You're Not Broken, The Dating World Is
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2) Superficial Connections Some people LIKE that, for whatever unfathomable (to me) reason. So perhaps what people need to do is be honest with themselves. If they want deeper connections, then they should be able to consciously make that effort to take their time with people. Can't say I disagree about people having silly expectations that they need to interrogate.
3) Fear of Vulnerability Now now, I'm not sure that online communication is a problem necessarily. Some of my best friends I've found online. In fact, sometimes that anonymity has allowed far greater vulnerability to be communicated. but again, that takes time, and perhaps that is just how things are And frankly, it sounds somewhat like the problem regarding vulnerability, both in person and online, comes down to rushing and time expectations. It is, in fact, correct to be afraid of being vulnerable too quickly.
4) End up feeling lonelier Correlation does not equal causation, after all. They could be checking the dating apps because they're lonely. Or lonelier than others. If that's what's happening, there is already an emptiness, and a desperation to fill that emptiness.
Arranged dates/marriages I do not see the appeal. If others do, that's their business.
Date: 2024-01-27
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WmAHaynes
Fast food dating. People don't want to put any effort into anything anymore, because they've been tricked into thinking that life is just this perfect romantic comedy sitcom and it's not. They don't want to build a relationship, they just want to find perfect it requires no effort on their part while their partner puts in all the effort, they think they're the main character and the world revolves around them and they don't have to meet their own standards that they set for other people. And because they can't meet their own standards they secretly hate themselves and they go out and they're desperate to get validation from everybody with minimal effort or communication on their part.
You don't find yourself by dating and sleeping around, never fully committing anything, and then never learning from your experiences. You find yourself by confronting yourself, instead of running away you take a good long hard look at yourself, find out who you really are what you really want and what you need to do to get there. And once you stop fighting with yourself, you have a much better chance at finding real genuine happiness out in the real world whether that's single in a relationship or whatever. But you've got to put the work into yourself, and then you need to realize that relationships are work too and you're going to have to put the work into a relationship.
Learn how to spin on your own, then find somebody that can spin beside you. Don't become codependent, be complete and healthy individuals with their own goals and their own aspirations and their own Hobbies, but be two individuals that are aligned enough or that can realign enough without losing themselves in the process and still be happy and grow individually and together at the same time. Is it easy, hell no. You know why, because this is the real world and stuff happens outside of our control. But that doesn't mean you just run off the second things get bad either. Communication and commitment.
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Fast food dating. People don't want to put any effort into anything anymore, because they've been tricked into thinking that life is just this perfect romantic comedy sitcom and it's not. They don't want to build a relationship, they just want to find perfect it requires no effort on their part while their partner puts in all the effort, they think they're the main character and the world revolves around them and they don't have to meet their own standards that they set for other people. And because they can't meet their own standards they secretly hate themselves and they go out and they're desperate to get validation from everybody with minimal effort or communication on their part.
You don't find yourself by dating and sleeping around, never fully committing anything, and then never learning from your experiences. You find yourself by confronting yourself, instead of running away you take a good long hard look at yourself, find out who you really are what you really want and what you need to do to get there. And once you stop fighting with yourself, you have a much better chance at finding real genuine happiness out in the real world whether that's single in a relationship or whatever. But you've got to put the work into yourself, and then you need to realize that relationships are work too and you're going to have to put the work into a relationship.
Learn how to spin on your own, then find somebody that can spin beside you. Don't become codependent, be complete and healthy individuals with their own goals and their own aspirations and their own Hobbies, but be two individuals that are aligned enough or that can realign enough without losing themselves in the process and still be happy and grow individually and together at the same time. Is it easy, hell no. You know why, because this is the real world and stuff happens outside of our control. But that doesn't mean you just run off the second things get bad either. Communication and commitment.
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LacunaIntroRiot
I see one big flaw in the overall premise of romantic love that you seem to take as a given here, too. Imho you can never find 'the one' by swiping in an app because like you said: bonding takes time. And it takes a decision. You sure can find a lot of people you even might have a starting interest in doing online dating but the idea that you can find this one person and then all the love, passion, desire and trust just fall from the sky is not what I experienced. Dating apps can be helpful to meet different people (so is going out dancing, visiting the library or having a chess club) but once you meet a person you seem to like you must take an active role in wanting to getting to know the other person and wanting to show your true self and the true self of the other person. The whole idea of finding 'the one' gives all the agency to an external 'force' of love and people seeking love the role of merely being guided by destiny. This is foolish in my opinion because you are the one deciding to let someone close to you and it takes another person wanting to be closer to you.
I agree with the paradox of choice and think that it supports my argument. Because since you have so many choices making the decision to let someone into 'your heart' is getting more difficult. Even the slightest tension or disagreement over something as small or insignificant as being a 'cat or dog person' might discourage you from taking further interest because 'this one person' must also be a cat or dog person.
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I see one big flaw in the overall premise of romantic love that you seem to take as a given here, too. Imho you can never find 'the one' by swiping in an app because like you said: bonding takes time. And it takes a decision. You sure can find a lot of people you even might have a starting interest in doing online dating but the idea that you can find this one person and then all the love, passion, desire and trust just fall from the sky is not what I experienced. Dating apps can be helpful to meet different people (so is going out dancing, visiting the library or having a chess club) but once you meet a person you seem to like you must take an active role in wanting to getting to know the other person and wanting to show your true self and the true self of the other person. The whole idea of finding 'the one' gives all the agency to an external 'force' of love and people seeking love the role of merely being guided by destiny. This is foolish in my opinion because you are the one deciding to let someone close to you and it takes another person wanting to be closer to you.
I agree with the paradox of choice and think that it supports my argument. Because since you have so many choices making the decision to let someone into 'your heart' is getting more difficult. Even the slightest tension or disagreement over something as small or insignificant as being a 'cat or dog person' might discourage you from taking further interest because 'this one person' must also be a cat or dog person.
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1986Unlimited
Dating is just another casualty from the accelerating demands from life.
World became globalized; became a 24/7 Economy. Maybe it was because of Capitalism. Consumerism. Who knows. But, the lifestyle has forced people to become mobile and work at all times of the day. A kid might live with their parents and go to school in their home town, sure. But then they're likely to further educated somewhere else. They graduate and spend the next 10 years, changing jobs and building careers in many more locations because that's what it takes to succeed now.
Stability became a thing of the past, life became busy, got even more competitive, more expensive and much faster. Connection basically became inaccessible; unavailable, since people stopped having time for eachother. Hell they don't even have time to look after themselves; not the parts of themselves that matter anyway. Instant messaging/Social Media might have helped reduce social isolation but its largely proven to be impersonal; void of most things that are a part of real human connection. People changed. and not for the better. These changes affected dating.
Can't do anything to change it. Can only acknowledge it and choose not to participate in it.
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Dating is just another casualty from the accelerating demands from life.
World became globalized; became a 24/7 Economy. Maybe it was because of Capitalism. Consumerism. Who knows. But, the lifestyle has forced people to become mobile and work at all times of the day. A kid might live with their parents and go to school in their home town, sure. But then they're likely to further educated somewhere else. They graduate and spend the next 10 years, changing jobs and building careers in many more locations because that's what it takes to succeed now.
Stability became a thing of the past, life became busy, got even more competitive, more expensive and much faster. Connection basically became inaccessible; unavailable, since people stopped having time for eachother. Hell they don't even have time to look after themselves; not the parts of themselves that matter anyway. Instant messaging/Social Media might have helped reduce social isolation but its largely proven to be impersonal; void of most things that are a part of real human connection. People changed. and not for the better. These changes affected dating.
Can't do anything to change it. Can only acknowledge it and choose not to participate in it.
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lylaznboi01
As I got older, the dating world has gotten more and more complicated. I didn't know what situationships were until I was 28. I'm 30 right now. I've had a decent amount of dates through online dating, but not as much when I meet someone in person due to me being an introvert. I think the closest I got into a relationship with was with a religious person. I'm not religious myself, but she is. We got along well, enjoyed the dates we've had, but to her, the biggest barrier was that we're not the same religion and she's devoted to hers nor she wanted to try to force it onto me because she liked me the way I was. I don't bash on other people's religion unless they try to force it onto me. She thought she could get over the fact that we have different religious beliefs as we date, but it bothered her too much. I was a bit sad that we had to end it, but it's for the best. I didn't want her to change herself just because she was dating me because I liked her for her, but it was better for us to end it and for her to find a partner that has the same beliefs as her.
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As I got older, the dating world has gotten more and more complicated. I didn't know what situationships were until I was 28. I'm 30 right now. I've had a decent amount of dates through online dating, but not as much when I meet someone in person due to me being an introvert. I think the closest I got into a relationship with was with a religious person. I'm not religious myself, but she is. We got along well, enjoyed the dates we've had, but to her, the biggest barrier was that we're not the same religion and she's devoted to hers nor she wanted to try to force it onto me because she liked me the way I was. I don't bash on other people's religion unless they try to force it onto me. She thought she could get over the fact that we have different religious beliefs as we date, but it bothered her too much. I was a bit sad that we had to end it, but it's for the best. I didn't want her to change herself just because she was dating me because I liked her for her, but it was better for us to end it and for her to find a partner that has the same beliefs as her.
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reeceranger5374
I've been on dating apps for about 12 months and managed to get a small number of matches but no dates. Nobody takes dating seriously any more. I've never been in a relationship before and I work nights so I felt that dating apps were my only option and in some cruel way I still feel that way. I know I'm average looking at best so my chances of finding anyone is already small but seeing someone on those apps who I find to be my 10/10 only for them to see me as barely a 5 is heartbreaking. It's starting to feel less like finding someone who I can connect with and more like finding someone who will settle for me because for some reason, that woman also can't find someone and its so demoralising to know that only the great looking guys and girls have a significantly higher chance of finding someone they desire. And even if I do match with someone, my experience has cruelly taught me that's there is a high chance it's a scammer taking advantage of my loneliness. It's disgusting what the dating has become.
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I've been on dating apps for about 12 months and managed to get a small number of matches but no dates. Nobody takes dating seriously any more. I've never been in a relationship before and I work nights so I felt that dating apps were my only option and in some cruel way I still feel that way. I know I'm average looking at best so my chances of finding anyone is already small but seeing someone on those apps who I find to be my 10/10 only for them to see me as barely a 5 is heartbreaking. It's starting to feel less like finding someone who I can connect with and more like finding someone who will settle for me because for some reason, that woman also can't find someone and its so demoralising to know that only the great looking guys and girls have a significantly higher chance of finding someone they desire. And even if I do match with someone, my experience has cruelly taught me that's there is a high chance it's a scammer taking advantage of my loneliness. It's disgusting what the dating has become.
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shadowdancer5x5
Dating apps are a nightmare unless you're a woman or in the top 1% of men.
Being just an average guy I struggled for a long time on dating websites (this was before apps were a thing. Kept a spreadsheet of my response rate. 3% whoop whoop. Of which less than 1% were positive responses. So a positive reply rate of 0. 03%
And people wonder why men get depressed with modern dating and don't bother.
Having said that, i met my wife online. Married after less than 6 months. Been 10 years, kids, house, etc.
Met on a website that specialised in bringing together western men and women from other parts of the world. Don't give up men, widen your horizons.
Women, don't get down either. There are plenty of good men out there, they just might not be the ones approaching you. If you like a guy, make the first move. He may just be fed up of being rejected a few thousand times and can't be bothered with the farce again.
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Dating apps are a nightmare unless you're a woman or in the top 1% of men.
Being just an average guy I struggled for a long time on dating websites (this was before apps were a thing. Kept a spreadsheet of my response rate. 3% whoop whoop. Of which less than 1% were positive responses. So a positive reply rate of 0. 03%
And people wonder why men get depressed with modern dating and don't bother.
Having said that, i met my wife online. Married after less than 6 months. Been 10 years, kids, house, etc.
Met on a website that specialised in bringing together western men and women from other parts of the world. Don't give up men, widen your horizons.
Women, don't get down either. There are plenty of good men out there, they just might not be the ones approaching you. If you like a guy, make the first move. He may just be fed up of being rejected a few thousand times and can't be bothered with the farce again.
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ArgzeroYT
The incentives of apps are certainly partly to blame however if we fail to blame ourselves for any part of it, we will fail to grow and conquer the problems of our modern society. Self-serving bias does not lead to self-improvement. Our standards are higher, but so too do we not appreciate the difficulty with which improvement is faced by others and instead of accepting their efforts we actively reject people for singular events we dislike or a chain of past actions in the process of being improved in the present. Given how diverse our society is and the differences in our senses of normal we must be willing to allow things to be different from our expectations. Love is the feeling of safety. We arbitrarily assign additional criteria not necessary to achieve that. We must be willing to separate love from our romanticized view of what it is to be able to separate fantasy from reality.
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The incentives of apps are certainly partly to blame however if we fail to blame ourselves for any part of it, we will fail to grow and conquer the problems of our modern society. Self-serving bias does not lead to self-improvement. Our standards are higher, but so too do we not appreciate the difficulty with which improvement is faced by others and instead of accepting their efforts we actively reject people for singular events we dislike or a chain of past actions in the process of being improved in the present. Given how diverse our society is and the differences in our senses of normal we must be willing to allow things to be different from our expectations. Love is the feeling of safety. We arbitrarily assign additional criteria not necessary to achieve that. We must be willing to separate love from our romanticized view of what it is to be able to separate fantasy from reality.
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KevinDIntrovert
Haven't even given the idea of dating again a thought since my marriage crumbled almost 5 years ago. I'm still too scarred from that experience. My ex-wife, on the other hand, pretty much jumped into the dating pool before I even moved out. A major part of why she wanted to call it quits was because she had so many other options she felt she was missing out on something better than me. In the end, all those likes on her selfies became too tempting to pass up. We kept things civil after the breakup so we cross paths a lot which is how I know she's still single but she's always low-key boasting about all the prime candidates she has to choose from, though she never commits to any. Mainly because most of those prime candidates turn out to be duds but also because she just has so many guys still chasing her, she constantly feels like there's something better out there.
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Haven't even given the idea of dating again a thought since my marriage crumbled almost 5 years ago. I'm still too scarred from that experience. My ex-wife, on the other hand, pretty much jumped into the dating pool before I even moved out. A major part of why she wanted to call it quits was because she had so many other options she felt she was missing out on something better than me. In the end, all those likes on her selfies became too tempting to pass up. We kept things civil after the breakup so we cross paths a lot which is how I know she's still single but she's always low-key boasting about all the prime candidates she has to choose from, though she never commits to any. Mainly because most of those prime candidates turn out to be duds but also because she just has so many guys still chasing her, she constantly feels like there's something better out there.
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delanorrosey4730
There's a few reasons why I don't bother dating:
1) Internet dating is dumpster fires.
2) Everyone thinks romance and chivalry is the key to a relationship; no its not. Never has, never was, never will be.
3) Relationships and people are disposable. Its doesnt matter if they're like library books or Baskin-Robbins 33 flavors. Everyone wants to sample the flavor or check it out for a few days. When done, return the unused portion within 30 days for a full refund, no questions asked. Keep your FREE gift.
4) The quality of people and society in general has declined significantly. Why else is there Demographic Winter WORLDWIDE
5) Knowing 1 through 4, the next logical conclusion would be: WHY BOTHER Its not worth the hassle, the heartache, the pause on your life having to pick up the pieces of onw shattered relationship to another.
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There's a few reasons why I don't bother dating:
1) Internet dating is dumpster fires.
2) Everyone thinks romance and chivalry is the key to a relationship; no its not. Never has, never was, never will be.
3) Relationships and people are disposable. Its doesnt matter if they're like library books or Baskin-Robbins 33 flavors. Everyone wants to sample the flavor or check it out for a few days. When done, return the unused portion within 30 days for a full refund, no questions asked. Keep your FREE gift.
4) The quality of people and society in general has declined significantly. Why else is there Demographic Winter WORLDWIDE
5) Knowing 1 through 4, the next logical conclusion would be: WHY BOTHER Its not worth the hassle, the heartache, the pause on your life having to pick up the pieces of onw shattered relationship to another.
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psych2go
i hate how narcissistic people in this society can be! im polyamorous so luckily i dont have that stress of trying to pick the best option because i can just pick them for each quality they specialize in. puts way less pressure on them to be perfect in every area. this works because i have high standards not because of society, but because of my traumas ive endured. so as long as i vibe with them and they like me and they are continuing to improve themselves as a person i might give them a chance. i think its also unfair to find the one that will last forever as well. i am thankful for everyone person who was nice to me even though it didnt last forever. i wont give up hope because even just having lovely friends is nice enough! someday ill have someone i connect with and maybe even more people to connect with to love and trust! i deserve to be loved and respected.
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i hate how narcissistic people in this society can be! im polyamorous so luckily i dont have that stress of trying to pick the best option because i can just pick them for each quality they specialize in. puts way less pressure on them to be perfect in every area. this works because i have high standards not because of society, but because of my traumas ive endured. so as long as i vibe with them and they like me and they are continuing to improve themselves as a person i might give them a chance. i think its also unfair to find the one that will last forever as well. i am thankful for everyone person who was nice to me even though it didnt last forever. i wont give up hope because even just having lovely friends is nice enough! someday ill have someone i connect with and maybe even more people to connect with to love and trust! i deserve to be loved and respected.
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genshinsultan
this is no surprise to me because i knew that online dating is somewhat messed up, Keep in mind im a muslim but lets say if i were to be a non muslim, So ive always thought that online dating could be bad for a couple of reasons, First i thought it was more toxic because people can betray you alot more easily than in real life, And i think thats because if you were to be in a relationship irl you would be able to sort it out, But if your using via a dating app you cant even talk to them because they have already probably blocked your account, Secondly I thought it would be pretty pathetic to tell your son 15 years in the future about where you first met, Last thing is that its super easy to dump on someone because everyone on tinder etc are trying way too hard to be attractive.
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this is no surprise to me because i knew that online dating is somewhat messed up, Keep in mind im a muslim but lets say if i were to be a non muslim, So ive always thought that online dating could be bad for a couple of reasons, First i thought it was more toxic because people can betray you alot more easily than in real life, And i think thats because if you were to be in a relationship irl you would be able to sort it out, But if your using via a dating app you cant even talk to them because they have already probably blocked your account, Secondly I thought it would be pretty pathetic to tell your son 15 years in the future about where you first met, Last thing is that its super easy to dump on someone because everyone on tinder etc are trying way too hard to be attractive.
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psych2go
I don't think dating apps are always the best way to go. Speaking from expirence, half the time people left me on read for a long time after we were just starting to get to know eachother. Sometimes they would block me as well. Dating apps are mainly geared towards women, There is no equal ground when it comes to it. In addition to it being superficial there are so many fake profiles. so its easy for someone to get into a bad situation. I say meeting someone in person would be better. Doing a group activity where everyone knows eachother would be helpful. Like a painting class. Something like a night club could be dangerous if you're not carrful.
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I don't think dating apps are always the best way to go. Speaking from expirence, half the time people left me on read for a long time after we were just starting to get to know eachother. Sometimes they would block me as well. Dating apps are mainly geared towards women, There is no equal ground when it comes to it. In addition to it being superficial there are so many fake profiles. so its easy for someone to get into a bad situation. I say meeting someone in person would be better. Doing a group activity where everyone knows eachother would be helpful. Like a painting class. Something like a night club could be dangerous if you're not carrful.
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samusranzer
I actually tried Tinder, Badoo, OKCupid, Match, eHarmony, Zoosk, Bumble, Chispa, and others, and all I can say is, they are a scam. The closest one to a decent one was Bumble, because I actually got to make a friend. As for all the other apps, I only got matched with users who ended up being SW and camgirls, and in about 4-5 years, I couldn't get more than this one friend from bumble and that was it. Either there are no matches-Tinder will match one but she won't reply to a message, or in Bumble's case, one makes matches but they never initiate the conversation, thus losing the match-. These apps are not worth whether if one is paying or not.
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I actually tried Tinder, Badoo, OKCupid, Match, eHarmony, Zoosk, Bumble, Chispa, and others, and all I can say is, they are a scam. The closest one to a decent one was Bumble, because I actually got to make a friend. As for all the other apps, I only got matched with users who ended up being SW and camgirls, and in about 4-5 years, I couldn't get more than this one friend from bumble and that was it. Either there are no matches-Tinder will match one but she won't reply to a message, or in Bumble's case, one makes matches but they never initiate the conversation, thus losing the match-. These apps are not worth whether if one is paying or not.
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HoshPak
We are not even scratching the surface of what's wrong with dating. The media is catering to women and making them dependent on outside stimuli in order for them to keep consuming. That leads into them pursuing highly hypergamous dating strategies that leave men broken and forces them to expect ill will on every encounter. The lack of commitment in return will hurt women again, forming a vicious circle of nobody trusting anyone for more than short-term fun when decent men and women would like to find actual love.
However, this comment will be buried as nobody wants to have this true, especially not the ones who profit from the situation.
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We are not even scratching the surface of what's wrong with dating. The media is catering to women and making them dependent on outside stimuli in order for them to keep consuming. That leads into them pursuing highly hypergamous dating strategies that leave men broken and forces them to expect ill will on every encounter. The lack of commitment in return will hurt women again, forming a vicious circle of nobody trusting anyone for more than short-term fun when decent men and women would like to find actual love.
However, this comment will be buried as nobody wants to have this true, especially not the ones who profit from the situation.
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ExcelMK
Dating is already difficult as of right now, but then add on my ADHD and other things and oh boy it gets to the brink of impossibility. I have not gone on a date yet as of currently and everytime I've attempted (because I've never even gotten to the point of admitting feelings) I've been shut down and every reason has been different. There's a part of me that doesn't even want to try in this game anymore, but there's also a part of me that realizes just how beneficial a lover can be for me. I'm conflicted on what to feel currently, but it doesn't pass the constant that I'm currently feeling hopeless with how things are going.
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Dating is already difficult as of right now, but then add on my ADHD and other things and oh boy it gets to the brink of impossibility. I have not gone on a date yet as of currently and everytime I've attempted (because I've never even gotten to the point of admitting feelings) I've been shut down and every reason has been different. There's a part of me that doesn't even want to try in this game anymore, but there's also a part of me that realizes just how beneficial a lover can be for me. I'm conflicted on what to feel currently, but it doesn't pass the constant that I'm currently feeling hopeless with how things are going.
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scoutgaming1822
I was in a purely online relationship for about ten months recently.
I Don’t know anything about them. I don’t know their real name, face, voice, hell I didn’t even know their age.
We sort of were just happy-go lucky for a while.
At some point, they randomly started ghosting me, they did it for about two months.
After that time passed, I finally decided to message them, telling them they can talk to me whenever they feel like it, since its been a while.
All they said is a vague and cryptic I’ve gotten over you.
And then they blocked me, we haven’t spoken since.
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I was in a purely online relationship for about ten months recently.
I Don’t know anything about them. I don’t know their real name, face, voice, hell I didn’t even know their age.
We sort of were just happy-go lucky for a while.
At some point, they randomly started ghosting me, they did it for about two months.
After that time passed, I finally decided to message them, telling them they can talk to me whenever they feel like it, since its been a while.
All they said is a vague and cryptic I’ve gotten over you.
And then they blocked me, we haven’t spoken since.
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SomeOne2027
The way these psychological videos avoid the unpleasant truth. everything stated in this video applies to women. Women experience this abundance and wealth of choices. The vast majority of men do not. Most men nowadays are lonely with no hope of even getting a date. Of course, women don't see that because they only see the small minority of men to whom this does not apply. The rest of men, which is also most of them, are transparent. You will never see a psy2go video about the eternal loneliness of men, because then you'll have to ask the question 'why', and deal with the answer.
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The way these psychological videos avoid the unpleasant truth. everything stated in this video applies to women. Women experience this abundance and wealth of choices. The vast majority of men do not. Most men nowadays are lonely with no hope of even getting a date. Of course, women don't see that because they only see the small minority of men to whom this does not apply. The rest of men, which is also most of them, are transparent. You will never see a psy2go video about the eternal loneliness of men, because then you'll have to ask the question 'why', and deal with the answer.
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USER_S4V4NT
iv started to see love as a false concept, from what i see all it is is a tingly felling people get that causes them to chase, reject, cheat, and abandon, and none of these people end up in a solid relationships. people should focus on companionship commitment and working through problems and not falling for true love disney bs, because i think in reality most people are compatible with most other people, just the muck of the dating world has brainwashed everyone into closing all the doors for having a meaningful relationship while opening the doors to be disappointed or hurt.
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iv started to see love as a false concept, from what i see all it is is a tingly felling people get that causes them to chase, reject, cheat, and abandon, and none of these people end up in a solid relationships. people should focus on companionship commitment and working through problems and not falling for true love disney bs, because i think in reality most people are compatible with most other people, just the muck of the dating world has brainwashed everyone into closing all the doors for having a meaningful relationship while opening the doors to be disappointed or hurt.
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Brambrew
Never Gonna Give You Up is an excellent song.
All memes aside, the first few lyrics are the alternative to shallow hookup culture; the key to ending toxic dating:
We're no strangers to love
You know the rules and so do I
A full commitment's what I'm thinking of
You wouldn't get this from any other guy
I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling
Gotta make you understand
Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
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Never Gonna Give You Up is an excellent song.
All memes aside, the first few lyrics are the alternative to shallow hookup culture; the key to ending toxic dating:
We're no strangers to love
You know the rules and so do I
A full commitment's what I'm thinking of
You wouldn't get this from any other guy
I just wanna tell you how I'm feeling
Gotta make you understand
Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
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