8 Attractive Things You Do But Don't Realize
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Frosch
In my experience as a genuinely kind person, being nice isn't that helpful when trying to get to know someone romantically.
More often than not, it just comes off as trying too hard or faking when you're not playing games and constantly switching between ignoring and showing affection.
Also doesn't help I'm very direct and introverted probably.
I see it very simple, either you like someone and are nice to them, or you don't.
Even though I am an extremely loyal person, I often feel that trait isn't valued as much by others as it should be.
The lesson I've learned is to stop trying to help everyone the best you can and saying no, when you're too busy, not in the mood or unable.
Being nice and helpful all the time costs a lot of energy, which is depleted already when dealing with long-term mental health issues and syndromes.
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In my experience as a genuinely kind person, being nice isn't that helpful when trying to get to know someone romantically.
More often than not, it just comes off as trying too hard or faking when you're not playing games and constantly switching between ignoring and showing affection.
Also doesn't help I'm very direct and introverted probably.
I see it very simple, either you like someone and are nice to them, or you don't.
Even though I am an extremely loyal person, I often feel that trait isn't valued as much by others as it should be.
The lesson I've learned is to stop trying to help everyone the best you can and saying no, when you're too busy, not in the mood or unable.
Being nice and helpful all the time costs a lot of energy, which is depleted already when dealing with long-term mental health issues and syndromes.
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Ash
Hard to find people with these qualities in today's world. Be grateful to the person who helped you when no one was their beside, don't stab them at their back. listen to your friends, its better to have one good friend than to have many rather its always best to stay alone than having any. be good to the ones who is with you, never know how and when life can take a turn. don't be Judgemental about your friend coz you cannot fit into their shoes. people who don't know you ll speak about you but the one who knows doesn't need explanation. care about your friend but don't be inquisitive to know everything about them just to spead gossip. Be careful to whom you share your table with. know the difference between a classmate, colleague and a friend.
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Hard to find people with these qualities in today's world. Be grateful to the person who helped you when no one was their beside, don't stab them at their back. listen to your friends, its better to have one good friend than to have many rather its always best to stay alone than having any. be good to the ones who is with you, never know how and when life can take a turn. don't be Judgemental about your friend coz you cannot fit into their shoes. people who don't know you ll speak about you but the one who knows doesn't need explanation. care about your friend but don't be inquisitive to know everything about them just to spead gossip. Be careful to whom you share your table with. know the difference between a classmate, colleague and a friend.
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Antonis
Lets see what i get:
1: Sometimes, when is genuine
2: not much, due to stress
3: I want to, but struggling at finding any good hobbies (other than listening to music)
4: often, but sometimes, something can trigger me, and can speak before thinking
5: Most times, due to also having a half closed personality (Not mind)
6: Not really, again due to my closed permanently, and shyness
7: When i actually Care about others
8: Almost always failed
So it's: 5/8
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Lets see what i get:
1: Sometimes, when is genuine
2: not much, due to stress
3: I want to, but struggling at finding any good hobbies (other than listening to music)
4: often, but sometimes, something can trigger me, and can speak before thinking
5: Most times, due to also having a half closed personality (Not mind)
6: Not really, again due to my closed permanently, and shyness
7: When i actually Care about others
8: Almost always failed
So it's: 5/8
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Amane
Sometimes, I don't appreciate myself even when I know deep down, that I'm ok! It's hard to because of my past of people bullying me just because, why not? I know I should've stood up but it takes time to learn, a lot of time. If you struggle too, know that don't try to be attractive. Be YOURSELF. There's a line between being open and foolish though! (not as easy as they say)
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Sometimes, I don't appreciate myself even when I know deep down, that I'm ok! It's hard to because of my past of people bullying me just because, why not? I know I should've stood up but it takes time to learn, a lot of time. If you struggle too, know that don't try to be attractive. Be YOURSELF. There's a line between being open and foolish though! (not as easy as they say)
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RWQFSFASXC
I'm always so kind and humble, and I relate to all of these things in the video. My friends always compliment me and come up to me whenever they have a problem, and people admire me. yet I'm the only single one in my friend group, which consists of around 20 people.
It really does feel lonely, and I don't want to rush a relationship. so I'm still waiting
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I'm always so kind and humble, and I relate to all of these things in the video. My friends always compliment me and come up to me whenever they have a problem, and people admire me. yet I'm the only single one in my friend group, which consists of around 20 people.
It really does feel lonely, and I don't want to rush a relationship. so I'm still waiting
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Ballistic
Man, the more of these videos I watch the more depressed I get. I can hardly relate to the videos designed to make people feel better, but I can always seem to relate to many of the negative traits expressed in the other videos. Maybe I was just born wrong or something.
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Man, the more of these videos I watch the more depressed I get. I can hardly relate to the videos designed to make people feel better, but I can always seem to relate to many of the negative traits expressed in the other videos. Maybe I was just born wrong or something.
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Infj-t
No im not attractive because being attractive to ppl means they'll eventually want to be in a romantic relationship and thats Never Ever gonna happen Ever!
If anyone finds anything about me attractive then thats evidence they're insane and you can't change my mind
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No im not attractive because being attractive to ppl means they'll eventually want to be in a romantic relationship and thats Never Ever gonna happen Ever!
If anyone finds anything about me attractive then thats evidence they're insane and you can't change my mind
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Weeb
Being kind and putting others first is important, but dont forget to be confident. Im not a psychologist, or an expert on women, but Im pretty sure if you constantly second guess yourself, and what you believe is true, you may make others second guess you too.
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Being kind and putting others first is important, but dont forget to be confident. Im not a psychologist, or an expert on women, but Im pretty sure if you constantly second guess yourself, and what you believe is true, you may make others second guess you too.
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Maxyger756
Dam I have all qualities. No wonder why people think of me as an everyday person at first but the second they start knowing me, they will stare at me and show some attraction to me. Its because Im a kind person! Even if I dont have a beautiful face
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Dam I have all qualities. No wonder why people think of me as an everyday person at first but the second they start knowing me, they will stare at me and show some attraction to me. Its because Im a kind person! Even if I dont have a beautiful face
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Jell
I personally don't find myself attractive, but I know that I can. I've been trying to smile more and show others I care about them, but sometimes they don't want to pay attention or ignore me. But I won't stop until they notice me.
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I personally don't find myself attractive, but I know that I can. I've been trying to smile more and show others I care about them, but sometimes they don't want to pay attention or ignore me. But I won't stop until they notice me.
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Mystik_Music
I share none of these traits. I'm an ugly person inside and out.
Can someone please tell me how I can just start over. I don't want to be like this anyone. I hate myself so much.
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I share none of these traits. I'm an ugly person inside and out.
Can someone please tell me how I can just start over. I don't want to be like this anyone. I hate myself so much.
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41_33
for number 2. i try looking my best everyday! i didn't realize it made me attractive! sadly, i have a friend that puts me down just because i have an actual style. i know she just jealous!
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for number 2. i try looking my best everyday! i didn't realize it made me attractive! sadly, i have a friend that puts me down just because i have an actual style. i know she just jealous!
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jade
When u think u are not pretty u are even when u love your self
People love them self more and when u say that another
Person is good looking they love that's self and the love spreds
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When u think u are not pretty u are even when u love your self
People love them self more and when u say that another
Person is good looking they love that's self and the love spreds
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Jax11
Is this is some motivation I need you're content really helps me figure out what I need and what I need to help sometimes I just get in a black void but you're content really helps me
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Is this is some motivation I need you're content really helps me figure out what I need and what I need to help sometimes I just get in a black void but you're content really helps me
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BlackWidow666
You can compete with your peers, so long as it is a friendly competition. I believe we should raise others alongside ourselves. So we can all work together as a team to win.
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You can compete with your peers, so long as it is a friendly competition. I believe we should raise others alongside ourselves. So we can all work together as a team to win.
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Tj
I'm glad I found out I am more attractive than I think because of how insecure I am around others. Thank you helping me understand I am more attractive than I think I am.
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I'm glad I found out I am more attractive than I think because of how insecure I am around others. Thank you helping me understand I am more attractive than I think I am.
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Lolluy
I don't know how to make friends I just do. And when I think about making a friend with someone in particular, I'm more nervous and awkward even when thinking of them
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I don't know how to make friends I just do. And when I think about making a friend with someone in particular, I'm more nervous and awkward even when thinking of them
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Yell038
i usually clean up after others and try to make others feel better, but nobodys done the same for me. im not saying i need to, i just feel this sense of loneliness
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i usually clean up after others and try to make others feel better, but nobodys done the same for me. im not saying i need to, i just feel this sense of loneliness
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Raheeq
I think Im doing well on everything except for the being a good listener, I think Im a bit too talkative! Ill need to work on that and try to listen to people well
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I think Im doing well on everything except for the being a good listener, I think Im a bit too talkative! Ill need to work on that and try to listen to people well
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Sharked
me watching the video to try and boost my confidence:
the video: ok so u only do one of these and that's talking about playing pokemon, so u aren't attractive
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me watching the video to try and boost my confidence:
the video: ok so u only do one of these and that's talking about playing pokemon, so u aren't attractive
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pyh
ok listen i may not have many friend but the friends i have im so thankful and i am really good listener buuuuuuttt my crysh lives on another side of my country: (
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ok listen i may not have many friend but the friends i have im so thankful and i am really good listener buuuuuuttt my crysh lives on another side of my country: (
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Michael
I have told I am ugly because of acne and annoying because I talk about my interest so I am sitting here like okay: 3. yall have no idea how this made my day!
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I have told I am ugly because of acne and annoying because I talk about my interest so I am sitting here like okay: 3. yall have no idea how this made my day!
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lee
idk but i noticed that when i started to laugh and giggle often, people also starts making contact with me. They talk and approach me more in class
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idk but i noticed that when i started to laugh and giggle often, people also starts making contact with me. They talk and approach me more in class
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Fleep
yeah, i stopped doing more than half of these when i was socially marginalised, this made me kinda sad that i don't do them as much anymore
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yeah, i stopped doing more than half of these when i was socially marginalised, this made me kinda sad that i don't do them as much anymore
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Horace
Something to add as a bonus round is honesty/authenticity. When someone is real about themselves and vulnerable with you, thats powerful.
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Something to add as a bonus round is honesty/authenticity. When someone is real about themselves and vulnerable with you, thats powerful.
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