How To Go From Friendzone To Relationship (Easy Actionable Steps)
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Date: 2024-03-09
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anthonywong7906
(Student) teacher: now, for this activity, students will rotate and you will get to speed dating (foreign language teacher) each other.
Her (when I approached her): blushes intensely and forgets how to talk. I’m embarrassed! She says to her friend
Me: laughs nervously as I remembered how my crush rejected me a year ago
(repeat above like 5 times)
Me: becomes curious of her
2 months later
Me: realizes I have developed a crush on her. I found trouble trying to show even hints to her. Student teacher leaves, meaning we will never do the activity again.
1 month later
Me(after class): Hey ____, is it ok if I interview you for a class
Her: Sure!
after a very awkward interview, bc I still am socially awkward
Her: in case if you want to add anything, I’ll give you my phone number
Me: I’ll also give you mine as well (exchange numbers)
1. 5 months later
(We start texting different things)
Her: waves at me
Me: awkwardly raises hand and makes the tiniest wave at her.
Yeah, I think we friendzoned. I can’t tell if she still likes me, or have ever liked me at all.
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(Student) teacher: now, for this activity, students will rotate and you will get to speed dating (foreign language teacher) each other.
Her (when I approached her): blushes intensely and forgets how to talk. I’m embarrassed! She says to her friend
Me: laughs nervously as I remembered how my crush rejected me a year ago
(repeat above like 5 times)
Me: becomes curious of her
2 months later
Me: realizes I have developed a crush on her. I found trouble trying to show even hints to her. Student teacher leaves, meaning we will never do the activity again.
1 month later
Me(after class): Hey ____, is it ok if I interview you for a class
Her: Sure!
after a very awkward interview, bc I still am socially awkward
Her: in case if you want to add anything, I’ll give you my phone number
Me: I’ll also give you mine as well (exchange numbers)
1. 5 months later
(We start texting different things)
Her: waves at me
Me: awkwardly raises hand and makes the tiniest wave at her.
Yeah, I think we friendzoned. I can’t tell if she still likes me, or have ever liked me at all.
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chronic_daydreamer
How about getting my brain to go from preferring friendzone to being comfortable with relationships I’m terrified of the idea of commitment. I want to get married but I don’t want to get married. I don’t want what I want. Does that even make any sense Does anyone even understand what I mean I want something so badly I can’t have because I don’t want it in the same way everyone else does, and it makes me feel like because I lack that innate desire that actually even bothering with a relationship would be a dangerous waste of time and it makes me feel like I’m wasting my life alone because of it, unable to even rectify this.
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How about getting my brain to go from preferring friendzone to being comfortable with relationships I’m terrified of the idea of commitment. I want to get married but I don’t want to get married. I don’t want what I want. Does that even make any sense Does anyone even understand what I mean I want something so badly I can’t have because I don’t want it in the same way everyone else does, and it makes me feel like because I lack that innate desire that actually even bothering with a relationship would be a dangerous waste of time and it makes me feel like I’m wasting my life alone because of it, unable to even rectify this.
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MVMullins
After a year of getting to know her and becoming best friends, being trusting enough to be vulnerable and share deeply personal stories loss, I fell hard for her.
She's a widow 2 years out and I'm 4 years out. I expressed my feelings as gently as possible at first and then underlined it a month later, but to no avail.
After two months of losing sleep, having no appetite and stressing, I'm exhausted and wondering if I should give up.
About the time she seems to be warming up and feeling something, she withdraws and goes cold. So frustrating.
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After a year of getting to know her and becoming best friends, being trusting enough to be vulnerable and share deeply personal stories loss, I fell hard for her.
She's a widow 2 years out and I'm 4 years out. I expressed my feelings as gently as possible at first and then underlined it a month later, but to no avail.
After two months of losing sleep, having no appetite and stressing, I'm exhausted and wondering if I should give up.
About the time she seems to be warming up and feeling something, she withdraws and goes cold. So frustrating.
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DevinJHiggins
Always love when people come onto videos like this to say, 'The friendzone doesn't exist! '
Yes, it absolutely does. If you're not capable of realizing that, that cognitive dissonance is entirely on you.
And as someone who got friendzoned so badly when I was younger that it caused me to withdraw from relationships entirely for over a decade, understand that you may only see someone as a 'friend' and therefore don't care how they feel about you, but that person cares for you enough that that degree of rejection could end up destroying them.
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Always love when people come onto videos like this to say, 'The friendzone doesn't exist! '
Yes, it absolutely does. If you're not capable of realizing that, that cognitive dissonance is entirely on you.
And as someone who got friendzoned so badly when I was younger that it caused me to withdraw from relationships entirely for over a decade, understand that you may only see someone as a 'friend' and therefore don't care how they feel about you, but that person cares for you enough that that degree of rejection could end up destroying them.
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queasyweasel
Great vid with advice you can put into practice today I was digging the Ratatouille vibes in the soundtrack too Speaking of sound tho, Amanda's voice cut out for a half-second some twenty-odd times, I think it might be a noise gate issue; it might be set too high, so when her voice dips too low or too quiet (or maybe both sometimes idk) it cuts out words that are sometimes crucial to understanding the sentence Just something for the editors (proofreaders prooflisteners) to be aware of for the future
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Great vid with advice you can put into practice today I was digging the Ratatouille vibes in the soundtrack too Speaking of sound tho, Amanda's voice cut out for a half-second some twenty-odd times, I think it might be a noise gate issue; it might be set too high, so when her voice dips too low or too quiet (or maybe both sometimes idk) it cuts out words that are sometimes crucial to understanding the sentence Just something for the editors (proofreaders prooflisteners) to be aware of for the future
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p0is0ner. youtube
I arrive here after being thown to friendzone after share with her a lot of affection signs during 1 month, kisses and physical intimacies. I remind her to his ex in some aspects and she prefers stop now to going forward. I think she's not recovered, but who know. I only know that I love her and I am in shit right know. But she prefer stay as friends even if she feel physical and mental attraction. What should I suppose to do
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I arrive here after being thown to friendzone after share with her a lot of affection signs during 1 month, kisses and physical intimacies. I remind her to his ex in some aspects and she prefers stop now to going forward. I think she's not recovered, but who know. I only know that I love her and I am in shit right know. But she prefer stay as friends even if she feel physical and mental attraction. What should I suppose to do
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jasonfanclub4267
Dont forget that it's not bad to have friends. Friendzone can be something good and it could be more a perspective that you have romantic feelings but the othwr person does not have the same feels.
I experienced the same multiple times in my life. I addressed it and the other person didn't felt the same towards me but we were able to get through the stage and we are now good friends.
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Dont forget that it's not bad to have friends. Friendzone can be something good and it could be more a perspective that you have romantic feelings but the othwr person does not have the same feels.
I experienced the same multiple times in my life. I addressed it and the other person didn't felt the same towards me but we were able to get through the stage and we are now good friends.
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georgelawton9075
I have been there! I knew something was wrong between the two of after a few dates. In a situation like this I don’t have time to figure out what’s not working with the two of us. So I just moved on. She never tried to get in touch with. With in a few weeks. I found someone that didn’t have to figure out what was wrong between us. You should try to do the same thing!
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I have been there! I knew something was wrong between the two of after a few dates. In a situation like this I don’t have time to figure out what’s not working with the two of us. So I just moved on. She never tried to get in touch with. With in a few weeks. I found someone that didn’t have to figure out what was wrong between us. You should try to do the same thing!
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geemail369
Did all those things and had her open up a bit.
Sadly that only triggered her traumas around relationship anxiety, which she is working on right now.
But after 3, 5 years of getting dropped out of the blue several times i'm finally ready to dump her - unable to take her serious or trust her anymore.
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Did all those things and had her open up a bit.
Sadly that only triggered her traumas around relationship anxiety, which she is working on right now.
But after 3, 5 years of getting dropped out of the blue several times i'm finally ready to dump her - unable to take her serious or trust her anymore.
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freakystories3583
Also it helps to know if there single or not No point to go after someone who has a boyfriend or a girlfriend or is marred. Unleash you want to be a home wrecker which is a very bad thing to do to any one let only a family. So don't do that okay its super mega not cool man
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Also it helps to know if there single or not No point to go after someone who has a boyfriend or a girlfriend or is marred. Unleash you want to be a home wrecker which is a very bad thing to do to any one let only a family. So don't do that okay its super mega not cool man
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socalodeas
There seems to be a lot more focus lately on how to pursue goals the attainment of which isn't within the viewer's control.
This might get clicks, but I suspect it deviates from your original objective. Might be time for a little self-reflection, Psi.
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There seems to be a lot more focus lately on how to pursue goals the attainment of which isn't within the viewer's control.
This might get clicks, but I suspect it deviates from your original objective. Might be time for a little self-reflection, Psi.
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Realbadtakes
Hello everyone and welcome back to my tips and tricks to escaping the friendzone okay first you tell her that you can’t be her friend
Step 2 do things to her you wouldn’t do to a friend LOL
Step 3 tell her to get a girl best friend
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Hello everyone and welcome back to my tips and tricks to escaping the friendzone okay first you tell her that you can’t be her friend
Step 2 do things to her you wouldn’t do to a friend LOL
Step 3 tell her to get a girl best friend
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HoshPak
Been there. They gladly took all the affection and gave me every signal that it's going to happen. And when she texted me I love you she would correct herself and add as a friend. I couldn't stay however.
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Been there. They gladly took all the affection and gave me every signal that it's going to happen. And when she texted me I love you she would correct herself and add as a friend. I couldn't stay however.
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psych2go
Or maybe you just leave people loving and feeling their way.
If I don't loke someone I don't.
Don't try to manipulate me, IF it should be more than friendship, it would work out naturally.
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Or maybe you just leave people loving and feeling their way.
If I don't loke someone I don't.
Don't try to manipulate me, IF it should be more than friendship, it would work out naturally.
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nagadioy9859
1. comunicate your feelings clearly 0: 46
2. Show your intention through action 1: 42
3. Give them space and time to decide 2: 52
Goodluck for you all!
I failed
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1. comunicate your feelings clearly 0: 46
2. Show your intention through action 1: 42
3. Give them space and time to decide 2: 52
Goodluck for you all!
I failed
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uanime1
Have these ever worked for anyone They seem to be nothing more than asking the person if they want to be in a relationship and waiting to see if they say yes.
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Have these ever worked for anyone They seem to be nothing more than asking the person if they want to be in a relationship and waiting to see if they say yes.
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nahuelvenerus1382
No way, justo going through exactly that, and today I'll see her, it's like You guys knew today was the day
Thanks you so much for your content!
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No way, justo going through exactly that, and today I'll see her, it's like You guys knew today was the day
Thanks you so much for your content!
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generalursus4682
Guys and girls cannot be just friends. It only leads to complicated situations and problems. I purposely never have female friends because of this.
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Guys and girls cannot be just friends. It only leads to complicated situations and problems. I purposely never have female friends because of this.
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chisaten
I tried resetting this video multiple times, but I was having trouble hearing the narration at various points in this video. Did this happen to anyone else
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I tried resetting this video multiple times, but I was having trouble hearing the narration at various points in this video. Did this happen to anyone else
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