How Your Brain Falls In Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Amberly_Dash
Ive got 2 stories
A boy I had a crush on confessed his feelings to me and bought me a bracelet, but I found it annoying that he told ALL of my friends he was going to ask me out, and all of my friends TOLD ME that he was going to ask me out. It spoiled the surprise! >: (
When he asked me out everyone was watching me and waiting for me to answer him, I was so scared and embarrassed I felt like I wanted to cry! But I accepted him and we dated for about a week or so. He would always message me and was super clingy, if he found out a boy was getting close to me he would prohibit me from seeing that boy. I got so fed up from all the clinging that I just broke up with him.
2nd story:
There is this boy I used to ALWAYS play with when I was younger, he was about a year older than me and I really liked him! He genuinely was my crush.
But a couple of days ago he asked me to be his gf and I of course accepted. He isnt clingy like my ex but for some reason I dont have feelings for him anymore: (
My feelings just went poof
Im confused, scared and I feel guilty!
I dont know what to do! Since the day Ive lost my feelings for him I just kept playing along as if I still like him.
Can someone tell me what I should do?
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Ive got 2 stories
A boy I had a crush on confessed his feelings to me and bought me a bracelet, but I found it annoying that he told ALL of my friends he was going to ask me out, and all of my friends TOLD ME that he was going to ask me out. It spoiled the surprise! >: (
When he asked me out everyone was watching me and waiting for me to answer him, I was so scared and embarrassed I felt like I wanted to cry! But I accepted him and we dated for about a week or so. He would always message me and was super clingy, if he found out a boy was getting close to me he would prohibit me from seeing that boy. I got so fed up from all the clinging that I just broke up with him.
2nd story:
There is this boy I used to ALWAYS play with when I was younger, he was about a year older than me and I really liked him! He genuinely was my crush.
But a couple of days ago he asked me to be his gf and I of course accepted. He isnt clingy like my ex but for some reason I dont have feelings for him anymore: (
My feelings just went poof
Im confused, scared and I feel guilty!
I dont know what to do! Since the day Ive lost my feelings for him I just kept playing along as if I still like him.
Can someone tell me what I should do?
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Canabereal
I was always afraid of love growing up. I craved it all my life but the moment someone showed some interest I was completely frozen in terror, even when I started going on dating apps and dates The question ''What are you looking for'' was something I could never answer and I just pushed them away. But this year I met a wonderful amazing girl that destroyed all those walls in an instant. Even before we met for our first date I had the feeling that was the one who would make me not afraid of love. Everytime I think about that I find it so weird because we had barely talked before it but instead of being nervous and thinking it probably won't work out like the people I went on dates with, I was excited. And after our first date, OMG she was on my mind all. of. the. time. I had to wait a whole week before I could see her again because she was very busy, it was the longest week of my life. Everytime we see each other I'm already excited for the next time, I've never felt this way and it is very scary but so exhilarating
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I was always afraid of love growing up. I craved it all my life but the moment someone showed some interest I was completely frozen in terror, even when I started going on dating apps and dates The question ''What are you looking for'' was something I could never answer and I just pushed them away. But this year I met a wonderful amazing girl that destroyed all those walls in an instant. Even before we met for our first date I had the feeling that was the one who would make me not afraid of love. Everytime I think about that I find it so weird because we had barely talked before it but instead of being nervous and thinking it probably won't work out like the people I went on dates with, I was excited. And after our first date, OMG she was on my mind all. of. the. time. I had to wait a whole week before I could see her again because she was very busy, it was the longest week of my life. Everytime we see each other I'm already excited for the next time, I've never felt this way and it is very scary but so exhilarating
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Kanie
Someone a while back told me that when you're truly in love, you'll want to be hitting the gym every day. It didn't make sense to me until I was in my first healthy relationship now. I have currently kept up with all of my short and long term fitness goals and surpassed them during this relationship bc I'm so happy and I want to do my best for me and my partner. Even ran my first marathon earlier this year.
So basically, when youre with the right person, you'll be more motivated to pursue your dreams and passions bc of the love and support created between yall.
I will say though, all relationships are work. My partner challenges me in a loving way and that helps me grow. I was also in therapy for 2 years working on myself and through past abusive relationship trauma as well.
True love is beautiful and worth it.
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Someone a while back told me that when you're truly in love, you'll want to be hitting the gym every day. It didn't make sense to me until I was in my first healthy relationship now. I have currently kept up with all of my short and long term fitness goals and surpassed them during this relationship bc I'm so happy and I want to do my best for me and my partner. Even ran my first marathon earlier this year.
So basically, when youre with the right person, you'll be more motivated to pursue your dreams and passions bc of the love and support created between yall.
I will say though, all relationships are work. My partner challenges me in a loving way and that helps me grow. I was also in therapy for 2 years working on myself and through past abusive relationship trauma as well.
True love is beautiful and worth it.
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catta
I dont think i have ever experienced real love. The only times i have had a crush on someone is on a fictional character. I may have thought a few classmates or random people were cute but i have never had a real crush. I usually have crushes on fictional characters, because i feel like i like their personalities more than humans, or i find them attractive. But maybe its because I dont have many friends, and i dont meet other people other than my classmates in school. I have about maybe 7 friends, and a few old friends from a few years ago, but i am not in contact or close with, so i dont think they are really friends. Maybe i dont have human crushes because im introverted and dont know other people.
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I dont think i have ever experienced real love. The only times i have had a crush on someone is on a fictional character. I may have thought a few classmates or random people were cute but i have never had a real crush. I usually have crushes on fictional characters, because i feel like i like their personalities more than humans, or i find them attractive. But maybe its because I dont have many friends, and i dont meet other people other than my classmates in school. I have about maybe 7 friends, and a few old friends from a few years ago, but i am not in contact or close with, so i dont think they are really friends. Maybe i dont have human crushes because im introverted and dont know other people.
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dxm_bitch
Okay but, can you do a video on how to learn to trust ur partner again, like for an example I've dated a bunch and I constantly got cheated on now I feel like I trust but then the second he gets around someone he's dated but are still friends with or just around girls in general I get a feeling that idk what it is at times it can be pure anger, sadness, numbness, or just straight up doubt that the relationship will last even as much how badly I wanna keep it good but I just feel like there's a high chance of him meeting someone and liking them more then leaving me. What should I do?
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Okay but, can you do a video on how to learn to trust ur partner again, like for an example I've dated a bunch and I constantly got cheated on now I feel like I trust but then the second he gets around someone he's dated but are still friends with or just around girls in general I get a feeling that idk what it is at times it can be pure anger, sadness, numbness, or just straight up doubt that the relationship will last even as much how badly I wanna keep it good but I just feel like there's a high chance of him meeting someone and liking them more then leaving me. What should I do?
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Non-existent
I may or may not have fallen in love with someone I only wanted to be friends with at first cuz they're a grest person but I never got to because social anxiety and I didn't wanna bother them and I think I ended up thinking I love them
Cuz it's like yeah I wanna spend time with them but it's more like platonic not as in friendship but as in not yearning for kissing and stuff being close like that
It's still confusing me
It's like. I don't LOVE them but I love them
Why does there have to be different types of love?
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I may or may not have fallen in love with someone I only wanted to be friends with at first cuz they're a grest person but I never got to because social anxiety and I didn't wanna bother them and I think I ended up thinking I love them
Cuz it's like yeah I wanna spend time with them but it's more like platonic not as in friendship but as in not yearning for kissing and stuff being close like that
It's still confusing me
It's like. I don't LOVE them but I love them
Why does there have to be different types of love?
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spiderlime
falling in love is a situation in which we impose oiur preceptions on someone else, regardless of the actual nature of that person and his or her true character. true love which often relies on the time needed for a deeper acquaintance, takes into account the true character of the other, his or her needs and the differences between us. sometimes not only are these differences that can't be bridged, but they shouldn't, since it is either we who would do harm to the other, or they to us.
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falling in love is a situation in which we impose oiur preceptions on someone else, regardless of the actual nature of that person and his or her true character. true love which often relies on the time needed for a deeper acquaintance, takes into account the true character of the other, his or her needs and the differences between us. sometimes not only are these differences that can't be bridged, but they shouldn't, since it is either we who would do harm to the other, or they to us.
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Bater
I am currently in that point in my life, when I'm stuck between two concepts of love: the first one considers love to be just some mix of chemicals that make our brain high. I know it's brutal and kinda wrong, but the second concept is the exact opposite - love is something even science can't explain. I know it's weird, but I do be like that recently
(Also, sorry for my bad English)
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I am currently in that point in my life, when I'm stuck between two concepts of love: the first one considers love to be just some mix of chemicals that make our brain high. I know it's brutal and kinda wrong, but the second concept is the exact opposite - love is something even science can't explain. I know it's weird, but I do be like that recently
(Also, sorry for my bad English)
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Aniket
You know, I've noticed something very peculiar.
Nobody smiles at young boys. And everybody smiles at young girls. Whether it's their own parents, friends or even strangers. No wonder a lot of guys fall for anybody who's nice to them. Because nobody ever shown them close intimacy.
And this somehow happens in all countries. I wonder why?
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You know, I've noticed something very peculiar.
Nobody smiles at young boys. And everybody smiles at young girls. Whether it's their own parents, friends or even strangers. No wonder a lot of guys fall for anybody who's nice to them. Because nobody ever shown them close intimacy.
And this somehow happens in all countries. I wonder why?
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Fauxipal
hi psych2go, i dont think youll see this, but if you could answer that would be great! (also, if anyone knows the answer that really would help too) So, what does it mean if i fall in love with someone, then out of the blue just not love them anymore? then cycle repeats with the same person? thanks to anyone who answers: )
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hi psych2go, i dont think youll see this, but if you could answer that would be great! (also, if anyone knows the answer that really would help too) So, what does it mean if i fall in love with someone, then out of the blue just not love them anymore? then cycle repeats with the same person? thanks to anyone who answers: )
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education
I manipulated a manipulator now time to make a new disorder called dossesive dosing manipulation pollution disorder(DDMPD) edit: i fell in love with my dad than my covert narcissist mom 2nd edit: I'm also a kind narcissist but i avoid the manipulating and other bad health stuff
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I manipulated a manipulator now time to make a new disorder called dossesive dosing manipulation pollution disorder(DDMPD) edit: i fell in love with my dad than my covert narcissist mom 2nd edit: I'm also a kind narcissist but i avoid the manipulating and other bad health stuff
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Yours
Could you please make a video on what to do when you're struggling to find a job(if you haven't already, i want a job so i can finally get away from my abusive mother but i'll never get hired because i'm trans(mtf) and disabled, i feel so hopeless
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Could you please make a video on what to do when you're struggling to find a job(if you haven't already, i want a job so i can finally get away from my abusive mother but i'll never get hired because i'm trans(mtf) and disabled, i feel so hopeless
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me
hey, your videos are getting more scientific and it's a little uninteresting to watch. it's nice when you support your facts with evidence but too much of it is like reading a biological research paper. is there something you can do about this?
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hey, your videos are getting more scientific and it's a little uninteresting to watch. it's nice when you support your facts with evidence but too much of it is like reading a biological research paper. is there something you can do about this?
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Amy
I really need an answer to this if you could make a video on it? How can you comfort your friend with depression and reassure them when you can't relate? Your videos help me so much and I'm so happy you make them! Thank you!
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I really need an answer to this if you could make a video on it? How can you comfort your friend with depression and reassure them when you can't relate? Your videos help me so much and I'm so happy you make them! Thank you!
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Leo
So interesting. Although, a couple in a marriage must actually put effort into their marriage in order to stay in love. That part of the brain will not stay activated on its own without any support from ourselves.
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So interesting. Although, a couple in a marriage must actually put effort into their marriage in order to stay in love. That part of the brain will not stay activated on its own without any support from ourselves.
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adorzible
Hi can you tell if my crush like me? Here are signs
He looks and smiles at me
He asks if im ok sometimes even if im ok
And he get awkward when talking to me?
So yes or no! Idm what it is
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Hi can you tell if my crush like me? Here are signs
He looks and smiles at me
He asks if im ok sometimes even if im ok
And he get awkward when talking to me?
So yes or no! Idm what it is
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PRGME7
Now, lets say that in a hypothetical person named Stevens case all the biochemical stuff triggers the fight or flight response due to past trauma. Nothing else to say. Just throwing it out there.
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Now, lets say that in a hypothetical person named Stevens case all the biochemical stuff triggers the fight or flight response due to past trauma. Nothing else to say. Just throwing it out there.
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Navier
I'm cupioromantic, so my body is unable to fall in love but even though I desire love all the time. I wanna fall in love someday, i though maybe it is possible after seeing this video. Thankyou
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I'm cupioromantic, so my body is unable to fall in love but even though I desire love all the time. I wanna fall in love someday, i though maybe it is possible after seeing this video. Thankyou
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Cosmetic
Yeah so I'm assuming the feeling I get when smelling something wonderful or eating my favorite foods is not comparable? I'm on a completely different reality when it comes to love I guess
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Yeah so I'm assuming the feeling I get when smelling something wonderful or eating my favorite foods is not comparable? I'm on a completely different reality when it comes to love I guess
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Kk
I HAVE A QUESTION I have watch your videos. Can you see if a guy likes you? But the thing is the guy I like doesnt do a whole lot of them but yeah I know he has a crush on me. Any advice
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I HAVE A QUESTION I have watch your videos. Can you see if a guy likes you? But the thing is the guy I like doesnt do a whole lot of them but yeah I know he has a crush on me. Any advice
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psych2go
everything feels romantic lately
like also feels like the holidays and the fall this aint just me istg other people right now are also lowkey this same way
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everything feels romantic lately
like also feels like the holidays and the fall this aint just me istg other people right now are also lowkey this same way
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TheDarkness
Basically chemical reactions, trying to boost your reproductive behaviour in order to continue the family line. Rise above it Morty. Choose science.
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Basically chemical reactions, trying to boost your reproductive behaviour in order to continue the family line. Rise above it Morty. Choose science.
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Nurislam
How about you open a book before talking nonsense? Principles of neural science by R. Kendel (5th or 6th edition) would be a great place to start.
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How about you open a book before talking nonsense? Principles of neural science by R. Kendel (5th or 6th edition) would be a great place to start.
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Ariana
my aromantic self- uhm. hahaha srsly envious of ppl who can fall inlove, u have no idea how bad it is to like someone but not to the level of this
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my aromantic self- uhm. hahaha srsly envious of ppl who can fall inlove, u have no idea how bad it is to like someone but not to the level of this
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Dark
Most love are probably aesthetic attraction (love from their looks and fashion)
But I'm 99% sure this one is romantic attraction (true love)
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Most love are probably aesthetic attraction (love from their looks and fashion)
But I'm 99% sure this one is romantic attraction (true love)
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