7 Signs You're Too Kind For Your Own Good
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Clasher
I was playing a game called the test chamber or something like that (its one of a series of personality test games simply called the test) I get to the end of the game having answered countless questions and making dozens of choices along the way, and at the end Im told to look into a mirror and I will receive some kind of sign. Im given the chalice symbol and told the story of a woman who lived alone and secluded in the mountains, she had a magic chalice that could cure any ailments a person could be afflicted with. One day a sick man wanders by her cabin and asks for her help to heal him. The kind woman agrees and lets him drink from her magic chalice, once the man recovers the woman explains that he must not share her secret with anyone, under no circumstance. The man promises to keep quiet, thanks the woman for her aid and leaves. A days later a woman and her ill child arrive at the hermits cabin they too ask for aid. The woman in the cabin looked in horror. That man had lied. The hermit still had a good heart and treated the sick child by letting them drink from the magic chalice. Once again she instructed the mother and child not to share the secret of the chalice. Once again the promise was broken. Soon a whole village came calling on the hermit, the villagers had come down with some form of plague and pleaded for the hermits aid. Once again, unable to turn away people in need the hermit treated every last villager. One day the hermit came down with the plague herself, she went to drink from her chalice to cure herself. However as she tried to drink. There was nothing left in the chalice, its magic had been depleted curing everyone else and now there was nothing left for the hermit to save herself with.
The moral of the story is that you should always be willing to help those that need you. Just don't tend to others so much that you have nothing left to care for yourself with.
You cant help anyone if your dead.
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I was playing a game called the test chamber or something like that (its one of a series of personality test games simply called the test) I get to the end of the game having answered countless questions and making dozens of choices along the way, and at the end Im told to look into a mirror and I will receive some kind of sign. Im given the chalice symbol and told the story of a woman who lived alone and secluded in the mountains, she had a magic chalice that could cure any ailments a person could be afflicted with. One day a sick man wanders by her cabin and asks for her help to heal him. The kind woman agrees and lets him drink from her magic chalice, once the man recovers the woman explains that he must not share her secret with anyone, under no circumstance. The man promises to keep quiet, thanks the woman for her aid and leaves. A days later a woman and her ill child arrive at the hermits cabin they too ask for aid. The woman in the cabin looked in horror. That man had lied. The hermit still had a good heart and treated the sick child by letting them drink from the magic chalice. Once again she instructed the mother and child not to share the secret of the chalice. Once again the promise was broken. Soon a whole village came calling on the hermit, the villagers had come down with some form of plague and pleaded for the hermits aid. Once again, unable to turn away people in need the hermit treated every last villager. One day the hermit came down with the plague herself, she went to drink from her chalice to cure herself. However as she tried to drink. There was nothing left in the chalice, its magic had been depleted curing everyone else and now there was nothing left for the hermit to save herself with.
The moral of the story is that you should always be willing to help those that need you. Just don't tend to others so much that you have nothing left to care for yourself with.
You cant help anyone if your dead.
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c0mix
most of them rlly relate to me. like i would never tell my mom i was hungry cause i knew she was tired and didnt want to burden her anymore. so i would just go sleep hungry or tried to find something in the fridge. this has been happening since i was surprisingly young and i would always compress my feelings because i thought their happiness was more important than mine. this is probably why i am always eat the food i am given, and cringe when my brother would complain about the food my mom made. i would think she spent all this time making something for you, and you wont even eat it. even to the point i was about to throw up because of how much i disliked the food, i would think how sad would she be if spent she all this time cooking something for me and i dont even eat it and whenever i threw away food i knew someone handmade, it would make me wanna go cry in guilt locked away in my room. I would also almost never ask for anything when we went to stores cause i didnt want my parents to spend anymore more money on me. i would say yes to everything, cause i was taught that it wasnt my choice and i couldnt always just get what i want. so i never asked and i just went with whatever went down. i became responsible at a young age. doing things like cleaning up after my siblings and helping my mom out sometimes cause i wanted to lessen their burden. i would say sorry for anything and everything or i would be to scared and i would stay silent. i am trying to change and heal a bit. sry if this was uninteresting to you.
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most of them rlly relate to me. like i would never tell my mom i was hungry cause i knew she was tired and didnt want to burden her anymore. so i would just go sleep hungry or tried to find something in the fridge. this has been happening since i was surprisingly young and i would always compress my feelings because i thought their happiness was more important than mine. this is probably why i am always eat the food i am given, and cringe when my brother would complain about the food my mom made. i would think she spent all this time making something for you, and you wont even eat it. even to the point i was about to throw up because of how much i disliked the food, i would think how sad would she be if spent she all this time cooking something for me and i dont even eat it and whenever i threw away food i knew someone handmade, it would make me wanna go cry in guilt locked away in my room. I would also almost never ask for anything when we went to stores cause i didnt want my parents to spend anymore more money on me. i would say yes to everything, cause i was taught that it wasnt my choice and i couldnt always just get what i want. so i never asked and i just went with whatever went down. i became responsible at a young age. doing things like cleaning up after my siblings and helping my mom out sometimes cause i wanted to lessen their burden. i would say sorry for anything and everything or i would be to scared and i would stay silent. i am trying to change and heal a bit. sry if this was uninteresting to you.
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PrzemeQ
This video perfectly describes my problems. When someone ask me for help, I always agree, (Even if I have already a lot of work from other people that also wanted help) and I'm too scared to disagree to not hurt theire feelings. Thats why I don't have time to do my interests. Similiar thing goes to choosing between 2 friends. They both ask me to choose (for example) who made a better project for school, or who do I like more. In that cases I know if I'll choose 1 person, I'll hurt other person feelings. In that cases I'm too scared to even talk and try to get out of the situation as fast as possible. (Fake phone call, etc)
Anyways you make such a wonderful video that often tells about topics that I'm struggling with. I can see what I'm doing wrong and how to help it. Thank you and take care.
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This video perfectly describes my problems. When someone ask me for help, I always agree, (Even if I have already a lot of work from other people that also wanted help) and I'm too scared to disagree to not hurt theire feelings. Thats why I don't have time to do my interests. Similiar thing goes to choosing between 2 friends. They both ask me to choose (for example) who made a better project for school, or who do I like more. In that cases I know if I'll choose 1 person, I'll hurt other person feelings. In that cases I'm too scared to even talk and try to get out of the situation as fast as possible. (Fake phone call, etc)
Anyways you make such a wonderful video that often tells about topics that I'm struggling with. I can see what I'm doing wrong and how to help it. Thank you and take care.
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dtikvxc
This is often the problem with nice people. They are able to say no, and they do, actually did that sometimes. Tragedy is in that they often have that bad luck, or evil luck to get in the toxic environment. To that, if dominant persons. That especially like to pick on good people. Never on toxic, disobeying ones. And whenever the goodie says no, or it even tries to, just by mere body language, the goodie-pleaser faces such venenous verbal (sometimes physical) explosive reaction (don't You dare) that is overwhelming, too strong for him or her to deal with (elders, position of power, highly imposive dominant persons, group) so poor goodie-pleaser to avoid highly stressful situation, says yes.
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This is often the problem with nice people. They are able to say no, and they do, actually did that sometimes. Tragedy is in that they often have that bad luck, or evil luck to get in the toxic environment. To that, if dominant persons. That especially like to pick on good people. Never on toxic, disobeying ones. And whenever the goodie says no, or it even tries to, just by mere body language, the goodie-pleaser faces such venenous verbal (sometimes physical) explosive reaction (don't You dare) that is overwhelming, too strong for him or her to deal with (elders, position of power, highly imposive dominant persons, group) so poor goodie-pleaser to avoid highly stressful situation, says yes.
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Eleich
I clicked in this video because I am too kind
Life treated me so badly now I only want to see it burning to the ground. I love the idea of hearing the voices of hundreds screaming in despair as all their hopes and dreams are reduced to dust and ashes
Yet, I can't help the urge to assist those who need my help, be nice with people around me and spare people from the violence of my rage
I swear I have a voice in my head claiming for the souls of the innocents and nothing would make me more happy than listen to it but I feel that deep inside I'll always be that kind and caring person who can't stand up and fight
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I clicked in this video because I am too kind
Life treated me so badly now I only want to see it burning to the ground. I love the idea of hearing the voices of hundreds screaming in despair as all their hopes and dreams are reduced to dust and ashes
Yet, I can't help the urge to assist those who need my help, be nice with people around me and spare people from the violence of my rage
I swear I have a voice in my head claiming for the souls of the innocents and nothing would make me more happy than listen to it but I feel that deep inside I'll always be that kind and caring person who can't stand up and fight
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-genderbend
Ah yes, this vid made me cry because, I am too kind. I cant say no. And I feel controlled. People take all my food at lunch at school and I just say oh yeah and sure and they even feel bad for me. People think that it doesnt effect me when I always say yes but every yes that utters out of my mouth emotionally effects me later. I spend my time worrying about others issues and problems I never stop to fix mine. I because that one quiet kid to get away from it but people still want me to be there friend and I fall into there control. Haha I also dont care if you think Im faking
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Ah yes, this vid made me cry because, I am too kind. I cant say no. And I feel controlled. People take all my food at lunch at school and I just say oh yeah and sure and they even feel bad for me. People think that it doesnt effect me when I always say yes but every yes that utters out of my mouth emotionally effects me later. I spend my time worrying about others issues and problems I never stop to fix mine. I because that one quiet kid to get away from it but people still want me to be there friend and I fall into there control. Haha I also dont care if you think Im faking
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Muhammad
Every day during English class, almost my entire class asked me for help with their assignments, and I hadn't even finished mine yet. That resulted in me finishing it at the end of the lesson. I was too focused on helping my classmates, and I knew that I hadn't finished my own assignment, which resulted in me putting other people first and not myself first. This video really caught me, and I relate to almost all of them. I should definitely focus on myself more. But how? Idk, I'll see what I can do.
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Every day during English class, almost my entire class asked me for help with their assignments, and I hadn't even finished mine yet. That resulted in me finishing it at the end of the lesson. I was too focused on helping my classmates, and I knew that I hadn't finished my own assignment, which resulted in me putting other people first and not myself first. This video really caught me, and I relate to almost all of them. I should definitely focus on myself more. But how? Idk, I'll see what I can do.
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Braden
Thanks so much for this video, it was very informative. Being too nice can easily break relationships thus you take so much in from those you fear you would lose and the moment you try to stand up a bit for yourself the only moment, they can turn on you and break your heart and you still lose them, only later. Always be nice but not too nice. It will break you when all you did was always Love them.
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Thanks so much for this video, it was very informative. Being too nice can easily break relationships thus you take so much in from those you fear you would lose and the moment you try to stand up a bit for yourself the only moment, they can turn on you and break your heart and you still lose them, only later. Always be nice but not too nice. It will break you when all you did was always Love them.
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alex
This reminds me of my ex crush, they were so nice that they had to wear a metaphorical mask so people wouldnt worry about them, the entire reason i liked them is because of how nice they were, that probabaly is just something about me but still, i felt bad for them, cause i knew i couldnt do anything, just how some people are
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This reminds me of my ex crush, they were so nice that they had to wear a metaphorical mask so people wouldnt worry about them, the entire reason i liked them is because of how nice they were, that probabaly is just something about me but still, i felt bad for them, cause i knew i couldnt do anything, just how some people are
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S_usa. n
Well
At the past i was like that but after what I have been through I'll be the last person to ask for help
I always have been a people but life is life. now its rare for me to to say sry, and all that's cuz nobody helped me or said yes to me at the past and now, thats what they get
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Well
At the past i was like that but after what I have been through I'll be the last person to ask for help
I always have been a people but life is life. now its rare for me to to say sry, and all that's cuz nobody helped me or said yes to me at the past and now, thats what they get
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lipstickprincess1
No one, and I mean NO ONE, is there for the yes person!
At 57 years old, I bend over backwards for everyone and when I need something, I always get a NO answer
As a Mom and wife, daughter and sister, Im completely exhausted and tired of my one sided life!
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No one, and I mean NO ONE, is there for the yes person!
At 57 years old, I bend over backwards for everyone and when I need something, I always get a NO answer
As a Mom and wife, daughter and sister, Im completely exhausted and tired of my one sided life!
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psych2go
This is meeeeee i have anxiety, depression, and addiction. My friend is saying im too nice and care more about other people. I never say no to people and say sorry no matter what. Would never take peoples time so i would never ask for help. Thank youuuu!
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This is meeeeee i have anxiety, depression, and addiction. My friend is saying im too nice and care more about other people. I never say no to people and say sorry no matter what. Would never take peoples time so i would never ask for help. Thank youuuu!
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Claudia
This absolutely hit home for me. I appreciate being seen. Though I too am not great at expressing my feelings in regards to certain things, I wanted to say thank you for helping out things into perspective. Reminders help greatly at times of need.
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This absolutely hit home for me. I appreciate being seen. Though I too am not great at expressing my feelings in regards to certain things, I wanted to say thank you for helping out things into perspective. Reminders help greatly at times of need.
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lloyds2000
I relate to this sign that I am so kind at people specially people pleaser that easily say sorry to that they do the hurt feelings you ending is you loss your values thats why you hold the grudges and feel down the word they give even your kind
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I relate to this sign that I am so kind at people specially people pleaser that easily say sorry to that they do the hurt feelings you ending is you loss your values thats why you hold the grudges and feel down the word they give even your kind
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AD
Honestly, this is all me Im in trying to get my turn on this but it is just like a knowledge out for me. I just dont know maybe it works. Maybe it works a lot. I just couldnt tell if it works I just have like a knowledge I just have to learn.
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Honestly, this is all me Im in trying to get my turn on this but it is just like a knowledge out for me. I just dont know maybe it works. Maybe it works a lot. I just couldnt tell if it works I just have like a knowledge I just have to learn.
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undertaledoge
I am a helpful, kind, and generous child. But sometimes, i feel like im just. i dunno. rotting away. From all these things people ask of me. One time when i tried to share my opinion, no one cared. Actually, more than once.
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I am a helpful, kind, and generous child. But sometimes, i feel like im just. i dunno. rotting away. From all these things people ask of me. One time when i tried to share my opinion, no one cared. Actually, more than once.
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Rosyid
as someone who has felt and understand pain, i try my best to make sure noone experiences the same thing i had to
and i kinda made it into my goal
i feel something is fading away tho. and i don't know what to do about it
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as someone who has felt and understand pain, i try my best to make sure noone experiences the same thing i had to
and i kinda made it into my goal
i feel something is fading away tho. and i don't know what to do about it
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Shadow427
Im an Anemic And I Have Anxiety And Depression Sometimes My Heart And Kidney Sometimes Gets A Feeling Of Burn And Sometimes I Get Paralyzed I Don't Really Say It To My Family Because It May Cause Problems Is It Wrong?
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Im an Anemic And I Have Anxiety And Depression Sometimes My Heart And Kidney Sometimes Gets A Feeling Of Burn And Sometimes I Get Paralyzed I Don't Really Say It To My Family Because It May Cause Problems Is It Wrong?
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Eden
my freind always says im too kind and it hurts beacuse after watching this i understand im kind but not too kind and she seems to not understand sometimes how to forgive and try to understand the other persons feelings
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my freind always says im too kind and it hurts beacuse after watching this i understand im kind but not too kind and she seems to not understand sometimes how to forgive and try to understand the other persons feelings
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Kelly
Be as kind to yourself as you have always been to others.
BAM! What an eye opener!
Thanks for making this video. Very helpful and I am definitely gonna watch this more than once.
#almosttoomuchinsights
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Be as kind to yourself as you have always been to others.
BAM! What an eye opener!
Thanks for making this video. Very helpful and I am definitely gonna watch this more than once.
#almosttoomuchinsights
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Adventurous
I was always like this in the past but my friend help me through it i am greatful to her and this is the problem now a days
thank you psy2go for bringing awareness to every one you are really under rated
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I was always like this in the past but my friend help me through it i am greatful to her and this is the problem now a days
thank you psy2go for bringing awareness to every one you are really under rated
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Stickmanimations
1: 10 okay I know Im literally everything in this video but if I apologize too much how do I apologize for apologizing too much when Im apologizing for apologizing and Im being dead serious someone help
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1: 10 okay I know Im literally everything in this video but if I apologize too much how do I apologize for apologizing too much when Im apologizing for apologizing and Im being dead serious someone help
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Adal
This helped a lot. Im starting to focus more on my own desires, feelings, needs, goals, etc. Kinda tired of always ignoring em. I completely lost my sense of self, my personality as a whole due to being like this.
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This helped a lot. Im starting to focus more on my own desires, feelings, needs, goals, etc. Kinda tired of always ignoring em. I completely lost my sense of self, my personality as a whole due to being like this.
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Axy
Bruh Ive ALWAYS been the nice person but since my dad died and getting depressed and suffering from trauma Ive not been my self Ive been mad almost all the time well I dont really feel anything really tho.
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Bruh Ive ALWAYS been the nice person but since my dad died and getting depressed and suffering from trauma Ive not been my self Ive been mad almost all the time well I dont really feel anything really tho.
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Khadijah
processing and digesting this video. . I experience all the symptoms frequently it's concerning. . Thank you. . I'll work this stuff up and watch it again after a while. . Super helpful video
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processing and digesting this video. . I experience all the symptoms frequently it's concerning. . Thank you. . I'll work this stuff up and watch it again after a while. . Super helpful video
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