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Coping with Friendship Loss or BFF [Japanese Dubbed Available]
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Date: 2024-09-27
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PureNightmare
Her name is Katie. and she was my ride or die BFF for 24 years. Neither of us had any friends in school, and one day we got sat together in a class and that was it - we were inseparable. We spent every birthday, holiday, event etc together. Worked together for 8 years at a point, spent every weekend going out either together or as part of a bigger group. I was chief bridesmaid at her wedding. We spent my 30th abroad. She would often turn up at my house to rant/rave about anything that was troubling her and i could do the same. I know everything about that girl, and she knows everything about me. but 5 years ago she decided she didnt want to be my friend anymore. and to this day i dont know why. As we got older our contact thinned a little but each time we met up it was like we'd never been apart. In 2019 i saw something funny on FB and went to send it to her to see that she had unfriended me. then i realised she hadnt replied to any of my latest texts or calls. Then noticed she had removed me from everything else online too. I was confused at the start and text her asking whats up - but no reply. For months i tried to contact her, even going round her flat but no one answered the door. we've not talked since and i still have no idea why she left me. She was the ONLY person in life i trusted (as i have trust and abandonment issues from childhood trauma) and i would have bet my life that she would never let me down. it still hurts so much 5 years on and i cant think about her/the situation its too overwhelming. Idk how to move on, or even begin accepting that the one person i would have happily died for ghosted me without so much as an explanation thank you if you read all this
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Her name is Katie. and she was my ride or die BFF for 24 years. Neither of us had any friends in school, and one day we got sat together in a class and that was it - we were inseparable. We spent every birthday, holiday, event etc together. Worked together for 8 years at a point, spent every weekend going out either together or as part of a bigger group. I was chief bridesmaid at her wedding. We spent my 30th abroad. She would often turn up at my house to rant/rave about anything that was troubling her and i could do the same. I know everything about that girl, and she knows everything about me. but 5 years ago she decided she didnt want to be my friend anymore. and to this day i dont know why. As we got older our contact thinned a little but each time we met up it was like we'd never been apart. In 2019 i saw something funny on FB and went to send it to her to see that she had unfriended me. then i realised she hadnt replied to any of my latest texts or calls. Then noticed she had removed me from everything else online too. I was confused at the start and text her asking whats up - but no reply. For months i tried to contact her, even going round her flat but no one answered the door. we've not talked since and i still have no idea why she left me. She was the ONLY person in life i trusted (as i have trust and abandonment issues from childhood trauma) and i would have bet my life that she would never let me down. it still hurts so much 5 years on and i cant think about her/the situation its too overwhelming. Idk how to move on, or even begin accepting that the one person i would have happily died for ghosted me without so much as an explanation thank you if you read all this
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rossj7546
I lost my best friend just last month, he. got caught in a scam and is gone forever now. In a previous post I've opened up about it and I'll do the same here for those who don't know, only because I want people to be safe and not fall into the same trap.
My bff was using a dating app when he got a message saying a girl he was texting killed herself, only the story was fake. The people pretending to be detectives, lawyers and all sorts to scare him into thinking he'll end up in prison or worse made him give them a large amount of money and personal information. In the end he thought the only way to stop this was. to end his own life.
Me and everyone else had no idea this was going on, not until it happened. And for the longest time, I've questioned what I could've said instead of Have a safe drive home. I am trying to write out my memories as his family wished for me to do, it's just unreal that his story ended so suddenly.
All I want people to take away from this message is to please be safe, these types of scams exist not just on dating apps, but anywhere on the internet and even emails. If anyone has a similar situation, or know someone who is unaware these scams exist, please tell them and tell someone who you trust.
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I lost my best friend just last month, he. got caught in a scam and is gone forever now. In a previous post I've opened up about it and I'll do the same here for those who don't know, only because I want people to be safe and not fall into the same trap.
My bff was using a dating app when he got a message saying a girl he was texting killed herself, only the story was fake. The people pretending to be detectives, lawyers and all sorts to scare him into thinking he'll end up in prison or worse made him give them a large amount of money and personal information. In the end he thought the only way to stop this was. to end his own life.
Me and everyone else had no idea this was going on, not until it happened. And for the longest time, I've questioned what I could've said instead of Have a safe drive home. I am trying to write out my memories as his family wished for me to do, it's just unreal that his story ended so suddenly.
All I want people to take away from this message is to please be safe, these types of scams exist not just on dating apps, but anywhere on the internet and even emails. If anyone has a similar situation, or know someone who is unaware these scams exist, please tell them and tell someone who you trust.
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Lee_Essa
For 7 years I suffered from my parents and classmates of my age, I almost gave up my life because I can't handle that long, but with the the help of love from the kids who were younger than me, I was saved. That was 3 years ago, I moved my school and now I have friends, teachers and also my parents and even the principal, is there for support. But still, because of past depression, this year I also felt the same thing, but this time, I took courage and talked with my school counselor about the issue, I'm taking medication now, but, I'm afraid it's not helping that much. Well I'm trying to overcome it, my friends and teachers are there to help. Since it didn't treated years ago, I find some difficulties with taking medication this year. I'm only 15 years old now, when I was only 10 years old, during that time, I figured how to understand others emotions, feelings and I can read their body language too. I also started helping out my friends who are depressed, with the help of past experiences than studying psychology, I started watching your videos, this year, on August, and I started medication from July! I love your videos and it helped me out so much
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For 7 years I suffered from my parents and classmates of my age, I almost gave up my life because I can't handle that long, but with the the help of love from the kids who were younger than me, I was saved. That was 3 years ago, I moved my school and now I have friends, teachers and also my parents and even the principal, is there for support. But still, because of past depression, this year I also felt the same thing, but this time, I took courage and talked with my school counselor about the issue, I'm taking medication now, but, I'm afraid it's not helping that much. Well I'm trying to overcome it, my friends and teachers are there to help. Since it didn't treated years ago, I find some difficulties with taking medication this year. I'm only 15 years old now, when I was only 10 years old, during that time, I figured how to understand others emotions, feelings and I can read their body language too. I also started helping out my friends who are depressed, with the help of past experiences than studying psychology, I started watching your videos, this year, on August, and I started medication from July! I love your videos and it helped me out so much
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MrScraftineer
So I am not losing my BFF. but well. he is moving away. We have been practically inseparable on and off for the past 13 years baring two years when I moved down to west Texas. long story short we left our job at a time when the market in our area is kinda finicky and have yet to get a new job (Made even better by the fact that I literally broke my foot too but that's neither here nor there) So we are actively going to be on other sides of the country. It's hard, though we will be online with each other I have known this man since the first day we played tic tac toe our 6th grade year in gym. I tuned in to see if this could help. and for all sakes it. has! I'll take your words into consideration as we navigate this new dynamic in our friendship.
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So I am not losing my BFF. but well. he is moving away. We have been practically inseparable on and off for the past 13 years baring two years when I moved down to west Texas. long story short we left our job at a time when the market in our area is kinda finicky and have yet to get a new job (Made even better by the fact that I literally broke my foot too but that's neither here nor there) So we are actively going to be on other sides of the country. It's hard, though we will be online with each other I have known this man since the first day we played tic tac toe our 6th grade year in gym. I tuned in to see if this could help. and for all sakes it. has! I'll take your words into consideration as we navigate this new dynamic in our friendship.
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smokey5995. 1
Wish this video came out in Feb, would hav been really helpful. Around that time I lost my best friend of 10 yrs. TL: DR, we blocked each other on multiple social media. I went to therapy and I tried to focus on finishing up my last semester of school. It was a bit awkward since we both played d&d in the same group and even on debating on leaving because of it but I persisted. They decide to leave after April session, possibly to go play with another group. A part of me wish that they were still playing with us & I just hope wherever they are they're doing okay. A lot of things have changed in my life since they left and I feel happier and healthier.
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Wish this video came out in Feb, would hav been really helpful. Around that time I lost my best friend of 10 yrs. TL: DR, we blocked each other on multiple social media. I went to therapy and I tried to focus on finishing up my last semester of school. It was a bit awkward since we both played d&d in the same group and even on debating on leaving because of it but I persisted. They decide to leave after April session, possibly to go play with another group. A part of me wish that they were still playing with us & I just hope wherever they are they're doing okay. A lot of things have changed in my life since they left and I feel happier and healthier.
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Studywithmenow001
Hey could you do one video for me please, about living with diastema and how to embrace it ( only positive things) and encouraging body positivity with diastema, it will be greatly appreciated, also point out some things to remember for other people who don't have diastema - like try not to provide unsolicited advice or tell them how ugly they are now or how beautiful they will become after closing gape, asking why are you keeping this gap etc just to make the person uncomfortable ( but may be they are showing care but tell them not to do these things). Kindly help me with this video please
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Hey could you do one video for me please, about living with diastema and how to embrace it ( only positive things) and encouraging body positivity with diastema, it will be greatly appreciated, also point out some things to remember for other people who don't have diastema - like try not to provide unsolicited advice or tell them how ugly they are now or how beautiful they will become after closing gape, asking why are you keeping this gap etc just to make the person uncomfortable ( but may be they are showing care but tell them not to do these things). Kindly help me with this video please
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maliksmith1204
This is a very convenient upload. I have a friend who I had to cut off because of how they've been treating me and someone else. They've been taking it poorly and have resorted to leaving rude comments in groups we're in. I found out that they actually want to make up and fix things. So I told them that if they actually want to fix things that they should reach out and tell me that themselves and not hide behind our friend whose trying to help her reconcile with me, so now I'm waiting to see if she actually goes through with it
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This is a very convenient upload. I have a friend who I had to cut off because of how they've been treating me and someone else. They've been taking it poorly and have resorted to leaving rude comments in groups we're in. I found out that they actually want to make up and fix things. So I told them that if they actually want to fix things that they should reach out and tell me that themselves and not hide behind our friend whose trying to help her reconcile with me, so now I'm waiting to see if she actually goes through with it
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nazhao3156
I still have not gotten over my loss of my Childhood best friend even 6 years later we were so close friends, we had graduated from the same elementary school together, Also we knew each other since 2nd grade, And to matter worse on November 21 I asked my childhood best friend if there was any chance we could see each other in person but she replied saying I don’t think so. It just broke my heart to hear those words because it meant that I would never see my childhood friend ever again.
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I still have not gotten over my loss of my Childhood best friend even 6 years later we were so close friends, we had graduated from the same elementary school together, Also we knew each other since 2nd grade, And to matter worse on November 21 I asked my childhood best friend if there was any chance we could see each other in person but she replied saying I don’t think so. It just broke my heart to hear those words because it meant that I would never see my childhood friend ever again.
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na-ra8701
I did let her go. Staying in that relationship could only hurt ourselves and our hearts. I met her when I was collecting some sea shells, almost 8 years ago. We made memories together. Happy or sad every piece of them valuable to me. And I am thankful for that. The irony is our last meeting happened near beach side. I felt deep in my heart while looking at sea, that this is the end. I still admire the gifts we shared and the timeless memories filled with laughter and joy.
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I did let her go. Staying in that relationship could only hurt ourselves and our hearts. I met her when I was collecting some sea shells, almost 8 years ago. We made memories together. Happy or sad every piece of them valuable to me. And I am thankful for that. The irony is our last meeting happened near beach side. I felt deep in my heart while looking at sea, that this is the end. I still admire the gifts we shared and the timeless memories filled with laughter and joy.
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theimpossiblemary
My best friend betrayed my trust, which was the last straw, but firstly, we fell apart because she started dating and changed completely. She kept talking about herself and her life and I was in pain and needed her. In the end, I am not regretful because if she betrayed my trust and spilt all my secrets to other people, it was because she was not a good person anymore.
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My best friend betrayed my trust, which was the last straw, but firstly, we fell apart because she started dating and changed completely. She kept talking about herself and her life and I was in pain and needed her. In the end, I am not regretful because if she betrayed my trust and spilt all my secrets to other people, it was because she was not a good person anymore.
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Q_Q_Q_1
In the beginning, I felt so much pain to face it but as time goes by, I find I better let her get out of my mind asap because it's a more painful experience if I still keep the hope for the return of good old days while the person treats you like an acquaintance right now, it's unfair and I won't treat myself so bad anymore in this relationship
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In the beginning, I felt so much pain to face it but as time goes by, I find I better let her get out of my mind asap because it's a more painful experience if I still keep the hope for the return of good old days while the person treats you like an acquaintance right now, it's unfair and I won't treat myself so bad anymore in this relationship
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nahimsleepyfr
I Lost a friend a few years ago and now they think I'm stalking them.
I said I'm over them, but I still wondered what went wrong often.
At this point I have given up but I wanted to say this to make sure y'all knew that Best friends are almost never permanent, so appreciate it while you have it.
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I Lost a friend a few years ago and now they think I'm stalking them.
I said I'm over them, but I still wondered what went wrong often.
At this point I have given up but I wanted to say this to make sure y'all knew that Best friends are almost never permanent, so appreciate it while you have it.
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vha2662
I and my bff have known each other for more than 10 years, but since she had boyfriend, I feel us no longer closer than the past, She didn’t go out with me usually, even she rarely talk me everything happen in her life like before. I don’t know, I’m very sad and I don't like her boyfriend
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I and my bff have known each other for more than 10 years, but since she had boyfriend, I feel us no longer closer than the past, She didn’t go out with me usually, even she rarely talk me everything happen in her life like before. I don’t know, I’m very sad and I don't like her boyfriend
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Eudaimonia7564
I considered him like a little brother. He genuinely meant so much to me. He said I can text him if I ever need anything but he isn’t interested in any actual friendship at all anymore. It’s so upsetting. This happened about a month and a half ago and I’m still trying to move on.
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I considered him like a little brother. He genuinely meant so much to me. He said I can text him if I ever need anything but he isn’t interested in any actual friendship at all anymore. It’s so upsetting. This happened about a month and a half ago and I’m still trying to move on.
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IMAYBESWORDMAN
I lost several friends a couple of years ago and what I used over time was affirming words like You didn't compromise your morals You respected boundaries You cared for the happiness of everyone involved and that help a lot during the beginning of my healing journey!
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I lost several friends a couple of years ago and what I used over time was affirming words like You didn't compromise your morals You respected boundaries You cared for the happiness of everyone involved and that help a lot during the beginning of my healing journey!
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whatisthisuser-s9s
Can anyone help So I'm having a situationship with my friend. I said something that was uncomfortable. And now she's moving away from me. But then she said the same thing that made her uncomfortable. I don't know if I should continue the friendship or move on.
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Can anyone help So I'm having a situationship with my friend. I said something that was uncomfortable. And now she's moving away from me. But then she said the same thing that made her uncomfortable. I don't know if I should continue the friendship or move on.
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SoraTheEchidna
This really showed up on a morning where I was really REALLY hurting from the loss of a close friend. It def helped a little.
I will say though, it's kinda weird how they call them a BFF cuz if they've left you then that last F isn't exactly true now is it
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This really showed up on a morning where I was really REALLY hurting from the loss of a close friend. It def helped a little.
I will say though, it's kinda weird how they call them a BFF cuz if they've left you then that last F isn't exactly true now is it
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ZquntrpYlapcoe
Same thing happened with me in 2023, my best friend left me, i love him too much but I can't say about my pain to anyone because if people think my gay. Really I always love him and care him during his seekness but still he hate me. Sometimes I cry for him.
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Same thing happened with me in 2023, my best friend left me, i love him too much but I can't say about my pain to anyone because if people think my gay. Really I always love him and care him during his seekness but still he hate me. Sometimes I cry for him.
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Jockwardia
Lost my best friend when they moved to an other city and I was going through a long period of a really bad social anxiety. My friend and I where bad at keeping contact. I had my social anxiety in the way and my friend was super busy with school and work.
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Lost my best friend when they moved to an other city and I was going through a long period of a really bad social anxiety. My friend and I where bad at keeping contact. I had my social anxiety in the way and my friend was super busy with school and work.
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sammikay6889
I got blocked by my friend months ago over a misunderstanding and they never told me why they blocked me just ghosted me. And they told me they don't abandon friends. is it me Am I the problem I didn't lose 1 friend I lost 2 bc they have an s/o.
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I got blocked by my friend months ago over a misunderstanding and they never told me why they blocked me just ghosted me. And they told me they don't abandon friends. is it me Am I the problem I didn't lose 1 friend I lost 2 bc they have an s/o.
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