5 Tough Truths That Make Life Easier
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Date: 2024-11-30
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EmeraldEyedBabyBee
I'm still working things out with my life ever since I left my abusive mother and her flying monkey sibling of mine. I seek approval still but in a more healthy-ish way with my surrogate father. He always tells me to not do that every time but he always adds his approval, advice and tells me it's my lane. I do have perfectionism. Due to my ruined childhood, doesn't mean I'm not willing to risk it, I just do it cautiously. I also learned radical acceptance but still learning to fully accept it. I blame myself for many things still, soon I will be taking a big leap in seven months, going to a family gathering with the matriarch of the family on my dads side of the family. Both sides are not good, a lot of bad apples but I am doing this to prove a point and face my fears. I hope my father keeps his word and keeps the peace and enforces the rules, especially to my second eldest sibling (the flying monkey) to NOT poke and prod on why I left and to NOT be little me because this is a important gathering and he will NOT be taking disrespect from anyone, especially those who are disrespecting others which eases my worries. I do know I have to hold fast and be careful due to how toxic and manipulative it can get buuut at least mom will not be there so that's a relief. Wish me luck! I need it.
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I'm still working things out with my life ever since I left my abusive mother and her flying monkey sibling of mine. I seek approval still but in a more healthy-ish way with my surrogate father. He always tells me to not do that every time but he always adds his approval, advice and tells me it's my lane. I do have perfectionism. Due to my ruined childhood, doesn't mean I'm not willing to risk it, I just do it cautiously. I also learned radical acceptance but still learning to fully accept it. I blame myself for many things still, soon I will be taking a big leap in seven months, going to a family gathering with the matriarch of the family on my dads side of the family. Both sides are not good, a lot of bad apples but I am doing this to prove a point and face my fears. I hope my father keeps his word and keeps the peace and enforces the rules, especially to my second eldest sibling (the flying monkey) to NOT poke and prod on why I left and to NOT be little me because this is a important gathering and he will NOT be taking disrespect from anyone, especially those who are disrespecting others which eases my worries. I do know I have to hold fast and be careful due to how toxic and manipulative it can get buuut at least mom will not be there so that's a relief. Wish me luck! I need it.
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misterdoowop
I'm a Vietnam combat veteran, and I was deeply affected by that experience. After much reading and research I realized that modern humans have been fighting wars and killing each other for a about 300, 000 years. This is who we are and this is what we do. When I see people doing bad things I tell myself this is nothing new. People have always done bad things. Bad behavior has been hard-wired into our genes because it gave us some evolutionary avantage in the past. This is human nature and it's not going to change in my lifetime. There is a dark side to human nature, but there is a bright side as well. I try to encourage the bright side and not feed the dark side.
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I'm a Vietnam combat veteran, and I was deeply affected by that experience. After much reading and research I realized that modern humans have been fighting wars and killing each other for a about 300, 000 years. This is who we are and this is what we do. When I see people doing bad things I tell myself this is nothing new. People have always done bad things. Bad behavior has been hard-wired into our genes because it gave us some evolutionary avantage in the past. This is human nature and it's not going to change in my lifetime. There is a dark side to human nature, but there is a bright side as well. I try to encourage the bright side and not feed the dark side.
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PancakeRights
I disagree with the 'only you are responsible for you' in cases of severe abuse, the abuser can be held accountable as well as those with disabilities. In multiple cases, people try but cannot overcome their traumas themselves and it's the fault of those who traumatised you, not yourself, recovery is secondary but the trauma given to anyone comes first before that and is always wrong. While responsibility and doing things yourself is important, you're not responsible for your traumas nor are you fully responsible for your healing- it's not wrong to seek help, at least you can seek help.
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I disagree with the 'only you are responsible for you' in cases of severe abuse, the abuser can be held accountable as well as those with disabilities. In multiple cases, people try but cannot overcome their traumas themselves and it's the fault of those who traumatised you, not yourself, recovery is secondary but the trauma given to anyone comes first before that and is always wrong. While responsibility and doing things yourself is important, you're not responsible for your traumas nor are you fully responsible for your healing- it's not wrong to seek help, at least you can seek help.
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MLandriganReid
I agree with everything except on the subject of confidence. I think most people take confidence for granted because in their youth, they were showered with compliments from family and friends and other people they interacted with as a child and as an adult can call upon all of that when times are tough. I don't think people are used to coming across someone like myself who was never complimented or shown affection and therefore don't have a wellspring of confidence to draw upon regarding most things except for oddly specific circumstances
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I agree with everything except on the subject of confidence. I think most people take confidence for granted because in their youth, they were showered with compliments from family and friends and other people they interacted with as a child and as an adult can call upon all of that when times are tough. I don't think people are used to coming across someone like myself who was never complimented or shown affection and therefore don't have a wellspring of confidence to draw upon regarding most things except for oddly specific circumstances
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siennaprice1351
Yes! I’m glad this video is up. Another truth to add, and this probably adds to the first truth in the video. Not everyone is going to like or love you. You’re the one who needs to love themselves, because the world doesn’t love nor give a crap about you. It’s not to say no one loves you and everybody hates you. Because that’s just not true. But, the world doesn’t care how you live your life, what you like and don’t like. Be yourself. Let the people judge you. It’s up to you whether you let them restrict you or not.
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Yes! I’m glad this video is up. Another truth to add, and this probably adds to the first truth in the video. Not everyone is going to like or love you. You’re the one who needs to love themselves, because the world doesn’t love nor give a crap about you. It’s not to say no one loves you and everybody hates you. Because that’s just not true. But, the world doesn’t care how you live your life, what you like and don’t like. Be yourself. Let the people judge you. It’s up to you whether you let them restrict you or not.
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Ayzay44
I live by everything except the last one. I literally can't let go from my fight against evil especially on the internet. All people that I tried to change never wanted to and I can't force my mindset on othera. It's just not possible. There's stil a looong way for me to go.
I hope that I'll manage to make it to a moment in life when I'll be able to have the strenght to change things I can change, the strenght to move on from the things I can't but above all, have the wisdom to tell them apart from each other.
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I live by everything except the last one. I literally can't let go from my fight against evil especially on the internet. All people that I tried to change never wanted to and I can't force my mindset on othera. It's just not possible. There's stil a looong way for me to go.
I hope that I'll manage to make it to a moment in life when I'll be able to have the strenght to change things I can change, the strenght to move on from the things I can't but above all, have the wisdom to tell them apart from each other.
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Vishfeast
The most important thing on your path, is being okay that you were courageous enough to be lead on a path, but its also just as important to know when the path is becoming foolish. Which is the calibration that everyone requires, in order to make the right decisions in life. If you don't attempt a path, you are denying your opportunity for wisdom, if you never think your path is leading you down the long road, you are forcing everything that comes into your reality as truth and begins the road of miss-alignment.
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The most important thing on your path, is being okay that you were courageous enough to be lead on a path, but its also just as important to know when the path is becoming foolish. Which is the calibration that everyone requires, in order to make the right decisions in life. If you don't attempt a path, you are denying your opportunity for wisdom, if you never think your path is leading you down the long road, you are forcing everything that comes into your reality as truth and begins the road of miss-alignment.
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timothylopez8572
Every Republican I've ever known is a bloodthirsty psychopath groveling atthe feet of the de fact Antichrist leader of an obvious LUCIFERIAN APOCALYPSE CULT! They're not Ray's cyst. They don't have empathy for LGBTQ people, religious minorities, poor and homeless people, women, families of mass shooting victims, victims of war crimes in Gaza, ZERO EMPATHY. Pathologically lying pathologically manipulative, what exactly is a bleeding-heart warmonger tyrant who's only weakness are democratic elections
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Every Republican I've ever known is a bloodthirsty psychopath groveling atthe feet of the de fact Antichrist leader of an obvious LUCIFERIAN APOCALYPSE CULT! They're not Ray's cyst. They don't have empathy for LGBTQ people, religious minorities, poor and homeless people, women, families of mass shooting victims, victims of war crimes in Gaza, ZERO EMPATHY. Pathologically lying pathologically manipulative, what exactly is a bleeding-heart warmonger tyrant who's only weakness are democratic elections
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phillipminer3554
Here’s one truth that sounds harsh at first, but can be a source of comfort too: nobody cares.
Yes, nobody cares can be taken negatively to mean no one wants to keep track of your well being. But this has a positive side: this also means no one cares about the little mistakes you make. For example: you somehow commit a dating faux pas. You may be mulling over the mistake you made, but your partner has likely forgotten about it by now (either that or they simply move on.
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Here’s one truth that sounds harsh at first, but can be a source of comfort too: nobody cares.
Yes, nobody cares can be taken negatively to mean no one wants to keep track of your well being. But this has a positive side: this also means no one cares about the little mistakes you make. For example: you somehow commit a dating faux pas. You may be mulling over the mistake you made, but your partner has likely forgotten about it by now (either that or they simply move on.
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damnablethief
I am in a really dark place right now. I just don't feel safe unarmed anywhere, and it is a direct result of people harassing me over how ugly I am. Like I am so scared someone will actually put me in that situation ya know. and I will be damned if I let someone hurt me or my loved ones. But ya, def in a dark place. I don't want to hurt anyone. but I will if I have to. Just don't feel like I deserve this just for being ugly.
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I am in a really dark place right now. I just don't feel safe unarmed anywhere, and it is a direct result of people harassing me over how ugly I am. Like I am so scared someone will actually put me in that situation ya know. and I will be damned if I let someone hurt me or my loved ones. But ya, def in a dark place. I don't want to hurt anyone. but I will if I have to. Just don't feel like I deserve this just for being ugly.
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LilyOlivia-p3s
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
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Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
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psych2go
1. Yes of course.
2. This is what I'm learning now.
3. Actually, it's hard to get into this mindset since I've got trauma. Somehow, I expect your response. Especially on this.
4. Okay
5. As I said earlier, I really encourage you to make more videos about this because even when chatting with ChatGPT, I often put I hate myself in it at least 3 times per quizzes.
Thank you very much Psych2go!
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1. Yes of course.
2. This is what I'm learning now.
3. Actually, it's hard to get into this mindset since I've got trauma. Somehow, I expect your response. Especially on this.
4. Okay
5. As I said earlier, I really encourage you to make more videos about this because even when chatting with ChatGPT, I often put I hate myself in it at least 3 times per quizzes.
Thank you very much Psych2go!
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TheNL
My problem was too much radical acceptance. I learned at a young age that life sucked and there was nothing I could do about it. I could feel comfortable in even the worst situations. That dog in the fire saying this is fine. Years of therapy later I'm finally learning to actually live my life. This has actually been one of my most fun years ever.
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My problem was too much radical acceptance. I learned at a young age that life sucked and there was nothing I could do about it. I could feel comfortable in even the worst situations. That dog in the fire saying this is fine. Years of therapy later I'm finally learning to actually live my life. This has actually been one of my most fun years ever.
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Jockwardia
One tough truth that I have learned in my life is that people come and go in your life. Don't over rely on one or only a very few people. People you form a bond with might move on in life and sometimes unexpected. Feeling left behind is what I felt many times when they say got new jobs and this is the last time we meet is tough.
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One tough truth that I have learned in my life is that people come and go in your life. Don't over rely on one or only a very few people. People you form a bond with might move on in life and sometimes unexpected. Feeling left behind is what I felt many times when they say got new jobs and this is the last time we meet is tough.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Don't rely on others for approval 0: 17
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1: 03
3. No one is responsible for you but you 1: 53
4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2: 33
5. Radical acceptance 3: 14
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. Don't rely on others for approval 0: 17
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1: 03
3. No one is responsible for you but you 1: 53
4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2: 33
5. Radical acceptance 3: 14
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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KellySimonidis-t9d
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You're doing a fantastic job! Just a quick off-topic question: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter. What's the best way to send them to Binance
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i-JSMT
Hii, this is a request, i just recently got kicked out off my lifetime friend group, bc of my bestfriend, and i really don't know what to do, im gonna move to another school bc of that and im a bit an introvert so im pretty lost: ( thank u
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Hii, this is a request, i just recently got kicked out off my lifetime friend group, bc of my bestfriend, and i really don't know what to do, im gonna move to another school bc of that and im a bit an introvert so im pretty lost: ( thank u
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gideonlake4422
Hey mind making a video of how to move on from online relationships or friends I think it’s about time, I know it’s hard and I’ve come along way with my friend. But it’s time, I need to get back into the real world anyways.
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Hey mind making a video of how to move on from online relationships or friends I think it’s about time, I know it’s hard and I’ve come along way with my friend. But it’s time, I need to get back into the real world anyways.
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krystiaff
1. Don't rely on others on approval 0: 18
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1: 04
3. No one is responsible for you but you 1: 54
4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2: 33
5. Radical acceptance 3: 15
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1. Don't rely on others on approval 0: 18
2. Being too dependent can ruin your life 1: 04
3. No one is responsible for you but you 1: 54
4. Failure is inevitable but it's ok 2: 33
5. Radical acceptance 3: 15
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Jsus. comic5459
I’m always in a dark place every time I always felt that I accept failure but it doesn’t mean it will last forever. We will accept our mistakes we have made we move on and do things right for a change.
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I’m always in a dark place every time I always felt that I accept failure but it doesn’t mean it will last forever. We will accept our mistakes we have made we move on and do things right for a change.
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