7 Behaviours That Ruin Your Life
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Abhishek
Why is it so stigmatized to be alone on one's own accord? Yes, it can be an underlying issue most of the time, but some of us do exist that like being alone. We are not harming anyone.
Why is it so difficult for the society to leave the outliers that abhors society yet cannot hate humanity? Fear that they will commit self delete? Fear that they will commit delete? But that is not a rule now is it? Do normal people not commit delete?
Living is so much satisfying. I like the struggle of living. Dying seems so ordinary, living is extraordinary. The colorful kaleidoscope of human effort simply to live is so beautiful, as if supernatural.
Now some see even our mundane expressions as a cry for help. I assure you, that is simply a nuisance. I am not crying or seeking help.
I am content. I am happy. I am sad. I am angry. I am inert. Sone may see the solitude as painful but the that pain itself is very dear to me. I am a fully functioning being that is not bottling or repressing or even suppressing emotions.
There can never be more, so there will never be less. It is alright.
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Why is it so stigmatized to be alone on one's own accord? Yes, it can be an underlying issue most of the time, but some of us do exist that like being alone. We are not harming anyone.
Why is it so difficult for the society to leave the outliers that abhors society yet cannot hate humanity? Fear that they will commit self delete? Fear that they will commit delete? But that is not a rule now is it? Do normal people not commit delete?
Living is so much satisfying. I like the struggle of living. Dying seems so ordinary, living is extraordinary. The colorful kaleidoscope of human effort simply to live is so beautiful, as if supernatural.
Now some see even our mundane expressions as a cry for help. I assure you, that is simply a nuisance. I am not crying or seeking help.
I am content. I am happy. I am sad. I am angry. I am inert. Sone may see the solitude as painful but the that pain itself is very dear to me. I am a fully functioning being that is not bottling or repressing or even suppressing emotions.
There can never be more, so there will never be less. It is alright.
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Sarvae
My friend used to have perfectionism, and when she wasn't my friend anymore, I deeply pitied her. Her life had been wasted and ruined for her only because of her perfectionism. I wonder what she's up to now.
In Indian culture, overworking and ignoring your feelings is the main motto. Feelings lead nowhere, only work does. Education is the only success. But this isn't true, Indian culture itself is toxic, please tune into your feelings and find peace with them rather than suppressing them.
You have to learn to depend on yourself, not only others, because you will be lost and you will be confused about so many things when you grow up.
Even introverts need socializing, even if they don't speak, or collaborate. Please don't avoid people because you're an introvert.
Finally, life is full of regrets, and even I regret things so many times.
Ohh
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My friend used to have perfectionism, and when she wasn't my friend anymore, I deeply pitied her. Her life had been wasted and ruined for her only because of her perfectionism. I wonder what she's up to now.
In Indian culture, overworking and ignoring your feelings is the main motto. Feelings lead nowhere, only work does. Education is the only success. But this isn't true, Indian culture itself is toxic, please tune into your feelings and find peace with them rather than suppressing them.
You have to learn to depend on yourself, not only others, because you will be lost and you will be confused about so many things when you grow up.
Even introverts need socializing, even if they don't speak, or collaborate. Please don't avoid people because you're an introvert.
Finally, life is full of regrets, and even I regret things so many times.
Ohh
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Vya
The hardest part about being human is that no matter how hard you try to be right you never can know everything or be right about everything. I used to have a theory about what life is and should be based around crap I heard from other people but in the end those people (including my grandma) died. No messages received, no confirmation that everything is okay on the other side after this.
I'm okay with it. I've mostly become a hermit or introvert because I choose to be. Obviously if I want to talk I'm going to talk and when I do I'm going to say a lot of things that is probably going to upset a lot of people. I'm okay with that, too. It just is what it is. Nobody seems to mind being rude and disrespectful to me, so I stopped caring about them.
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The hardest part about being human is that no matter how hard you try to be right you never can know everything or be right about everything. I used to have a theory about what life is and should be based around crap I heard from other people but in the end those people (including my grandma) died. No messages received, no confirmation that everything is okay on the other side after this.
I'm okay with it. I've mostly become a hermit or introvert because I choose to be. Obviously if I want to talk I'm going to talk and when I do I'm going to say a lot of things that is probably going to upset a lot of people. I'm okay with that, too. It just is what it is. Nobody seems to mind being rude and disrespectful to me, so I stopped caring about them.
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Cosmos
Can you do a video in relation to this in which you confront these issues and give tips on how to help get it under control, with me being a lot of these I cant really see anyway to help get better I just see whats wrong with what I do.
Or if youve done videos on the subjects already, to maybe link those in the description or add to the little info button at the top?
Could be helpful to those like me seeing themselves in this and having no clue on how to get control of it: )
Hope you and your team have a wonderful day/night: 3
Take care and stay safe
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Can you do a video in relation to this in which you confront these issues and give tips on how to help get it under control, with me being a lot of these I cant really see anyway to help get better I just see whats wrong with what I do.
Or if youve done videos on the subjects already, to maybe link those in the description or add to the little info button at the top?
Could be helpful to those like me seeing themselves in this and having no clue on how to get control of it: )
Hope you and your team have a wonderful day/night: 3
Take care and stay safe
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bob
I recognize some of these behaviors in me. Some of them are really severe) I'm really close to giving up. I'm hurting a lot of people around me because of these. These behaviors have been interfering in my daily life and making it harder to live on. Even the basic things are hard for me to do. I don't want this kind of life anymore. Is there a way to maybe, stop or lessen these behaviors in me?
Sorry, English is not my first language. Forgive me for any grammatical error and I'm really not good at expressing myself. I hope you understood what I was trying to say.
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I recognize some of these behaviors in me. Some of them are really severe) I'm really close to giving up. I'm hurting a lot of people around me because of these. These behaviors have been interfering in my daily life and making it harder to live on. Even the basic things are hard for me to do. I don't want this kind of life anymore. Is there a way to maybe, stop or lessen these behaviors in me?
Sorry, English is not my first language. Forgive me for any grammatical error and I'm really not good at expressing myself. I hope you understood what I was trying to say.
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Awkwardgr1
It hurts me knowing that I have all of these issues and I have problems that need to be fixed. I have moments where Im doing good and then moments where Im going backwards and its a tiring cycle that I just want to overcome for good and be a better version of myself. My toxic family members have influenced me negatively and its something I wish I never had to go thru bc Ive hurt a lot of people and I regret it all the good that could come from this is recognizing ur issues and knowing that theres solutions to fix them.
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It hurts me knowing that I have all of these issues and I have problems that need to be fixed. I have moments where Im doing good and then moments where Im going backwards and its a tiring cycle that I just want to overcome for good and be a better version of myself. My toxic family members have influenced me negatively and its something I wish I never had to go thru bc Ive hurt a lot of people and I regret it all the good that could come from this is recognizing ur issues and knowing that theres solutions to fix them.
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Jason
I recently lost so many of my closest friends due to my insecurities as well as losing my crush. I shut myself away because of the personal tragedy and believed that nobody cared about me. It was a rough 1 week which affected me when I'm working. My friends have every right to be angry, they have every right not to forgive me, they have every right to feel betrayed by my actions, they gave so many chances and I broke it. Now, I'm all alone but it is not over, I will learn to pick myself back up and be better.
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I recently lost so many of my closest friends due to my insecurities as well as losing my crush. I shut myself away because of the personal tragedy and believed that nobody cared about me. It was a rough 1 week which affected me when I'm working. My friends have every right to be angry, they have every right not to forgive me, they have every right to feel betrayed by my actions, they gave so many chances and I broke it. Now, I'm all alone but it is not over, I will learn to pick myself back up and be better.
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Sienna
Im definitely a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has made me limit myself in so many ways. Im a musician. So I feel like in order to be a musician, I cant cry, because musicians dont cry. Music is supposed to make those feelings of anger, sadness, depression and stuff disappear forever. Musicians are supposed to be happy 24/7 with no struggles in life. Music has so much power. I also tend to limit myself when it comes to things that benefit my blindness, autism and CPTSD. I really need to work on this.
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Im definitely a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has made me limit myself in so many ways. Im a musician. So I feel like in order to be a musician, I cant cry, because musicians dont cry. Music is supposed to make those feelings of anger, sadness, depression and stuff disappear forever. Musicians are supposed to be happy 24/7 with no struggles in life. Music has so much power. I also tend to limit myself when it comes to things that benefit my blindness, autism and CPTSD. I really need to work on this.
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MrTvfan1
out of all this in my life me being passive-aggressive is my default mode(mainly for doing something that I don't want to do, thus resulting eating up most of my day to do it, but I will help(main explanation it gets old) so it me venting before saying yes) then minorly I have occasional thought of perfectionism(dating/relationship, regret(dating, then 50/50 about social avoidance cause sometimes (tired/ not in the mood, and I'm a very introverted person(even on my down time)
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out of all this in my life me being passive-aggressive is my default mode(mainly for doing something that I don't want to do, thus resulting eating up most of my day to do it, but I will help(main explanation it gets old) so it me venting before saying yes) then minorly I have occasional thought of perfectionism(dating/relationship, regret(dating, then 50/50 about social avoidance cause sometimes (tired/ not in the mood, and I'm a very introverted person(even on my down time)
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Knights
Damn, I have all these with social avoidance and excessive regret being at the peak. I don't know why, but in college I'm unable to make friends. I just don't feel like it nor do I feel any connection with them, but I'm also jealous and envious of those who are friends or are in a relationship. I do interact more with my older friends from high school and primary school, but none of them are with me in college now.
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Damn, I have all these with social avoidance and excessive regret being at the peak. I don't know why, but in college I'm unable to make friends. I just don't feel like it nor do I feel any connection with them, but I'm also jealous and envious of those who are friends or are in a relationship. I do interact more with my older friends from high school and primary school, but none of them are with me in college now.
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SuperCyrus
I LOVED art as a kid. I am also an extreme perfectionist as well as being very competitive. So when in art class I struggled to draw a pumpkin compared to all the others kids, I stopped drawing and convinced myself that I hated it. Now all of the sudden Im finding that its something that I love and hate doing. I struggle with getting everything perfect and so cant really do it thanks to that habit
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I LOVED art as a kid. I am also an extreme perfectionist as well as being very competitive. So when in art class I struggled to draw a pumpkin compared to all the others kids, I stopped drawing and convinced myself that I hated it. Now all of the sudden Im finding that its something that I love and hate doing. I struggle with getting everything perfect and so cant really do it thanks to that habit
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Brian
According to The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control - A Path to Peace and Power, perfectionists, even though they could be what you say, have produced some of the best things in society. The book even talks about five types of perfectionists: Classic, Intense, Messy, Parisian, and Procrastinator. Just thought you should know.
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According to The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control - A Path to Peace and Power, perfectionists, even though they could be what you say, have produced some of the best things in society. The book even talks about five types of perfectionists: Classic, Intense, Messy, Parisian, and Procrastinator. Just thought you should know.
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Alex
Ill be the first to admit I hate going out and talking to people. Im happiest locked in my apartment alone with my fish and my plants. those things bring me great joy. Is this ruining my life? Maybe but Im having a great time so maybe it isnt?
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Ill be the first to admit I hate going out and talking to people. Im happiest locked in my apartment alone with my fish and my plants. those things bring me great joy. Is this ruining my life? Maybe but Im having a great time so maybe it isnt?
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Daniel
Literally, this is what I dealt with for having, achieving perfection. meaning nobody name calling you in disgrace, doing your chores as the person you respect intended, and getting the chores completed before the time runs out.
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Literally, this is what I dealt with for having, achieving perfection. meaning nobody name calling you in disgrace, doing your chores as the person you respect intended, and getting the chores completed before the time runs out.
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NuggetDoggo
Im the perfectionist. Im scared for my parents to think that Im a failure
Im scared for them to leave me
I really dont want that to happen and its hard because I have Adhd
I dont want them to think Im a failure
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Im the perfectionist. Im scared for my parents to think that Im a failure
Im scared for them to leave me
I really dont want that to happen and its hard because I have Adhd
I dont want them to think Im a failure
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Dionysian
I really like Brandons voice over work here. He has the perfect tone, sound level and cadence. I really like that he is not a low talker. Low talkers are really frustrating to listen to.
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I really like Brandons voice over work here. He has the perfect tone, sound level and cadence. I really like that he is not a low talker. Low talkers are really frustrating to listen to.
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Kevin
Last one really hit hard, I struggeld for more then 7 years with the feeling regret that transformed into guilt over time, And the feeling of guilt is way worse then regret
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Last one really hit hard, I struggeld for more then 7 years with the feeling regret that transformed into guilt over time, And the feeling of guilt is way worse then regret
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Jo
Well then, I got everything except for the co-dependency since I'm unable to fall for anybody, don't even know if this is emotional blocks or independence at this point.
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Well then, I got everything except for the co-dependency since I'm unable to fall for anybody, don't even know if this is emotional blocks or independence at this point.
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Bulbous
Everything applies, everything, even the nuggets of information apply to my situation, even some comments are relatable, I really am doomed, am I not?
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Everything applies, everything, even the nuggets of information apply to my situation, even some comments are relatable, I really am doomed, am I not?
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Ithaca
Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.
C. G. Jung
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Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.
C. G. Jung
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trexor67
I have them all, except procrastination, I suffer the opposite: Precrastination. Living is a fkn martyrdom since I had never choose be as I am.
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I have them all, except procrastination, I suffer the opposite: Precrastination. Living is a fkn martyrdom since I had never choose be as I am.
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willie
i disagree, passive aggressiveness seems like the other guys problem. also can we get an narrator who have at least a half gram of testosterone?
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i disagree, passive aggressiveness seems like the other guys problem. also can we get an narrator who have at least a half gram of testosterone?
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Vin
Everybody is doomed. just learn to go with it. there's no secret of better life. just live with it. afterall we all will die. and be forgotten.
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Everybody is doomed. just learn to go with it. there's no secret of better life. just live with it. afterall we all will die. and be forgotten.
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Katie_231
I dont really care about my mental health, I just hope everything Im doing will be good for my future and give me good amounts of money
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I dont really care about my mental health, I just hope everything Im doing will be good for my future and give me good amounts of money
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Meinenamen
What an unsympathetic narrator.
Please don't use amateurs to narrate your videos, it is really unbearable. Sorry
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What an unsympathetic narrator.
Please don't use amateurs to narrate your videos, it is really unbearable. Sorry
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