Signs You Are Maturing (Even If You Don't Think So)
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Date: 2024-02-27
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tabithashipley9605
I discuss ideas. I feel like I know a lot about the human mind, so I never tend to jump to conclusions. Instead, I try to figure out what the person was thinking and why. The mind is a very interesting topic for me.
I still struggle with loving myself, but I'm subtly getting better at that, but it'll take time, and I'm okay with that. It'll be worth it in the future. I do know who I am now. I know my personality.
I used to think I was never wrong. It was always everyone else. But now, I acknowledge my mistakes, and strive to not make them again. I've struggled with thinking extremely highly of myself, being entitled and having a god complex, but I know that I'm not the main character in everyone else's stories. Only my own, and that's fine with me.
I have an opinion on everything, but I only show it on things I'm more passionate about, or that relate to me on a personal level. Otherwise, I just scroll and leave it be. But sometimes, I'll admit, I can go off on a rant to either myself or others on a topic I don't know about. And I regret it afterwards. I still have a lot to learn and work on. Nothing time and patience won't hell with.
I give and give, no matter how it affects me. It's something I struggle with greatly, often resulting in myself losing resources I need. But receiving That's hard. My entire life, I've been told I was worthless, would amount to nothing, and didn't deserve anything good. So I struggle with accepting compliments and gifts. This is one of my weakest qualities listed in this video, and I just want to learn how to receive something without feeling like I don't deserve it.
Insecurity goes hand in hand with loving myself, for me. It's something I've struggled with since I was little, and I've found it difficult for me to accept everything. But of course, time and patience are my friends right now.
I've been getting very good at managing my emotions. I feel it, let it happen, but don't let it control me. Now, I'm human, so of course I slip up at times. But that's why I have such forgiving friends, because they know it was a heat of the moment thing, and that I'm trying. All you can do is try. When you're trying as hard as you can to do something, and people tell you to try harder, that irks and invalidates me because I can't try harder if I'm already trying my hardest. And my friend get that.
I love your videos. Thank you so much for giving everyone access to important aspects in psychology. You guys have helped me through more than I'd want to admit. Keep it up, Psych2Go! You're a true G!
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I discuss ideas. I feel like I know a lot about the human mind, so I never tend to jump to conclusions. Instead, I try to figure out what the person was thinking and why. The mind is a very interesting topic for me.
I still struggle with loving myself, but I'm subtly getting better at that, but it'll take time, and I'm okay with that. It'll be worth it in the future. I do know who I am now. I know my personality.
I used to think I was never wrong. It was always everyone else. But now, I acknowledge my mistakes, and strive to not make them again. I've struggled with thinking extremely highly of myself, being entitled and having a god complex, but I know that I'm not the main character in everyone else's stories. Only my own, and that's fine with me.
I have an opinion on everything, but I only show it on things I'm more passionate about, or that relate to me on a personal level. Otherwise, I just scroll and leave it be. But sometimes, I'll admit, I can go off on a rant to either myself or others on a topic I don't know about. And I regret it afterwards. I still have a lot to learn and work on. Nothing time and patience won't hell with.
I give and give, no matter how it affects me. It's something I struggle with greatly, often resulting in myself losing resources I need. But receiving That's hard. My entire life, I've been told I was worthless, would amount to nothing, and didn't deserve anything good. So I struggle with accepting compliments and gifts. This is one of my weakest qualities listed in this video, and I just want to learn how to receive something without feeling like I don't deserve it.
Insecurity goes hand in hand with loving myself, for me. It's something I've struggled with since I was little, and I've found it difficult for me to accept everything. But of course, time and patience are my friends right now.
I've been getting very good at managing my emotions. I feel it, let it happen, but don't let it control me. Now, I'm human, so of course I slip up at times. But that's why I have such forgiving friends, because they know it was a heat of the moment thing, and that I'm trying. All you can do is try. When you're trying as hard as you can to do something, and people tell you to try harder, that irks and invalidates me because I can't try harder if I'm already trying my hardest. And my friend get that.
I love your videos. Thank you so much for giving everyone access to important aspects in psychology. You guys have helped me through more than I'd want to admit. Keep it up, Psych2Go! You're a true G!
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MistyDrop26
Let me be completely honestly with you. I know how to manage my emotions, i cry because i know im strong enough not to hide it. But also manage it and explain why i'm upset in the first place. Even in my age regressed form, i still manage my emotions like a champ. Because whenever i'm pissed, i don't shout at the person i just ignore them as if they don't exist. Age doesn't define maturity, a 40 year old can still act like a toddler and a 8 year old can be extremely mature. It just solely depends on your behaviours, personallity and mindset. So remember this, being mature is a good thing. Emotionally and mentally. Never give up Psych2goers!
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Let me be completely honestly with you. I know how to manage my emotions, i cry because i know im strong enough not to hide it. But also manage it and explain why i'm upset in the first place. Even in my age regressed form, i still manage my emotions like a champ. Because whenever i'm pissed, i don't shout at the person i just ignore them as if they don't exist. Age doesn't define maturity, a 40 year old can still act like a toddler and a 8 year old can be extremely mature. It just solely depends on your behaviours, personallity and mindset. So remember this, being mature is a good thing. Emotionally and mentally. Never give up Psych2goers!
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thelmaotiono3999
Honestly, I have to say thanks for the video. I've been looking for this for some days now. Some kind of video or metric that can show me if I'm really doing this maturity thing well I loved the description for point number 3 (taking responsibility) because I struggle with this so much, I can't tell who's wrong or who should be validated me or the person who offended my feelings Also the last point about emotions. I don't know if I'm controlling or managing them but I do know that I process them so much sometimes even grieve them and people always make me feel weak for being too sensitive. but thanks for the video
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Honestly, I have to say thanks for the video. I've been looking for this for some days now. Some kind of video or metric that can show me if I'm really doing this maturity thing well I loved the description for point number 3 (taking responsibility) because I struggle with this so much, I can't tell who's wrong or who should be validated me or the person who offended my feelings Also the last point about emotions. I don't know if I'm controlling or managing them but I do know that I process them so much sometimes even grieve them and people always make me feel weak for being too sensitive. but thanks for the video
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Bluebirdie442
the only one Im good at currently is discussing ideas not people
Im trying to get better at loving myself, managing my emotions, understanding that not everything requires my opinion, giving and receiving gifts graciously, and knowing when I am responsible for something
and as someone who gets anxious pretty easily, Im also trying to stop catestrophizing (idk how to spell that) bcs really theres no point worrying over something that isnt worth it
I think all of those combined will not only help make me more mature, but also more confident and happy w myself
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the only one Im good at currently is discussing ideas not people
Im trying to get better at loving myself, managing my emotions, understanding that not everything requires my opinion, giving and receiving gifts graciously, and knowing when I am responsible for something
and as someone who gets anxious pretty easily, Im also trying to stop catestrophizing (idk how to spell that) bcs really theres no point worrying over something that isnt worth it
I think all of those combined will not only help make me more mature, but also more confident and happy w myself
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tararosabelle7368
It took me years, but I finally learned somewhat about number 7, number 6 I’m still trying to work on. Don’t worry everyone, if you think you’re not mature, just know no one starts there and it’s a part of your life journey you can do it eventually if you believe in yourself enough, and even if you make mistakes, everyone does it’s no problem! Continuing to believe and maybe slight steps that may seem meaningless, is actually incredibly meaningful. It might not seem that way at the moment but you’ll look back at it that way in the long term.
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It took me years, but I finally learned somewhat about number 7, number 6 I’m still trying to work on. Don’t worry everyone, if you think you’re not mature, just know no one starts there and it’s a part of your life journey you can do it eventually if you believe in yourself enough, and even if you make mistakes, everyone does it’s no problem! Continuing to believe and maybe slight steps that may seem meaningless, is actually incredibly meaningful. It might not seem that way at the moment but you’ll look back at it that way in the long term.
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zoy8779
what I really got it that mature people who are accepted for themselves and dared to say no when they mean it and help others when they can. and the most important thing when they discuss something with people they seek to learn from them and know well earn Friend is better than earn situations. additional for that no one is perfect so no need to blame yourself or others about mistakes just forget and focus to learn from your mistakes and other's mistakes too keep going towards a better life with mindfully focusing living the moment
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what I really got it that mature people who are accepted for themselves and dared to say no when they mean it and help others when they can. and the most important thing when they discuss something with people they seek to learn from them and know well earn Friend is better than earn situations. additional for that no one is perfect so no need to blame yourself or others about mistakes just forget and focus to learn from your mistakes and other's mistakes too keep going towards a better life with mindfully focusing living the moment
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OrionJZed
I’ve always been mature for my age (apparently, yet it’s also one of the main contributing factors to my being treated as a mini-adult in my preteens, meaning very little room for getting to be a kid.
It’s like I was only permitted to indulge my inner child during what little free time I had, which has had a detrimental effect on my wellbeing and social life as a full adult, leaving me lacking in direction, purpose, and vital interpersonal connections - among other things - for _way_ too long.
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I’ve always been mature for my age (apparently, yet it’s also one of the main contributing factors to my being treated as a mini-adult in my preteens, meaning very little room for getting to be a kid.
It’s like I was only permitted to indulge my inner child during what little free time I had, which has had a detrimental effect on my wellbeing and social life as a full adult, leaving me lacking in direction, purpose, and vital interpersonal connections - among other things - for _way_ too long.
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mehek44
So the signs that you are maturing:
1. You discuss ideas, not people.
2. As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
3. You take responsibility for your stuff.
4. You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
5. You know how to give and also how to receive.
6. You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is always wrong
7. You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
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So the signs that you are maturing:
1. You discuss ideas, not people.
2. As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
3. You take responsibility for your stuff.
4. You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
5. You know how to give and also how to receive.
6. You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is always wrong
7. You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
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agneselvin1537
0: 26 You discuss ideas not people
1: 11 As much as you love everyone else you also love yourself
2: 37 You understand that not everything requires your opinion
1: 53 You take responsibility for your stuff
3: 19 You know give and also how to receive
4: 11 You quite the voice in your head that insist that something I always Wrong
5: 09 You Manage you emotions instead of being getting controlled by them
THANk MeLater
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0: 26 You discuss ideas not people
1: 11 As much as you love everyone else you also love yourself
2: 37 You understand that not everything requires your opinion
1: 53 You take responsibility for your stuff
3: 19 You know give and also how to receive
4: 11 You quite the voice in your head that insist that something I always Wrong
5: 09 You Manage you emotions instead of being getting controlled by them
THANk MeLater
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psych2go
1. 0: 22 you discuss ideas, not people
2. 1: 06 you love yourself as much as you love others
3. 1: 05 you take responsibility for your stuff
4. 2: 33 you understand not everything requires your opinion
5: 3: 15 you know how to give and also how to receive
6. 4: 09 you quite the voice in your head that insist that something is always wrong
7. 5: 14 you manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
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1. 0: 22 you discuss ideas, not people
2. 1: 06 you love yourself as much as you love others
3. 1: 05 you take responsibility for your stuff
4. 2: 33 you understand not everything requires your opinion
5: 3: 15 you know how to give and also how to receive
6. 4: 09 you quite the voice in your head that insist that something is always wrong
7. 5: 14 you manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
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psych2go
0: 22 You discuss ideas.
1: 06 As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
1: 50 you take responsibility for your stuff.
2: 33 You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
3: 15 You know how to give and also how to receive.
4: 06 You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is wrong.
5: 13 You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them.
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0: 22 You discuss ideas.
1: 06 As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
1: 50 you take responsibility for your stuff.
2: 33 You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
3: 15 You know how to give and also how to receive.
4: 06 You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is wrong.
5: 13 You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them.
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inescosta2671
5: 01 How can i diminish that insecurity if i am autistic and shy and don't understand the underlines
I was diagnosed with anxiety (it is more like social anxiety rn) as a child and i have that vouce teeling me my insecurities and, even though i learned a lot about how ppl think by some ppl who are and were in my close circle, i am not able to control that voice bc i barely understand the underspeech of ppl.
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5: 01 How can i diminish that insecurity if i am autistic and shy and don't understand the underlines
I was diagnosed with anxiety (it is more like social anxiety rn) as a child and i have that vouce teeling me my insecurities and, even though i learned a lot about how ppl think by some ppl who are and were in my close circle, i am not able to control that voice bc i barely understand the underspeech of ppl.
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Tanaka-kun9313
You know these points if fact resonate with me since back then I used to have a problem with controlling my anger since I was bullied before and at times made fun of. But over the year's I have learnt to stop caring as much as to what people thought about me and just started focusing more on myself and growth as a person. So if anything I have learnt to control my anger even when people try to provoc me.
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You know these points if fact resonate with me since back then I used to have a problem with controlling my anger since I was bullied before and at times made fun of. But over the year's I have learnt to stop caring as much as to what people thought about me and just started focusing more on myself and growth as a person. So if anything I have learnt to control my anger even when people try to provoc me.
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usubenidango
It really bothers me that in some cultures, even if someone is only 1 year older than you, they act as if they immediately know more than you and you should always obey them, as if age has anything to do with maturity. I know most of these knowledges comes with time, so it's easy to associate age with maturity, but i wish people understood that more older doesn't always equal more mature.
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It really bothers me that in some cultures, even if someone is only 1 year older than you, they act as if they immediately know more than you and you should always obey them, as if age has anything to do with maturity. I know most of these knowledges comes with time, so it's easy to associate age with maturity, but i wish people understood that more older doesn't always equal more mature.
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Tonya-jg9eb
I absolutely love the lady's voice in all the videos it's so calming & gentle to be able to listen recieve & understand & her tone of voice is PERFECT it's not patronizing critical or judgemental or harsh ( i hope she knows all this as it's important for people so they can learn) please don't change it! Love from Australia
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I absolutely love the lady's voice in all the videos it's so calming & gentle to be able to listen recieve & understand & her tone of voice is PERFECT it's not patronizing critical or judgemental or harsh ( i hope she knows all this as it's important for people so they can learn) please don't change it! Love from Australia
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user-HellcatHemi
This is what we're lacking anymore for more than not pple have little to no maturity, especially emotionally & it's used as shit's done to elect an EMOTIONAL reaction which doesn't behoove anybody except the pple causing it & that's NOT w America 1st or the citizen's best interest in mind.
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This is what we're lacking anymore for more than not pple have little to no maturity, especially emotionally & it's used as shit's done to elect an EMOTIONAL reaction which doesn't behoove anybody except the pple causing it & that's NOT w America 1st or the citizen's best interest in mind.
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psych2go
Just because I know how to acknowledge my emotions, regulate decisive behaviour and rationally moderate coherent responses to everyday situations, it doesn't mean I won't stop skipping around my flat, squeaking at my cat and making crazy noises when I get home.
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Just because I know how to acknowledge my emotions, regulate decisive behaviour and rationally moderate coherent responses to everyday situations, it doesn't mean I won't stop skipping around my flat, squeaking at my cat and making crazy noises when I get home.
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QuantumPrecision
Controlling my emotions didn’t go well for me the first time. As a kid I was forced to grow up too quickly to get my anger issues in check and it caused me to lose my emotions all together. Trying to not lose them this time.
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Controlling my emotions didn’t go well for me the first time. As a kid I was forced to grow up too quickly to get my anger issues in check and it caused me to lose my emotions all together. Trying to not lose them this time.
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JackCry. 420
remember, if you don't have some of these points; it doesn't mean you're not maturing
it just means you now have a chance to now
as for me, I only have half of them, and all I thought was
wow, I'm growing; that's good
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remember, if you don't have some of these points; it doesn't mean you're not maturing
it just means you now have a chance to now
as for me, I only have half of them, and all I thought was
wow, I'm growing; that's good
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