Being Single Can Be a Good Thing For You (Compiled Videos)
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Date: 2024-02-15
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8 things single people can relate to
1. feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0: 40
2. having to be the third wheel all the time 1: 16
3. having to stomach a lot of PDA 1: 41
4. always being asked why you're still single 2: 24
5. being comforted because of your relationship status 2: 56
6. being bombarded with personal questions 3: 25
7. constantly being set up on blind dates 4: 01
8. feeling pressure to find someone already 4: 25
8 reasons to be single
1. save money 5: 34
2. you can fortify your friendships and family relationships 6: 11
3. you can explore new hobbies 6: 42
4. you can go after your dream job more easily 7: 08
5. you can be selfish without consequences 7: 44
6. you deal with less drama 8: 14
7. you master self sufficiency 8: 41
8. you still experience the excitement of finding your soulmate 9: 08
10 behaviours that keep you single
1. you have cynical views about love 10: 06
2. you set unrealistic standards 10: 34
3. you have set too many deal breakers 11: 01
4. you have unresolved past trauma 11: 35
5. you have low self esteem 12: 07
6. you have a fear of happiness 12: 43
7. you have trust issues 13: 25
8. you think you will lose your independence by being in a relationship 13: 50
9. you want someone you can't or shouldn't have 14: 27
10. you don't learn from your mistakes 14: 50
few benefits of being single
1. strengthening bonds 16: 11
2. permission to be selfish 16: 55
3. look within 17: 55
4. mental health 19: 00
hope this helps.
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8 things single people can relate to
1. feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0: 40
2. having to be the third wheel all the time 1: 16
3. having to stomach a lot of PDA 1: 41
4. always being asked why you're still single 2: 24
5. being comforted because of your relationship status 2: 56
6. being bombarded with personal questions 3: 25
7. constantly being set up on blind dates 4: 01
8. feeling pressure to find someone already 4: 25
8 reasons to be single
1. save money 5: 34
2. you can fortify your friendships and family relationships 6: 11
3. you can explore new hobbies 6: 42
4. you can go after your dream job more easily 7: 08
5. you can be selfish without consequences 7: 44
6. you deal with less drama 8: 14
7. you master self sufficiency 8: 41
8. you still experience the excitement of finding your soulmate 9: 08
10 behaviours that keep you single
1. you have cynical views about love 10: 06
2. you set unrealistic standards 10: 34
3. you have set too many deal breakers 11: 01
4. you have unresolved past trauma 11: 35
5. you have low self esteem 12: 07
6. you have a fear of happiness 12: 43
7. you have trust issues 13: 25
8. you think you will lose your independence by being in a relationship 13: 50
9. you want someone you can't or shouldn't have 14: 27
10. you don't learn from your mistakes 14: 50
few benefits of being single
1. strengthening bonds 16: 11
2. permission to be selfish 16: 55
3. look within 17: 55
4. mental health 19: 00
hope this helps.
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Weirdo_Kai.
Person: Are you single
Me: Yes. Why
Person: Maybe you could go out with me
Me: Sorry, no, I'm not looking to date anyone right now.
Person: Why
Me: I'm not ready for a relationship yet.
Person: Why How are you not ready for happiness
Me: . I'm happier being by myself. I need to work on myself before I can have a relationship.
Person: How are you happier by yourself That doesn't make sense.
Me: It DOES make sense. I have a few mental disorders that I need to work on before I can start a relationship.
Person: But if you fall in love, they can help you with your problems.
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! My problem is that I'm not comfortable with being in a relationship yet! Don't you realize how much emotion and energy you have to put into a relationship I'm not ready for that! Plus, I'm an introvert. I need a lot of alone time to have enough energy. There's no way I could spend so much time dating. I would have a mental breakdown. If only I could explain this to people. If I did, what am I supposed to say
Person: Will you go out with me
Me: Sorry, no, my brain is messed up and I can barely go outside without overthinking everything. So if I go out with you, I will be preparing for the date all day, then start overthinking about it and stressing, then end up chickening out and canceling. Wasting SO MUCH TIME AND ENERGY! So yeah. I'm not going to go on a date with you.
Person: . You could've just said no.
Me: Eye twitches
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Person: Are you single
Me: Yes. Why
Person: Maybe you could go out with me
Me: Sorry, no, I'm not looking to date anyone right now.
Person: Why
Me: I'm not ready for a relationship yet.
Person: Why How are you not ready for happiness
Me: . I'm happier being by myself. I need to work on myself before I can have a relationship.
Person: How are you happier by yourself That doesn't make sense.
Me: It DOES make sense. I have a few mental disorders that I need to work on before I can start a relationship.
Person: But if you fall in love, they can help you with your problems.
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND! My problem is that I'm not comfortable with being in a relationship yet! Don't you realize how much emotion and energy you have to put into a relationship I'm not ready for that! Plus, I'm an introvert. I need a lot of alone time to have enough energy. There's no way I could spend so much time dating. I would have a mental breakdown. If only I could explain this to people. If I did, what am I supposed to say
Person: Will you go out with me
Me: Sorry, no, my brain is messed up and I can barely go outside without overthinking everything. So if I go out with you, I will be preparing for the date all day, then start overthinking about it and stressing, then end up chickening out and canceling. Wasting SO MUCH TIME AND ENERGY! So yeah. I'm not going to go on a date with you.
Person: . You could've just said no.
Me: Eye twitches
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Hexarius0
Really nice video as always! I'm single and I never was in a couple and I think taht it's a pretty accurate video.
Also a have a question: I went to school today and during the few minutes I wasn't at my desk I received a love letter. First time that someone gave me one(even if i don't know who is it. There was a meeting location so I know who asked me out but she seems to have erased the meeting location and I don't have any more info taht she wears glasses and that she was in the same classroom as me at least one hour but I'm not sure that its' a true love letter or a fake one. as i type thsi it's almost 7: 20pm the same day.
What should I do I felt pretty weird never had thsi sensation in my life but it doesn't feel normal. Yeah I know I'm pretty young but could someone help
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Really nice video as always! I'm single and I never was in a couple and I think taht it's a pretty accurate video.
Also a have a question: I went to school today and during the few minutes I wasn't at my desk I received a love letter. First time that someone gave me one(even if i don't know who is it. There was a meeting location so I know who asked me out but she seems to have erased the meeting location and I don't have any more info taht she wears glasses and that she was in the same classroom as me at least one hour but I'm not sure that its' a true love letter or a fake one. as i type thsi it's almost 7: 20pm the same day.
What should I do I felt pretty weird never had thsi sensation in my life but it doesn't feel normal. Yeah I know I'm pretty young but could someone help
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RazorFoxDV
My last and only relationship ended 22 years ago in a traumatic way that destroyed my ability to trust anyone in a romantic capacity. I've heard it said and I've learned from experience that talking about what happened in a past relationship is a dealbreaker when trying to embark upon a new one, but I feel that information needs to be put out there so that my prospective SO can understand why I'm hesitant about this or reluctant about that or downright panicking about the other thing. Without that vital context, they'll just think that I'm uninterested or possibly even hostile to their advances, but with it, I still scare them off. It's a lose-lose proposition. My last SO did me hella dirty and I feel that's irrevocably impaired any potential future relationship opportunities.
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My last and only relationship ended 22 years ago in a traumatic way that destroyed my ability to trust anyone in a romantic capacity. I've heard it said and I've learned from experience that talking about what happened in a past relationship is a dealbreaker when trying to embark upon a new one, but I feel that information needs to be put out there so that my prospective SO can understand why I'm hesitant about this or reluctant about that or downright panicking about the other thing. Without that vital context, they'll just think that I'm uninterested or possibly even hostile to their advances, but with it, I still scare them off. It's a lose-lose proposition. My last SO did me hella dirty and I feel that's irrevocably impaired any potential future relationship opportunities.
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MerihemXx
I'm a pretty social person, but I like to keep my social circle small and manageable. I think I'm a social introvert where I crave interaction, but I do enjoy alone time. That said, a lot of my friends have gotten into relationships and moved on from me and it's becoming more and more lonely as the years go by and while being single is nice, I do want that kind of relationship in my life. I don't come across friends very easily, much less girl friends, so getting to know someone on such a level that I can see them as a girlfriend is next to impossible to me right now. Also, I wish people would set me up on blind-dates, at least I'd be trying people out. Oh well, I'm nothing if not patient.
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I'm a pretty social person, but I like to keep my social circle small and manageable. I think I'm a social introvert where I crave interaction, but I do enjoy alone time. That said, a lot of my friends have gotten into relationships and moved on from me and it's becoming more and more lonely as the years go by and while being single is nice, I do want that kind of relationship in my life. I don't come across friends very easily, much less girl friends, so getting to know someone on such a level that I can see them as a girlfriend is next to impossible to me right now. Also, I wish people would set me up on blind-dates, at least I'd be trying people out. Oh well, I'm nothing if not patient.
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ultimablackmage
Horse sht. Being single is horrible in a world that pressures you to be in a relationship just to afford to live thanks to cost of living. Then there's the fact that you get demonised & treated bad for not being in a relationship because it isn't normal. Also, dating now is near impossible due to ridiculous standards like financial status, political views & fake gender. At the end of the day, suicide is on the rise due to the pressures of the modern life & not being in a relationship is one of the biggest causes.
I've been single for 2 decades due to not being what women want as I'm fat, broke, have ASD, an old fashioned nerd, too honest & don't like thrill seeking.
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Horse sht. Being single is horrible in a world that pressures you to be in a relationship just to afford to live thanks to cost of living. Then there's the fact that you get demonised & treated bad for not being in a relationship because it isn't normal. Also, dating now is near impossible due to ridiculous standards like financial status, political views & fake gender. At the end of the day, suicide is on the rise due to the pressures of the modern life & not being in a relationship is one of the biggest causes.
I've been single for 2 decades due to not being what women want as I'm fat, broke, have ASD, an old fashioned nerd, too honest & don't like thrill seeking.
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namethestars
I was in a relationship for over ten years, granted it wasn't a happy one due to abuse but I felt more lonely stuck with them than I do now. Being single isn't a bad thing if you refocus your mindset, I'm finding joy in my hobbies once more, I'm learning things they refused to let me try and turning my home into my own cosy abode. There's this beautiful post I once found that says when you are finally at peace with yourself, love doesn't compete with your past but your comfort and happiness; if they can't compete with your safe zone be wary. I'm happy in my own company and really not anchoring for love any time soon
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I was in a relationship for over ten years, granted it wasn't a happy one due to abuse but I felt more lonely stuck with them than I do now. Being single isn't a bad thing if you refocus your mindset, I'm finding joy in my hobbies once more, I'm learning things they refused to let me try and turning my home into my own cosy abode. There's this beautiful post I once found that says when you are finally at peace with yourself, love doesn't compete with your past but your comfort and happiness; if they can't compete with your safe zone be wary. I'm happy in my own company and really not anchoring for love any time soon
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Dsmpsn63
For me I’ve been single for most of my life, twice I try to be in a relationship but both times the woman I was dating felt they would be better off going back to what they were used to, being disrespected, being belittled, going through physical & emotional abuse, treated like they have no value
I always believed in treating a woman like a queen, but I guess in this day and age most women want to be with a thug
I’m now 60 years old & I absolutely have no self esteem left
I just have to accept that I’m going to die alone, no marriage, no kids
I guess god wanted to be this way
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For me I’ve been single for most of my life, twice I try to be in a relationship but both times the woman I was dating felt they would be better off going back to what they were used to, being disrespected, being belittled, going through physical & emotional abuse, treated like they have no value
I always believed in treating a woman like a queen, but I guess in this day and age most women want to be with a thug
I’m now 60 years old & I absolutely have no self esteem left
I just have to accept that I’m going to die alone, no marriage, no kids
I guess god wanted to be this way
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psych2go
I've been single most of my life. I'm ACE and that can be difficult, for other people to understand.
I tried relationships before, but I just feel nothing, no mater if I'm taken or not. To me, being single is the better route.
Others won't feel, I don't like them, when I take a lot of me time. I'm an introvert and don't feel that romance is my thing. Give me time to listen to music and draw. I'm good.
I've made compromises and will meet others in the middle, but I more of a lone wolf, doing my own thing.
Single or not, all of you have a wonderful day, every day.
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I've been single most of my life. I'm ACE and that can be difficult, for other people to understand.
I tried relationships before, but I just feel nothing, no mater if I'm taken or not. To me, being single is the better route.
Others won't feel, I don't like them, when I take a lot of me time. I'm an introvert and don't feel that romance is my thing. Give me time to listen to music and draw. I'm good.
I've made compromises and will meet others in the middle, but I more of a lone wolf, doing my own thing.
Single or not, all of you have a wonderful day, every day.
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vtolavolt
Hey, at first I wanted to rush into a relationship because half of my classmates are dating, and I wanted to try it out. That was during highschool. looking at it now, I should've told myself to be content with being single, because atleast I now have the time to invest in things I have the time to do, as well as being okay with being alone! To all the other peeps who are single, don't forget to tell yourself that it's okay. It's okay to be single, and it's okay to not be ready for a relationship if you yourself know you can't do it right now. Don't worry and be happy!
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Hey, at first I wanted to rush into a relationship because half of my classmates are dating, and I wanted to try it out. That was during highschool. looking at it now, I should've told myself to be content with being single, because atleast I now have the time to invest in things I have the time to do, as well as being okay with being alone! To all the other peeps who are single, don't forget to tell yourself that it's okay. It's okay to be single, and it's okay to not be ready for a relationship if you yourself know you can't do it right now. Don't worry and be happy!
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0: 40
2. Having to be the third wheel all the time 1: 15
3. Having to stomach a lot of PDA 1: 41
4. Always being asked why you're still single 2: 24
5. Being comforted because of your relationship status 2: 56
6. Being bombarded with personal questions 3: 25
7. Constantly being set up on blind dates 4: 01
8. Feeling pressured to find someone already 4: 25
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Happy Valentine's day to everyone who see this.
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Timestamps
1. Feeling replaced by your friends' significant other 0: 40
2. Having to be the third wheel all the time 1: 15
3. Having to stomach a lot of PDA 1: 41
4. Always being asked why you're still single 2: 24
5. Being comforted because of your relationship status 2: 56
6. Being bombarded with personal questions 3: 25
7. Constantly being set up on blind dates 4: 01
8. Feeling pressured to find someone already 4: 25
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Happy Valentine's day to everyone who see this.
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samicasingal4080
I both am not ready to be in a relationship because I have to work on myself and I don’t get many chances to come in contact with guys. As weird as that sounds since they’re everywhere, what I mean is I go to an all girls college so the only few men I see are students’ significant others. I’m also bad at socializing in general but it’s worse with guys, so even when I was in constant contact with guys in prior school years, I never had the courage to talk to them without thinking they’re judging me constantly
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I both am not ready to be in a relationship because I have to work on myself and I don’t get many chances to come in contact with guys. As weird as that sounds since they’re everywhere, what I mean is I go to an all girls college so the only few men I see are students’ significant others. I’m also bad at socializing in general but it’s worse with guys, so even when I was in constant contact with guys in prior school years, I never had the courage to talk to them without thinking they’re judging me constantly
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AngelaAnoniem
I am single for 1 year and have double feelings. If I see my friends having a relationship for years of even gonna get married. At the end of the day being alone missing someone to cuddle with love. I am thankful for my friends and mom get love. But missing the love love.
I am thinking starting dating but scared of online platforms with as good and bad experiences. And with my mental illnesses and situation It is more difficult finding someone who accept me.
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I am single for 1 year and have double feelings. If I see my friends having a relationship for years of even gonna get married. At the end of the day being alone missing someone to cuddle with love. I am thankful for my friends and mom get love. But missing the love love.
I am thinking starting dating but scared of online platforms with as good and bad experiences. And with my mental illnesses and situation It is more difficult finding someone who accept me.
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KimieMekamiko
I decided to stay Single, but I still have a kind of valentine or significant other. I decided to stay single to develope myself freely and being able to love home freely, without the need of searching for a replacement. He currently can not feel the same and that's actually fine, because somehow we are still very close and something is slowly developing. It simply needs more time than the casual dating. The funny thing is, I am so happy and satisfied with that
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I decided to stay Single, but I still have a kind of valentine or significant other. I decided to stay single to develope myself freely and being able to love home freely, without the need of searching for a replacement. He currently can not feel the same and that's actually fine, because somehow we are still very close and something is slowly developing. It simply needs more time than the casual dating. The funny thing is, I am so happy and satisfied with that
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PascalHorn
Sometimes it’s ok to be single.
Sometimes I can get convinced by videos like these.
But sometimes not.
In my case, I don’t want to be single. I don’t choose to be alone. And this day hurts. Really bad.
If you read this and feel the same, remember. There are many people out there, feeling the same. In that regard you, we are not alone. Make yourself comfy, grab some chocolate, have a nice evening. And I wish you a better day for tomorrow.
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Sometimes it’s ok to be single.
Sometimes I can get convinced by videos like these.
But sometimes not.
In my case, I don’t want to be single. I don’t choose to be alone. And this day hurts. Really bad.
If you read this and feel the same, remember. There are many people out there, feeling the same. In that regard you, we are not alone. Make yourself comfy, grab some chocolate, have a nice evening. And I wish you a better day for tomorrow.
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KobaGhibli3628
As someone who’s single and who desperately wants a girlfriend thank you for making this video
I’m currently 20 and living in a small town, it’s very depressing and I fear that once I’m done collage I may not get another opportunity to meet a girl that I like. I’m hoping once I’m done collage I will be able to move to a big city and will have a better chance to meet girls and for a romantic relationship with one.
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As someone who’s single and who desperately wants a girlfriend thank you for making this video
I’m currently 20 and living in a small town, it’s very depressing and I fear that once I’m done collage I may not get another opportunity to meet a girl that I like. I’m hoping once I’m done collage I will be able to move to a big city and will have a better chance to meet girls and for a romantic relationship with one.
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jameliaallas5743
I am 16 years old and i have mental health problems it's because of my toxic family that treated me badly, so i believe inside my thoughts that other people that i will meet in my life will do the same to me as my family have done to me, i have trust issues, have Gamophobia which is fear of marriage and philophobia which is fear of falling in love or fear of having deep connection with someone
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I am 16 years old and i have mental health problems it's because of my toxic family that treated me badly, so i believe inside my thoughts that other people that i will meet in my life will do the same to me as my family have done to me, i have trust issues, have Gamophobia which is fear of marriage and philophobia which is fear of falling in love or fear of having deep connection with someone
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cslearn3044
I am single by choice, 19 years old and I don't really mind it. Sure it would be nice to have a gf, but if I want one just to not feel lonely or something like that is not really good for you nor her. I had girls that wanted to be with me but they weren't really my type. Just focus on yourself, work and strive for power, and right girl will come to you at exact time you are ready to have one.
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I am single by choice, 19 years old and I don't really mind it. Sure it would be nice to have a gf, but if I want one just to not feel lonely or something like that is not really good for you nor her. I had girls that wanted to be with me but they weren't really my type. Just focus on yourself, work and strive for power, and right girl will come to you at exact time you are ready to have one.
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MichaelGlitzos
I see it as a time that might not last forever. There’s a lot of freedom in being able to live on your terms and not having to take others into consideration. Learning to love yourself is a truly rewarding experience. Does valentines annoy me Not as much as I thought it would. I get to celebrate myself and my friends and family. Not all love has to be romantic.
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I see it as a time that might not last forever. There’s a lot of freedom in being able to live on your terms and not having to take others into consideration. Learning to love yourself is a truly rewarding experience. Does valentines annoy me Not as much as I thought it would. I get to celebrate myself and my friends and family. Not all love has to be romantic.
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lenninmontiel4539
Why do you all think im toxic towards others and give them toxic advice if yall wanna ruin your life with someone at your side well congratulations you've won a life full of misery and depression, anxiety and stress because you couldn't keep it in your pants. Tsk tsk tsk shame on all of you hope yall have a horrible and ugly valentines day.
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Why do you all think im toxic towards others and give them toxic advice if yall wanna ruin your life with someone at your side well congratulations you've won a life full of misery and depression, anxiety and stress because you couldn't keep it in your pants. Tsk tsk tsk shame on all of you hope yall have a horrible and ugly valentines day.
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