People Are More Likely to LIKE You If.
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Darth
Being a person with autism it is pretty damn frequent that I make small mistakes, but unlike people who try to play it cool, unfortunately I beat myself up for those mistakes simply for being naturally a perfectionist. I'm never in a group simply because one, I'm not really that comfortable in social environments (again due to autism making you not a very good person in social aspects and major fear of rejection, and two I can't really find a good group at school I can hang with (I got friends, but can't find a group in school simply due to fear of rejection and fearing that I don't have likable qualities. I'm confident this will change as I make the transition to college this coming summer, but it hurts rn, if I'm being completely honest here.
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Being a person with autism it is pretty damn frequent that I make small mistakes, but unlike people who try to play it cool, unfortunately I beat myself up for those mistakes simply for being naturally a perfectionist. I'm never in a group simply because one, I'm not really that comfortable in social environments (again due to autism making you not a very good person in social aspects and major fear of rejection, and two I can't really find a good group at school I can hang with (I got friends, but can't find a group in school simply due to fear of rejection and fearing that I don't have likable qualities. I'm confident this will change as I make the transition to college this coming summer, but it hurts rn, if I'm being completely honest here.
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The
I try to be likeable and nice and I like to listen to what other people have to say over what I have to say so yea I want to talk about myself I just want to listen to what they have to say over what I have to say and when people compliment me I cant tell what's them being genuine or just trying to compliment me because they want to take what people don't like about me and say that they like that because I have had several interactions where people tell me that they like my voice but I'm 15 and have a high pitch voice and I cant do anything about it but other people that I really know as a life long friend say my voice is high and annoying yet people who say they like me always say my voice sounds nice or they like it
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I try to be likeable and nice and I like to listen to what other people have to say over what I have to say so yea I want to talk about myself I just want to listen to what they have to say over what I have to say and when people compliment me I cant tell what's them being genuine or just trying to compliment me because they want to take what people don't like about me and say that they like that because I have had several interactions where people tell me that they like my voice but I'm 15 and have a high pitch voice and I cant do anything about it but other people that I really know as a life long friend say my voice is high and annoying yet people who say they like me always say my voice sounds nice or they like it
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Luna
For all the people saying just be yourself NO its not that easy, especially when youre at a young age and dont even know who you are yourself, but still wanna make friends
You cant just stop being a people pleaser, actually if you tell this to someone, they feel bad for it but eventually it wont do anything for them its just more insecurity
Remind yourself, that you are a wonderful person and dont be to harsh to yourself because at a certain point of life you will look back at your past self and feel some love for it. Also, take your time to develop yourself and sometimes it takes time to meet the right friends (sometimes you can speak to a person more openly than to others, thats how I notice it)
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For all the people saying just be yourself NO its not that easy, especially when youre at a young age and dont even know who you are yourself, but still wanna make friends
You cant just stop being a people pleaser, actually if you tell this to someone, they feel bad for it but eventually it wont do anything for them its just more insecurity
Remind yourself, that you are a wonderful person and dont be to harsh to yourself because at a certain point of life you will look back at your past self and feel some love for it. Also, take your time to develop yourself and sometimes it takes time to meet the right friends (sometimes you can speak to a person more openly than to others, thats how I notice it)
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Idon'tknow
My body is usually warmer than any other people and when someone touches my hand then they are like Why is your hand so warm? Are you having a a fever?
I like this thing about me and I already knew that this sonehow makes me more likable or even in different ways.
It's just facts when a person[boy] prefers Summer the most then he can be more likable and attractive but for girls winter workes better. But I am a girl. -. [Tomboy]
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My body is usually warmer than any other people and when someone touches my hand then they are like Why is your hand so warm? Are you having a a fever?
I like this thing about me and I already knew that this sonehow makes me more likable or even in different ways.
It's just facts when a person[boy] prefers Summer the most then he can be more likable and attractive but for girls winter workes better. But I am a girl. -. [Tomboy]
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John
What about if a person is not invited out to anything? I try my best to do all of these and Im often the person people come to when they need to talk but Im not allowed to have a chance to express myself and Im never included in anything. Then people just distance themselves from me because Im no longer useful when my mental health takes a nose dive.
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What about if a person is not invited out to anything? I try my best to do all of these and Im often the person people come to when they need to talk but Im not allowed to have a chance to express myself and Im never included in anything. Then people just distance themselves from me because Im no longer useful when my mental health takes a nose dive.
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Farina
4. giving people compliments
im not open enough to talk to people in fear of them to not care, and i hate that about myself, i always feels like people don't care about what i say about them, but in reality i don't know that for sure, i'll always procastinate wether to compliment them or stay silence, i wish i had more courage to speak
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4. giving people compliments
im not open enough to talk to people in fear of them to not care, and i hate that about myself, i always feels like people don't care about what i say about them, but in reality i don't know that for sure, i'll always procastinate wether to compliment them or stay silence, i wish i had more courage to speak
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Lavenderrose73
reminds me of when I was in a Toastmasters meeting many years ago, and someone was letting me know my mistakes after speaking, in front of everybody else, although not in a ridiculing manner but just matter of factly. One lady went Phew! like she was relieved it wasn't just her who had a few things to improve. Lol
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reminds me of when I was in a Toastmasters meeting many years ago, and someone was letting me know my mistakes after speaking, in front of everybody else, although not in a ridiculing manner but just matter of factly. One lady went Phew! like she was relieved it wasn't just her who had a few things to improve. Lol
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Patty
I like ice coffee, but now that fall is definitely here (in Chicago, I'm going to try holding a warm cup of coffee and potentially try not to feel so bad when I make a mistake. The other day, I spilled something and someone helped me clean it up. That's okay. I really don't have to be perfect or do everything myself.
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I like ice coffee, but now that fall is definitely here (in Chicago, I'm going to try holding a warm cup of coffee and potentially try not to feel so bad when I make a mistake. The other day, I spilled something and someone helped me clean it up. That's okay. I really don't have to be perfect or do everything myself.
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Angie
1: 29. That's so goddamn true-
Like my new(and first) crush is in a group that I love to listen and participate their conversations
3: 17 is this why people like me even tho I was the top student without even studying?
(Idk if I'm gonna continuo to be the top in this new class tho)
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1: 29. That's so goddamn true-
Like my new(and first) crush is in a group that I love to listen and participate their conversations
3: 17 is this why people like me even tho I was the top student without even studying?
(Idk if I'm gonna continuo to be the top in this new class tho)
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Nola
I don' t care if ppl like me or not, I am myself, I don' t try to be anything or anyone i' m not, I am me flaws and all, I do get alot of compliments though on my humour and happy go lucky attitutude and I am very easy to get along with, social and talkative, I am not no wallflower! Lol
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I don' t care if ppl like me or not, I am myself, I don' t try to be anything or anyone i' m not, I am me flaws and all, I do get alot of compliments though on my humour and happy go lucky attitutude and I am very easy to get along with, social and talkative, I am not no wallflower! Lol
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Outcast
I want to be a good person, I tend to be polite and genuine. However, I am a total pessimist and also very easily triggered, so my bad temper completely negates all potential likeability and attractiveness.
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I want to be a good person, I tend to be polite and genuine. However, I am a total pessimist and also very easily triggered, so my bad temper completely negates all potential likeability and attractiveness.
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Sam
Remember, for the 2nd point (they see you in a group first, it would be more beneficial if you were more attractive than the group average, otherwise the opposite of the intended effect may happen as a result.
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Remember, for the 2nd point (they see you in a group first, it would be more beneficial if you were more attractive than the group average, otherwise the opposite of the intended effect may happen as a result.
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dat
I just donated some canned food to my college in an attempt to make up for my past sins. I know this isn't relevant, but I couldn't find a good enough video for me to put this comment
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I just donated some canned food to my college in an attempt to make up for my past sins. I know this isn't relevant, but I couldn't find a good enough video for me to put this comment
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Ryan
So, to get people to like me I need to have a whole group of friends? That's not happening anytime soon. Edit: after watching the entire video this clearly applies to neurotypicals.
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So, to get people to like me I need to have a whole group of friends? That's not happening anytime soon. Edit: after watching the entire video this clearly applies to neurotypicals.
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Nai
Hi, you: ) I want you to know that you are amazing just how you are. And that even though Im a complete stranger, I just know that youre lovable and worthy of all happy things
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Hi, you: ) I want you to know that you are amazing just how you are. And that even though Im a complete stranger, I just know that youre lovable and worthy of all happy things
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Lord
noticed in 5/good listlener he was holding warm beverage
cool detail
yes
mmm
idk how to complement people, would it be too much to ask for a video on that?
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noticed in 5/good listlener he was holding warm beverage
cool detail
yes
mmm
idk how to complement people, would it be too much to ask for a video on that?
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Delphina
Literally love your videos! Can you do a video about signs someone is intentionally avoiding you? A lot of people are ignoring me now, and I dont know why.
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Literally love your videos! Can you do a video about signs someone is intentionally avoiding you? A lot of people are ignoring me now, and I dont know why.
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Wanna
What. we should drink what we like. not change what we like to drink to seem warm for others. 4 and 5 are the only ones that actually might make a change
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What. we should drink what we like. not change what we like to drink to seem warm for others. 4 and 5 are the only ones that actually might make a change
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Sabu
Honestly, just be yourself, by being yourself you will probably attract people that think or act in similar ways to you. Let it happen naturally.
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Honestly, just be yourself, by being yourself you will probably attract people that think or act in similar ways to you. Let it happen naturally.
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soneelita
When I see people with a warm beverage, I feel they are less productive and only good at eating and drinking especially at work.
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When I see people with a warm beverage, I feel they are less productive and only good at eating and drinking especially at work.
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Michael
I think #1 is wrong. It sounds like the study is actually saying people will like you if THEY are holding a hot beverage, not you.
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I think #1 is wrong. It sounds like the study is actually saying people will like you if THEY are holding a hot beverage, not you.
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AlexaSimps
This is definitely helpful for me because it literally took me 4 weeks just to make just 1 to 2 friends at my school; v:
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This is definitely helpful for me because it literally took me 4 weeks just to make just 1 to 2 friends at my school; v:
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Heather
was that a stray kids shirt? i love it, i knew i saw leebit in another video but i thought i was just overthinking it.
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was that a stray kids shirt? i love it, i knew i saw leebit in another video but i thought i was just overthinking it.
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YSL_LAN
-absorbs this information in and plugs these new traits into my DNA ready to be reborn a new person tomorrow-
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-absorbs this information in and plugs these new traits into my DNA ready to be reborn a new person tomorrow-
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daegali
aight now i need a video telling me how to be friends with someone without talking to them bc im a coward LOL
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aight now i need a video telling me how to be friends with someone without talking to them bc im a coward LOL
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