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How To Be Attractive Based on Your Personality Type

How To Be Attractive Based on Your Personality Type

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Discover the secrets to becoming irresistibly attractive based on your MBTI personality type! In this captivating video, we delve deep into the fascinating world of the 16 personality types and share valuable insights on enhancing your charm and magnetism. Whether you're an introvert, extrovert, thinker, feeler, or anything in between, this comprehensive guide will empower you to embrace your individuality and project an alluring presence. We also made a video on Your Most Attractive Trait Based On Your Personality Type
Date: 2023-08-20

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Ayy, all of my homies love Bunny. (INFP-T, 9w1, Aries)
Omg May delete social media, withdraw into their inner sacred space DAMMIT. WHY
Try to explore the world more frequently oh no, this is true, but one thing:
INFP are inherently good at trailblazing, and often do this by themselves, which can be worrisome for family members and friends who will often ask where they are and get some crazy answer like Japan or something. We are unusually good at finding our barring in uncharted territories due to our keep observation abilities.
The key thing I would say to INFPs looking for romance is to be careful. There is a reason we are among the most lonely personality type.
We are sensitive sponges that absorb emotions both negative and positive. When we retreat, we are looking for neutrality and equalibrium. This is a necessary trait, whether you live with good or bad influences.
In terms of a relationship, the key is not to look for one, but to put yourself out there, that a relationship might find you. INFPs want partners that reach out to them initially, proving their interest, which is one of the few tangible control methods INFPs have. It's also our way of determining that a relationship is mutual and not forced. Laughter, common ground, identical interests, that sort of thing.
Inexperienced INFPs may rush into relationships for bad reasons. They will learn the hard way that they have particular needs and will struggle to find one who can accomidate them fully without trying to change them. A bad enough relationship can end up one-sided with the INFP being taken advantage the most.
For a lasting relationship, find a partner who will give you attention, recognition, praise, and validation. This can be a little or a lot depending on your personality profile.
INFPs tend to gravitate toward extroverted partners, which is where travel comes into play. We very rarely meet our partners at work. Only during fun. Definitely look for a drinking buddy with an intellectual mind. Thats the sweet spot. Alternatively, find someone who is compassionate and willing to carry out the majority of work. Not that INFPs are lazy, but our energy tends to fluctuate, which can mean extended periods of downtime, even during exciting events and activities. Never ask an INFP to commit to something for too long. Even marraige. We can easily move out one moment, and then move back in the next.
Don't get it twisted. We greatly value the trust of our significant other, and aren't typically capable of cheating on our spouse. They would have to be terrible people if an INFP would want to cheat on them. This would likely be a more impulse-oriented approach, and one that leads to remorse. We are definitely committed to our spouse and even having children, but not practical things like money or stable living, outside the bare necessities.
Commitments like owning a home just doesnt work unless the INFP is older and willing to settle down. INFPs are late bloomers, developing later, but ultimately, wiser. They also tend to value healthy living, so longevity is normal for an INFP.
In the meantime, we can shapeshift to suit our partner's needs, especially with their help and support. We are sensitive sponges after all. We liken to becoming the interest of our significant others. Even interests we aren't necessarily experienced or talented in. If it's fun and exciting, we may just go for it anyway. We may even be good at it. What matters is having support through it all, to keep us out of our heads.
In summation, we tend to go for more active, adventurous people early on, and with age, we are more likely to settle down more. A lot of age, though. We need compassionate partners, but admire and respect abraisive partners who can convey common sense without sounding patronizing.
We are malleable, so we can date many types of people. We do, however, have a type, and finding this type is crucial. We have needs. We usually don't overstep our boundaries, but if you must, don't feel bad if it doesn't go how you imagined in your head. INFPs can approach others, but make sure whoever you decide to stay with has you as their interest at heart. You, as a person. That will be your soulmate.
Okay, several things.

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Im an INFJ and I definitely get the chameleon behavior. It has been helpful for me in my professional life as the intuitive part of me can easily read people and then shift to being someone who complements them best (comes from reading the behaviors of other people and notice patterns/ seeing what works. However in personal relationships it has made me feel incredibly misunderstood and an outsider. I jumper between a lot of friend groups growing up, changing to fit in with them and feeling incredibly drained because I felt like I was loosing myself in people who didnt understand me, because I never felt safe or secure enough to show them my real self. I didnt find my true friends until senior year of highschool and even then, it took a while for me to completely open up. What happened was that the person I was around them was someone I really enjoyed. I could be loud and silly without fear of rejection and so it let me open up. To my fellow INFJd out there, I know it can be hard to open up bc we understand that the only place our true selves will be 100% safe at the end of the day is in our minds, however I think the key is being around people who allow you to transform into your ideal/dream self that you mightve felt judged for. More often than not your ideal self is a mirror into your true self and will allow you to open up to people more in a way that makes you feel secure!
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This is gonna be kinda lengthyplease read to your liking:
INFJ and INFP related to me the most. I can count my true friends on one hand. However even though I am an introvert, I can be social and adapt to different environments and new people. Its like I become a different person to different people: the shy guy, the extrovert, the comedian, the chill dude. However sometimes, as mentioned, I feel fake because I switch my identity to fit in. It feels like my friends only seem to know whats close to the real me, the authentic ME. That makes me feel vulnerable and thats scary. So I unintentionally shut them out at times by not responding to messages or calls. Also, I feel as if I would struggle in a relationship, not just because I cant be vulnerable but also the belief that I cant stay grounded with one strong identity. One girl rejected me for trying to be mysterious and another rejected me for trying to be sweet. Even down to the way I dress, it has no identity. Ive been trying to figure out how to find my true authentic self and how to express it. Its way harder than I thought.

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For INFJs i think it's hard for others to understand that we don't really have a great connection to our true self (whatever that means.
This is mostly because being adaptive IS our true self, but I also agree that _If_ an INFJ finds themselves not agreeing with a situation, they shouldn't go along with it just because others want them to.
Standing up for yourself or just saying no when you genuinely don't want to do something, is the quickest way to earn self respect; and I know, as that was a struggle for me before.
Basically treat yourself like someone you're responsible in caring for: if your social energy is low, you can just say sorry, i need to recharge, and your true friends will respect that.
Plus, like this video said, if you can figure out your likes, dislike and values you stand for - and can stand for those values even in the face of resistance - you will be seen as attractive to others.
Whether they agree or not, a person being able to stand for something is generally more attractive than someone who falls for everything.

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I'm an INTP and I usually am not interested in being the centre of attention. Besides, I'm a Sagittarius too, so that adds on to me wanting my freedom out of restricted environments where I can't be me.
However, I've always been an empath towards those who have different opinions and ideas. I wouldn't call others of lower intellect, but of different intellect. I enjoy someone who can challenge me, because then I get to brainstorm points to prove my own point, or learn something new and accept it.
But I suppose there are people who do consider others of lower intellect, but that majorly comes out of others not being able to keep pace with our concepts. It usually is an outcome of us having everything intricately thought-out and often expect others to do the same, but oftentimes we have to explain everything, which agreeably is a little irritating.

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I am INTJ, and i usually don't comment on videos but i think this needs to be said.
I can confirm that INTJ is the most isolated mbti type when it comes to love, as we do not use our feelings with friends lover crush. but rather our mind and strategies to approach them, which is very bad because i know some infp friends that tend to show their true feelings through words, and they manage to heal people from all their problems, which intjs cant do. So if our friends are sad, dealing with problems, family issues or anything else, we have a hard time to heal people, which can cause a lot of problems in our relationship. Unlike INFPs, they have the ability to heal people, this is why i always go to my Infp friends if im feeling a bit not okay so thanks to them

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Character references in this episode:
0: 00 - (Power Puff Girls)
0: 31 - ENTJ (Jesse from Pokemon)
1: 26 - INTJ (Sasuke from Naruto)
2: 14 - ESTP (Vanellope from Wreck-it Ralph)
3: 12 - ISTP (Not sure someone help pls?
4: 12 - ESFP (Luffy from One Piece)
5: 05 - ISFP (Stan from South Park)
6: 00 - ESTJ (Hermione from Harry Potter)
6: 51 - ISTJ (Leon from Resident Evil)
7: 43 - ESFJ (Ming from Turning Red)
8: 33 - ISFJ (Luisa from Encanto)
9: 21 - ENFJ (Tanjiro from Demon Slayer)
10: 17 - INFJ (Loki from Marvel)
11: 04 - ENTP (Hange from Attack on Titan)
11: 55 - INTP (Robin from One Piece)
12: 51 - ENFP (Rapunzel from Tangled)
13: 33 - INFP (Butters from South Park)
will probably update this later

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Im an INFJ and had been having a trouble with creating relationships. I see others having their own set of values and boundaries which perhaps is the reason they make genuine friends. Whenever I ask myself what are my values and how I should keep my boundaries, the only answer I can find is that I value creating relationships, which leads me to mimicking others' set of values and their boundaries towards different situations. Others also value relationships, we're not so different in that part. But I really cant understand how to appear genuine, my genuine self, not a genuine-like image based on a small group of friends.
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Love how this is linked to South Park! Makes it more relatable in a way because each character has their own distinct personality. For INFP, I'm not sure how being on social media makes you more attractive. It's actually healthy to not be on it all the time. Not sure how being more out in public rather than shut up at home makes you more attractive either. When you don't like being out in public with how draining it is, you're miserable. How does being miserable make you attractive?
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Attractiveness tips for all personality traits: 1) Stand up straight and look ahead; 2) look people in the eye frequently when talking with them; 3) maintain a positive look on your face, with the occasional hunt of a smile; 4) be respectful and courteous to everyone, at all social levels; 5) be aware of the people who make you feel good and tell them so every now and then. Bonus attractiveness tip: be well groomed and always wear neat, clean clothes when out in public.
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You know I keep hearing the same same about being yourself and that will attract others but it seems like some nonsense. Being myself mostly consist of being alone at my house chillin and when Im out dont feel like talking to anyone to the point of being considered scary. Who you know is gonna be attracted to that and then ask yourself if that really is some good advice?
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As an INFJ who has literally been bullied and judged for being too different my entire life, I decided to withdraw from all my fake friend groups and go it alone. It was hard, and YES I STILL TALK TO PEOPLE, but I've learned that the worst thing you can do as an introvert is try to be an extrovert. Now I'm somewhat. admired for not caring what people think?
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in all these tests i always got more results like INTJ and indeed i feel like your description.
it's hard to understand people and why each person acts the way they do.
in relationships
I always treat my partner as a friend and not a boyfriend or girlfriend it's complicated: / hurting the one you love without knowing what you're doing wrong.

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As a long time infj, i found that in work, I end up acting the exact same way that you said in the video.
To make myself more sociable i change the way i talk just about enough to have some relateability but still stay true to myself.
Edit: I; m an ENTJ-A now. My quest to take more action in things is taking effect!

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As an INFJ i do sometimes see that im actually being doubtful about my own self of the people around me, sometimes i feel like im not authentic about myself even when i do, I'm more blunt. I'm social outside but when i go home, i become cold and don't talk to anyone. Like recharging but most of it actually just my own self
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As an INTP with Autism I have been learning how to be more attentive to others and try to understand how they're feeling but it's been something I've had to learn and doesn't come to me naturally. I've gotten really good at it though. My friends and family tell me I've improved a lot as a person.
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I just got called out by the INFJ one. My friend texted me one time asking me why I was different when I was alone with him versus with my whole friend group. I just told him that I didn't really know why I did it, but that I just did. I did the MBTI test and I got INFP-T, so Idk.
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Im now almost positive that Im an INFJ because my brain thoughts change around different people like my one friend I act really sus when Im around him and some of my others I act calm quiet and shy it can also depend on the topic of conversation
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You guys just won with the beginning with the power puff girls. I loved that show when I was a kid x3
And yea. so true to be seen as fake when we are not. A big feature of INFJ. I know from my own experience as INFJ;

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I am an ENFJ-A, and I deeply appreciate the reference and lil cute drawing animation of Tanjiro representing an ENFJ; .; that's so sweet & cute, plus my sister even tells me that I remind her of Tanjiro -
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Hey Psych2go, I really love all of your videos they are really informative, But I would suggest that please include subtitles in all of your videos as it is becomes more easy to understand, Thankyou.
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This isn't about making them more attractive. Maybe it's about being better balanced or more likeable.
A video about being more attractive would be about improving health, dressing better etc.

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I have autism and I don't even know my personality myself. I'm 25 and I'm still figuring myself out. I might never get a girlfriend. Oh well, what can I do about it? Nothing simply!
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All this time I thought those personality traits were because I was Autistic. I didn't know that was just who I am. But having Autism on top of that doesn't help.
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Its weird, im a INFJ and yes i do, do what you said but its weird because i act like a few other persanaltys but its possible its just due to my anxiety
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