5 Ways To Work With Your Partner's Love Language
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Date: 2023-08-20
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DE
You know mine is spending
quality time with the person
I love. That's you, Ryan.
I know you're afraid.
This is a huge step for both of us.
You're afraid I'll lose interest
or enthusiasm suddenly,
because my actions have been
either intensely there
or seemingly nonexistent.
That must be scary for
the level of commitment
we're undertaking.
I want you to know
that I don't do this up/down
interest thing in real life.
When I commit to anything
I'm 100% cheerfully in.
My seeming lack of enthusiasm
today is simply being tired
of creating plans with no
resulting forward movement.
Being stalled and balked over
two years has created some
mental conditioning that I
need to fight. Like occasional
hopeless feelings.
I love you, Ryan.
Don't worry.
Normally, I'm both consistent
and look forward intensely
to our future as entrepreneurs.
Hang in there until we can meet.
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You know mine is spending
quality time with the person
I love. That's you, Ryan.
I know you're afraid.
This is a huge step for both of us.
You're afraid I'll lose interest
or enthusiasm suddenly,
because my actions have been
either intensely there
or seemingly nonexistent.
That must be scary for
the level of commitment
we're undertaking.
I want you to know
that I don't do this up/down
interest thing in real life.
When I commit to anything
I'm 100% cheerfully in.
My seeming lack of enthusiasm
today is simply being tired
of creating plans with no
resulting forward movement.
Being stalled and balked over
two years has created some
mental conditioning that I
need to fight. Like occasional
hopeless feelings.
I love you, Ryan.
Don't worry.
Normally, I'm both consistent
and look forward intensely
to our future as entrepreneurs.
Hang in there until we can meet.
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george
I was married for 23 years without
ever being in love, or not achieving
a stable, long lasting love. We were
different. I was young, dumb, and
thought it would grow. She lived an
unexpressive childhood, and never
developed any expressions. I gave
up, and decided being alone would
be no change. I am 64 today, 20yrs
single. I likely, by %, will die alone.
I am kind, but avoid wasting time
on the 99. 99% who seem to be takers. I have friends. My tolerance
is more liberal then. I missed my
chance. With age comes baggage
& awareness. No longer the young
fool. Now just an old fool.
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I was married for 23 years without
ever being in love, or not achieving
a stable, long lasting love. We were
different. I was young, dumb, and
thought it would grow. She lived an
unexpressive childhood, and never
developed any expressions. I gave
up, and decided being alone would
be no change. I am 64 today, 20yrs
single. I likely, by %, will die alone.
I am kind, but avoid wasting time
on the 99. 99% who seem to be takers. I have friends. My tolerance
is more liberal then. I missed my
chance. With age comes baggage
& awareness. No longer the young
fool. Now just an old fool.
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Modern
Geez - I get this was just an overview but talk about vague - when someone has a completely opposite LL from you its very very complicated-
you can take the online tests & my partners LL is last on my list & the same with mine. The one I struggle the most to give is his LL & mine is the one he has the most trouble giving. It doesnt mean were incapable - in fact, I believe we can be brought together to be each others healers in these areas.
my reluctance to touch & his to talking are both from deep rooted traumas - I believe we will get there but its going to take so much more work than this video is expressing
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Geez - I get this was just an overview but talk about vague - when someone has a completely opposite LL from you its very very complicated-
you can take the online tests & my partners LL is last on my list & the same with mine. The one I struggle the most to give is his LL & mine is the one he has the most trouble giving. It doesnt mean were incapable - in fact, I believe we can be brought together to be each others healers in these areas.
my reluctance to touch & his to talking are both from deep rooted traumas - I believe we will get there but its going to take so much more work than this video is expressing
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Grimm_Raven
My love language is physical touch and my partners body loathes physical touch like they will want to try something and then seem almost like they try to avoid me before we even try theyre love language is quality time and words of affirmation and Im very verbal with my love but its hard to make space in our schedules for each other so I just have to be verbal but since they cant do physical touch I dont know what to do to or say cause I love them so much and I never want to leave them but I almost dont feel loved please help me
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My love language is physical touch and my partners body loathes physical touch like they will want to try something and then seem almost like they try to avoid me before we even try theyre love language is quality time and words of affirmation and Im very verbal with my love but its hard to make space in our schedules for each other so I just have to be verbal but since they cant do physical touch I dont know what to do to or say cause I love them so much and I never want to leave them but I almost dont feel loved please help me
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Sis
What if your partner doesnt seem to have any love language aside from saying ily each morning via text when he gets to work, and then sitting on the couch after work together and thats about it what kind of love language is this? Cuz I cannot figure it out and Im feeling very alone and sad but I dont know how to express that to him without either hurting his feelings or making him angry and causing a huge blowout argument, I dont wanna do either of those things
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What if your partner doesnt seem to have any love language aside from saying ily each morning via text when he gets to work, and then sitting on the couch after work together and thats about it what kind of love language is this? Cuz I cannot figure it out and Im feeling very alone and sad but I dont know how to express that to him without either hurting his feelings or making him angry and causing a huge blowout argument, I dont wanna do either of those things
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Andy
I love cuddling with my crush because I crush on her even if its a quick image in my mind but I havent seen her in person in while because she moved away maybe about a year-and-a-half since I saw her and I recently wrote her a letter tells ngl her how much I miss her but I feel like she doesnt care about me as much as she used to but idk fore sure so it would be awkward if I talked to her over the phone or in person could I have some advice?
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I love cuddling with my crush because I crush on her even if its a quick image in my mind but I havent seen her in person in while because she moved away maybe about a year-and-a-half since I saw her and I recently wrote her a letter tells ngl her how much I miss her but I feel like she doesnt care about me as much as she used to but idk fore sure so it would be awkward if I talked to her over the phone or in person could I have some advice?
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tbone
my boyfriends is words is affirmation and mine is physical touch so he doesn't really show any affection other than hugging and holding my hand every now and then but sometimes it's hard because I know he loves me but we have different love languages so he doesn't really understand how much the cuddles and hand holding means to me and its just tough sometimes coz idk how to start the conversation about this to him: /
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my boyfriends is words is affirmation and mine is physical touch so he doesn't really show any affection other than hugging and holding my hand every now and then but sometimes it's hard because I know he loves me but we have different love languages so he doesn't really understand how much the cuddles and hand holding means to me and its just tough sometimes coz idk how to start the conversation about this to him: /
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hm
This is mainly me gushing about my partner:
My language is words of affirmation and so is my partner's, and luckily we're both good at communicating how we feel and comforting each other
I was upset earlier and they validated my emotions and did their best to help. And just them giving me that validation and words of love made me want to cry
I love them so much they're just so sweet
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This is mainly me gushing about my partner:
My language is words of affirmation and so is my partner's, and luckily we're both good at communicating how we feel and comforting each other
I was upset earlier and they validated my emotions and did their best to help. And just them giving me that validation and words of love made me want to cry
I love them so much they're just so sweet
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Tanya
My partners love language is physical touch. I feel bad because that is literally the smallest percentage on my list of love languages. He often says he feels deprived and it makes me feel inadequate as a partner because I feel like I can never satisfy the amount of touch he needs. I came across this video because Im currently seeking ideas on how to be more physically intimate.
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My partners love language is physical touch. I feel bad because that is literally the smallest percentage on my list of love languages. He often says he feels deprived and it makes me feel inadequate as a partner because I feel like I can never satisfy the amount of touch he needs. I came across this video because Im currently seeking ideas on how to be more physically intimate.
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Cha-Cha
ACT OF SERVICE. My lover serves me from 5am to 10pm. He does all kinds of chores like cooking me delicious food, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, works hard for our business and offer services like driving me wherever I want to go. This is his way of showing his love & care for me. a rare kind. many people told me how blessed i am having him. Praise the LORD!
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ACT OF SERVICE. My lover serves me from 5am to 10pm. He does all kinds of chores like cooking me delicious food, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, works hard for our business and offer services like driving me wherever I want to go. This is his way of showing his love & care for me. a rare kind. many people told me how blessed i am having him. Praise the LORD!
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Jane
Thanks for sharing this informative video! It's so important to understand your partner's love language in order to improve communication and build a stronger relationship. I actually discovered the tiddle me app for couples, which has helped me and my partner understand each other's needs better. Have you heard of it? #relationshipgoals
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Thanks for sharing this informative video! It's so important to understand your partner's love language in order to improve communication and build a stronger relationship. I actually discovered the tiddle me app for couples, which has helped me and my partner understand each other's needs better. Have you heard of it? #relationshipgoals
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Mann
Men don't listen to this nonsense it's garbage. There's only two things that'll make a woman want you or be with you and thats need or desire. This is that lovey-dovey nonsense they love to push on you to make them seem like deep individuals when they're really not. Design to keep you jumping through hoops and testing your strength.
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Men don't listen to this nonsense it's garbage. There's only two things that'll make a woman want you or be with you and thats need or desire. This is that lovey-dovey nonsense they love to push on you to make them seem like deep individuals when they're really not. Design to keep you jumping through hoops and testing your strength.
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psych2go
Everything in this video is for naught unless you are willing to do the obvious first step in a meaningful relationship which is to absolutely commit to it by pledging an oath to that effect through the Holy bond of Marriage. If you can't or are unwilling to, then the entire enterprise is based on nothing.
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Everything in this video is for naught unless you are willing to do the obvious first step in a meaningful relationship which is to absolutely commit to it by pledging an oath to that effect through the Holy bond of Marriage. If you can't or are unwilling to, then the entire enterprise is based on nothing.
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Jaydon
My love language is definitely physical touch which makes my emotional life hell. I have crippling depression and loneliness and cuddles are like the purest expression of love to me. Id do anything to have that feeling again, I know Im unattractive but I just hope Ill feel it again soon I need it.
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My love language is definitely physical touch which makes my emotional life hell. I have crippling depression and loneliness and cuddles are like the purest expression of love to me. Id do anything to have that feeling again, I know Im unattractive but I just hope Ill feel it again soon I need it.
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education
I'm all 5 except instead of gifts. i want to receive food lol-
I'm a foodie and never gain weight so.
My partner is words of affirmation, acts of service, (depends on quality time) and well they're physical type but we're long distance relationship so we can't do physical things.
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I'm all 5 except instead of gifts. i want to receive food lol-
I'm a foodie and never gain weight so.
My partner is words of affirmation, acts of service, (depends on quality time) and well they're physical type but we're long distance relationship so we can't do physical things.
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seamajor
When i care about someone, i usually show my quality time LL so much to them, like i wanna stay with them or talk to them all day damn.
And people that has giving gifts LL is like the most hard for me. Because I'm gonna spend days to think about one kind of gift
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When i care about someone, i usually show my quality time LL so much to them, like i wanna stay with them or talk to them all day damn.
And people that has giving gifts LL is like the most hard for me. Because I'm gonna spend days to think about one kind of gift
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Isabel
I love all of these ways to show love super looking forward to Valentines Day because well be including all 5 in our celebration! But I think my girlfriend especially likes acts of service because she always gets so excited to cook things for me: )
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I love all of these ways to show love super looking forward to Valentines Day because well be including all 5 in our celebration! But I think my girlfriend especially likes acts of service because she always gets so excited to cook things for me: )
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hanzoscumsock
Im not very good at giving my partner my love through physical affection but they were surrounded by it throughout there life and I want to radiate that some energy, but its difficult and I feel awkward and unsure is that normal?
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Im not very good at giving my partner my love through physical affection but they were surrounded by it throughout there life and I want to radiate that some energy, but its difficult and I feel awkward and unsure is that normal?
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ngelito
As a man who has been married for 10 years I can tell you that acts of service is the most annoying, frustrating love language possible. If you are not married yet, and you suspect your partner's love language is acts of service, run!
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As a man who has been married for 10 years I can tell you that acts of service is the most annoying, frustrating love language possible. If you are not married yet, and you suspect your partner's love language is acts of service, run!
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ashley
Im struggling with this rn cuz my partner and I have different love languages. Mine is physical touch but they are uncomfortable with touch in social situations and I dont know how to come to a mutual compromise
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Im struggling with this rn cuz my partner and I have different love languages. Mine is physical touch but they are uncomfortable with touch in social situations and I dont know how to come to a mutual compromise
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luvondarox
This might sound weird, but this works really well for parents and children, too. My mom is definitely a Touch and Service, for example, whereas my dad is very much a Quality Time guy.
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This might sound weird, but this works really well for parents and children, too. My mom is definitely a Touch and Service, for example, whereas my dad is very much a Quality Time guy.
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Djmesa7
I 100% say I'm a physical kind of lover while my gf is a verbal lover, it all stems from how we grew up but I still love her, even if things can sometimes get frustrating, we both try
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I 100% say I'm a physical kind of lover while my gf is a verbal lover, it all stems from how we grew up but I still love her, even if things can sometimes get frustrating, we both try
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Mr
When you go in to a small bit of detail of each love language. My wife is a mixture of love language 1 thru 4, 2 being the most dominant of the 4. Mine is 5 and a mixture of 4 and 1
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When you go in to a small bit of detail of each love language. My wife is a mixture of love language 1 thru 4, 2 being the most dominant of the 4. Mine is 5 and a mixture of 4 and 1
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izskura
I really, really, like quality time. I think its the most important for me. Words like I love you and compliments are touching, yes, but SHOWING you love me is more touching.
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I really, really, like quality time. I think its the most important for me. Words like I love you and compliments are touching, yes, but SHOWING you love me is more touching.
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education
i feel like Words of Affirmation and Physical touch is how i want to be loved and is how i love, i know that probably sounds REALLY WEIRD. but thats just how i think of it
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i feel like Words of Affirmation and Physical touch is how i want to be loved and is how i love, i know that probably sounds REALLY WEIRD. but thats just how i think of it
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