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5 Signs Your Crush Doesn't Want a Relationship (new animation)

5 Signs Your Crush Doesn't Want a Relationship (new animation)

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Unrequited! Unrequited! Unrequited love hurts. Unrequited love means love that is one-sided and not returned. When you are having an one-sided crush, you may wonder How to know if he likes me, how to know if she likes me. Have you guys ever wondered if your crush likes you back? Unrequited love can be painful and heartbreaking when someone rejects you. When someone friend zones you, they can show subtle signs such as bit making an effort, they talk about their love life, keeping you at arms' length, flaking on plans, and flirting with other people. We also made a video on the signs your crush likes you but is afraid of rejection
Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 25


I met a girl at a friend's bd. She was gorgeous. I felt attracted to her bc I felt she felt the same. I asked her out on a date an she was more than happy to go out with me. It was peak of happiness for me. We had an incredible first date, she and I felt pretty much the same, or at least, that's what I thought. She is in college right now and I am working. Her college is really demanding so we had little time to get to know each other. I think she felt a pressure to give me time she didn't have. I went to see her 2 times on her college. I brought her flowers, chocolates, cakes, her favorite snack and things like that. She seemed very happy with all of that but also I noted she was putting herself a pressure by herself. She didn't have time and I was something out of her routine. I was, at the end of the day, a waste of her time. So she stopped talking to me for like a week. She used to send me a good morning msg and so did I. But she stopped. My friend (the one of the bd) told me many times she was busy with college, but it wasn't just that and I could feel it.
So I asked her two days ago straight hey, I've seen we haven't talk much and I'm wandering if something happened or you lost interest on me? I would appreciate if you could let me know and any answer you give it's gonna be ok with me.
So she told me, it wasn't that she didn't felt attracted or wasn't interested, but that she felt we are looking for different thing. She told me she didn't wanted a relationship and assumed that I did (honestly, I would have love to be her gf. I told her that it was ok and that I was happy to have the chance to know her. It was really sad and she thanked me too.
Now I understand more than ever that maybe we've meet with the right people (or very suitable people) more than once, but sometimes time is everything. Sometimes you are looking for something the other person isn't, or sometimes you are mature and the other person isn't, and many many things.
But even with that known and learn, I don't want to give up on love, because I know I am a good person that has a lot of love to give to the world. And to this girl, Fernanda, if she ever reads this comment (probably never gonna happen) I want you to know that you were one of the highlights of my year, by far. I would've loved to be in your life a little longer, and I just wish you to be happy and ok, you are incredibly beautiful, take care, xx

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Im the crush in the situation. He my chemistry partner and I had a feeling he liked me but I brushed it aside thinking I was thinking to highly of myself and saying guys and girls can be friends Im just simply worried about nothing, I wasnt. Literally the day I came to term with this because I was trying to distance myself politely while thinking these things and he confessed. It was sweet but I just dont feel the same way. Im only in high school and Im not looking for a relationship right now especially since I have a lot to work on like my self esteem. Hes really nice but I only see him as a free. I told him something like this but more politely telling him that him confessing was very brave and I appreciate him. I asked if we could just be friends if he thought that was possible and he said yes, however when we got back to school the next next day he was treating me pretty cold(dont get me wrong I understand it completely and looking at it from his perspective I get why he would act that way. He was still kind but it really hurt me to think I hurt someone else) I continued to be nice and include him in things and in my head I kept thinking about the whole situation. I worry that I lead him on in a way since I am said to be a really nice person so I hope he didnt mistake that for attraction. I just hope we can be friends again in time. Thats why Im watching this to make sure if I did lead him on I dont do it again. Any advice for not feeling like complete trash? I know its not my fault and I cant force myself to have feelings for him but I hate to think I hurt someone.
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1. My crush may make a bit too much effort, until she told her mom to tell the teacher to sit right next to me, and she also almost always sit with me during lunch.
2. I've liked my crush since I was in grade 2, and we were almost always the same class throughout primary school. She was also interested in me ever since, sadly we don't usually go out with each other due to the fact that we don't have money yet, or either of us is busy during the time.
3. She does talk about her previous crushes, but she says she never cared about them then and now. I don't understand that lol She also tells me about her situation, how she feels about things, and how she's doing, and she asks me those similar questions too.
4. She's never missed a gathering when there's me. because of that too, she also often chooses the same extracurricular activities as me.
5. I've heard things from my friends, sometimes they even like my crush. I don't see any proof of her going to other people though, because when I moved to a new house, she sent her address. Since her home is very close to school, my parents also agree and move into the same area as where she's living too. Too bad she's constantly busy with important homework while I always do it as fast as possible, but she almost never misses a hang out with me. The only time she does is when the homework is very important, or is it that she's busy with her family.

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Love life can be really complicated sometimes, I'm 14 and an introvert, I've just started to get into dating and I can't read body language that well, I have a crush on someone but I know that they don't feel the same (didn't confess) I'm very scared of rejection, I'm not close enough to anyone that I know to go and ask them to console me or be my wingman, I also have acne and no self confidence in me, I'm scared of what others think of me, I'm too scared to get therapy or help because of being judged or making things worse for me, I have had suicidal thoughts before but that was at march this year but sometimes, suicide still gets in my head. I need someone to talk too but I'm too scared to do so, I've had social anxiety since I was 8 years old and it's not going away, I haven't hung out with my friends (outside of school) since April this year, I'm very insecure about my looks and personalit
y, introverts don't get the love and kindness that they deserve, if someone's Introverted, it doesn't mean you be rude about it because that's caused me social trauma that I still have today. Also, introverts are sensitive to emotions which could cause suicide so please respect the introverts. I've held these emotions in for so long and I'm finally getting this off my chest

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Just wanna share something, please don't judge me. I'm 21, and I've liked different people throughout my life now, and although at times I've felt like some of them showed interest in me as well, I feel like they've purposely avoided me at times, because of our differences. I am from a strict religious background, and the ones that I've liked are usually from different religions, and I know they're well-aware that I can't date/marry someone with other beliefs. Although I vow to myself to stick to that value, I just would really appreciate it even if they just told me what they felt towards me, without asking for any returns, and I probably would've done the same thing. I mean, I just wanted to at least know that someone sees me in this kind of way, and feel appreciated. It just sucks coz I've been constantly saying negative stuff to myself, and it would be great if someone would make me realize and feel otherwise. I would've felt good, even if just one of them admitted to liking me, even at some point only. Anyway, that's all, I just wanted to get this one out of my chest as well. Thanks for reading.
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I've been friends with this guy (p) for months almost a year and we started flirting with each other as a joke at first a long time ago. This week he said ''we should date'' but it seemed like he was serious so i asked him privately if he really meant it, since we usually joke around. He kinda ignored the question and never answered directly to me. But my friend (i) told me she overheard our other friend (c) telling (p) he should ask me out this week. my friend (i) said that (p) agreed to asking me out but that it was kinda lowkey. Me and (p) has spent more time alone together and stuff and i feel like he really does like me, and i like him too. But he still won''t tell me directly or make it obvious to me. He doesn't really reach out to me first when we talk and hes usually busy hanging out with other people. I do like him but him and me has had private conversations before about him liking my old friend at the time. But that was months ago. Should I ask him out or wait?
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I once had a crush on a girl and she completely hates me today. I know she suffers depression, but hadnt told me about it. Only a friend of mine. I told her about how I had felt, when I was in a bad time (having similar issues. But today she doesnt even talk to me and cant stand being in one room with me. Once I confronted her about it, but she would not tell me, why she despises me. I dont think she plays/played hard to get. And she made my suffering even worse, but I somehow got out of it, by acknowledging that I was worth it and that she should kiss my a and that I dont have to care about anyones opinion, as I simply have to be happy with myself. And now I feel sorry for her but she tried to take me down, but now she is sitting there with her problems and her guilt, but she wont let me help. Now I can only say fkyou. She knew it all but made me suffer and now she is left with it all. I only have one question
Am I the ahole here?

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I still wouldn't know anything after this video based on my situation. Mainly because I act the same way like the crush in this video. I am somewhat interested but i don't talk deep feelings, ask a lot of personal questions, likes and dislikes. It is partially because i was massively brokenhearted from being in love with the wrong person for a long time and it crushed me. It's been 2 years since then but i haven't dated or seriously considered anyone really. Now this person is one of my online friends. The person i was in love with at that time was online too, that's why I'm being really indecisive about it. So I act with this friend in a very joking, easygoing matter but we don't disclose personal stuff. I do like him a little, but i wouldn't be hurt if he says no. He'll come to visit this weekend, which is amazing since his country is quite far away from mine. Should i tell him now or wait a bit if our friendship goes deeper.
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Should I ask out my crush. I'm an introvert and she's an extrovert. We have been friends for the past year and have had lost of fun together. We don't go to the same school, I met her at a camp a year ago and we just clicked. We do share a bit in common but have not talked verbally for a few months. I'm thinking about asking her out but can't find a time place or even how to say it. I have been watching your videos for about a year and a half now and have recently been watching all your episodes about love and talking to a crush. Your videos have helped me through a tough time and inspired me to become more of an ambovert. May your merry tunes and soothing voice inspire others in any way possable.
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My Crush may not be interested as she hasn't put much efforts in knowing about me, but here I am eager to know everything about her and everything about what she thinks of me. I don't wanna change like super wierdo but I wanna improvise myself for her.
I think as a person I am too weak physically for her as she would definitely be finding someone who can not only care but also protect her so I'll be working-out from now onwards for a Lean Shape and maybe in a month I'll be in a better state, I don't know but let's just GIVE IT A GO.

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Ik this is kinda off topic of the video but still related to the crush thing only, so like me and them are dating so like any tips for new relationships? or how to make it more better? :) if you could make a video on that I would highly appreciate it! but it's your choice as I don't wanna force you guys to make the video since i know most of you guys have already help us a lot by making so many videos for us which I do like a lot and get it quite helpful, so yeah.
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I know her for over 2 months and i barely interact with her
I'm socially awkward, my friends joke on me every time I say something illogical, i feel like I'm melting when I see her.
For now, I'm on vacations. I've been watching those videos for a week. I need to think about it.
If I come to the conclusion I should give up, I wish her to find a good boyfriend /girlfriend. I wish her happiness if I can't provide her

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When your crush is in a relationship
Context: My crush is/was) In a relationship but they broke up, then got back together, then broke up again, and now they're figuring things out? Idrk what's going on and it's not really my business. I don't take this as an opportunity or anything, I feel really bad for my crush; -; She definitely needs time and rest and even though it hurts, I hope things work out between them: (

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The only thing my crush did was being late at a date (I would call it a date but it's just spending time just the both of us, there was no words between us about what's going on between us: ') but in all honesty, he is an ISFP. This doesn't even surprise me. He seemed tired as well and I feel like his health is my priority, much more than feeling angry about it (though I've been honest about how I felt.
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Thanks for the video! It is very informational and helpful.
On a unrelated note.
Do you know how to handle a situation of when your bestfriend betrays you? Like they have twisted your words when talking with others? I'm about to cut ties with them, and it hurts. Sorry for ranting, losing a friend after 5 years is just painful. Have a good day.

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i recently had my first boyfriend, we are classmates, he basically ghosted me during summer and then dumped me the day before the first day of school for the reason that he is too lazy to be in a relationship. I am ok but I kinda hate him for the fact that he draged it out and let me think for three months that he still wanted to be with me
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Numbers 1 and 4 are the most common signs I get and I absolutely hate it. I'm always the one trying, but others do not. I get abandoned and it makes me feel worthless. This happened so many times that I'm starting to believe I am once again not a guy anyone loves in this way. I'm just another clown in the circus.
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My answer to almost all of the questions is not really, but. And for a moment I thought how bad this situation looks, but then I realized that he could probably say the same about me, as I try to hide my feelings as much as possible and I do absolutely everything to not show that I have a crush on him
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Bro, it looks like he like me and also don't. Well, we spend a lot of time together and sometimes we flirt with each other but then, sometimes he flirts with another girls, well, he's been flirting with them for a week now, but with me, yeah. Idk what is gonna happen, I'll just wait.
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She was def showing signs of liking me at first and we got along great, but she has depression and anxiety and seems to have lost interest. I try to engage and make her feel better but its not working and im not getting anything in return. I like her and dont know what to do.
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Its more of me not wanting a relationship since the beginning of this year. I been alone for so long its turn into a comfort zone. Doesnt mean I lack having crushes on others just comfortable where I am. If Exs keeps where I am I be comfortable, safe, and happy with my me time
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To be honest, going all out for a person who doesn't want a relationship with you can be really embarrassing. I think people need to read the room more before they dive in. Otherwise, you might just be risking the embarrassment of a lifetime.
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He thought about dating me back then until I said something it would never work out I felt like a liar, but its true. Im afraid of losing him as a friend than a partner. Now we are best friends since 2016! He is my person and I am his.
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well they said they loved me multiple times but since they rejected a bunch of people they could possibly be trying to make me expose myself to tell everyone that I like them and I'm not willing to take that risk
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On my last day of 5th grade, I had this big time crush, but, in the last week of school, she wasn't there, I couldn't even have my first kiss, I was devastated, so devastated I cried in my bed for over 2 minutes
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