Do More Plates Equal More Dates
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Date: 2024-08-05
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NateDG72
I dont know. I never trust what a woman says when they answer this question. Sometimes I think they even lie to themselves. Ive met many women say they dont like bigger muscles and when a bigger lean guy walks down the beach they do a stare with a full head track and a look on their face like they are reading some 50 shades stuff. Next a bunch of guys with the body type they claim to love walk by and not even a glance. They didnt exist.
Or my brothers ex who said she loved it when my brother was skinny but chunky dad bod then when i asked her who she thought the best looking actors were it was chris evans and hemsworth and Michael b jordan and statham, the rock. Every single one bar a few guys was a slab of muscle in most movies. Strange.
Even one of my own exes told me when we got together i was too muscular but i was really nice and she loved my personality so she decided to go out with me. Meanwhile before i talked to her at the gym i knew she was interested in me because her head was on a swivel when i walked by. I guess she was looking at my personality.
I have no clue why they do this. But i always just doubt these survey answers when i see them.
In the end maybe if you look a way you are really proud of and you love it that will reflect in to every facet of your life. You will be happier which is attractive. You will be more motivated and ambitious which is attractive. You will be demonstrating you can work at something for years to achieve results which is attractive. You will be more confident which is attractice. Also you will just walk with a better posture and hold yourself more strongly when you love the way you look which is attractive.
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I dont know. I never trust what a woman says when they answer this question. Sometimes I think they even lie to themselves. Ive met many women say they dont like bigger muscles and when a bigger lean guy walks down the beach they do a stare with a full head track and a look on their face like they are reading some 50 shades stuff. Next a bunch of guys with the body type they claim to love walk by and not even a glance. They didnt exist.
Or my brothers ex who said she loved it when my brother was skinny but chunky dad bod then when i asked her who she thought the best looking actors were it was chris evans and hemsworth and Michael b jordan and statham, the rock. Every single one bar a few guys was a slab of muscle in most movies. Strange.
Even one of my own exes told me when we got together i was too muscular but i was really nice and she loved my personality so she decided to go out with me. Meanwhile before i talked to her at the gym i knew she was interested in me because her head was on a swivel when i walked by. I guess she was looking at my personality.
I have no clue why they do this. But i always just doubt these survey answers when i see them.
In the end maybe if you look a way you are really proud of and you love it that will reflect in to every facet of your life. You will be happier which is attractive. You will be more motivated and ambitious which is attractive. You will be demonstrating you can work at something for years to achieve results which is attractive. You will be more confident which is attractice. Also you will just walk with a better posture and hold yourself more strongly when you love the way you look which is attractive.
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jeffnippard
It’s fun to experiment. When I got really shredded, I get looks mostly from dudes and some girls. But only the girls who are really into bodybuilding and fitness. But it’s like 80 percent dudes by far because they are a) interested in how you got lean and muscular, what you are doing and how it’s working, or hating on your physique. Or b) gay. But that’s my findings. I also experimented with scruffy versus shaved. Women like a little scruff. Goes deep into the biology. My issue is I’m only 5’8 and taller guys regardless of muscle tend to be more attractive and also do better on job interviews etc again due to biology.
But the main thing I’ve noticed is you can’t control your height but you can get muscles and then get lean. I’m natural too and I really don’t think a lot of gals find the really jacked guys as attractive as it’s too much and intimidating for them. Same also with being really lean in my opinion. It might make more insecure women feel worse or inadequate. Oh, lastly yes you need to get out of your phone and just talk to everyone (when possible and not rude or creepy. How you treat others shows how you are with a mate.
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It’s fun to experiment. When I got really shredded, I get looks mostly from dudes and some girls. But only the girls who are really into bodybuilding and fitness. But it’s like 80 percent dudes by far because they are a) interested in how you got lean and muscular, what you are doing and how it’s working, or hating on your physique. Or b) gay. But that’s my findings. I also experimented with scruffy versus shaved. Women like a little scruff. Goes deep into the biology. My issue is I’m only 5’8 and taller guys regardless of muscle tend to be more attractive and also do better on job interviews etc again due to biology.
But the main thing I’ve noticed is you can’t control your height but you can get muscles and then get lean. I’m natural too and I really don’t think a lot of gals find the really jacked guys as attractive as it’s too much and intimidating for them. Same also with being really lean in my opinion. It might make more insecure women feel worse or inadequate. Oh, lastly yes you need to get out of your phone and just talk to everyone (when possible and not rude or creepy. How you treat others shows how you are with a mate.
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ronniebasak96
Aren't we confusing correlation with causation In other words, as you mentioned, gaining muscles increases one's chances in reproductive success. But all we have seen is data (survey) that shows some correlation (more muscle = more romantic partners, which is not enough to establish a causal relationship.
It could be that more jacked people care more about getting dates, pursue more people, handle rejection well or simply are more confident, or a mix of all of these. It can also be said that, more jacked folks don't have long term relationships which may be due to a lower standard in partner selection.
So, simply gaining more muscle might not cause someone to gain more partners.
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Aren't we confusing correlation with causation In other words, as you mentioned, gaining muscles increases one's chances in reproductive success. But all we have seen is data (survey) that shows some correlation (more muscle = more romantic partners, which is not enough to establish a causal relationship.
It could be that more jacked people care more about getting dates, pursue more people, handle rejection well or simply are more confident, or a mix of all of these. It can also be said that, more jacked folks don't have long term relationships which may be due to a lower standard in partner selection.
So, simply gaining more muscle might not cause someone to gain more partners.
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minimalsheep8900
As a long time viewer, there is so, so much wrong with a lot of the conclusions here. A lot of this contradicts with many things that happen in the real world. Additionally asking people about their preferences or anything else for that matter, is inherently flawed. People lie their ass for loads of different reasons; it's one of the things that makes any type of sociology research so difficult.
The only thing relating the majority of the things in the video is testosterone. Testosterone causes a direct increase in aggression. That directly contradicts the view of being nice.
Idk what your motives for making this video were, but it's just very misleading.
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As a long time viewer, there is so, so much wrong with a lot of the conclusions here. A lot of this contradicts with many things that happen in the real world. Additionally asking people about their preferences or anything else for that matter, is inherently flawed. People lie their ass for loads of different reasons; it's one of the things that makes any type of sociology research so difficult.
The only thing relating the majority of the things in the video is testosterone. Testosterone causes a direct increase in aggression. That directly contradicts the view of being nice.
Idk what your motives for making this video were, but it's just very misleading.
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b78418364
2: 51 With regards to the people who have 4 plate bench presses and having the most partners, I'd like to reference the law of small numbers. The smaller the sample is, the more probable it is that it will yield extreme conclusions. Meaning that small samples are much more probable to gravitate towards an extreme result, either very high or low results. There are significantly less people that bench 4 plates, than people that bench 2. It's like flipping a coin 3 times versus 10 times. It's way more likely for the coin to flip on the same side 3 times than 10 times.
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2: 51 With regards to the people who have 4 plate bench presses and having the most partners, I'd like to reference the law of small numbers. The smaller the sample is, the more probable it is that it will yield extreme conclusions. Meaning that small samples are much more probable to gravitate towards an extreme result, either very high or low results. There are significantly less people that bench 4 plates, than people that bench 2. It's like flipping a coin 3 times versus 10 times. It's way more likely for the coin to flip on the same side 3 times than 10 times.
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chrisswift1981
Hey Jeff I really appreciate all of the effort and research that you put into gathering, cleaning, and organizing your data. However I think it would be interesting to take a more qualitative approach to some of the stuff you looked at. For instance when people are ranking their happiness in relation to their romantic life. Sure the numbers are elucidating, but I think a little deeper look into the whys would be even more insightful. That being said I have no idea if that would make for a good video or play well with your conmunity
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Hey Jeff I really appreciate all of the effort and research that you put into gathering, cleaning, and organizing your data. However I think it would be interesting to take a more qualitative approach to some of the stuff you looked at. For instance when people are ranking their happiness in relation to their romantic life. Sure the numbers are elucidating, but I think a little deeper look into the whys would be even more insightful. That being said I have no idea if that would make for a good video or play well with your conmunity
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Rick020
Girls care about muscles, women don't. My wife (27) couldn't care less if I lost majority of my muscles and gained 10kg of fat. My brother's wife (29) also doesn't care that he is a little overweight and few muscles. Most women care more about how you act and treat people. Next to that height seems important, so is education, your job and life goals and being respectful, romantic, open and honest. The rest is extra. If your partner is only with you because you are muscular, you won't find happiness in that relationship long-term.
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Girls care about muscles, women don't. My wife (27) couldn't care less if I lost majority of my muscles and gained 10kg of fat. My brother's wife (29) also doesn't care that he is a little overweight and few muscles. Most women care more about how you act and treat people. Next to that height seems important, so is education, your job and life goals and being respectful, romantic, open and honest. The rest is extra. If your partner is only with you because you are muscular, you won't find happiness in that relationship long-term.
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DennisM168
Honestly, pretty much all the data you collected here is either super unreliable or pretty much common sense.
Why unreliable Self-reported romantic preferences are absolutely no where near reliable. We might think that we know what we are looking for in a romantic partner, but what we actually end up getting attracted by can, in some cases, be the complete opposite. Also there might be a bit of shame in talking about preferences and people might change their answer to come off as normal or average.
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Honestly, pretty much all the data you collected here is either super unreliable or pretty much common sense.
Why unreliable Self-reported romantic preferences are absolutely no where near reliable. We might think that we know what we are looking for in a romantic partner, but what we actually end up getting attracted by can, in some cases, be the complete opposite. Also there might be a bit of shame in talking about preferences and people might change their answer to come off as normal or average.
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MichaelPayton67
There is a small methodological issue here: you’re basing this on self-report. There is some evidence that woman tend to underreport the influence of physical attributes on attraction in controlled studies. Particularly the nice guy work, from my memory showed that physical attributes explain more of the variance than niceness. (Issue being that there is a halo effect where we tend to assume attractive people are smarter/funnier/nicer than unattractive people)
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There is a small methodological issue here: you’re basing this on self-report. There is some evidence that woman tend to underreport the influence of physical attributes on attraction in controlled studies. Particularly the nice guy work, from my memory showed that physical attributes explain more of the variance than niceness. (Issue being that there is a halo effect where we tend to assume attractive people are smarter/funnier/nicer than unattractive people)
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Macatho
Let me explain the correlation.
If you benchpress 185kg you're obviously on juice, being on juice makes you extremely horny. And having such shit low confidence that you need to take juice to look better also helps you score ladies - mainly because your quantity: quality ratio is absolute garbage. But sure, you're walking around and you're an 8 but you're continuously sleeping with 2-4s.
Almost anyone can go out there and sleep with 2-4s. Quality matters.
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Let me explain the correlation.
If you benchpress 185kg you're obviously on juice, being on juice makes you extremely horny. And having such shit low confidence that you need to take juice to look better also helps you score ladies - mainly because your quantity: quality ratio is absolute garbage. But sure, you're walking around and you're an 8 but you're continuously sleeping with 2-4s.
Almost anyone can go out there and sleep with 2-4s. Quality matters.
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user-fb4du2yv8x
You wanted to check if more plates equal more dates, yet you didn't ask anyone how many partners they had before and after they started going to the gym And how many they had after each gym year
I know that it's extremely difficult to study this subject with how multidimensional it is, and you will never be able to build a flawless methodology, but I thought a before vs after would be the first thing you would show to us in this video.
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You wanted to check if more plates equal more dates, yet you didn't ask anyone how many partners they had before and after they started going to the gym And how many they had after each gym year
I know that it's extremely difficult to study this subject with how multidimensional it is, and you will never be able to build a flawless methodology, but I thought a before vs after would be the first thing you would show to us in this video.
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_baller
It’s actually less fat more dates, more abs more dates, girls like a mildly built physique with abs, to an extent, then they might get too insecure and jealous and end up with a dad bod instead, but they’ll never go for a juice head unless it’s for a night or a personal fetish of theirs, so no more plates don’t equal more dates, being a popular douche hat with money might get you dates though
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It’s actually less fat more dates, more abs more dates, girls like a mildly built physique with abs, to an extent, then they might get too insecure and jealous and end up with a dad bod instead, but they’ll never go for a juice head unless it’s for a night or a personal fetish of theirs, so no more plates don’t equal more dates, being a popular douche hat with money might get you dates though
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oblivion1591
hey Jeff, I loved the video! is there a write up somewhere with more specifics on the particular data points for each graph would love to see that! something like x amount of people with level 1 body fat were asked y question and responded z. Thanks and once again, you did a wonderful job on the video, it was both informative and captivating throughout!
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hey Jeff, I loved the video! is there a write up somewhere with more specifics on the particular data points for each graph would love to see that! something like x amount of people with level 1 body fat were asked y question and responded z. Thanks and once again, you did a wonderful job on the video, it was both informative and captivating throughout!
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TheSLK66
I'd say there were two moments that made my GF really want to be with me, the first time I showed I could carry her on my shoulders/arms and the 2nd when she got sick and while I cared for her, I cooked something nice for her, got us a few treats at a bakery. There's definitely a strength attraction but the way you show you care also means a lot.
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I'd say there were two moments that made my GF really want to be with me, the first time I showed I could carry her on my shoulders/arms and the 2nd when she got sick and while I cared for her, I cooked something nice for her, got us a few treats at a bakery. There's definitely a strength attraction but the way you show you care also means a lot.
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user-fo7pj1qd3k
Love your usual content Jeff, but these statistics are heavily flawed. The age should be normed to an average, or the amount of dates should be weighed accordingly.
Also this survey looks at CORRELATION not CAUSALITY. Frankly said, these mentioned aspects correlate to a happy relationship but are by no means the cause.
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Love your usual content Jeff, but these statistics are heavily flawed. The age should be normed to an average, or the amount of dates should be weighed accordingly.
Also this survey looks at CORRELATION not CAUSALITY. Frankly said, these mentioned aspects correlate to a happy relationship but are by no means the cause.
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baerit5090
I thought the really big bench-pressers would be so focused on the gym they wouldn't have as much time or energy for getting around.
You're almost there Jeff. It takes more work (time and energy) to build and maintain a lasting relationship with one partner than it does to go on a bunch of dates with a bunch of people.
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I thought the really big bench-pressers would be so focused on the gym they wouldn't have as much time or energy for getting around.
You're almost there Jeff. It takes more work (time and energy) to build and maintain a lasting relationship with one partner than it does to go on a bunch of dates with a bunch of people.
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michaeljordan215
Ofcourse a sic pack matters. Asking girls if they would go for muscles and shredded won't get accurate responses because girls don't want to admit that they want that, probably something about being modest. If a girl is near a six pack for the first time in her life most will impulsively try to touch.
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Ofcourse a sic pack matters. Asking girls if they would go for muscles and shredded won't get accurate responses because girls don't want to admit that they want that, probably something about being modest. If a girl is near a six pack for the first time in her life most will impulsively try to touch.
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smashmusique
I agree mostly with the blackpill principle. That physical attractiveness seems to be the number one factor to have more chance at having great relationship. Muscles are part of that, but at a certain point it has diminushing returns, it can even be repulsing.
The face is the most important thing.
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I agree mostly with the blackpill principle. That physical attractiveness seems to be the number one factor to have more chance at having great relationship. Muscles are part of that, but at a certain point it has diminushing returns, it can even be repulsing.
The face is the most important thing.
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PrimeRib94
There has to be correlation between being bigger and having more dates. are we having more dates because we are bigger or is the other partner likes the way the look but not the attitude to go with it they have more dates cause they suck as a person Self confidence issues (im only 2 mins in)
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There has to be correlation between being bigger and having more dates. are we having more dates because we are bigger or is the other partner likes the way the look but not the attitude to go with it they have more dates cause they suck as a person Self confidence issues (im only 2 mins in)
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gabepagan8949
I’m married but get flirted with quite frequently at my job. I’m not very lean whatsoever but I have decently sized legs, nice size arms, wide chest and back and that’s usually what attracts women physique wise (then again maybe I am just handsome and none of that shit matters )
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I’m married but get flirted with quite frequently at my job. I’m not very lean whatsoever but I have decently sized legs, nice size arms, wide chest and back and that’s usually what attracts women physique wise (then again maybe I am just handsome and none of that shit matters )
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