to realize that i'm not like the others because thats not normal by social standards. If you feel happy by being on your own, go for it, don't let others tell you how to feel or what to do.
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After dating many guys i would say that while i enjoyed their companny and the feeling of having someone you love, i'm better on my own and feel happier that way, not because i'm afraid or hated it but because thats just the way i am. It took me a lot of effort to realize that i'm not like the others because thats not normal by social standards. If you feel happy by being on your own, go for it, don't let others tell you how to feel or what to do.
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internetfrnd6496
Dating/relationships is that one area of my life where I feel like I missed a class in high school and failed to catch up. I struggle to make it a priority in my life now.
I also don’t understand how people have the energy for dating. My job has me dealing with people all day, last thing I want to do is sit in front of someone and tell them what my favorite color is.
Guess my bloodline is dying with me.
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Dating/relationships is that one area of my life where I feel like I missed a class in high school and failed to catch up. I struggle to make it a priority in my life now.
I also don’t understand how people have the energy for dating. My job has me dealing with people all day, last thing I want to do is sit in front of someone and tell them what my favorite color is.
Guess my bloodline is dying with me.
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maxiedits
I'm not even able to make friends properly let alone dating, Everything is restricted here, Never been in a proper relationship as well, People are so toxic, I really feel like the outsider, No checks up on me, No one acknowledges my presence, They don't care if I exist or not, Why do I have to be the one who always approch others Can't anyone approach me by themselves, Am I that bad
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I'm not even able to make friends properly let alone dating, Everything is restricted here, Never been in a proper relationship as well, People are so toxic, I really feel like the outsider, No checks up on me, No one acknowledges my presence, They don't care if I exist or not, Why do I have to be the one who always approch others Can't anyone approach me by themselves, Am I that bad
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JoamG008
My first and only relationship gave me a lot of lessons, but in the end my partner never really cared about my feelings which made me question my own worth. Knowing the person first before you continue stepping to another level of relationship really is a must because it's not always fun and butterflies. If you're really in love, you will face problems together. not run from it.
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My first and only relationship gave me a lot of lessons, but in the end my partner never really cared about my feelings which made me question my own worth. Knowing the person first before you continue stepping to another level of relationship really is a must because it's not always fun and butterflies. If you're really in love, you will face problems together. not run from it.
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MoltoRubato88
The answer to that question is that there is no definitive answer because people have different interpretations of what dating means. It keeps changing with the passage of time. What might have been considered acceptable forty or fifty years ago probably would not work in the 2020s because humans are such a complex and contradictory species.
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The answer to that question is that there is no definitive answer because people have different interpretations of what dating means. It keeps changing with the passage of time. What might have been considered acceptable forty or fifty years ago probably would not work in the 2020s because humans are such a complex and contradictory species.
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Jaeger_Bishop
Well dating is SUPPOSED TO BE the year or so courtship before marriage, but many seem to just be getting into dating for the validation (mostly women, let's be honest. Others just seem to be dating with the, well let's see what happens mentality, when going into something so serious without a plan, is a good way to have things go wrong.
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Well dating is SUPPOSED TO BE the year or so courtship before marriage, but many seem to just be getting into dating for the validation (mostly women, let's be honest. Others just seem to be dating with the, well let's see what happens mentality, when going into something so serious without a plan, is a good way to have things go wrong.
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waynetech10
For some of us, no matter how much optimistic verbiage, or affirmations are thrown, it's just not possible. The only real positive is that we learned to cope, and rise above feel worthless. Most of the time. Those twinges of sadness crop up, but learning to adapt became incredibly useful. Otherwise, you'll fall apart.
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For some of us, no matter how much optimistic verbiage, or affirmations are thrown, it's just not possible. The only real positive is that we learned to cope, and rise above feel worthless. Most of the time. Those twinges of sadness crop up, but learning to adapt became incredibly useful. Otherwise, you'll fall apart.
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MerchManDan
I'm desperate for a relationship but I don't date at all, I don't even try. There's so much I have to change about myself to make myself attractive and I just don't have the energy. I wish I can be happy being alone but I'm not, I'm miserable all the time and I don't know what to do
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I'm desperate for a relationship but I don't date at all, I don't even try. There's so much I have to change about myself to make myself attractive and I just don't have the energy. I wish I can be happy being alone but I'm not, I'm miserable all the time and I don't know what to do
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goontheracoon
I don't know about you. but id rather wait until 40, then simply go abroad and buy a new model. beats dumpster diving for risky seafood. Lets face it, our women has lost all charm and grace, these days dating is like playing the std bingo, ur bound to get one if not more.
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I don't know about you. but id rather wait until 40, then simply go abroad and buy a new model. beats dumpster diving for risky seafood. Lets face it, our women has lost all charm and grace, these days dating is like playing the std bingo, ur bound to get one if not more.
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dillon2938
Romance is a hyperfixation for me. And then with recently finding what seems to be the person I've dreamed of for years. However I'm well aware both people need to want to date eachother so it's a no but, it's still cool to find someone that checks almost every box.
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Romance is a hyperfixation for me. And then with recently finding what seems to be the person I've dreamed of for years. However I'm well aware both people need to want to date eachother so it's a no but, it's still cool to find someone that checks almost every box.
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wayneshobbygallery
Honestly, no one will fully understand the harsh truth & dangers of dating or falling in love until they get fully involved in one themselves. The rest is just a matter of luck & time.
That's one of the processes of growing up & finding our true selves.
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Honestly, no one will fully understand the harsh truth & dangers of dating or falling in love until they get fully involved in one themselves. The rest is just a matter of luck & time.
That's one of the processes of growing up & finding our true selves.
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handsomeshaxx2382
I dont date so I cant hurt people I care about anymore. I never thought anything I did could have such an effect but apparently it does. Knowing this it would be irresponsible for me to date anyone. If there is a one for me out there I hope they understand
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I dont date so I cant hurt people I care about anymore. I never thought anything I did could have such an effect but apparently it does. Knowing this it would be irresponsible for me to date anyone. If there is a one for me out there I hope they understand
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_TheIlluminator_
Dating is just a way to distract ourselves from the life’s harsh realities. We’re all lonely souls looking for connection in a world that feels hopeless. It’s fleeting, but it may help make things somewhat bearable, even if just for a little bit.
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Dating is just a way to distract ourselves from the life’s harsh realities. We’re all lonely souls looking for connection in a world that feels hopeless. It’s fleeting, but it may help make things somewhat bearable, even if just for a little bit.
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What is the point in dating
me: children, having someone care for you when you’re sick or grieving (after your parents die or you move somewhere far from them, and free Huggies every time you ask(if they don’t do this, break up with them)
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What is the point in dating
me: children, having someone care for you when you’re sick or grieving (after your parents die or you move somewhere far from them, and free Huggies every time you ask(if they don’t do this, break up with them)
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