5 Signs of Manipulative Behaviors and How to Deal With It
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Date: 2023-08-20
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WithermanJack
So, I don't really know where to start. I've been meaning to tell someone about this for a while, but the only person that I felt like I could tell is my school psychologist, but it's summer now. I spent pretty much ever since I realized that this is an issue to the end of the year to build up the nerve to tell him about this. I've had my fair share of trauma, 1st 2nd and 3rd grade I had some not so great teachers. 1st grade there was a physically abusive teacher, 2nd and 3rd grade where emotionally abusive. But that's beside the point. Usually when you see someone with trauma and depression, you feel bad and want to care for them, right? Well I don't feel that at all, sometimes I will say comforting things to them, but what I mainly fell is jelusy. It almost seems like I feel that it feels good to hurt. I do things that I know will get me down on purpose just to feel pain. When I was in 3rd grade I had a dream where my entire class fell out of a plane into water, I acted like I was badly injured and I remember my teacher and some classmates caring for me, I really enjoyed this dream. And in 1st or 2nd grade, I had a dream where I was having surgery and my classmates acted like they enjoyed being around me then. That's the weird thing, I don't enjoy physical pain. During the end of 3rd grade around the time I switched classes, I started acting like I was emotionally numb, not only that, there was a hole bunch of other disorders I acted like I had. That coincidentally was when teachers and a couple of my peers started treating me better. This all ended around 7th grade, when I got into some legal trouble, I've decided to end that stuff. But I found that it was alreadly a habit. Then I started to have symptoms of bipolar disorder, I don't even know if I'm faking them or not! Now we are coming up to present time. I don't know what's wrong with me! My parents can't afford a behavior therapist! I can't stay out of trouble! Please help me.
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So, I don't really know where to start. I've been meaning to tell someone about this for a while, but the only person that I felt like I could tell is my school psychologist, but it's summer now. I spent pretty much ever since I realized that this is an issue to the end of the year to build up the nerve to tell him about this. I've had my fair share of trauma, 1st 2nd and 3rd grade I had some not so great teachers. 1st grade there was a physically abusive teacher, 2nd and 3rd grade where emotionally abusive. But that's beside the point. Usually when you see someone with trauma and depression, you feel bad and want to care for them, right? Well I don't feel that at all, sometimes I will say comforting things to them, but what I mainly fell is jelusy. It almost seems like I feel that it feels good to hurt. I do things that I know will get me down on purpose just to feel pain. When I was in 3rd grade I had a dream where my entire class fell out of a plane into water, I acted like I was badly injured and I remember my teacher and some classmates caring for me, I really enjoyed this dream. And in 1st or 2nd grade, I had a dream where I was having surgery and my classmates acted like they enjoyed being around me then. That's the weird thing, I don't enjoy physical pain. During the end of 3rd grade around the time I switched classes, I started acting like I was emotionally numb, not only that, there was a hole bunch of other disorders I acted like I had. That coincidentally was when teachers and a couple of my peers started treating me better. This all ended around 7th grade, when I got into some legal trouble, I've decided to end that stuff. But I found that it was alreadly a habit. Then I started to have symptoms of bipolar disorder, I don't even know if I'm faking them or not! Now we are coming up to present time. I don't know what's wrong with me! My parents can't afford a behavior therapist! I can't stay out of trouble! Please help me.
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Honeymixed_Bear
Once my friend wanted me to slide down a pole in our school on the playground, and i am scared of heights so i refused. Then she started guilt tripping and saying Please! Or else everyone will be sad and including meee! (I was little at the time) So i did it and ended up with an ugly swollen place on the forehead and a cut on the knee. I was sent home after a trip to the nurse. But my friend giggled, and I loved seeing ppl happy. But not this way. She was laughing bc i looked dumb in front of everybody with that bump on my head. And the majority of boys crowded around and laughed, too. My friend does this in different ways these days, but i learned dont fall for it.
She also pokes my weaknesses, which is cruelness and hurting me mentally. She likes to see me cry, as she laughs when i do. And she's done this to me for the past 6 years now. Its horrible, and she's manipulated my entire friend group to trust her. Part of her plan to frame me to look like a nobody in front of everybody.
And when I try to get away, she guilt trips and vents to my best of friends oh no, my friend is getting distant over the years while i vALuE tHe fRiEnDsHiP!
Ive asked for help. But they say the most BASIC answers or backstab me like Oh, just become friends with her again! No biggie! or Oh im sorry thats happening to u. Here's a hug. Tells the manipulative friend abt EVERYTHING I SAID
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Once my friend wanted me to slide down a pole in our school on the playground, and i am scared of heights so i refused. Then she started guilt tripping and saying Please! Or else everyone will be sad and including meee! (I was little at the time) So i did it and ended up with an ugly swollen place on the forehead and a cut on the knee. I was sent home after a trip to the nurse. But my friend giggled, and I loved seeing ppl happy. But not this way. She was laughing bc i looked dumb in front of everybody with that bump on my head. And the majority of boys crowded around and laughed, too. My friend does this in different ways these days, but i learned dont fall for it.
She also pokes my weaknesses, which is cruelness and hurting me mentally. She likes to see me cry, as she laughs when i do. And she's done this to me for the past 6 years now. Its horrible, and she's manipulated my entire friend group to trust her. Part of her plan to frame me to look like a nobody in front of everybody.
And when I try to get away, she guilt trips and vents to my best of friends oh no, my friend is getting distant over the years while i vALuE tHe fRiEnDsHiP!
Ive asked for help. But they say the most BASIC answers or backstab me like Oh, just become friends with her again! No biggie! or Oh im sorry thats happening to u. Here's a hug. Tells the manipulative friend abt EVERYTHING I SAID
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OkayLily
I dont know if I am being manipulated.
every time I do something she doesnt like she says she is crying over it and I hurt her feelings. she also will say things like
- you hate me dont you?
- I guess we arent best friends.
- I thought we were supposed to be best friends.
- you probably love ______ more than me
- just leave me alone if you hate me so much
- but my bad for crying -_-
- having it was more important to you than me crying
- you made me cry and didnt care
- at least my dad was more helpful than you.
- youre the one who cant share friends
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she knows about something embarrassing happening to me and she was laughing at it, she was laughing at the fact that I almost fell off the bed because I barely had space, she was laughing about knowing a secret of mine that my sister doesnt.
whenever I confront her about something she is like I didnt say that? or she is like I know what I said, I was the one that said it when I literally just looked and quoted exactly what she said.
she will say that her problems are worse than mine and try to convince me of it.
and the worse part it I cant distance myself because she is my cousin and she will tell my parents.
am I being manipulated, idk?
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I dont know if I am being manipulated.
every time I do something she doesnt like she says she is crying over it and I hurt her feelings. she also will say things like
- you hate me dont you?
- I guess we arent best friends.
- I thought we were supposed to be best friends.
- you probably love ______ more than me
- just leave me alone if you hate me so much
- but my bad for crying -_-
- having it was more important to you than me crying
- you made me cry and didnt care
- at least my dad was more helpful than you.
- youre the one who cant share friends
+ a lot more
she knows about something embarrassing happening to me and she was laughing at it, she was laughing at the fact that I almost fell off the bed because I barely had space, she was laughing about knowing a secret of mine that my sister doesnt.
whenever I confront her about something she is like I didnt say that? or she is like I know what I said, I was the one that said it when I literally just looked and quoted exactly what she said.
she will say that her problems are worse than mine and try to convince me of it.
and the worse part it I cant distance myself because she is my cousin and she will tell my parents.
am I being manipulated, idk?
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Jay'Feather
Im going through this with my friend shes manipulative but in a different way like she does all his stuff but somewhat different, like she randomly got mad at me cause my other friend/bff and me went to go talk cause she said something to us like leave me alone you scavengers (shes talking about wings of fire or something) so we left and went to go look at rocks, and pick some up and then her other 3 friends came and told us to see her now and we went over and like the whole grade was there comforting them besides about 7 ppl who were my friends/bffs and knows whats going on. And then one of the popular girls said to my friend/bff who I was looking at rocks with, she said how could you do that to Her? And she started crying and stuff cause the popular girl is rlly mean. And tbh she puts freaking MIDDLE FINGERS AT ME IN SCHOOL AND ON TEXT! Like I dont answer her and she gets mad and puts freaking middle fingers! And I text back and tell her and shes like OoPs SrRy DiDnT mEaN tO sEnD tHAT like I know she meant to send it to hurt me. Plz does anyone have advice? Without hurting her feelings so drama dont start?
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Im going through this with my friend shes manipulative but in a different way like she does all his stuff but somewhat different, like she randomly got mad at me cause my other friend/bff and me went to go talk cause she said something to us like leave me alone you scavengers (shes talking about wings of fire or something) so we left and went to go look at rocks, and pick some up and then her other 3 friends came and told us to see her now and we went over and like the whole grade was there comforting them besides about 7 ppl who were my friends/bffs and knows whats going on. And then one of the popular girls said to my friend/bff who I was looking at rocks with, she said how could you do that to Her? And she started crying and stuff cause the popular girl is rlly mean. And tbh she puts freaking MIDDLE FINGERS AT ME IN SCHOOL AND ON TEXT! Like I dont answer her and she gets mad and puts freaking middle fingers! And I text back and tell her and shes like OoPs SrRy DiDnT mEaN tO sEnD tHAT like I know she meant to send it to hurt me. Plz does anyone have advice? Without hurting her feelings so drama dont start?
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Just
About 2 months ago, I broke off a year-long relationship. I hadn't realized how unhappy I was for months until some of my friends called me out. I had a heart to heart with my big from one of my fraternities, and it made me realize everything that was happening. They played the victim card constantly, always picked at my insecurities, gaslit me, and complained about me behind my back. It got to the point where they got jealous of me spending time with some of my best friends, and I always felt sick to my stomach whenever I knew I had to see them or they entered the room. I was worried I did the wrong thing when I broke it off, but once I heard from a mutual friend that they were convinced that my big had forced me to break up with them as part of a plan, I knew I made the right choice.
I can't begin to say how happy I am to have friends who care about me enough to tell me that I wasn't doing okay. I'm happier than I was even before the relationship started, and I've had time to focus on myself to make sure I'm in a good place both mentally and physically.
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About 2 months ago, I broke off a year-long relationship. I hadn't realized how unhappy I was for months until some of my friends called me out. I had a heart to heart with my big from one of my fraternities, and it made me realize everything that was happening. They played the victim card constantly, always picked at my insecurities, gaslit me, and complained about me behind my back. It got to the point where they got jealous of me spending time with some of my best friends, and I always felt sick to my stomach whenever I knew I had to see them or they entered the room. I was worried I did the wrong thing when I broke it off, but once I heard from a mutual friend that they were convinced that my big had forced me to break up with them as part of a plan, I knew I made the right choice.
I can't begin to say how happy I am to have friends who care about me enough to tell me that I wasn't doing okay. I'm happier than I was even before the relationship started, and I've had time to focus on myself to make sure I'm in a good place both mentally and physically.
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Jade
Hey Psych2go, I have quite struggling still about my friends lately, I feel they talking behind my back ever since I had a lot of suicidal thoughts. I couldn't open up whenever they try to want to know my problem, they just ignore me when I did open up, and my problems got worst. I ask myself if I did terribly to them, also I felt I didn't get any received for I sacrifice for them and him. But until the end, they just used me. They became misunderstood me, I felt upset after I heard that news. I think they don't want to see me like I'm always depressed. But it wasn't right that they need to ignore
I don't know, they aren't like this for a long time back in the first quarter, they gave me good advice, and now they change after what happened about the issue. I don't know if I could change then, but there is no hope.
He manipulated me lately after graduation, he lies about he is busy, but for some others he was w, with his friends
Is there a problem that I can't understand it? Or am this is my fault? Or do they wait for me to throw?
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Hey Psych2go, I have quite struggling still about my friends lately, I feel they talking behind my back ever since I had a lot of suicidal thoughts. I couldn't open up whenever they try to want to know my problem, they just ignore me when I did open up, and my problems got worst. I ask myself if I did terribly to them, also I felt I didn't get any received for I sacrifice for them and him. But until the end, they just used me. They became misunderstood me, I felt upset after I heard that news. I think they don't want to see me like I'm always depressed. But it wasn't right that they need to ignore
I don't know, they aren't like this for a long time back in the first quarter, they gave me good advice, and now they change after what happened about the issue. I don't know if I could change then, but there is no hope.
He manipulated me lately after graduation, he lies about he is busy, but for some others he was w, with his friends
Is there a problem that I can't understand it? Or am this is my fault? Or do they wait for me to throw?
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Vincent
I got a question (this is for my friend)
What do you do when you think your depressed but recall having no traumatic experience?
Is it normal to be depressed for no reason?
What do you when you wanna say your depressed but deny it because you feel like you dont have the right to be depressed when others have it worst.
Why does mood swings happens and how can i forcefully stop it
What do you do if you feel like your acting manipulative but without knowing or actually trying to do it
Is it normal to beat yourself up for it whenever you accidently do something wrong wefher it be from a past mistake, a mood swing, or acting manipulative without knowing
If you identify your manipulative how do you stop yourself from being manipulative
How do i stop depression by my self
How do you know if your doing the right thing or not
How do you handle negative thoughts
What do you do when you think your the villain but do not know how to stop it
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I got a question (this is for my friend)
What do you do when you think your depressed but recall having no traumatic experience?
Is it normal to be depressed for no reason?
What do you when you wanna say your depressed but deny it because you feel like you dont have the right to be depressed when others have it worst.
Why does mood swings happens and how can i forcefully stop it
What do you do if you feel like your acting manipulative but without knowing or actually trying to do it
Is it normal to beat yourself up for it whenever you accidently do something wrong wefher it be from a past mistake, a mood swing, or acting manipulative without knowing
If you identify your manipulative how do you stop yourself from being manipulative
How do i stop depression by my self
How do you know if your doing the right thing or not
How do you handle negative thoughts
What do you do when you think your the villain but do not know how to stop it
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KoLoLo
i dont know
it annoys me i know i am manipulative person and i had a bad past and stuff, but i cant fix that nomatter how meany ppl say its toxic, it it rly toxic? maybe im just smarter and im using dummer ppl it not like i can fix it anyways i tried meany therapist and they never even tried too help me. yes i wish something in my life changed but i feel like im so far out gone its too late. and i wish someone smarter than me could for once take me under their wing and help me out but i feel like its imposible this world if cruel and there isnt anything for free and even if i suffer alot other person wont help me and even if i got out of this mental shit and i would be 100% mentaly heatlhy i would still be sad bcs nomatter what we do we are always going too be sad so why cant i stay manipulative and controll how am i going too sad?
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i dont know
it annoys me i know i am manipulative person and i had a bad past and stuff, but i cant fix that nomatter how meany ppl say its toxic, it it rly toxic? maybe im just smarter and im using dummer ppl it not like i can fix it anyways i tried meany therapist and they never even tried too help me. yes i wish something in my life changed but i feel like im so far out gone its too late. and i wish someone smarter than me could for once take me under their wing and help me out but i feel like its imposible this world if cruel and there isnt anything for free and even if i suffer alot other person wont help me and even if i got out of this mental shit and i would be 100% mentaly heatlhy i would still be sad bcs nomatter what we do we are always going too be sad so why cant i stay manipulative and controll how am i going too sad?
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Ushadevi
I need advice can someone plz help me. :'( it's About my friends in school.
It's just that I have two friends who I think something happened between them, like they hate eachother now. Lets just call them A and B And the one (A) who sits besides me in the same branch was talking behind her(B) back with two more other friends. Now B is a more close and friendlier friend of mine. So I just nodded along with A, without giving my opinion. Now since B knew A was talking bad about her behind her back she asked me what they were talking about and I told B all of it. Now B lost her cool and angrily sad something about A. But she was literally near us and she heard it.
Ok so the thing is what should I do tomorrow when A sits besides me? A was surprisingly more friendly and nice to me today then some other days.
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I need advice can someone plz help me. :'( it's About my friends in school.
It's just that I have two friends who I think something happened between them, like they hate eachother now. Lets just call them A and B And the one (A) who sits besides me in the same branch was talking behind her(B) back with two more other friends. Now B is a more close and friendlier friend of mine. So I just nodded along with A, without giving my opinion. Now since B knew A was talking bad about her behind her back she asked me what they were talking about and I told B all of it. Now B lost her cool and angrily sad something about A. But she was literally near us and she heard it.
Ok so the thing is what should I do tomorrow when A sits besides me? A was surprisingly more friendly and nice to me today then some other days.
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Cam
Thank you, it's very hard. My father is like this, and then tries to guilt me, becomes the powerful one, then the savior, then if I don't respond he's the victim and I'm a horrible person. I can't take more distance with him, I'm sad I can't have a cool relationship with him as I used to have when I was younger (we were very close. I try not to feel guilty, and not too sad. I feel like I can't forgive him for telling me twice that he didn't care anymore about me, that he didn't want to be part of my life etc. He was upset and told me that only for revenge, and now I'm the bad person because I don't respond to his kindness. My mom tells me he's sad and I should talk to him. I can't. Is there anyone in a situation like mine?
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Thank you, it's very hard. My father is like this, and then tries to guilt me, becomes the powerful one, then the savior, then if I don't respond he's the victim and I'm a horrible person. I can't take more distance with him, I'm sad I can't have a cool relationship with him as I used to have when I was younger (we were very close. I try not to feel guilty, and not too sad. I feel like I can't forgive him for telling me twice that he didn't care anymore about me, that he didn't want to be part of my life etc. He was upset and told me that only for revenge, and now I'm the bad person because I don't respond to his kindness. My mom tells me he's sad and I should talk to him. I can't. Is there anyone in a situation like mine?
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Professor
This is probably not the greatest place to express this but u currently have a bad situation with what seems like a manipulative person. If anyone has any advice I'd appreciate it
My long term girlfriend has been dealing with a bad relationship with her mom and I've been dismissive of what definitely seems like manipulative tactics and after her mom snatched her phone to view texts between us with permission she has gotten her phone taken away and now I can't help her. Now she's broken up with me and I have a feeling that this isn't just a break but she couldn't tell me the truth because if she did her mom would respond with more backlash is there a right move here? Is there a way to confront this?
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This is probably not the greatest place to express this but u currently have a bad situation with what seems like a manipulative person. If anyone has any advice I'd appreciate it
My long term girlfriend has been dealing with a bad relationship with her mom and I've been dismissive of what definitely seems like manipulative tactics and after her mom snatched her phone to view texts between us with permission she has gotten her phone taken away and now I can't help her. Now she's broken up with me and I have a feeling that this isn't just a break but she couldn't tell me the truth because if she did her mom would respond with more backlash is there a right move here? Is there a way to confront this?
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Derrek
I have a friend who tries to tell me how i feel or think because she says she knows how i am. But then laughs if what i say is ridiculous. I tell her it hurts my feelings when she does that. I tell her don't tell me how i think or feel. Even i live wirh her kinda because I'm homeless. I am couch surfing. Like some energy drinks wete bought and sat on the floor in the kitchen and INSTANTLY went missing and so she blames me and my partner. She blames us for EVERYTHING going wrong. It makes me feel like she doesn't trust us and so when i bring it up all she has to say is well I trust you more than anyone else, its just cause i am from LA and its hard to trust with the life i had.
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I have a friend who tries to tell me how i feel or think because she says she knows how i am. But then laughs if what i say is ridiculous. I tell her it hurts my feelings when she does that. I tell her don't tell me how i think or feel. Even i live wirh her kinda because I'm homeless. I am couch surfing. Like some energy drinks wete bought and sat on the floor in the kitchen and INSTANTLY went missing and so she blames me and my partner. She blames us for EVERYTHING going wrong. It makes me feel like she doesn't trust us and so when i bring it up all she has to say is well I trust you more than anyone else, its just cause i am from LA and its hard to trust with the life i had.
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Garrett
Trying to do research on myself, it's hard to because I don't know what to look for (reason why I'm here, but I'm genuinely a nice person but I just want to hone my personality by working on it and it's frustrating because I know I can do better, it's just this one thing (being manipulative) is rather upsetting and I'm disappointed I won't lie here. I've been manipulated and know how it feels, and it doesn't feel good, and if I can change to help others not feel so negative, I'd feel like I could accomplish anything honestly. Yeah it's saying a lot but it's the truth, I would genuinely feel like that if I could change that 1 thing about myself.
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Trying to do research on myself, it's hard to because I don't know what to look for (reason why I'm here, but I'm genuinely a nice person but I just want to hone my personality by working on it and it's frustrating because I know I can do better, it's just this one thing (being manipulative) is rather upsetting and I'm disappointed I won't lie here. I've been manipulated and know how it feels, and it doesn't feel good, and if I can change to help others not feel so negative, I'd feel like I could accomplish anything honestly. Yeah it's saying a lot but it's the truth, I would genuinely feel like that if I could change that 1 thing about myself.
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Jamie
I experience all these constantly. The thing is, they would take these points and say I do some of these, when it's actually me responding to them! Like the acting like a victim and people plotting against me, etc. well, I'M the one that has been tread upon, and my heart stomped on by all the narcissists all around me and being an empath, INFJ, panic disorder, autistic, etc, I feel like I'm going crazy, and certainly been abandoned by my husband and several friends. How do you show a narcissist that they are one without them turning it around to play victim and that I'm the bad guy in all this?
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I experience all these constantly. The thing is, they would take these points and say I do some of these, when it's actually me responding to them! Like the acting like a victim and people plotting against me, etc. well, I'M the one that has been tread upon, and my heart stomped on by all the narcissists all around me and being an empath, INFJ, panic disorder, autistic, etc, I feel like I'm going crazy, and certainly been abandoned by my husband and several friends. How do you show a narcissist that they are one without them turning it around to play victim and that I'm the bad guy in all this?
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VxxAMP1RE
When me and my friend are playing a game and we she wants to play a pacific game I say I dont want to play that game (the games she picks are the same games everyday) and she would say Fine u dont want to be my friend and she would end the call with me and I would feel bad and say that we could play the game she wanted to play. I had a Old friend she would always tell on me and my friends for doing something then manipulate the teacher by crying and the teachers would always say there is only one of her and 3 of you guys.
all my friend are hobble to me.
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When me and my friend are playing a game and we she wants to play a pacific game I say I dont want to play that game (the games she picks are the same games everyday) and she would say Fine u dont want to be my friend and she would end the call with me and I would feel bad and say that we could play the game she wanted to play. I had a Old friend she would always tell on me and my friends for doing something then manipulate the teacher by crying and the teachers would always say there is only one of her and 3 of you guys.
all my friend are hobble to me.
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Todd
You should give examples of behaviors that could be mistaken for manipulation. For instance, gas lighting is THIS, but THAT might look like gas lighting, but is not.
Sometimes people might disagree on what happened or why. Maybe they're disagreeing with what you're saying because you have different filters, or have different information about the situation. Sometimes, it's because you flat out got something wrong.
These videos always seem to assume the audient is objective and has eidetic memory. And is being fair to the other person.
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You should give examples of behaviors that could be mistaken for manipulation. For instance, gas lighting is THIS, but THAT might look like gas lighting, but is not.
Sometimes people might disagree on what happened or why. Maybe they're disagreeing with what you're saying because you have different filters, or have different information about the situation. Sometimes, it's because you flat out got something wrong.
These videos always seem to assume the audient is objective and has eidetic memory. And is being fair to the other person.
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Christina_YJ
Invite other people so they might show their true colours. Okay that is so true. My friend last year couldnt allow me to be friends with someone and she showed here true colours and got me upset and thinking why she couldnt allow me have new friends or let me decide who gets to be my friends but in the end, I came across psych2go and was happy to find out that I did not fell into her trap. Funny the first person I asked for help, she helped me got revenge
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Invite other people so they might show their true colours. Okay that is so true. My friend last year couldnt allow me to be friends with someone and she showed here true colours and got me upset and thinking why she couldnt allow me have new friends or let me decide who gets to be my friends but in the end, I came across psych2go and was happy to find out that I did not fell into her trap. Funny the first person I asked for help, she helped me got revenge
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Choc0lat3_cak3
Ive done one of these to my friends. And its to make them leave me, they arent inherently a bad person but they act mean to people for no reason and throws tantrums as fast as someone talks with them. And since i hang out with them people think support that kind of behavior so i get the shit for it. I know there are other ways to deal with it but i dont know how they constantly follow me, does anyone have any tips?
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Ive done one of these to my friends. And its to make them leave me, they arent inherently a bad person but they act mean to people for no reason and throws tantrums as fast as someone talks with them. And since i hang out with them people think support that kind of behavior so i get the shit for it. I know there are other ways to deal with it but i dont know how they constantly follow me, does anyone have any tips?
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James_Mossy
Thank you Psych2Go for being relatable and always helping me. Today I have just recieved the awful message of my irl girl bsf saying that she is not being friends with me anymore since I dont care about her and im being awfully manipulative! My boy bsf also recieved this for not the same reasons, though I cried and my stomach hurt awfully. Thank you: )
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Thank you Psych2Go for being relatable and always helping me. Today I have just recieved the awful message of my irl girl bsf saying that she is not being friends with me anymore since I dont care about her and im being awfully manipulative! My boy bsf also recieved this for not the same reasons, though I cried and my stomach hurt awfully. Thank you: )
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Mithra
Im 13 years old and I will admit that im trying to stop my manipulative tactics.
This all started when i lost my mom and didn't get more love and attention from my father and i thought that if i play victim i can get attention of my father and sometimes i don't even know that im doing manipulative things.
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Im 13 years old and I will admit that im trying to stop my manipulative tactics.
This all started when i lost my mom and didn't get more love and attention from my father and i thought that if i play victim i can get attention of my father and sometimes i don't even know that im doing manipulative things.
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Smky_TwT
I manipulated unconsciouslyeven when i know I manipulated a lot but when i was in action there, i forget everything, Ill have to fix this bad habit of mine i hope i can change right away but i guess i will have to take time, i love people but idk why i did it i hate it
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I manipulated unconsciouslyeven when i know I manipulated a lot but when i was in action there, i forget everything, Ill have to fix this bad habit of mine i hope i can change right away but i guess i will have to take time, i love people but idk why i did it i hate it
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Jiwoongnimm
Ill admit this i do sometimes guilt trip and play like the victim but i mostly dont and it became a really bad habit of mine when im arguing with someone or someone disagrees with me and i really want to change and im trying to stop my bad habits.
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Ill admit this i do sometimes guilt trip and play like the victim but i mostly dont and it became a really bad habit of mine when im arguing with someone or someone disagrees with me and i really want to change and im trying to stop my bad habits.
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Goober
I used to have a friend that was a manipulator that played as a Nice Guy. He would just lie to me and my friends faces, and couldnt take a hint that I was upset with him. He used to also pick fights with them, and threatened to take his own life.
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I used to have a friend that was a manipulator that played as a Nice Guy. He would just lie to me and my friends faces, and couldnt take a hint that I was upset with him. He used to also pick fights with them, and threatened to take his own life.
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Kana
I used to be closed off of any of my personal problems but as years pass by I learned to open up a little but I guess they see me like number 1 but i do genuinely feel bad for myself bec of my abusive family. Is this really a bad thing?
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I used to be closed off of any of my personal problems but as years pass by I learned to open up a little but I guess they see me like number 1 but i do genuinely feel bad for myself bec of my abusive family. Is this really a bad thing?
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If anyone has been psychologically manipulated, they will understand that being insulted right in front of you or being talked about behind your back is better than having someone tear your soul apart and pretend nothing happened.
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If anyone has been psychologically manipulated, they will understand that being insulted right in front of you or being talked about behind your back is better than having someone tear your soul apart and pretend nothing happened.
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