5 Questions Intelligent People Don't Ask
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Seth
#4 was something I needed to hear. I have an interesting and somewhat unusual relation going in my life. See, i am on the streets right now, and so is my freind. She and I have the most fantastic bond and i treat her like she's my best freind. We have nothing but do good things for one another. We have really helped each other out enormously. But at the same time, i dont want her stuff. I want her too. we have communicated that we do want to be together, however, the circumstances of not even being able to help our individual selves and not having a home etc etc is whats getting in the way. Im not ready, and neither is she. I just hope that our bond withstands the test of time. If we do eventually start an actual relationship, we would have the best stories to tell people. Reminding myself that what we already have, at this time, is good enough. I have known her for 6 months and it already feels like its been 5 years. Just an amazing amount of loyalty and trust that I haven't gotten from anyone %
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#4 was something I needed to hear. I have an interesting and somewhat unusual relation going in my life. See, i am on the streets right now, and so is my freind. She and I have the most fantastic bond and i treat her like she's my best freind. We have nothing but do good things for one another. We have really helped each other out enormously. But at the same time, i dont want her stuff. I want her too. we have communicated that we do want to be together, however, the circumstances of not even being able to help our individual selves and not having a home etc etc is whats getting in the way. Im not ready, and neither is she. I just hope that our bond withstands the test of time. If we do eventually start an actual relationship, we would have the best stories to tell people. Reminding myself that what we already have, at this time, is good enough. I have known her for 6 months and it already feels like its been 5 years. Just an amazing amount of loyalty and trust that I haven't gotten from anyone %
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Infj-t
Awkward and uncomfortable? Ya mean like this?
So have yall ever thought about preparing yourself for when the end of your life comes one day?
Or
Have yall put any thought or effort into bracing your soul for the day it is released from its fleshy cocoon?
, it's a difficult thing to discuss but it can be enjoyable if you just accept your not immortal and as fragile as a hotdog, but ounce you learn to accept the fact that your temporary things get easier, as an individual consciousness I understand my time in this body is limited, so many of you ppl talk about yourselves as humans, you so easily forget your just an individual consciousness inside a suit, non of us even have genders before we get put into these bodies, I'll bet there are even those amongst you that remember a time when you were a different person entirely, boy I bet that's weird
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Awkward and uncomfortable? Ya mean like this?
So have yall ever thought about preparing yourself for when the end of your life comes one day?
Or
Have yall put any thought or effort into bracing your soul for the day it is released from its fleshy cocoon?
, it's a difficult thing to discuss but it can be enjoyable if you just accept your not immortal and as fragile as a hotdog, but ounce you learn to accept the fact that your temporary things get easier, as an individual consciousness I understand my time in this body is limited, so many of you ppl talk about yourselves as humans, you so easily forget your just an individual consciousness inside a suit, non of us even have genders before we get put into these bodies, I'll bet there are even those amongst you that remember a time when you were a different person entirely, boy I bet that's weird
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epictrollerguy
All this questions you picked except for the last one, in my opinion seem like they were picked with a very subjective criteria honestly, prioritizing peoples feelings and how they would feel more than if it's anactual Intelligent question or not depending on the ccontext. Also non of this are considered from a males perspective since (with getting to know girls and build conexions atleast) thinking about what you can offer and most importantly working on it after that, is key, since we as man are judged by our social value, competence, etc. So just being ourselves and look pretty ain't really an option if you want to succeed on building a relationship with the people you want to. I think a better title should rather be top questions nice people don't ask
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All this questions you picked except for the last one, in my opinion seem like they were picked with a very subjective criteria honestly, prioritizing peoples feelings and how they would feel more than if it's anactual Intelligent question or not depending on the ccontext. Also non of this are considered from a males perspective since (with getting to know girls and build conexions atleast) thinking about what you can offer and most importantly working on it after that, is key, since we as man are judged by our social value, competence, etc. So just being ourselves and look pretty ain't really an option if you want to succeed on building a relationship with the people you want to. I think a better title should rather be top questions nice people don't ask
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Spencer
Ive been struggling A LOT recently. I am most definitely an introvert, and Im CONSTANTLY in my head and thinking about things. Im in a relationship with a girl, but we arent dating, and have been good friends for almost five years, but we both know that we dont feel that way. Recently, Ive been REALLY worried that Im messing up our relationship. So as a defense mechanism, Ive been withdrawing a lot so that we are both hurt less when she realizes shes too good for me. But this fear of messing up has caused the fear to become more and more likely to happen. I just dont know what to do
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Ive been struggling A LOT recently. I am most definitely an introvert, and Im CONSTANTLY in my head and thinking about things. Im in a relationship with a girl, but we arent dating, and have been good friends for almost five years, but we both know that we dont feel that way. Recently, Ive been REALLY worried that Im messing up our relationship. So as a defense mechanism, Ive been withdrawing a lot so that we are both hurt less when she realizes shes too good for me. But this fear of messing up has caused the fear to become more and more likely to happen. I just dont know what to do
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Prota
Concerning second question:
When you put the word supposed in brackets, is highly debatable, there are responsibilities that people are obligated to do in some country, and the question Why aren't you. is just the most forward way to ask and get the information you need. And if you think that if a person is doing everything they can to not offend someone by a mistake, the person is automatically intelligent, I have bad news for USA, recently you have too many pussies.
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Concerning second question:
When you put the word supposed in brackets, is highly debatable, there are responsibilities that people are obligated to do in some country, and the question Why aren't you. is just the most forward way to ask and get the information you need. And if you think that if a person is doing everything they can to not offend someone by a mistake, the person is automatically intelligent, I have bad news for USA, recently you have too many pussies.
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Myst
That one about eating really hit hard. I have been a unbelievably picky eater since I was little. Comments about Oh he's like a twig, He needs to eat more, Why can't he just try new foods tore me up inside. I have tried to eat different foods, I can pretty much only eat turkey, chicken, and pizza, anything else makes me puke. Im not very close to those family members anymore, but I just wish that people thought about what they want to say before they say it.
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That one about eating really hit hard. I have been a unbelievably picky eater since I was little. Comments about Oh he's like a twig, He needs to eat more, Why can't he just try new foods tore me up inside. I have tried to eat different foods, I can pretty much only eat turkey, chicken, and pizza, anything else makes me puke. Im not very close to those family members anymore, but I just wish that people thought about what they want to say before they say it.
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MoltoRubato88
I would like to add the variant questions Why can't you? and What is wrong with you? These questions also indicate emotional unintelligence by assuming that the person receiving the negative criticism is lazy or abnormal. While everyone eventually does this, narcissistic/overbearing parents and relatives are especially guilty, because they assume that their children should follow the same path that they did.
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I would like to add the variant questions Why can't you? and What is wrong with you? These questions also indicate emotional unintelligence by assuming that the person receiving the negative criticism is lazy or abnormal. While everyone eventually does this, narcissistic/overbearing parents and relatives are especially guilty, because they assume that their children should follow the same path that they did.
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Skyloh
Shouldnt you know what I need and what I want
By far the most relatable thing to me, I personally want to be a lot of things, but I want to be a voice actor and animator, still my parents think that I am too lazy even though I practice everyday. They think since I am good at math, which I am, I should go for tech or software and computers, really I get frustrated
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Shouldnt you know what I need and what I want
By far the most relatable thing to me, I personally want to be a lot of things, but I want to be a voice actor and animator, still my parents think that I am too lazy even though I practice everyday. They think since I am good at math, which I am, I should go for tech or software and computers, really I get frustrated
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Lisa
This is classic BS. You ask questions to get answers. If cant answer the questions asked, say I dont know and move on. Wasting everyones time by being offended or worrying your going to offend is just that. wasting time. Grow up and just answer peoples questions if they ask and ask direct questions to get the information you want. Stop reading more into things.
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This is classic BS. You ask questions to get answers. If cant answer the questions asked, say I dont know and move on. Wasting everyones time by being offended or worrying your going to offend is just that. wasting time. Grow up and just answer peoples questions if they ask and ask direct questions to get the information you want. Stop reading more into things.
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Ctrooper2011
The title should be _Questions WISE People Don't Ask_ rather than intelligent. An intelligent person without morals and/or empathy can ask these questions while knowing what he or she is doing, but a wise/prudent person (possessing both and making decisions based on those qualities) would choose to talk about other things and avert referring to them.
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The title should be _Questions WISE People Don't Ask_ rather than intelligent. An intelligent person without morals and/or empathy can ask these questions while knowing what he or she is doing, but a wise/prudent person (possessing both and making decisions based on those qualities) would choose to talk about other things and avert referring to them.
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Minecraft
Unfortunately i made 3rd mistake before. My soulmate (at that time i was thinking like she is the but know she isn't) and i made distance each other very far. Both physically and emotionally. I was just caring about her health. That was one of biggest regret. These videos helped me a lot. Thanks for creators. Please leave if i have grammar mistakes.
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Unfortunately i made 3rd mistake before. My soulmate (at that time i was thinking like she is the but know she isn't) and i made distance each other very far. Both physically and emotionally. I was just caring about her health. That was one of biggest regret. These videos helped me a lot. Thanks for creators. Please leave if i have grammar mistakes.
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Chimeracles
I feel like this video could be better named. As a gifted individual, on the spectrum. plenty of intelligent people may ask these questions NOT because they are unintelligent, but because they might be neurodivergent. Can we please foster a more sensitive environment that doesn't perpetuate ableism, separatism and hierarchy?
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I feel like this video could be better named. As a gifted individual, on the spectrum. plenty of intelligent people may ask these questions NOT because they are unintelligent, but because they might be neurodivergent. Can we please foster a more sensitive environment that doesn't perpetuate ableism, separatism and hierarchy?
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Snowy
5 questions intelligent people don't ask isn't that an insult to intelligence? should intelligence be allowed to say whatever question just depending on situation? or should you limit questions that could get you info that that you would never get without asking those particular questions?
(just entertaining the thought)
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5 questions intelligent people don't ask isn't that an insult to intelligence? should intelligence be allowed to say whatever question just depending on situation? or should you limit questions that could get you info that that you would never get without asking those particular questions?
(just entertaining the thought)
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Sandi
I think this is more about kindness and civility than intelligence. My mother was a very intelligent woman, but she was vicious. Ive known other highly intelligent people who had no interpersonal skills and didnt care to develop them. They were all compassionless people not unintelligent.
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I think this is more about kindness and civility than intelligence. My mother was a very intelligent woman, but she was vicious. Ive known other highly intelligent people who had no interpersonal skills and didnt care to develop them. They were all compassionless people not unintelligent.
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The
Don't ask anything from assholes because the shit is the only thing you'll get.
Don't ask anything from people who think they are better and smarter because they also give a nice bucket of shit!
Don't ask anything from malicious people, because they will show you the wrong way!
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Don't ask anything from assholes because the shit is the only thing you'll get.
Don't ask anything from people who think they are better and smarter because they also give a nice bucket of shit!
Don't ask anything from malicious people, because they will show you the wrong way!
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Isaac
The title's a little misleading. It sounds like a video about intelligent people, but the content is more like advice. A more intelligent title would be: 5 Questions You Shouldn't Ask Your Friends. I like the video, though. Especially the Why aren't you? Why don't you? Part.
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The title's a little misleading. It sounds like a video about intelligent people, but the content is more like advice. A more intelligent title would be: 5 Questions You Shouldn't Ask Your Friends. I like the video, though. Especially the Why aren't you? Why don't you? Part.
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lecs
My mom would always say your eyebags are so big you Look bad and stuff like that and now Im so insecure I put on fundation multiple times a day. And I am disgusted to look in the Mirror without covering my eyebags with make up
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My mom would always say your eyebags are so big you Look bad and stuff like that and now Im so insecure I put on fundation multiple times a day. And I am disgusted to look in the Mirror without covering my eyebags with make up
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Westley
I so get the second question. I'm 21 and have never been on a date or in a relationship; I just guess I've never found the right girl yet. But I get asked all the time, Why aren't you dating/married.
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I so get the second question. I'm 21 and have never been on a date or in a relationship; I just guess I've never found the right girl yet. But I get asked all the time, Why aren't you dating/married.
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LETHAL_
You mean intelligent and nice people. ik what I'm saying and 100% of the time if I'm saying it it's on purpose but it's to everyone equally including myself so it's technically fair.
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You mean intelligent and nice people. ik what I'm saying and 100% of the time if I'm saying it it's on purpose but it's to everyone equally including myself so it's technically fair.
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rosario
Be your self worst advice in historybecause if there not into you be someone else. rule 101 of being a player is to act like the perfect man because that's what most of them want
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Be your self worst advice in historybecause if there not into you be someone else. rule 101 of being a player is to act like the perfect man because that's what most of them want
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Bastion
#4 not quite. I want to give my ability and love of singing to others, but it is a part of my personality and skills and I will never run out of it, there's nothing wrong with it
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#4 not quite. I want to give my ability and love of singing to others, but it is a part of my personality and skills and I will never run out of it, there's nothing wrong with it
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Amazing
I know these questions can make people uncomfortable cause I get asked questions like these all the time but sometimes I still ask cause them like this to be an asshole lmaon
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I know these questions can make people uncomfortable cause I get asked questions like these all the time but sometimes I still ask cause them like this to be an asshole lmaon
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MrGameAndSnacks
I mean it seems like common sense to avoid asking these questions to me at least. Especially the question about someone's appearance and the why aren't you question
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I mean it seems like common sense to avoid asking these questions to me at least. Especially the question about someone's appearance and the why aren't you question
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Wendy
I have occasionally forced myself to ask someone, jokingly, Why aren't you >whatever>? Not very often because it feels icky, and now I understand why a bit better.
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I have occasionally forced myself to ask someone, jokingly, Why aren't you >whatever>? Not very often because it feels icky, and now I understand why a bit better.
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don't
I say the first 2 things but not in a bad context. I only say those things when someone said that they were going to do something but do the opposite of that
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I say the first 2 things but not in a bad context. I only say those things when someone said that they were going to do something but do the opposite of that
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