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7 Reasons Why People Ignore You

7 Reasons Why People Ignore You

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It hurts to be ignored by the people you care about, and even more so when you dont know why. u. Are you pushing people away without meaning to? Plymothian: I'm not going to lie but being ignored puts a strain on our mental health and over time it feels like nobody cares and that our opinions doesn't matter. I do actually care about people but it's not reciprocated. I don't like the way I've been treated, I don't like the way I've been spoken to. I'm going through a lot. Broken heart, social rejection the list goes on. Over time our feelings go down and down until eventually they will explode out fiercely than before. If we bottle things up it can become dangerous, our emotions don't just go they will stay down until we can't contain anymore. You expect our friends to be there but there's a fair few that will only stay by your side. I'm crying writing this! I think I'm going through a mental illness called Dependent Personality Disorder which I think I've had since a young age. People with DPD spend a great deal pleasing others. Other signs are lack of confidence, fear of loosing support (friends) which is how I feel, fear of separation. Mental Health has a huge impact to how people relate to others but some only think of themselves, they are very much blinkered they don't think how others feel. Listening to others, acknowledging their feelings, is the best way to help someone. I feel intense because of the fear of abandonment and devastation that's happened. This is why I've become distant because of the way I've been treated it impacts on me, and I don't need that. I don't get anything back for it so might aswell keep myself to myself if people care they'd be there. I can't be bothered and social media is a huge impact on mental health especially with self image it's horrible, people out there showing off their assest for male attention, why? We are all the same. It can still psychologically impact on others hate the way today's society has gone, I really do I hate it, it makes me very anxious. I'm different to other women I really am, I'm not one to hurt anyone, it's just not me. I just don't want to get hurt anymore I've been through enough. I say if people want me they know where I am.
I just want the reassurance if I'm still loved. Not asking for much really. I hope I am, least I hope there's someone that still does anyway because I do him. I don't want to get hurt again it's not fair x

Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 24


I have a lot of friends who ignore me but one of the friends is a true friend but sometimes he talked to me a lot in school but very often he ignore me in the whole class basically no reason and I tell him why in the end of the class he just basically just said like no matter how I tried to make him say one word at me but he basically said at the end of the class he doesn't want to talk to me because he's bored but he's talking to others in just literally ignore me like I'm not there but also often he kind of apologise so I still have over emotional that's so I kinda take a little revenge by prank calling him in to have 7 Days To Live of course he didn't fall for that so yeah every time he ignore me I thought I was rejected because I lost so many friends. The only guess why he ignore me is because I talk too much but I don't think that's the reason because we talk to each other too much. Like I'm literally very nice to him but he sometimes ignore me for no reason is like he thinks I'm a fan girl or something even though I'm a male I guess he's bored for talking to me but after a that he just talk to me like nothing happened in zoom
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I felt like I was a bad leader. this video confirmed how bad I was and the reasons why I'm bad. Reasons 1, 2, 3 and 4 are such reasons.
I tried to host a party once featuring stuff I love. Unfortunately, it backfired and those who said they'll come never showed up. I've never hosted any other party afterward. I tried to ask why and they said they didn't like what I was proposing. So in the end, I grew more and more distant.
Sure they like my drawings once in a while, but I have the feeling it's just that: My drawings and not my mental health behind the drawings.

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I'm being distant because I don't wanna hurt anyone and I felt ashamed. And when I tried to regain my balance and attempting to rekindle relationship with others regardless, I felt being more isolated. It's frustrating and I'm losing hope as my age gets older and more regretful.
I had tried reading the book How to Win Friends and Influence Everyone but the result is the opposite. I tried my best not to complain and encourage others. But deep down, my shadow or the voices in my head tells me not to do it anymore.

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If you're getting ignored you probably need these
1. do what your heart desires
2. Everytime Eat until you can't (healthy cuz we need to burn their a down with a good figure
3. Drink a lot of water to have a good skin and to make them jealous ofc
4. focus on what you're doing
5. Don't give a f about them
6. Exercise (daily)
7. If they ignore you then probably you should also ignore them.
And do what they don't expect you to do
Cuz we only live once
Thanks for your Time honey

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I was ignored by a former friend group, despite not doing anything wrong. However, when they found out I was in the cast of a theater production coming soon, they would constantly pester me for show tickets. I would deny them because I honestly couldnt get them tickets, and I would get ignored again. I stayed away from them.
Why did they ignore me? Because I was different from them. But I wouldnt change who I am, just to fit in with them. I dont need or want friends such as that.

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I ended up finding out that my only friend close to me (not anymore) is a fake friend after watching your video of Signs your friend is toxic (or something like that) and came here since she always ignores me too.
I ended up finding out there are many reasons why i have negative thoughts, no wonder. Also, im not suprised i dont have any real friends who understand me anymore because everyone in my school cares about how you look, and im not anywhere near as pretty apparently.

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i'm so confused, cuz i basically fall into every description but many times i think about how we haven't talked much about him but he says he's fine with it, at the same time the first 4 descriptions are confusing cuz i get that they're bad things to do but i also feel like freely doing those things means im in a healthy comfortable relationship and he just said he felt comfortable a few days ago but he started leaving me on read and idk why
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I guess i am being ignored because I am like naturally quiet. like these stuff said in the video happen of the person who is ignoring you is like a regular. but for me, even strangers ignore me. like when I order something, like the shopkeeper will take the orders of everyone except mine. like what's that! Am I needy towards the shopkeeper or something lol? I am just naturally quiet. like I dont even make any footsteps sound when I walk.
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I have friend that is so nice to me we Hung a lot and it's fun but when one of her friends that I apsolutly can't stand she protend like I'm not even there. And that's not only whit that oner friend (aka girl I call my best friend) it's whit all my other friends.
When I'm sitting in bus whit some she have to call that friend on purpose to come bc she have something important to tell her

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My friend is always ignoring me: ( for a years shes not greeting me when my birthday comes and when she see me she just ignore me and walk away and sometimes im just the only one who adjust im the one who is walking away but im seeking her in our window she had no reactions idk why all my friends best friends always leaving me: ( and i became shy to the others to friends with them
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People who ignore you intentionally just want you to feel bad about yourself - they've made up their minds that they don't like you and think they are teaching you a lesson by ignoring you. The idea is to stop caring & don't ignore them. Talk to them normally as if you never even noticed them ignoring you, it pisses them off so much that they don't know how to act around you.
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I'm constantly get picked on at school by people like the same as my friends they don't even talk to me that much anymore one of my friends apologized to me and didn't know why they ignored me in the first place and ignored me the next day again and again it makes me sad because I love hanging out with them because I don't really have friends and now, I'm always alone.
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not that I'm ignored or anything but I feel like I'm just that one person that fills up the group when the other one can't. I'm no one's bestfriend although I have friends it kinda feels lonely in a sense. I only notice this hole after years of breaking up with my ex. Sometimes I just wish to vent to someone or have someone remember what I like or dislikes.
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this is why i bottle up my feelings instead of letting it out. people have hurt me for far too long and i just feel like i can never emotionally connect with someone. it stands the reason why i am the therapist friend. i genuinely sacrifice myself and my mental health alot and i end up bottling up my feelings to the point of self destruction.
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To be honest I am intense to the point where people get scared because I am strong. I moved to a new school and was part of a friend group but they saw me as to intense and start telling people and how they don't want to be friends with me which makes sense but what got me vexed they were to scared to say it to my face and now I am on my ones
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While I agree with this list I should also mention its not always our fault. It could be the other people and just how they are. If thats the case then you need to reevaluate the people you hang out with and possibly find a new crowd of people who accepts you for who you are! I honestly wouldnt want to be around people who always ignored me.
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I hate being left out, but I usually am. Im afraid to ask if Im needy or clingy because i dont want a weird reaction. Ik I have a problem with putting myself down, and thats probably a reason. I dont know how to fix it either. I feel like i always need someone to complement me. Have I done too much to change anything?
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that's exactly how I was when I had video game addiction when I had no friends in real life at school and I was so addicted to GTA on PS2 and then later on GTA San Andreas on PC with mods because I thought it was a real life game that you could do whatever you want and I thought it was OK to ignore the storyline
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It always seems like the nicest of people that get treated like this I get ignored a lot but I am one of those people who would give my last pound or be there for people I am that person who will let you open up and I would listen yet I am forgotten left out I hate feeling invisible
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This video is garbage, and assumes that other people are always good. The video only posts reasons that suggest that the problematic person is the one who is being ignored. Another reason why others may ignore another is that those doing the ignoring are ignorant.
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My situation is different! I always say hi or hru to ppl and they ignore me and all of my texts and at first we get along and talk a lot but then they leave u for their garbage friends and also I had a friend in discord who only dmed wheneve she felt like
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No matter how i try to make them interested at me nothing change i just wanted to prove to them i am someone whose special but nothing change my parents friends and family treated me as a side character. If everyone ask who am i n i would say pain
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I think point no. 1 and 2 applies on me. Please someone tell me how to overcome them because most of my friends are now ignoring me with whom I had very good friendships once. Even I think that many people are now running away from me. Please help
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I don't know. this feels like an if you're being ignored, it's kinda your fault for being so detestable explanation.
Some people just need a bit of empathy and be acknowledged as human beings. I don't know since when did that became a crime.

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