5 Subtle Behaviors That ATTRACTS Anyone
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Date: 2024-01-26
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pauligrossinoz
The saying thank you advice comes from a broader category:
_Acts of kindness given without any expectation of a reward in return. _
These acts of kindness are always appreciated because they don't feel transactional. The recipient doesn't feel that they need to return that act of kindness.
. but you will usually be rewarded with a sincere smile for your act of kindness.
A common example is to smile and just say thank you to the serving staff when they hand you your coffee. These people work hard, and every tiny bit of kindness they get can help them through their day.
And speaking for myself, _seeing somebody else smile is all the reward that I need. It makes me feel very happy to see others are happy too! _
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The saying thank you advice comes from a broader category:
_Acts of kindness given without any expectation of a reward in return. _
These acts of kindness are always appreciated because they don't feel transactional. The recipient doesn't feel that they need to return that act of kindness.
. but you will usually be rewarded with a sincere smile for your act of kindness.
A common example is to smile and just say thank you to the serving staff when they hand you your coffee. These people work hard, and every tiny bit of kindness they get can help them through their day.
And speaking for myself, _seeing somebody else smile is all the reward that I need. It makes me feel very happy to see others are happy too! _
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rojilinlyn1130
Hey. psy2go. I have something that i want to ask. Actually there's someone that has a crush on me. And the last 5 month, we really get along well. But, i separate myself way to much because of academic stress. And now. I find it hard to approach her. Then, today our lecturer ask us to write everything we thought on our friends. Yeah, she's my classmate. And i think she just gave me a hint. I just want to get any advices on how should i gave her a chance without giving too much hint that i also want too
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Hey. psy2go. I have something that i want to ask. Actually there's someone that has a crush on me. And the last 5 month, we really get along well. But, i separate myself way to much because of academic stress. And now. I find it hard to approach her. Then, today our lecturer ask us to write everything we thought on our friends. Yeah, she's my classmate. And i think she just gave me a hint. I just want to get any advices on how should i gave her a chance without giving too much hint that i also want too
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ShaharYoel
hey there pal. you are here agien. you are probably here becuase you want to attract someone. now listen, there is no 100% guaranteed sucsess with these things. if it dosnt work, let go. and im not saying give up from the start, you can try a little and if it wont work just let go. we cant control other peapole. and if we are able somehow to control someone, he is not controlled, he is just forced to do stuff. he still has different feelings no matter what you do. have a nice day.
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hey there pal. you are here agien. you are probably here becuase you want to attract someone. now listen, there is no 100% guaranteed sucsess with these things. if it dosnt work, let go. and im not saying give up from the start, you can try a little and if it wont work just let go. we cant control other peapole. and if we are able somehow to control someone, he is not controlled, he is just forced to do stuff. he still has different feelings no matter what you do. have a nice day.
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aellalee4767
I swear I already do this. I get bullied anyway at my job as an adult.
Although no one can really tell me anything actually bad about me other than setting personal boundaries like no I won't keep rotting corpses in my hotel room, or no I won't touch the raw sewage dirt.
I realize this is obviously over the top stuff, unrelated to the video. I'm clearly around mean people.
I just don't know where else to vent it.
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I swear I already do this. I get bullied anyway at my job as an adult.
Although no one can really tell me anything actually bad about me other than setting personal boundaries like no I won't keep rotting corpses in my hotel room, or no I won't touch the raw sewage dirt.
I realize this is obviously over the top stuff, unrelated to the video. I'm clearly around mean people.
I just don't know where else to vent it.
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khrisbreezy3628
Yeah, I have a friend in the tech field that also has friendships within nerdy fandoms, and he seems quite adept as a conversationalist. Definitely good at pretty much all of the 5 points of the video.
Personally though, I feel I am notoriously bad at active listening, am solid at showing gratitude and good at keeping boundaries almost to the point of never getting close to anyone
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Yeah, I have a friend in the tech field that also has friendships within nerdy fandoms, and he seems quite adept as a conversationalist. Definitely good at pretty much all of the 5 points of the video.
Personally though, I feel I am notoriously bad at active listening, am solid at showing gratitude and good at keeping boundaries almost to the point of never getting close to anyone
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psych2go
I agree with the 5 things. I tend to do all of them (my introvert nature helps here. But not with everybody. I can say thanks to anyone. But I don't notice small details in anybody. So, for me, it's not only that doing these things make me likable. It's also that, if I can do these 5 things with somebody, it's that I like that somebody.
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I agree with the 5 things. I tend to do all of them (my introvert nature helps here. But not with everybody. I can say thanks to anyone. But I don't notice small details in anybody. So, for me, it's not only that doing these things make me likable. It's also that, if I can do these 5 things with somebody, it's that I like that somebody.
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psych2go
1) Start appreciating people and say Thank you.
2) Have meaningful conversations, understand that the other person gets you, get to genuinely know them
3) Respect others personal boundaries
4) Be a good listener, show interest in what they say
5) Be observant, understand them and notice small details
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1) Start appreciating people and say Thank you.
2) Have meaningful conversations, understand that the other person gets you, get to genuinely know them
3) Respect others personal boundaries
4) Be a good listener, show interest in what they say
5) Be observant, understand them and notice small details
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flamegamer3424
I’m really good at observing because I like to look into more details about a person. I do respect other’s boundaries because they’re their own people and I commend them for that. With other behaviors, I struggle a bit with them, but I can do better.
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I’m really good at observing because I like to look into more details about a person. I do respect other’s boundaries because they’re their own people and I commend them for that. With other behaviors, I struggle a bit with them, but I can do better.
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alvarosamaniego319
Is funny how I do all these things in a natural manners and trust me I don't attract anyone. But well, I don't ingite) passion on anyone si that's a big factor, if you have that doing these stuff are not that important, it does improve tho a lot.
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Is funny how I do all these things in a natural manners and trust me I don't attract anyone. But well, I don't ingite) passion on anyone si that's a big factor, if you have that doing these stuff are not that important, it does improve tho a lot.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Expressing gratitude 0: 16
2. Start meaningful conversations 0: 48
3. Respecting personal boundaries 1: 43
4. Active listening 2: 24
5. Be observant 3: 02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Expressing gratitude 0: 16
2. Start meaningful conversations 0: 48
3. Respecting personal boundaries 1: 43
4. Active listening 2: 24
5. Be observant 3: 02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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ktostam35
I realised I do a lot of these automatically due to how I was raised. To me saying thank you is something I'll say even to someone I don't like, simply because my mom taught me to thank for stuff, didn't even realise it attracts people
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I realised I do a lot of these automatically due to how I was raised. To me saying thank you is something I'll say even to someone I don't like, simply because my mom taught me to thank for stuff, didn't even realise it attracts people
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mohreda4413
Can you create a video that talks about emotional numbness (dullness of feelings) after a relationship that hurt the heart, or a vidio about losing enthusiasm and enjoying old or new things And also loss of passion
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Can you create a video that talks about emotional numbness (dullness of feelings) after a relationship that hurt the heart, or a vidio about losing enthusiasm and enjoying old or new things And also loss of passion
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GaIaxyStarGazer
I tried all of this I tried to make friends by being kind but they just betray me every single time making me feel left out. And they only come to me when they feel off or when the others are ignoring them.
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I tried all of this I tried to make friends by being kind but they just betray me every single time making me feel left out. And they only come to me when they feel off or when the others are ignoring them.
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hicknopunk
A big one the video does not mention is:
If you are out of your depth in a conversation or social interaction, tell the other person that. People will be a lot more forgiving if they know you are trying.
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A big one the video does not mention is:
If you are out of your depth in a conversation or social interaction, tell the other person that. People will be a lot more forgiving if they know you are trying.
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lovelumity
I think people are only attracted to me because I'm very different
And because I have the ability to show them what they will never be able to see
And maybe also because I am very secretive
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I think people are only attracted to me because I'm very different
And because I have the ability to show them what they will never be able to see
And maybe also because I am very secretive
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takki2747
Why exactly should I respect those boundaries
There are days, where I'm pulling myself by the bootstraps, when I could just be sitting home alone, drinking my face off.
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Why exactly should I respect those boundaries
There are days, where I'm pulling myself by the bootstraps, when I could just be sitting home alone, drinking my face off.
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StealthTheUnknown
I’m not here to please people or attract people. I don’t care if you like me or not - it ain’t about me, but the objectives for which I move.
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I’m not here to please people or attract people. I don’t care if you like me or not - it ain’t about me, but the objectives for which I move.
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TheChainTV
i feel the umbrella trick only works in anime XD bc the girl can still call you a creep and soo you end up with a soaked person in both ways
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i feel the umbrella trick only works in anime XD bc the girl can still call you a creep and soo you end up with a soaked person in both ways
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Xivana_Night0543
I have a question could you make Videos about fears again it's really interesting and I would Like to learn more if thats OK ofcourse
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I have a question could you make Videos about fears again it's really interesting and I would Like to learn more if thats OK ofcourse
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psych2go
Too bad we can't instantly like one another due to personal reasons. Not everyone has the ability to click with people just like that.
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Too bad we can't instantly like one another due to personal reasons. Not everyone has the ability to click with people just like that.
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