6 Signs You're Emotionally Attached To Someone
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Wealthy
I met a new friend one month ago at my new work place. I don't know why lately i feel attached to her, i feel like she also like me to be her bestfriend. When we worked together, she was the one approach me first and so kind to me. She always come to me and talking/chatting. Even when i was busy, she come and ask me to talk with her. At first i never feel like i like her to be my friend. But idk since when I start to feel close to her eventhouh she was the one that always come to me first.
Unfortunately she stopped working there coz she had problem with other co workers. But i always back up her in front of others. She ask me to stop work there too and work with her aunt like her too. Just the problem is that the place is far from my home. So i decide to stay. Few days before she go away to her aunt's place, I ask her to promise me that she'll never disconnect or leave me. She said I Promise and hold my hand as the sign of her sincerity.
A day before she stop working, she asked me to have dinner or lunch with her. Actually she always invite me to eat with her, but I can't because have lot works to do. But at her last day, I fulfilled her wish and we went to have dinner together and playing around the park at late of night before send her go back home.
The problem is that after she go to her Aunt place, looks like she doesnt like me as her friend anymore. She always not replying to my chat and left me even when I ask her something.
But then when I decided in my heart to just let her go and not be friend with her anymore, suddenly she text me again just for teasing me. And then when I replied, she never replied anymore. Whats wrong with her? Or whats wrong with me? I feel so attached to her like she's my only younger sibling that I had lol. I always want to play with her like the last time when we play scooter.
I don't know why she stuck in my head but when I forget her, she'll come text me or join my Live or whutsoever. I try to delete her number and I always delete all her chats. But yeah her name always appear everywhere evertime I want to push her away.
FYI For those who asked, I'm a girl. BUT I'M NOT LESBI BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE A MAN IN MY HEART. It's just that I always have problems easily attached with one friend amongs all my closes friend. In the last time actually I met 2 person that I feel attach so much. But I already left them when I realize they just come to me when they are in trouble or need something
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I met a new friend one month ago at my new work place. I don't know why lately i feel attached to her, i feel like she also like me to be her bestfriend. When we worked together, she was the one approach me first and so kind to me. She always come to me and talking/chatting. Even when i was busy, she come and ask me to talk with her. At first i never feel like i like her to be my friend. But idk since when I start to feel close to her eventhouh she was the one that always come to me first.
Unfortunately she stopped working there coz she had problem with other co workers. But i always back up her in front of others. She ask me to stop work there too and work with her aunt like her too. Just the problem is that the place is far from my home. So i decide to stay. Few days before she go away to her aunt's place, I ask her to promise me that she'll never disconnect or leave me. She said I Promise and hold my hand as the sign of her sincerity.
A day before she stop working, she asked me to have dinner or lunch with her. Actually she always invite me to eat with her, but I can't because have lot works to do. But at her last day, I fulfilled her wish and we went to have dinner together and playing around the park at late of night before send her go back home.
The problem is that after she go to her Aunt place, looks like she doesnt like me as her friend anymore. She always not replying to my chat and left me even when I ask her something.
But then when I decided in my heart to just let her go and not be friend with her anymore, suddenly she text me again just for teasing me. And then when I replied, she never replied anymore. Whats wrong with her? Or whats wrong with me? I feel so attached to her like she's my only younger sibling that I had lol. I always want to play with her like the last time when we play scooter.
I don't know why she stuck in my head but when I forget her, she'll come text me or join my Live or whutsoever. I try to delete her number and I always delete all her chats. But yeah her name always appear everywhere evertime I want to push her away.
FYI For those who asked, I'm a girl. BUT I'M NOT LESBI BECAUSE I ALREADY HAVE A MAN IN MY HEART. It's just that I always have problems easily attached with one friend amongs all my closes friend. In the last time actually I met 2 person that I feel attach so much. But I already left them when I realize they just come to me when they are in trouble or need something
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Meghna
What to do if you know you might get attached to someone from whom you've to learn something say some skill(which you really want to have) and you've to learn from them only since they're accessible, affordable and expert at it. Though you have given yourself clear rational reasons that you can't afford getting attached to them since you two can't end being together due to caste and age differences(Especially if the age difference is about 7-8 years. And you love your family and want your inner peace to stay for life. As stress is the cause of all diseases. And you don't want your close ones to be sad and frown over your decisions since then you can't be happy. Plus you can't say if they'll ever reciprocate your feelings for them but they are soft-spoken, caring and sweet by nature which makes you get attached to them sub-consciously with time and I am afraid it might affect my major career goals but that skill is also important as it will be helpful for my mental and physical wellbeing. And i need to learn it. Please help me resolve this situation. Help.
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What to do if you know you might get attached to someone from whom you've to learn something say some skill(which you really want to have) and you've to learn from them only since they're accessible, affordable and expert at it. Though you have given yourself clear rational reasons that you can't afford getting attached to them since you two can't end being together due to caste and age differences(Especially if the age difference is about 7-8 years. And you love your family and want your inner peace to stay for life. As stress is the cause of all diseases. And you don't want your close ones to be sad and frown over your decisions since then you can't be happy. Plus you can't say if they'll ever reciprocate your feelings for them but they are soft-spoken, caring and sweet by nature which makes you get attached to them sub-consciously with time and I am afraid it might affect my major career goals but that skill is also important as it will be helpful for my mental and physical wellbeing. And i need to learn it. Please help me resolve this situation. Help.
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SEBASTIAN
The thing is I've only seen him for two days. On a family resort. He's the grandson of the grandma in there. We were invited as guests. And yeah, to tell you, I ain't straight. Well, I'm bi probably but I get easily attached to males or maybe the good or qualitative girls haven't stepped on my life yet, well my last MU is a girl. So yeah, I'm actually having an identity crisis but the doesn't matter. About the boy, at that time, we hang out and swim together, we're yeah, a bit close but now, we just got home in each respective houses, which is very far away from each other. Good thing I easily found his social media accounts, but yeah, looking forward to our next meeting
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The thing is I've only seen him for two days. On a family resort. He's the grandson of the grandma in there. We were invited as guests. And yeah, to tell you, I ain't straight. Well, I'm bi probably but I get easily attached to males or maybe the good or qualitative girls haven't stepped on my life yet, well my last MU is a girl. So yeah, I'm actually having an identity crisis but the doesn't matter. About the boy, at that time, we hang out and swim together, we're yeah, a bit close but now, we just got home in each respective houses, which is very far away from each other. Good thing I easily found his social media accounts, but yeah, looking forward to our next meeting
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Phoenix
I think this is basically me with my boy best friend. I find myself being more comfortable around him more than anyone. It's odd considering that I've only met him a few years ago, and I have friends who I've known since practically childhood. I'm close with a few of them but I've never gotten as close and comfortable to them as I have with the guy. Also, what I mean by comfortable, is that I've never really told any of them about my problems. He wasn't exactly the first one to have heard of it but I've never opened up completely to anyone before. He was the first person I had completely opened up to.
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I think this is basically me with my boy best friend. I find myself being more comfortable around him more than anyone. It's odd considering that I've only met him a few years ago, and I have friends who I've known since practically childhood. I'm close with a few of them but I've never gotten as close and comfortable to them as I have with the guy. Also, what I mean by comfortable, is that I've never really told any of them about my problems. He wasn't exactly the first one to have heard of it but I've never opened up completely to anyone before. He was the first person I had completely opened up to.
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taysfearless
i'm emotionally attached to two of my classmates. i really wanted to be friends with them but one of them turns out to be fake & talk abt me behind my back, my heart broke bcs of that. it's always me that always want to talk to her but she never seems to be friends with me & i was shocked at first when i knew that they're alr close with each other without me knowing
ik it's not their fault that i get attached to them. and i was dealing with loneliness when i first knew them so there's that, i'm still trying to let go & heal so that i won't hurt myself even more
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i'm emotionally attached to two of my classmates. i really wanted to be friends with them but one of them turns out to be fake & talk abt me behind my back, my heart broke bcs of that. it's always me that always want to talk to her but she never seems to be friends with me & i was shocked at first when i knew that they're alr close with each other without me knowing
ik it's not their fault that i get attached to them. and i was dealing with loneliness when i first knew them so there's that, i'm still trying to let go & heal so that i won't hurt myself even more
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Shadow_
I feel so attached to someone and i find it difficult to be alone, i want them to be with me most of the time but i just cant, and even tho i want to and i try hard i still cant let go of that feeling, it pulls me in into wanting them with me no matter what, i always have them in my mind and show love. allot. Lately tho i have noticed how i feel really attached, to the point where they dont show it back which is the reason i want to be more distance, less attached to them but im not sure how.
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I feel so attached to someone and i find it difficult to be alone, i want them to be with me most of the time but i just cant, and even tho i want to and i try hard i still cant let go of that feeling, it pulls me in into wanting them with me no matter what, i always have them in my mind and show love. allot. Lately tho i have noticed how i feel really attached, to the point where they dont show it back which is the reason i want to be more distance, less attached to them but im not sure how.
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Zahn3rsatZ
she is the first to love me back but she lives 6h away from my town plus she isnt interested in a long distance relationship/friendship because it just isnt what she wants a social bonding to be like i accept her decission but now i feel emotionaly empty and am very sad when i am alone with me it has been two weeks when we last saw each other in person and one week since we started a contact break bc i told her how emotional draining it is for me missing her i feel like an idiot
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she is the first to love me back but she lives 6h away from my town plus she isnt interested in a long distance relationship/friendship because it just isnt what she wants a social bonding to be like i accept her decission but now i feel emotionaly empty and am very sad when i am alone with me it has been two weeks when we last saw each other in person and one week since we started a contact break bc i told her how emotional draining it is for me missing her i feel like an idiot
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Jefferson
I became so emotional attach i keep telling myself to chill bruh. But then I think of how amazing he is as a person and how we understand each other and that feeling so addictive you can't get enough of him. But I tell myself that he has a life too, I should chill, yeah. I must! But every time my phone rings I'm like a puppy wagging my tail and grabbing the phone as fast as i can. It's borderline annoying and cute cause I never allow myself to be like this for any person.
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I became so emotional attach i keep telling myself to chill bruh. But then I think of how amazing he is as a person and how we understand each other and that feeling so addictive you can't get enough of him. But I tell myself that he has a life too, I should chill, yeah. I must! But every time my phone rings I'm like a puppy wagging my tail and grabbing the phone as fast as i can. It's borderline annoying and cute cause I never allow myself to be like this for any person.
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holp
I had five friends and i got so attached to them cause we've all been besties for 7 years. and now im on 7th grade and the four of them transferred to a diffrent school with me alone in my school: ( now i feel super lonely cause i cant socialize when im with new people and im really used to be with them every time and now im on my own. sometimes im scared that they will leave me and get another friend soon: ( i cant seem to adjust in this kinda situation:
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I had five friends and i got so attached to them cause we've all been besties for 7 years. and now im on 7th grade and the four of them transferred to a diffrent school with me alone in my school: ( now i feel super lonely cause i cant socialize when im with new people and im really used to be with them every time and now im on my own. sometimes im scared that they will leave me and get another friend soon: ( i cant seem to adjust in this kinda situation:
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Addison
Do you know why I was thinking about the person I was thinking of the last one really reminded me of my best friends and it kind of makes sense because you know recently people have been saying to me that shes like obsessed with me or something she claims to be straight and I respect and believe that but she does all of these things maybe Im just being weird and maybe shes just trying to be your friend comment down below what you guys think anyway
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Do you know why I was thinking about the person I was thinking of the last one really reminded me of my best friends and it kind of makes sense because you know recently people have been saying to me that shes like obsessed with me or something she claims to be straight and I respect and believe that but she does all of these things maybe Im just being weird and maybe shes just trying to be your friend comment down below what you guys think anyway
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Nintendo
im not that shy like im good at talking to boys MAKE THEM FELL PAIN but i got in my mind: what hapens that i talk to girl becom friand and things more and more but the day have come i was playing rec room (a great game) i met some one nice but i lefted her for reasons and i just realised that im shy to talk whit girls and this helped me a lot thank you realy changed my life ( a bit)
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im not that shy like im good at talking to boys MAKE THEM FELL PAIN but i got in my mind: what hapens that i talk to girl becom friand and things more and more but the day have come i was playing rec room (a great game) i met some one nice but i lefted her for reasons and i just realised that im shy to talk whit girls and this helped me a lot thank you realy changed my life ( a bit)
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Ren's
Here i am with my 9 years of lovestory
Im alone he moved on married im crying still attached its been 4 years foe breakup. may be i didn't get fatherly love. in childhood this thing makes me fell for me i guess its hard ro move on im 28 now i dont know i ever fell in live again in my life i owe this life to my parents now
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Here i am with my 9 years of lovestory
Im alone he moved on married im crying still attached its been 4 years foe breakup. may be i didn't get fatherly love. in childhood this thing makes me fell for me i guess its hard ro move on im 28 now i dont know i ever fell in live again in my life i owe this life to my parents now
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Takrim
I am attached to someone who is a lot older than me. we used have a good relationship before. but now i feel like she is ignoring me al lot and avoiding me and she even leaves me on seen sometimes saying she was busy. and when i stop texting first. we dont talk for a month or more. it really hurts. like reealllyyy
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I am attached to someone who is a lot older than me. we used have a good relationship before. but now i feel like she is ignoring me al lot and avoiding me and she even leaves me on seen sometimes saying she was busy. and when i stop texting first. we dont talk for a month or more. it really hurts. like reealllyyy
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Mimszy
Ive realized I became extremely emotionally attached to someone who I been together with for 3 1/2 years. due to pass trauma that emotional attachment became very toxic to myself and now that weve decided to take a break I feel like Im loosing my self even more. Anybody has any words of advice for me.
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Ive realized I became extremely emotionally attached to someone who I been together with for 3 1/2 years. due to pass trauma that emotional attachment became very toxic to myself and now that weve decided to take a break I feel like Im loosing my self even more. Anybody has any words of advice for me.
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Kim
Once upon a time i was emotionally attached to someone but it was the worsted feeling. He didn't give me proper respect or value. Now i can understand i have my own self respect. So it will be better for me to staying away from him. Now i have moved on my life with myself.
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Once upon a time i was emotionally attached to someone but it was the worsted feeling. He didn't give me proper respect or value. Now i can understand i have my own self respect. So it will be better for me to staying away from him. Now i have moved on my life with myself.
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Legendaddy_Gabe
Wow basically everything here I do.
I'm in a long distance relationship and honestly it's the best one I've ever had. She's the only person I really like to communicate with. But I'm trying to be respectful of her own space learn how to talk to other people
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Wow basically everything here I do.
I'm in a long distance relationship and honestly it's the best one I've ever had. She's the only person I really like to communicate with. But I'm trying to be respectful of her own space learn how to talk to other people
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Lil
Her name is Ellie. I really like her but Im scared of rejection. I want to know more about her but I dont want to seem weird, I may possibly have ADHD but I just feel like there is too much wiring in my body at the moment when I think about her. I dont know what to do
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Her name is Ellie. I really like her but Im scared of rejection. I want to know more about her but I dont want to seem weird, I may possibly have ADHD but I just feel like there is too much wiring in my body at the moment when I think about her. I dont know what to do
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mint_marigold
Came here after admitting my extremely close ( platonic ) feelings for somebody made them really uncomfy, and it made me realize that I'm way too attached to them, and that they don't quite feel the same way towards me as I do towards them. It. sucks a lot.
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Came here after admitting my extremely close ( platonic ) feelings for somebody made them really uncomfy, and it made me realize that I'm way too attached to them, and that they don't quite feel the same way towards me as I do towards them. It. sucks a lot.
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el
My online friend was a good friend of mine and I always feel like I have to come running back to them. They always make me feel like a bad person and cant let go of my past but I just cant let go of them, they treat me so bad compared to everyone else
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My online friend was a good friend of mine and I always feel like I have to come running back to them. They always make me feel like a bad person and cant let go of my past but I just cant let go of them, they treat me so bad compared to everyone else
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Frog
I just had a breakdown cause I was supposed to see someone today that I really like but I ended up not be able to
Theres always next week but it hurts when the only thing youve been looking forward to is seeing them and then you cant: (
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I just had a breakdown cause I was supposed to see someone today that I really like but I ended up not be able to
Theres always next week but it hurts when the only thing youve been looking forward to is seeing them and then you cant: (
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Juice
I literally cant have freinds cuz of this and im so damn lonely: ( im scared to grow old cuz i know ill just get lonelier. And i know i wont die early. Life wants to torture me for as long as. Unless i do it myself
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I literally cant have freinds cuz of this and im so damn lonely: ( im scared to grow old cuz i know ill just get lonelier. And i know i wont die early. Life wants to torture me for as long as. Unless i do it myself
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Cindy
Alyssa is the person that I have imprinted on emotionally. Alyssa was the one who i had a deep bond with. I feel emotionally attached to Alyssa and yesterday when she keft me i feel emotional and sad
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Alyssa is the person that I have imprinted on emotionally. Alyssa was the one who i had a deep bond with. I feel emotionally attached to Alyssa and yesterday when she keft me i feel emotional and sad
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Proxima
That's literally 1: 1. I don't even know what to do anymore.
I spoiled it all and probably ruined the whole relationship because I told her too early how I felt.
Im broken
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That's literally 1: 1. I don't even know what to do anymore.
I spoiled it all and probably ruined the whole relationship because I told her too early how I felt.
Im broken
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SNEHA
I am attached to one person. But he is going other country forever nor he will come back or he will active online I want to help him but i can't i will miss him soo much
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I am attached to one person. But he is going other country forever nor he will come back or he will active online I want to help him but i can't i will miss him soo much
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Psych2Go
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