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Signs Someone Dislike You, Even If You Don’t Think So

Signs Someone Dislike You, Even If You Don’t Think So

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Do you suspect someone may secretly dislike you It's hard to tell when they are hating you in secret because they may try their best to act like they don't hate you. When pure instincts fail us, it’s time we use our knowledge in Psychology and examine the universal language that is - body language. To help you answer that question, we've made this video to discuss the signs someone may secretly dislike you! For my friend its not that I don't like him, its when he gets sappy I don't know how to respond or understand how or why he sensitive about a topic
I have the opposite about being too insensitive about topics so working with sensitivity is challenging
Like he cried over the Columbia space incident one day and I didn't know how to console him properly, because it seemed so insignificant, but I care about him and so I sucked conveying it to him with a consoling pat

Date: 2024-02-23

Comments and reviews: 19


Every time I have a crush, I get really shy, which is normal right Well, when I get nervous around my crush I try to counteract it by acting nonchalant around them. I think this has lead to me actively ignoring them and being unfriendly to them. I’ve only realized this recently. And as soon as I did, my crush started ignoring me in the same kind of way. Now, I’m trying to recover. I didn’t think of it, but we were kind of friends but I was just shying and pushing away from it, I was just scared.
Please learn from this, if you’re shy around your crush, just be their friend. It’s ok to be nonchalant with them, but remember to be their friend. That’s what relationships are built on; how well you get along and like each other. So if you like them, show it, but don’t be too obvious, like just be chill. If they act friendly back, great. They might like you back or at least want to be your friend.

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I usually do these to show someone I’m uncomfortable around them, or does not like what they do. Cause Y’know. feels rude to say it to their face, especially if you know they’re the type to start crying, telling everyone you hate them, play 100% victim, it’s- really annoying. For example, if someone continuously sneaks up to me, drags me around, does a lot of physical touch, or make themselves seem superior compared to me, I may throw in one or two signs to tell them to stop. Usually, I’m more silent around them, with a more shy personality(replying to questions/statements with a few words, trying to leave their side whenever I have the chance, etc) I know most people watching this wants to know if someone dislikes them, and may hate people who show these signs, but uh, just sayin.
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Yes this is insulting. First, no one has the power to do that. Secondly, I discover immediately who is one of my true friends. And secretly harboured Ill feelings don’t affect me at all. I choose my friends: )
My friends know that one sided conversations don’t work with me. I don’t give attention just to give off attention. And be sure I can feel if there is inadequacy involved. So, in conclusion, I cannot have fake friends and if I catch in bad gossip, be sure this friend is excluded immediately. Same with backhanded compliments & arrogance. Either you participate or not. Nothing in between: )

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yeah i think I'm having a falling out with my friend group and it sucks. The people who I hung out with for years who know my hobbies and interests are the same as theirs not inviting me to things when I said I want to do stuff with them and they do stuff anyways without me. I don't even know why, but i've been delegated to spectator for things these days and it freakin sucks. I just want to confront the issue and if its clear i can't make amends meet i might as well leave then.
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Here's the full video! We had to reupload to include the rest of the points. The previous video was cut off and didn't have the full information. Comment below and share your experience if you ever sense someone dislike you and why do you think so Friendly reminder, it's ok to be disliked by others. Everyone have different perspective on who they like as friends. It's ok not to be liked by everyone but most importantly surrounded yourself with people who like you: )
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Here's the full video! We had to reupload to include the rest of the points. The previous video was cut off and didn't have the full information. Comment below and share your experience if you ever sense someone dislike you and why do you think so Friendly reminder, it's ok to be disliked by others. Everyone have different perspective on who they like as friends. It's ok not to be liked by everyone but most importantly surrounded yourself with people who like you: )
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I mean most of the reasons you provided may be true but. there's kinda situations where people have different interactions with each person depending on uncertain mutual things that developes uniquely with each person and doesn't necessary mean they hold something against other people. and for instances if someone dislike other someone it's just because there's a lack of mutual interests or other personal reasons(not on a personal level for the other people)
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Okay. Body language doesn't hold the same meaning across populations or cultures. And what about neurodiverse people What about people with social anxiety What about projecting insecurities Body language is not a good way to tell unless it is glaringly obvious, and instead of making assumptions, just ask. Their response will be more than enough of a clue. Everyone is different, and we shouldn't make assumptions.
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I guess my coworkers like me, they sometimes give me food and hand-me-down clothes. One time, one of them bought me a new pair of shoes because I happened to mention it was getting to be about time to get new shoes. It doesn't hurt as bad that other people might not like me, but then I'm not the most social guy around and don't really want to be around people when off work.
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It was when my high school friend circle came and picked up my friend across the street for a social outing and never invited me (who was interacting daily with them at school) that I realized they didn't consider me a friend and that one moment has stuck with me most of all my memories of school.
And why I've never tried to interact with any of them since graduating.

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I'm a male, and I do act more polite around women, especially at work. I do the same thing with male who act polite and friendly, but it doesn't mean I dislike them.
I enjoy my time the most with someone who I can just talk with without having to fear of being misunderstood. Just casually throwing insults at each other and laughing about it.

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Timestamps
1. Make you wonder 0: 54
2. Non-verbal language 1: 24
3. Act differently 2: 04
4. Back-handed compliments 2: 53
5. Self-absorbed conversations 3: 26
6. Social exclusion 3: 59
7. Missed calls or left on read 4: 27
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. I love hearing your voice Drew Baillie.

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Tbh I never know even with signs of someone likes me or if they show those signs. I live and grown up in CA and a lot of people don’t have real openess of emotion or how they feel unless they r close to someone, so honestly I’m not sure if my friends or coworkers like m it’s tough to understand other people let alone myself
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the social exclusion hits hard for me because one of my friend groups would plan hangouts without me and they would only include me in plans if i reach out to them they would make excuses saying that they only met up because they all happened to be free at that very moment but this was an ongoing thing: /
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Also learn that sometimes if you are the butt of every joke and get the Meg Griffin treatment know that the people who engage in that don't like you
Conversely, if someone checks in on you and invites you to a lot of things but not everything doesn't mean they don't like you

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People hate me cause I’m being too real & genuine while they’re being fake, they said 1 but did 2 most of the time, I don’t give af anymore if they hate my guts or whatever the more I grown up. Just Be Yourself, you don’t have to be friends & try to fit in with everyone
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It’s not uncommon for me to come across individuals who displayed politeness, but there’s this feeling that their friendliness was more of a facade than an authentic interest. It just seems they’re following social norms than they truly want to connect with me.
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If I notice that a person dislikes me, I just do what I can to avoid them myself as much as possible. I wont even bother talking to them as to why they dislike me. Waste of time.
As soon as I notice that a person dislikes me. I walk away. Plain and simple.

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I'd like to point out that I'm autistic and I fidget, cross my legs and arms, and don't make eye contact a lot. These are very good points, but in neurodivergent people things can be a little different, especially if we don't operate on these same social cues
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