8 Side Effects of A Toxic Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Polish
I ised to be in a toxic relationship and I'm glad I moved on, because the person I was with have trust issues after her last relationship where she told me her ex was talking with someone. Everytime I was with this person, it made me happy that I get to see her face and talk to her but some often times she would start accusing me of cheating woth noe logical proof, fights and arhuements where involved, lack of self esteem, and other mental health issues.
When she acts like this, I've always been their to support the relationship by showing proof of how loyal and how much she means to me, but allowed her low self esteem have the best of her.
I left her because I've realized that it's her decision to have lack of trust, love and self esteem, no one is making her feel like this but herself.
Also on top of all of that, what's the point of wanting to be with someone and love them if they dint trust them, that doesn't make any sense?
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I ised to be in a toxic relationship and I'm glad I moved on, because the person I was with have trust issues after her last relationship where she told me her ex was talking with someone. Everytime I was with this person, it made me happy that I get to see her face and talk to her but some often times she would start accusing me of cheating woth noe logical proof, fights and arhuements where involved, lack of self esteem, and other mental health issues.
When she acts like this, I've always been their to support the relationship by showing proof of how loyal and how much she means to me, but allowed her low self esteem have the best of her.
I left her because I've realized that it's her decision to have lack of trust, love and self esteem, no one is making her feel like this but herself.
Also on top of all of that, what's the point of wanting to be with someone and love them if they dint trust them, that doesn't make any sense?
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scthce_lapag
As a random person who dont each other, since childhood I have been into many friendships that most of them are Exploitative in school due to my unconditional love and a nonstop kindness plus being a nerd that scores high mark. And one friendships that last 3 years was toxic I managed to leave that friend but it left me crushed and crying hard for three day and night, that made somebody think that someone dear to me died.
I will just leave a message before I go forever: these friendships are hard to forget but dont ever let it effect your next years of your life because there will be many people out there will give you a kindness hand to pull you of the darkness but you only need time and courage to open your eyes and heart to find them before they go away, and remember life is short so please dont let theses wonderful moments go with out see them. I know you will make it
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As a random person who dont each other, since childhood I have been into many friendships that most of them are Exploitative in school due to my unconditional love and a nonstop kindness plus being a nerd that scores high mark. And one friendships that last 3 years was toxic I managed to leave that friend but it left me crushed and crying hard for three day and night, that made somebody think that someone dear to me died.
I will just leave a message before I go forever: these friendships are hard to forget but dont ever let it effect your next years of your life because there will be many people out there will give you a kindness hand to pull you of the darkness but you only need time and courage to open your eyes and heart to find them before they go away, and remember life is short so please dont let theses wonderful moments go with out see them. I know you will make it
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Midnight
The part talking about being ore guarded is true Im in a new relationship now and this guy is the most wonderful person Ive met But the affects of my last relationship left me always feeling overly paranoid and guarded Like I constantly worry about if hes gonna abandon me My ex lied to me constantly, flaked on plans, and dragged my heart around only because he didnt know what he wanted and kept me around sort of as a just in case I want a relationship sort of thing Tbh I self harmed because I just felt so worthless because of the things hes done I know people have dealt with worse, but people react and handle the same/similar situations differently My new boyfriend is super compassionate and loving Understands why I am like this and just loves me unconditionally
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The part talking about being ore guarded is true Im in a new relationship now and this guy is the most wonderful person Ive met But the affects of my last relationship left me always feeling overly paranoid and guarded Like I constantly worry about if hes gonna abandon me My ex lied to me constantly, flaked on plans, and dragged my heart around only because he didnt know what he wanted and kept me around sort of as a just in case I want a relationship sort of thing Tbh I self harmed because I just felt so worthless because of the things hes done I know people have dealt with worse, but people react and handle the same/similar situations differently My new boyfriend is super compassionate and loving Understands why I am like this and just loves me unconditionally
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anjali
I am unable to figure out how is my long distance relationship running we are at distance there is one habit that i dont like about my relationship is that he avoids small conflicts that happens btw us due to my bad mood. On the very next day he seems to be normal like we didn't have fight yesterday or something. It is annoying to me.
The second thing that i dont like about the person if i m expressing myself to him that i m not in happy mood or having problem, telling him to atleast discuss with me
He says that why he does that if i m not asking his problem.
He says to me that i m always seeing my problem so big.
I feel less love from his side.
We have fights more and dont talk for days.
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I am unable to figure out how is my long distance relationship running we are at distance there is one habit that i dont like about my relationship is that he avoids small conflicts that happens btw us due to my bad mood. On the very next day he seems to be normal like we didn't have fight yesterday or something. It is annoying to me.
The second thing that i dont like about the person if i m expressing myself to him that i m not in happy mood or having problem, telling him to atleast discuss with me
He says that why he does that if i m not asking his problem.
He says to me that i m always seeing my problem so big.
I feel less love from his side.
We have fights more and dont talk for days.
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Jake
I've been in a toxic relationship for years & it's now getting to the point of no return. We still try to make things work but it never changes. I feel anxiety most of the time & depressed when we are together. We have 2 little ones 8 & 4, I feel that we express in a bad way how love is supposed to be in front of them. This is hard and even harder to believe we shouldn't be together for my sake and for the kids. I hope I can make the changes in a better way. I also know it's not just the other person that's to blame. I just really can't believe we call it love bc it is not when we can't treat each other with love, respect, and just be helpful for each other.
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I've been in a toxic relationship for years & it's now getting to the point of no return. We still try to make things work but it never changes. I feel anxiety most of the time & depressed when we are together. We have 2 little ones 8 & 4, I feel that we express in a bad way how love is supposed to be in front of them. This is hard and even harder to believe we shouldn't be together for my sake and for the kids. I hope I can make the changes in a better way. I also know it's not just the other person that's to blame. I just really can't believe we call it love bc it is not when we can't treat each other with love, respect, and just be helpful for each other.
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Rainbow
I got stuck in one that I couldnt get out of on my own and I felt like I couldnt say anything so I didnt. But 3 months into It ended up searching and finding ways to slowly detach from them and eventually the toxic person ended up talking to my best friend (they didnt know it was toxic) and they convinced them to break up with me. I was so glad when they did, I was free, but they tried going for my Brest friend to do the same thing and my group stopped it before it got too far. I cant look at the word boyfriend the same anymore or relationship I just think trapped, scared and lonely.
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I got stuck in one that I couldnt get out of on my own and I felt like I couldnt say anything so I didnt. But 3 months into It ended up searching and finding ways to slowly detach from them and eventually the toxic person ended up talking to my best friend (they didnt know it was toxic) and they convinced them to break up with me. I was so glad when they did, I was free, but they tried going for my Brest friend to do the same thing and my group stopped it before it got too far. I cant look at the word boyfriend the same anymore or relationship I just think trapped, scared and lonely.
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Mojikun
For a while Ive been wanting to end a relationship & I knew it wasnt getting any better but more risk full & challenging. It makes it harder when youre living with them & you have nowhere else to go. Ive became bitter & gained serious trust issues & aware of questioning why Im with this person. To this day Im struggling with that issue & I know Things are not gonna get better until I do something about it. The question is how & when will be the right moment.
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For a while Ive been wanting to end a relationship & I knew it wasnt getting any better but more risk full & challenging. It makes it harder when youre living with them & you have nowhere else to go. Ive became bitter & gained serious trust issues & aware of questioning why Im with this person. To this day Im struggling with that issue & I know Things are not gonna get better until I do something about it. The question is how & when will be the right moment.
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Charlie
Dang I have so many nightmares about the woman I love she just couldn't forgive me for a mistake and repeated how much I hurt her everyday for a year straight and weakend my mind to the point I excessively drink feel fatigue, drained, worthless, hopeless, I have so much anxiety my body shakes uncontrollably, I can't even eat healthy in eat one meal a day. We broke up and I don't know what to do with myself I feel like a ultimate failure
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Dang I have so many nightmares about the woman I love she just couldn't forgive me for a mistake and repeated how much I hurt her everyday for a year straight and weakend my mind to the point I excessively drink feel fatigue, drained, worthless, hopeless, I have so much anxiety my body shakes uncontrollably, I can't even eat healthy in eat one meal a day. We broke up and I don't know what to do with myself I feel like a ultimate failure
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walter
I just left me girlfriend because I couldnt handle the toxicity anymore she just gave me a bloody nose and a fat lip because a girl said hi to me, after I took my girlfriend to go shopping after a hard long day at work, Im 17 and I dont know how to live my life without her. She made me cut off all other social connections and now I feel so alone
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I just left me girlfriend because I couldnt handle the toxicity anymore she just gave me a bloody nose and a fat lip because a girl said hi to me, after I took my girlfriend to go shopping after a hard long day at work, Im 17 and I dont know how to live my life without her. She made me cut off all other social connections and now I feel so alone
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Saints
I've been with the same person for 5 years. I love her but all we do is fight. I don't think we mean to be judgemental or toxic for eachother but we are. were just hurting eachother and it's too painful to leave her. I can't imagine my life without her. So I'm pushing her away. Since I don't have the strength to leave her myself
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I've been with the same person for 5 years. I love her but all we do is fight. I don't think we mean to be judgemental or toxic for eachother but we are. were just hurting eachother and it's too painful to leave her. I can't imagine my life without her. So I'm pushing her away. Since I don't have the strength to leave her myself
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AR
I use to get headaches and was fatigued when I my last relationship. when I was with my ex my blood pressure began to spike. probably due to my job at the time as well. I found a new job and have been single. my BP has been decreasing ever since and continues to decrease to healthy numbers. he brought a lot of stress into my life.
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I use to get headaches and was fatigued when I my last relationship. when I was with my ex my blood pressure began to spike. probably due to my job at the time as well. I found a new job and have been single. my BP has been decreasing ever since and continues to decrease to healthy numbers. he brought a lot of stress into my life.
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recking1976
Sometimes it's a good thing to end a toxic feels like you're walking on eggshells all the time always trying to please but you never can never can you can never fulfill the needs of but you have to love and let go that's the best way and I'll be sad to truly but I just can't take the pressure any more
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Sometimes it's a good thing to end a toxic feels like you're walking on eggshells all the time always trying to please but you never can never can you can never fulfill the needs of but you have to love and let go that's the best way and I'll be sad to truly but I just can't take the pressure any more
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Thomas
Im fairly certain Im in one now but I just moved in with him from living with my narcissistic mother. Im kind of stuck. I wish we could just be friends from a distance but he makes me tired sometimes. Especially at work. Were coworkers and he likes to talk about games and shit while Im working.
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Im fairly certain Im in one now but I just moved in with him from living with my narcissistic mother. Im kind of stuck. I wish we could just be friends from a distance but he makes me tired sometimes. Especially at work. Were coworkers and he likes to talk about games and shit while Im working.
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Infinite
I am not with this person enymore. But what can I do about that when zi still have scars and trauma from that?
Its been 2 or 3 years. After the breakup
What should I think about to do now?
I started to have suicide temtentions after that to this day.
I just wanna die sometimes
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I am not with this person enymore. But what can I do about that when zi still have scars and trauma from that?
Its been 2 or 3 years. After the breakup
What should I think about to do now?
I started to have suicide temtentions after that to this day.
I just wanna die sometimes
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Nalan
I went through all of it. Now that I ended my relationship I realize what I went through. I was trying so hard to convince myself its just me if I am better he will love me and support me. Now Im recovering. At first I thought I was fine but Im not. I know I will be eventually.
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I went through all of it. Now that I ended my relationship I realize what I went through. I was trying so hard to convince myself its just me if I am better he will love me and support me. Now Im recovering. At first I thought I was fine but Im not. I know I will be eventually.
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Goshila
I was in an extremely toxic relationship for an year. It was so difficult to move on as I felt that I am abandoning him. After moved on I felt unutterable relief and seclusion. Now I can realize how much damage it caused on me. Its really pathetic. Now I am fixing them.
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I was in an extremely toxic relationship for an year. It was so difficult to move on as I felt that I am abandoning him. After moved on I felt unutterable relief and seclusion. Now I can realize how much damage it caused on me. Its really pathetic. Now I am fixing them.
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natalie
I'm pregnant and I'm leaving. It's so painful cause all these years I wanted a happy future with him but I'm so exhausted and tired of feeling worthless. My child on the way needs a happy mother and to do that I just have to bite the bullet and leave the man I love.
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I'm pregnant and I'm leaving. It's so painful cause all these years I wanted a happy future with him but I'm so exhausted and tired of feeling worthless. My child on the way needs a happy mother and to do that I just have to bite the bullet and leave the man I love.
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Uno
I'm living in a very hostile relationship right now, its draining me emotionally I feel i don't have a voice this person is destroying my self-esteem I wish I could walk away from it but I'm financially broke as well my heart is. help!
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I'm living in a very hostile relationship right now, its draining me emotionally I feel i don't have a voice this person is destroying my self-esteem I wish I could walk away from it but I'm financially broke as well my heart is. help!
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Dogmobile
Hahaha I've been in a toxic relationship for quite sometime now and I really feel like I can't leave her I genuinely don't know what to do cause I love her so much but she keeps hurting me really badly
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