7 Psychologically-Backed Signs To Ask Someone Out
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Abnormality
I have a crush at my school. Shes quiet most of the time, and only talks to around two people; girls. Even then I find her just making small talk with them. But Im the only boy or male she actually talks to. We have deep conversations, and she changes her voice and body language. Weve had bunches of funny moments and interactions and meet-ups, and she rarely talks to me in a group; mainly only talks with me in a group when none of them care, or just when were, well, alone. Shes done irrational things with me that I had no idea why she did, and I never can find her more than 2 meters away from me. She always seems to be in my eyesight/proximity. I didnt really care for her at first; but as more of those moments carried out and our interactions continued, I became infatuated with her, and just have a week or two before Im ready to ask. And this really helps with that.
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I kinda just wanted to vent about this cause its been laying on my mind for a while.
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I have a crush at my school. Shes quiet most of the time, and only talks to around two people; girls. Even then I find her just making small talk with them. But Im the only boy or male she actually talks to. We have deep conversations, and she changes her voice and body language. Weve had bunches of funny moments and interactions and meet-ups, and she rarely talks to me in a group; mainly only talks with me in a group when none of them care, or just when were, well, alone. Shes done irrational things with me that I had no idea why she did, and I never can find her more than 2 meters away from me. She always seems to be in my eyesight/proximity. I didnt really care for her at first; but as more of those moments carried out and our interactions continued, I became infatuated with her, and just have a week or two before Im ready to ask. And this really helps with that.
Approved, Psych2Go.
I kinda just wanted to vent about this cause its been laying on my mind for a while.
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Lorenzo
I'm in a strange situation rn, I've known my crush for a month now and she mentioned just somedays ago that she has a boyfriend, but she never tells me anything about him, she is giving me soo many signs.
It's almost like her relationship isn't going well.
She has been throught lots of problems and I really want to help her feel loved, but at the same time i feel bad for her boyfriend.
For all my life I haven't got a single girl to like me like she does, to be fair i don't even think a girl as talked to me more than 5 minutes.
I've been hanging out with her more than I go out with my mutual friends lately, and she's always super nice with me and always down for edgy jokes and sort off flirting around.
I'm literally having a headache trying to understand what I am for her.
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I'm in a strange situation rn, I've known my crush for a month now and she mentioned just somedays ago that she has a boyfriend, but she never tells me anything about him, she is giving me soo many signs.
It's almost like her relationship isn't going well.
She has been throught lots of problems and I really want to help her feel loved, but at the same time i feel bad for her boyfriend.
For all my life I haven't got a single girl to like me like she does, to be fair i don't even think a girl as talked to me more than 5 minutes.
I've been hanging out with her more than I go out with my mutual friends lately, and she's always super nice with me and always down for edgy jokes and sort off flirting around.
I'm literally having a headache trying to understand what I am for her.
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Hero
So the problem is I only have 2 classes with him (one of them we dont talk much bc that is a pretty social core class) and I have lunch. We dont talk at lunch tho. We sit next to each other and talk in class tho. His friends wave to me sometimes which is kinda weird and some girl is invested in my love life so is one of his friends. I see him looking at me and looking back some times but idk what that means bc I am a girl so what do you guys think? Also I cant have time alone with him at lunch so asking him out is kinda embarrassing tbh I dont want people spreading things and if I get rejected I would get publicly humiliated but then again I could pass him a note after class and tell him to meet me somewhere private but I want him to confess
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So the problem is I only have 2 classes with him (one of them we dont talk much bc that is a pretty social core class) and I have lunch. We dont talk at lunch tho. We sit next to each other and talk in class tho. His friends wave to me sometimes which is kinda weird and some girl is invested in my love life so is one of his friends. I see him looking at me and looking back some times but idk what that means bc I am a girl so what do you guys think? Also I cant have time alone with him at lunch so asking him out is kinda embarrassing tbh I dont want people spreading things and if I get rejected I would get publicly humiliated but then again I could pass him a note after class and tell him to meet me somewhere private but I want him to confess
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MrIcenice44
I have trauma from past relationships, so Im learning that somebody liking me is the way it should work. Ive had to relearn the signs that I should pursue because as a guy Id shut those off after bad experiences with previous women.
Theres a girl who I noticed looking at me and I noticed myself looking at them. I was happy that I was still attractive, but I was also sad and scared that I was attracted to them, even tho Ive been working on myself to be in this situation.
I asked her, but shes a very busy person so she said yes but had to reschedule. The patience its taking to pursue is a toll on my anxiety, but I trust myself; Ive worked really hard on this skill. I deserve to use what Ive worked on
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I have trauma from past relationships, so Im learning that somebody liking me is the way it should work. Ive had to relearn the signs that I should pursue because as a guy Id shut those off after bad experiences with previous women.
Theres a girl who I noticed looking at me and I noticed myself looking at them. I was happy that I was still attractive, but I was also sad and scared that I was attracted to them, even tho Ive been working on myself to be in this situation.
I asked her, but shes a very busy person so she said yes but had to reschedule. The patience its taking to pursue is a toll on my anxiety, but I trust myself; Ive worked really hard on this skill. I deserve to use what Ive worked on
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JAGQ
30 year old here, I've never been in a relationship, last year it was the first time in life I got to ask out my crush, I couldnt do it in person but it was through message and she accepted! We had a date and even tho there was no chemistry it felt great to do it!
Before I wasnt sure she would accept my invitation and thought she was just being nice, so I recommend to do it, who knows maybe you both will click!
Right now I have a new crush and I'm on the same page but I'm eager to ask her out, and this time would like to do it in person, so far circumstances has made it unavailable to see eachother but starting next month I'll have the chance.
Best wishes and hope you find love!
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30 year old here, I've never been in a relationship, last year it was the first time in life I got to ask out my crush, I couldnt do it in person but it was through message and she accepted! We had a date and even tho there was no chemistry it felt great to do it!
Before I wasnt sure she would accept my invitation and thought she was just being nice, so I recommend to do it, who knows maybe you both will click!
Right now I have a new crush and I'm on the same page but I'm eager to ask her out, and this time would like to do it in person, so far circumstances has made it unavailable to see eachother but starting next month I'll have the chance.
Best wishes and hope you find love!
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Steve
Gentlemen, This is some of the dumbest garbage I've seen in a while. NEVER, and I mean NEVER, take dating advice from a woman. Ever.
Guys, Listen, do NOT be a simp. Do NOT chase these 304's. Devote your time, your resources, and your attention to. wait for it. YOU! Never give them away, freely, to females.
Do yourself a favor and watch some videos from Strong Successful Male, Better Bachelor, Darius M, and Wheat Waffles. I wish I had access to this content when I was younger. You will arm yourself with knowledge of female nature. true female nature. the brutal truth. Use this knowledge and act accordingly. Good luck.
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Gentlemen, This is some of the dumbest garbage I've seen in a while. NEVER, and I mean NEVER, take dating advice from a woman. Ever.
Guys, Listen, do NOT be a simp. Do NOT chase these 304's. Devote your time, your resources, and your attention to. wait for it. YOU! Never give them away, freely, to females.
Do yourself a favor and watch some videos from Strong Successful Male, Better Bachelor, Darius M, and Wheat Waffles. I wish I had access to this content when I was younger. You will arm yourself with knowledge of female nature. true female nature. the brutal truth. Use this knowledge and act accordingly. Good luck.
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Solarpunk
just make sure the smile isn't creepy? Nah, imma full-on tilt my head down and make the creepiest smile l can, and if they seem at least a bit thrown off, they ain't my type, and it would never work out! :P (Also, these videos just give me FOMO, and could possibly make me convince myself that l like a friend that l'm actually just friends with, which might ruin my friendships, but l gotta keep watching them, to know if somebody does like me so that l can start considering them)
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just make sure the smile isn't creepy? Nah, imma full-on tilt my head down and make the creepiest smile l can, and if they seem at least a bit thrown off, they ain't my type, and it would never work out! :P (Also, these videos just give me FOMO, and could possibly make me convince myself that l like a friend that l'm actually just friends with, which might ruin my friendships, but l gotta keep watching them, to know if somebody does like me so that l can start considering them)
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TriqxterRB
One time when I was walking home from school I saw my crush standing on the other side of the sidewalk looking in my direction. She had previously showed some signs of being interested in me. So when I saw her looking in my direction my heart started to race and I was thinking is this it is she gonna ask me out but she just stood there looking very nervous and still looking in my direction, now I know what her intensions were. I think I'm ready to ask her out now. :)
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One time when I was walking home from school I saw my crush standing on the other side of the sidewalk looking in my direction. She had previously showed some signs of being interested in me. So when I saw her looking in my direction my heart started to race and I was thinking is this it is she gonna ask me out but she just stood there looking very nervous and still looking in my direction, now I know what her intensions were. I think I'm ready to ask her out now. :)
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Cesar
I get all those sings from a crush from work, we've hanging out often, one nigth a homeless guy ask us for some money, instinctly i put my arm on her shoulders (not even my hold arm) the guy leaves, one second after she gave me her best killing eyes and ask me why i do that, i explain her that the homeless man scares ME, and the shoulder thing wasn't with no other intentions. from that day she's no longer my crush.
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I get all those sings from a crush from work, we've hanging out often, one nigth a homeless guy ask us for some money, instinctly i put my arm on her shoulders (not even my hold arm) the guy leaves, one second after she gave me her best killing eyes and ask me why i do that, i explain her that the homeless man scares ME, and the shoulder thing wasn't with no other intentions. from that day she's no longer my crush.
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powerslave0606
I barely had the opportunity to coincide with my crush at the same place in order to know her better and allow more trust from her to arise towards me. But in one occasion, I think we went beyond getting caught looking at each other (individually); somehow our minds got coordinated and both of us looked at each other at the same time. No blushing, just intense mutual staring (about 30s.
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I barely had the opportunity to coincide with my crush at the same place in order to know her better and allow more trust from her to arise towards me. But in one occasion, I think we went beyond getting caught looking at each other (individually); somehow our minds got coordinated and both of us looked at each other at the same time. No blushing, just intense mutual staring (about 30s.
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LibeFiken
I asked my crush out but she later canceled on me. After that her behavior was a complete 180 of what it was before. I'm hoping she is just really nervous and not genuinely disinterested now. In any case this video definitely helped identify some things I hadn't noticed in the past. Now I just need to figure out what to identify in the future. Wish me luck peeps!
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I asked my crush out but she later canceled on me. After that her behavior was a complete 180 of what it was before. I'm hoping she is just really nervous and not genuinely disinterested now. In any case this video definitely helped identify some things I hadn't noticed in the past. Now I just need to figure out what to identify in the future. Wish me luck peeps!
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tempura
What are you waiting for?
Bro, I am 5'1, I don't get to ask anyone out or it could be some other flaw within me that makes sure that no one ever likes me. Besides, I don't think there's a need to. I am living pretty comfortably. Life can't be perfect, if I am alone then let that be one imperfection in my life. Everything else is going pretty well for me.
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What are you waiting for?
Bro, I am 5'1, I don't get to ask anyone out or it could be some other flaw within me that makes sure that no one ever likes me. Besides, I don't think there's a need to. I am living pretty comfortably. Life can't be perfect, if I am alone then let that be one imperfection in my life. Everything else is going pretty well for me.
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TheAncientTale
Last semester I had a table in math class with my crush, one other girl, and I all at it. The girl distanced herself from us so she could see the teachers board and so she could talk to other people, leaving me and my crush at the other side at the table in the corner of the room. It was one long semester, but that part went by too fast.
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Last semester I had a table in math class with my crush, one other girl, and I all at it. The girl distanced herself from us so she could see the teachers board and so she could talk to other people, leaving me and my crush at the other side at the table in the corner of the room. It was one long semester, but that part went by too fast.
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Captainjeff
I confessed to my crush awhile ago although it was awkward we kept in contact she kept giving signs like saying whenever someone likes me I like them back but then she says dont take this as a sign. We have this thing where we speak random languages to eachother today she said te amo which is I love you in Spanish so should I ask her out?
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I confessed to my crush awhile ago although it was awkward we kept in contact she kept giving signs like saying whenever someone likes me I like them back but then she says dont take this as a sign. We have this thing where we speak random languages to eachother today she said te amo which is I love you in Spanish so should I ask her out?
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Viktor
I have a heavy crush on a girl at work, but the bottom line is that Im a jerk and I treated her really badly last week. She gives me almost all the signs (some I still need to test) on the video and I would surely regret not to ask her out. I have no idea why Im like that with someone Im so attracted with.
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I have a heavy crush on a girl at work, but the bottom line is that Im a jerk and I treated her really badly last week. She gives me almost all the signs (some I still need to test) on the video and I would surely regret not to ask her out. I have no idea why Im like that with someone Im so attracted with.
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Alexandre
I'm in that weird situation where I've had wind that she has been having serious doubts for several weeks that I'm interested in her but hasn't been acting more than friendly towards me. So I don't know if I should ask her out yet or try to spend more time together as friends
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I'm in that weird situation where I've had wind that she has been having serious doubts for several weeks that I'm interested in her but hasn't been acting more than friendly towards me. So I don't know if I should ask her out yet or try to spend more time together as friends
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Stephanie
This series is so optimist and full of human potential. I appreciate it's optimism. Meanwhile, back to reality: some people are destined to be unlovable. It's nice at least seeing the other side of the coin that for many, life has something and beautiful to offer.
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This series is so optimist and full of human potential. I appreciate it's optimism. Meanwhile, back to reality: some people are destined to be unlovable. It's nice at least seeing the other side of the coin that for many, life has something and beautiful to offer.
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ThatCarGuy
Oh my god I have a friend and they are a girl and I never eat around them because I never feel hungry then at the end of the day I feel sick also I do act a bit different laugh a lot and say a lot of jokes but theres no way that I have a crush right?
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Oh my god I have a friend and they are a girl and I never eat around them because I never feel hungry then at the end of the day I feel sick also I do act a bit different laugh a lot and say a lot of jokes but theres no way that I have a crush right?
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Simplefoyz
Thank goodness the advice I give is actually based somewhere. I used to be a very active advisor on the r/crushes subreddit and the advise I gave was almost always just what I thought would be right but now at least I know its actually right lol
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Thank goodness the advice I give is actually based somewhere. I used to be a very active advisor on the r/crushes subreddit and the advise I gave was almost always just what I thought would be right but now at least I know its actually right lol
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James
Huh. I strangely don't like looking at people I'm attracted to, which I wonder if that's related to my lack of facial recognition, which I thought was more connected to my possible autism.
I will try to look at people, more, I guess? Thanks.
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Huh. I strangely don't like looking at people I'm attracted to, which I wonder if that's related to my lack of facial recognition, which I thought was more connected to my possible autism.
I will try to look at people, more, I guess? Thanks.
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JET
The feeling of hope in finding happiness in someone you like. It's very addictive like they say in the video, it's worse though because it rarely comes true. That fantasy cycle thinking of romance in the brain.
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The feeling of hope in finding happiness in someone you like. It's very addictive like they say in the video, it's worse though because it rarely comes true. That fantasy cycle thinking of romance in the brain.
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manygh
I really REALLY like this girl from my class and she is the first girl i actully love. I love her personality and not her body and i am thinking of asking her out in valentine's day. Wish me luck.
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I really REALLY like this girl from my class and she is the first girl i actully love. I love her personality and not her body and i am thinking of asking her out in valentine's day. Wish me luck.
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Alastair5809
I zoned out part way through the video and started thinking about them- Now I have to rewatch this- Curse you person that I may or may not have a crush on for always being on my mind!
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I zoned out part way through the video and started thinking about them- Now I have to rewatch this- Curse you person that I may or may not have a crush on for always being on my mind!
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Gl1CH
Im in this situation where shes sending me hints maybe but I dont know if shes just being nice or if she actually likes me.
WHAT DO I DOOOO? (Plz help I dont know how girls think)
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Im in this situation where shes sending me hints maybe but I dont know if shes just being nice or if she actually likes me.
WHAT DO I DOOOO? (Plz help I dont know how girls think)
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toreon
I gave my chrush a Christmas card and asked him out but he didn't get it and tougt i wanted to be friends
(Stil im happy i can hang out with him more. maybe i ask him out again)
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I gave my chrush a Christmas card and asked him out but he didn't get it and tougt i wanted to be friends
(Stil im happy i can hang out with him more. maybe i ask him out again)
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