Why You're So Used To Being Silent
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Jazmin
I've experienced three of these first I was an observer. I broke out of that during middle school and became more social, but in my last year of middle school I got yelled at by some girl who in the previous year came to me and my friend saying no one liked her. I didn't understand why no one liked her at first because she seemed a nice girl, later on though I would understand. She yelled that I wasn't part of my friend group and other mean things. I got ready to defend myself and I felt confident because I had my friends to back me up or at least I thought I did. Instead of defending me, who is timid and cautious of others, they silenced me. They told me not to mess with that girl she causes problems. I felt so betrayed and cornered. Ever since then I feared getting close to others and stayed silent, hence in my freshman year of high school I isolated myself (during quarantine times) I skipped school on the in-person days and locked myself in my room. My family didn't know what was wrong, my mother was upset cause my school dropped me. I fell into a depression and only got out of it after my mother passed away by the end of my freshman year. My life completely flipped I had a choice to make dropout of school take the GED or continue going normally. I chose to go back and makeup the credits I didn't make my freshman year because my mom wanted me to graduate from high school so my mother's death became my motivation to get better. So I did, although in the process I got kicked out from my cousin's house, moved in with my aunt, who frequently threatens to kick me out. Whenever my aunt says something upsetting, I stay silent to keep my peace of mind and not say anything rude. I am not one to let people walk all over me so this is hard, but I did it.
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I've experienced three of these first I was an observer. I broke out of that during middle school and became more social, but in my last year of middle school I got yelled at by some girl who in the previous year came to me and my friend saying no one liked her. I didn't understand why no one liked her at first because she seemed a nice girl, later on though I would understand. She yelled that I wasn't part of my friend group and other mean things. I got ready to defend myself and I felt confident because I had my friends to back me up or at least I thought I did. Instead of defending me, who is timid and cautious of others, they silenced me. They told me not to mess with that girl she causes problems. I felt so betrayed and cornered. Ever since then I feared getting close to others and stayed silent, hence in my freshman year of high school I isolated myself (during quarantine times) I skipped school on the in-person days and locked myself in my room. My family didn't know what was wrong, my mother was upset cause my school dropped me. I fell into a depression and only got out of it after my mother passed away by the end of my freshman year. My life completely flipped I had a choice to make dropout of school take the GED or continue going normally. I chose to go back and makeup the credits I didn't make my freshman year because my mom wanted me to graduate from high school so my mother's death became my motivation to get better. So I did, although in the process I got kicked out from my cousin's house, moved in with my aunt, who frequently threatens to kick me out. Whenever my aunt says something upsetting, I stay silent to keep my peace of mind and not say anything rude. I am not one to let people walk all over me so this is hard, but I did it.
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Atkataff
Being someone who doesn't go along with the latest trends, series, or fashions and sticking to the things I love most is the main reason I'm quiet. I'm positive I ain't the only one.
It's not on purpose, it just isn't really my taste. Sticking to what I love makes me myself even if I don't move fast along with the latest game or anime or show that's airing. It does make it hard to socialize for two reasons. One, it's hard to relate when you don't follow the trends so when one comes up, it's sudden since you're not looking for it. Two, you're afraid others won't like the things that keep you separated from the fast moving world since it's old news, reputation ruined, or something nobody is interested in. Those two reasons are heartbreaking.
Even if you're like me and aren't moving fast along with the world, remember there's groups you could search up of the topics you love. There, you can engage, be yourself, and hopefully make some friends since you have interests you like.
Trends come and go pretty fast thanks to the internet and the world continues going round but remember, you matter.
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Being someone who doesn't go along with the latest trends, series, or fashions and sticking to the things I love most is the main reason I'm quiet. I'm positive I ain't the only one.
It's not on purpose, it just isn't really my taste. Sticking to what I love makes me myself even if I don't move fast along with the latest game or anime or show that's airing. It does make it hard to socialize for two reasons. One, it's hard to relate when you don't follow the trends so when one comes up, it's sudden since you're not looking for it. Two, you're afraid others won't like the things that keep you separated from the fast moving world since it's old news, reputation ruined, or something nobody is interested in. Those two reasons are heartbreaking.
Even if you're like me and aren't moving fast along with the world, remember there's groups you could search up of the topics you love. There, you can engage, be yourself, and hopefully make some friends since you have interests you like.
Trends come and go pretty fast thanks to the internet and the world continues going round but remember, you matter.
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CatLover
Its weird: Im always quiet around others, but Im apparently not when Im around my family. (I think that my family views me as not quiet because I have a tendency to overexplain and ramble on about things, and I dont feel a need to cut those overexplanations and ramblings off around them. When Im in public, I am usually silent, I never actually spark up conversations with anyone and Im just generally quiet, focused on whatever Im doing. I think this may be because of anxiety (I hate doing things wrong, and in any situations that I feel like Im not doing what I am supposed to, I clam up and get extremely stressed, though Im not sure. But the point it, one time I was with my parents at some school event or something, my dad called me out for being so quiet, saying that Im never like that, and it was just weird to me since that, to me at least, was just how I always was. I dont notice the difference between how I act around my family and how I act in public. Or rather, I know how I act in public, but I dont realize how Im not like that around my family.
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Its weird: Im always quiet around others, but Im apparently not when Im around my family. (I think that my family views me as not quiet because I have a tendency to overexplain and ramble on about things, and I dont feel a need to cut those overexplanations and ramblings off around them. When Im in public, I am usually silent, I never actually spark up conversations with anyone and Im just generally quiet, focused on whatever Im doing. I think this may be because of anxiety (I hate doing things wrong, and in any situations that I feel like Im not doing what I am supposed to, I clam up and get extremely stressed, though Im not sure. But the point it, one time I was with my parents at some school event or something, my dad called me out for being so quiet, saying that Im never like that, and it was just weird to me since that, to me at least, was just how I always was. I dont notice the difference between how I act around my family and how I act in public. Or rather, I know how I act in public, but I dont realize how Im not like that around my family.
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BlueBagger
I used to be really quiet and shy, all through school. But, over time I started involving myself in random acts of kindness, in year 10 I decided to hand out math books for people, or hold the door open for people before and after class. Eventually, people started complimenting me, thank you turned into thank you, my name. Over time I started to build confidence and people started liking me, constantly mentioning me when talking about kindness. This continued until year 11 (current year) when I had another boost in confidence, I started approaching people, and others approached me. Over time, people started to really like me, and I liked them back. Ive made so many new friends now and Ive never been at a happier point in my life. If it werent for the random acts of kindness I did the previous year, I would of likely still been all quiet and shy still. So my message to all of you: always go out of your way to show a bit of kindness, it can go a long way. Thank you so much for reading my entire comment! Goodbye forever, have a good one!
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I used to be really quiet and shy, all through school. But, over time I started involving myself in random acts of kindness, in year 10 I decided to hand out math books for people, or hold the door open for people before and after class. Eventually, people started complimenting me, thank you turned into thank you, my name. Over time I started to build confidence and people started liking me, constantly mentioning me when talking about kindness. This continued until year 11 (current year) when I had another boost in confidence, I started approaching people, and others approached me. Over time, people started to really like me, and I liked them back. Ive made so many new friends now and Ive never been at a happier point in my life. If it werent for the random acts of kindness I did the previous year, I would of likely still been all quiet and shy still. So my message to all of you: always go out of your way to show a bit of kindness, it can go a long way. Thank you so much for reading my entire comment! Goodbye forever, have a good one!
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CB
I actually have ADD which I found out about almost 4 years ago, and when I was young I used to talk over someone else sometimes, I think a lot of people with ADD/ADHD do this. As soon as I found out that it's rude to do and not usual to do, I started fighting back to my impulses to start talking over someone else. Also I hate drawing attention to myself. I think this is why I am very quiet nowadays and don't like interrupt someone, even when it's important and I have to wait very long 'til I can speak. Also I'm very much not an open book and don't like small talk, and I don't say too much when I try to recharge like when I'm on my break during work. I just wish that others don't see it so negatively. They almost always think bad of you when you're not social enough. I really try to but it's just hard for me. I can be very open and social with a handfull of people that I'm close with, but that's it haha.
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I actually have ADD which I found out about almost 4 years ago, and when I was young I used to talk over someone else sometimes, I think a lot of people with ADD/ADHD do this. As soon as I found out that it's rude to do and not usual to do, I started fighting back to my impulses to start talking over someone else. Also I hate drawing attention to myself. I think this is why I am very quiet nowadays and don't like interrupt someone, even when it's important and I have to wait very long 'til I can speak. Also I'm very much not an open book and don't like small talk, and I don't say too much when I try to recharge like when I'm on my break during work. I just wish that others don't see it so negatively. They almost always think bad of you when you're not social enough. I really try to but it's just hard for me. I can be very open and social with a handfull of people that I'm close with, but that's it haha.
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Garnet
I know exactly why I was silent as a kid. It was because whatever I said was always wrong to one of my parents. I didn't feel like I was allowed to speak, as it often ended in upset.
As I've grown older, I realize that it has evolved into a Why bother saying anything response. I don't like conflict, and it feels like what I would say in most conversations would not be well received. Either as an unpopular opinion, or as something said with the wrong tone (which I also realize is largely due to not having as much practice in regular vocal conversation. To top that off, when I talk in person rather than in text. I lose what I'm talking about, because I get thrown off by the fact that I am actually speaking what is on my mind aloud. I can't easily focus on what I'm saying. Doesn't help that I also mix up my words frequently
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I know exactly why I was silent as a kid. It was because whatever I said was always wrong to one of my parents. I didn't feel like I was allowed to speak, as it often ended in upset.
As I've grown older, I realize that it has evolved into a Why bother saying anything response. I don't like conflict, and it feels like what I would say in most conversations would not be well received. Either as an unpopular opinion, or as something said with the wrong tone (which I also realize is largely due to not having as much practice in regular vocal conversation. To top that off, when I talk in person rather than in text. I lose what I'm talking about, because I get thrown off by the fact that I am actually speaking what is on my mind aloud. I can't easily focus on what I'm saying. Doesn't help that I also mix up my words frequently
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Anne
I'm an introvert so I'm quiet because: I don't have the energy to talk and I'd rather observe, I'm not interested on the subject (can't force myself, I don't have anything interesting to say/add to the conversation, and I don't feel comfortable in big groups (ppl talk over each other, it's loud, the subject change every minute, it's a non-sense to me. I prefer one-on-one conversations or with a small group (being 3 is perfect too. Also, I'm a people pleaser and I'm afraid to speak when I disagree, i'm afraid of conflicts and rejection. So I don't speak my mind. It's hard but I'm working on that. Also, I stutter on my words when i'm stressed or the word can't come out of my mouth and, it makes me more nervous, not wanting to keep speaking that's annoying. I'm a mix of introversion and shyness.
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I'm an introvert so I'm quiet because: I don't have the energy to talk and I'd rather observe, I'm not interested on the subject (can't force myself, I don't have anything interesting to say/add to the conversation, and I don't feel comfortable in big groups (ppl talk over each other, it's loud, the subject change every minute, it's a non-sense to me. I prefer one-on-one conversations or with a small group (being 3 is perfect too. Also, I'm a people pleaser and I'm afraid to speak when I disagree, i'm afraid of conflicts and rejection. So I don't speak my mind. It's hard but I'm working on that. Also, I stutter on my words when i'm stressed or the word can't come out of my mouth and, it makes me more nervous, not wanting to keep speaking that's annoying. I'm a mix of introversion and shyness.
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Cookie
This video is so relatable! I relate to everything that's said in this video. I have autism and I prefer to be silent. I usually do not feel the need to talk or the interest in getting to know other people. It just doesn't bring me much joy. I often feel like people do not really care for what I have to say anyway. Because of my autism it is also difficult for me to understand how others connect. Talking comes so natural to other people, or at least it seems so and it's difficult for me to find a connection with someone. Other reasons for why I don't like talking are because I feel like I need to put up a rehearsal all the time and also because I fear being judged. It's hard sometimes, since I do kind of crave connections with people but at the same time I don't really want it at all.
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This video is so relatable! I relate to everything that's said in this video. I have autism and I prefer to be silent. I usually do not feel the need to talk or the interest in getting to know other people. It just doesn't bring me much joy. I often feel like people do not really care for what I have to say anyway. Because of my autism it is also difficult for me to understand how others connect. Talking comes so natural to other people, or at least it seems so and it's difficult for me to find a connection with someone. Other reasons for why I don't like talking are because I feel like I need to put up a rehearsal all the time and also because I fear being judged. It's hard sometimes, since I do kind of crave connections with people but at the same time I don't really want it at all.
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Olis
yr7 and 8 were great years, i had a fun friend group and wed socialise. In yr 9 i got depression, friends in the group had beef so we all split, i got depression soon after, i had been bullied and about anything and everything since yr4. Usually about my lack of knowledge of the outside world or being too innocent to understand things. So i was back to being picked on. Sadly there is no happy ending and im in yr 12 going through every day of school with a straight face, a lack of recognition, high state of depression and suic thoughts.
but its a lesson for everyone that its better for you to reach out and find new friends or a reach out to another person becuase no matter how far you fall, one action can put you back up
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yr7 and 8 were great years, i had a fun friend group and wed socialise. In yr 9 i got depression, friends in the group had beef so we all split, i got depression soon after, i had been bullied and about anything and everything since yr4. Usually about my lack of knowledge of the outside world or being too innocent to understand things. So i was back to being picked on. Sadly there is no happy ending and im in yr 12 going through every day of school with a straight face, a lack of recognition, high state of depression and suic thoughts.
but its a lesson for everyone that its better for you to reach out and find new friends or a reach out to another person becuase no matter how far you fall, one action can put you back up
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patryn36
I am quiet because i learned to be so. I often tell people when i mess up that silence is my primary language, english is my second tongue. I constantly try to learn by watching and listening, sadly i have yet to find a viable pattern. Why did i learn to be this way? At my core i am extremely feral, aggresive, i do not always show it but i have it at the ready. Adults failed me repeatedly as i grew up, either due to a lack of ability or tbey simply did not care. I am decently intelligent, it has not gotten me much though seeing what passes for people from what i can see. Would be nice if there would be videos about how to bridge the gap without some form of deceit, far too much of that passes for 'normal'.
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I am quiet because i learned to be so. I often tell people when i mess up that silence is my primary language, english is my second tongue. I constantly try to learn by watching and listening, sadly i have yet to find a viable pattern. Why did i learn to be this way? At my core i am extremely feral, aggresive, i do not always show it but i have it at the ready. Adults failed me repeatedly as i grew up, either due to a lack of ability or tbey simply did not care. I am decently intelligent, it has not gotten me much though seeing what passes for people from what i can see. Would be nice if there would be videos about how to bridge the gap without some form of deceit, far too much of that passes for 'normal'.
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dora_gacha
I have Anhedonia wow i wanted to talk to my Bestfriends but i just want to be silence because they were maybe ignoring me like i was invisible i just nod my head if yes to other people when i dont want to speak i dont know how i like to be silence than talking. even the thing is i just act like happy even tho my Bestfriend just say are you sad? My Bestfriend like dont know me anymore i just be silent watching people having fun talking and getting fun of it but for me. i dont know. 2: 38
But sometimes when i shout everyone hears me even outside of the school but they become silent and thats what i wanted i just want a silent place to chill
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I have Anhedonia wow i wanted to talk to my Bestfriends but i just want to be silence because they were maybe ignoring me like i was invisible i just nod my head if yes to other people when i dont want to speak i dont know how i like to be silence than talking. even the thing is i just act like happy even tho my Bestfriend just say are you sad? My Bestfriend like dont know me anymore i just be silent watching people having fun talking and getting fun of it but for me. i dont know. 2: 38
But sometimes when i shout everyone hears me even outside of the school but they become silent and thats what i wanted i just want a silent place to chill
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Lilith
I actually know why I'm a silent person because whenever I say something people just cut me off in between and it is clearly visible none is interested in what I want to say. I just feel bad because whenever I tried to cut someone in between either I am not able to or if I did people just ignored me and continue hearing the other person and I really felt like a fool thinking they cared.
And at the end it made me feel bad for being the annoying one and speaking uselessly when no one wanted to hear me
So at least whenever I see someone like me, I ask them what they were saying after the other person is over.
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I actually know why I'm a silent person because whenever I say something people just cut me off in between and it is clearly visible none is interested in what I want to say. I just feel bad because whenever I tried to cut someone in between either I am not able to or if I did people just ignored me and continue hearing the other person and I really felt like a fool thinking they cared.
And at the end it made me feel bad for being the annoying one and speaking uselessly when no one wanted to hear me
So at least whenever I see someone like me, I ask them what they were saying after the other person is over.
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Falia
Through these videos I've learned to acknowledge the fact that im VERY emotionally unstable, I needed help. I appreciate these videos as I could feel that you are speaking to me, addressing my mental state that I've grown to ignore. The fact that my own silence is killing me day by day is agonizing. But I've been faced with the reality that I need to act nevertheless because if I don't I won't be able to live the life that I want. And with that I yearn to see the day that all of my anxiety, stress, and suffering alone will one day be gone.
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Through these videos I've learned to acknowledge the fact that im VERY emotionally unstable, I needed help. I appreciate these videos as I could feel that you are speaking to me, addressing my mental state that I've grown to ignore. The fact that my own silence is killing me day by day is agonizing. But I've been faced with the reality that I need to act nevertheless because if I don't I won't be able to live the life that I want. And with that I yearn to see the day that all of my anxiety, stress, and suffering alone will one day be gone.
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HANNAH
Hi Miss!
Is it ok if I ask for advice?
So my classmates. They usually tell me to shut up even when I am singing, speaking, or just doing nothing and sitting in a corner. It's like I have no right to speak and I should actually listen to them even though it feels bad.
Sometimes they spit insults at me so I will do what they want me to do. My teacher well, When someone insults me, She'll laugh along with the insultor and it's breaking me to see my teacher doing that. I really wish they knew how I felt!
What should I do?
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Hi Miss!
Is it ok if I ask for advice?
So my classmates. They usually tell me to shut up even when I am singing, speaking, or just doing nothing and sitting in a corner. It's like I have no right to speak and I should actually listen to them even though it feels bad.
Sometimes they spit insults at me so I will do what they want me to do. My teacher well, When someone insults me, She'll laugh along with the insultor and it's breaking me to see my teacher doing that. I really wish they knew how I felt!
What should I do?
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WatchWolfst3rs
For me the reason why I'm being quieter is because when I to tell my opinion on something it usually gets interrupted or try to say anything and can't speak because of being ignored. So I'm a quiet observer, also I'm starting to think my memory is getting better from doing this.
The reason I say about my memory is because that I had such a awful memory to the point I forget the next day or within the next hour. Still have it but ti's slightly better
This is everywhere for me except or the internet believe it or not.
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For me the reason why I'm being quieter is because when I to tell my opinion on something it usually gets interrupted or try to say anything and can't speak because of being ignored. So I'm a quiet observer, also I'm starting to think my memory is getting better from doing this.
The reason I say about my memory is because that I had such a awful memory to the point I forget the next day or within the next hour. Still have it but ti's slightly better
This is everywhere for me except or the internet believe it or not.
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Sombrero
I have enough self awareness to know that I am usually quiet in public places and loud and crazy where I know I'm safe. It's helped me learn how to listen while doing just about anything. The only problem is that i can't exactly do anything when interrupted. I can't talk back. And I have the instinct to let them finish and continue listening. Many people like to be heard. Which sometimes may be the reason some people would take to social medias and clubs. Which will have their own affects. But me. I'm stuck being quiet.
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I have enough self awareness to know that I am usually quiet in public places and loud and crazy where I know I'm safe. It's helped me learn how to listen while doing just about anything. The only problem is that i can't exactly do anything when interrupted. I can't talk back. And I have the instinct to let them finish and continue listening. Many people like to be heard. Which sometimes may be the reason some people would take to social medias and clubs. Which will have their own affects. But me. I'm stuck being quiet.
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IDunKnow
Im a quite person that is probably because most of my school life I never had a friend group or just someone I hung out with then when I did get friends I tried to open up to one of them but she didnt realise and also I have lots of things to say but Im a pushover so I wait for people to let me speak but when I get a chance to speak the moments gone and also sometimes when I speak one of my friends is like I dont care but just in a jokey way and she doesnt notice how much it hurts but Im just too shy to say something
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Im a quite person that is probably because most of my school life I never had a friend group or just someone I hung out with then when I did get friends I tried to open up to one of them but she didnt realise and also I have lots of things to say but Im a pushover so I wait for people to let me speak but when I get a chance to speak the moments gone and also sometimes when I speak one of my friends is like I dont care but just in a jokey way and she doesnt notice how much it hurts but Im just too shy to say something
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Sapphire
nah, i became quiet during those edgy, trying to be different than others years of my life, I believed I'm an introvert, later i found out that's not exactly the life for me, now I'm quiet because nobody is interested in topics I'm interested in, thus i can't keep a conversation going with people i meet in real life.
Also can you maybe make a video about why do so many people have this edgy, I'm not like others phase in their life? I'm really curious of why that happens
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nah, i became quiet during those edgy, trying to be different than others years of my life, I believed I'm an introvert, later i found out that's not exactly the life for me, now I'm quiet because nobody is interested in topics I'm interested in, thus i can't keep a conversation going with people i meet in real life.
Also can you maybe make a video about why do so many people have this edgy, I'm not like others phase in their life? I'm really curious of why that happens
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alycat
I used to be the shy kid, and eventually someone who preferred to listen to more than speaking. I like observing more too. It's interesting what you can find out and learn. Now, it doesn't mean I don't talk at all. I just prefer to talk to someine who's willing to care and listen to what I have to say. I think it's also more enjoyable to watch. It doesn't take as much energy for me and as someone who loves to write, it's a fun way to develop my characters I create.
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I used to be the shy kid, and eventually someone who preferred to listen to more than speaking. I like observing more too. It's interesting what you can find out and learn. Now, it doesn't mean I don't talk at all. I just prefer to talk to someine who's willing to care and listen to what I have to say. I think it's also more enjoyable to watch. It doesn't take as much energy for me and as someone who loves to write, it's a fun way to develop my characters I create.
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PoisonRabbit
I dont usually comment on videos, but this one hits a little too close to home. Ive always been a silent person in social situations, even as far back as I could remember. It was always easier to listen or someone then to actually speak. I was always too quiet to most people but no one really ever tried to have a meaningful conversation with me either. Silence is just kinda my way of communicating, kinda like how a rabbit communicates though body language.
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I dont usually comment on videos, but this one hits a little too close to home. Ive always been a silent person in social situations, even as far back as I could remember. It was always easier to listen or someone then to actually speak. I was always too quiet to most people but no one really ever tried to have a meaningful conversation with me either. Silence is just kinda my way of communicating, kinda like how a rabbit communicates though body language.
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education
i prefer to stay silent as i feel as though people dont listen to me fully. not only that, I speak softly and with a lisp so people can't understand me to begin with. I think that it's beneficial for others to not have to stress over what I'm saying all of the time, having to ask me to speak up, and having to repeat what i just said 5 times over to then give up cause they still can't understand me and now i'm frustrated at myself and at them
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i prefer to stay silent as i feel as though people dont listen to me fully. not only that, I speak softly and with a lisp so people can't understand me to begin with. I think that it's beneficial for others to not have to stress over what I'm saying all of the time, having to ask me to speak up, and having to repeat what i just said 5 times over to then give up cause they still can't understand me and now i'm frustrated at myself and at them
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Charllenger
I'm quiet because people constantly interrupted me in past. Now I don't see the point in talking especially because it still happens, also I don't talk to people I hate because why would I waste my time on people I've never liked or stopped liking after they did something. My mom told me that even after I was born, I've never cried, I was just silent all the time, so I guess it's not a problem but in-born thing
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I'm quiet because people constantly interrupted me in past. Now I don't see the point in talking especially because it still happens, also I don't talk to people I hate because why would I waste my time on people I've never liked or stopped liking after they did something. My mom told me that even after I was born, I've never cried, I was just silent all the time, so I guess it's not a problem but in-born thing
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Wandering
I used to be a pretty big talker to pretty much anyone I met. Then I got scolded a lot at school for talking and subsequently diagnosed with ADHD at the teachers' recommendations, though I hated how the medication made me feel, so I just found it easier to remain silent instead of taking it. Got used to being silent, so I hardly talk to strangers anymore unless I'm talked to first.
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I used to be a pretty big talker to pretty much anyone I met. Then I got scolded a lot at school for talking and subsequently diagnosed with ADHD at the teachers' recommendations, though I hated how the medication made me feel, so I just found it easier to remain silent instead of taking it. Got used to being silent, so I hardly talk to strangers anymore unless I'm talked to first.
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Kurisuchiinu
I'm used to being silent because: 1) I've come from a toxic and sheltered family; 2) I've come from a toxic relationship; 3) I've had my share of abuse physically and verbally.
My way of speaking up is in a different form because no one is listening. Whenever I share my experience to someone, they just brush it off. So why bother sharing it at all when no one gives a sht?
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I'm used to being silent because: 1) I've come from a toxic and sheltered family; 2) I've come from a toxic relationship; 3) I've had my share of abuse physically and verbally.
My way of speaking up is in a different form because no one is listening. Whenever I share my experience to someone, they just brush it off. So why bother sharing it at all when no one gives a sht?
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Nisshoku
I'm not a very loud person so I got used to being talked over a lot. I'm not exactly the most interesting of people around. Eventually I just stopped trying, unless someone directs there questions or conversation at me specifically.
Honestly I've grown to rather enjoy the piece and quiet. Maybe I am destined to be a hermit. Doesn't sound too bad at all lol
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I'm not a very loud person so I got used to being talked over a lot. I'm not exactly the most interesting of people around. Eventually I just stopped trying, unless someone directs there questions or conversation at me specifically.
Honestly I've grown to rather enjoy the piece and quiet. Maybe I am destined to be a hermit. Doesn't sound too bad at all lol
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