INFJ: 7 Reasons Why You're Still Single
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Claudia
The ugly truth is that there are people who grow old and never meet their person, ultimately dying alone. Just look at the comment section of these INFJ videos. You'll find plenty of people in their 50s, 60s, and older who share openly that they're single. and have been single for years, sometimes decades.
Society would have you believe that you'll meet someone right for you someday. For some people, someday never comes. These people don't make for uplifting Hollywood stories, so they're largely ignored or even stored away, lest their devastating story makes others sad.
BUT HERE'S THE THING: While other personalities dread this reality and jump from one bad relationship to the next in fear of this destiny, INFJs have a sky-high tolerance for loneliness pain. We can breathe in the ocean of singledom, never drowning or yearning to come up for air.
We also see things as they are. We see the senior citizens abandoned in nursing homes, who got married, had kids, and did everything right, and they're just as lonely as those who never met anyone.
Perhaps, in the end, regardless of relationship status, we all die alone. But INFJs aren't afraid to leave a planet full of people who never understood them. And they sure as hell aren't afraid to be alone.
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The ugly truth is that there are people who grow old and never meet their person, ultimately dying alone. Just look at the comment section of these INFJ videos. You'll find plenty of people in their 50s, 60s, and older who share openly that they're single. and have been single for years, sometimes decades.
Society would have you believe that you'll meet someone right for you someday. For some people, someday never comes. These people don't make for uplifting Hollywood stories, so they're largely ignored or even stored away, lest their devastating story makes others sad.
BUT HERE'S THE THING: While other personalities dread this reality and jump from one bad relationship to the next in fear of this destiny, INFJs have a sky-high tolerance for loneliness pain. We can breathe in the ocean of singledom, never drowning or yearning to come up for air.
We also see things as they are. We see the senior citizens abandoned in nursing homes, who got married, had kids, and did everything right, and they're just as lonely as those who never met anyone.
Perhaps, in the end, regardless of relationship status, we all die alone. But INFJs aren't afraid to leave a planet full of people who never understood them. And they sure as hell aren't afraid to be alone.
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Rosser
I've made friends with a woman who's personality type is ENFJ. She seems to have some of the same traits when it comes to the enterworkings of the mind. She's very sweet and caring. We both seem to be drawn to oneanother. Well last night I woke up a few times thinking about her. Got this weird feeling in my head that she was stressed about something and wasn't sleeping well. So this morning I sent her a good morning text telling her to have a good day. She responded with thank you so much. I'm trying but I didn't sleep well last night because I've been a little stressed. I have not experienced this in a long time. I'm kind of surprised but not really. Lol
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I've made friends with a woman who's personality type is ENFJ. She seems to have some of the same traits when it comes to the enterworkings of the mind. She's very sweet and caring. We both seem to be drawn to oneanother. Well last night I woke up a few times thinking about her. Got this weird feeling in my head that she was stressed about something and wasn't sleeping well. So this morning I sent her a good morning text telling her to have a good day. She responded with thank you so much. I'm trying but I didn't sleep well last night because I've been a little stressed. I have not experienced this in a long time. I'm kind of surprised but not really. Lol
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Chevitz
Great video. But I disagree your point that we stress over the small things as opposed to looking at the bigger picture. To the contrary, a lot of INFJ people are bigger picture thinkers as opposed to the mundane day-to-day tasks. I personally dont care about the small things. I always zoom out and look at the bigger picture and think of things theoretically, and philosophically first.
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Great video. But I disagree your point that we stress over the small things as opposed to looking at the bigger picture. To the contrary, a lot of INFJ people are bigger picture thinkers as opposed to the mundane day-to-day tasks. I personally dont care about the small things. I always zoom out and look at the bigger picture and think of things theoretically, and philosophically first.
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Bayu
Feels like a curse to me. They said we are rare, but to me it just feels like a rejected product/software. I'm an INFJ btw. 35 and never dated. Stop saying we're the rarest. What's the use of being rare if suffering. And lately to much existential questions pop up in my head. Sorry guys for my harsh language. Maybe I'm just raging for my current condition.
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Feels like a curse to me. They said we are rare, but to me it just feels like a rejected product/software. I'm an INFJ btw. 35 and never dated. Stop saying we're the rarest. What's the use of being rare if suffering. And lately to much existential questions pop up in my head. Sorry guys for my harsh language. Maybe I'm just raging for my current condition.
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Vic
I'm a 65 year old INFJ, and despite many attempts to create a permanent relationship I've never found that one person to bond with
It's been several years now since I've even bothered to try as it's just easier being on your own
Other people always let you down or hold you back
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I'm a 65 year old INFJ, and despite many attempts to create a permanent relationship I've never found that one person to bond with
It's been several years now since I've even bothered to try as it's just easier being on your own
Other people always let you down or hold you back
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Amir
Statistically, the fact that INFJ is the rarest means alot of people in the comments are either misguided or delusional. I refuse to believe all 1. 3k people are actually INFJ. Maybe some variation thats similar. The comments look like its an astrology horoscope video.
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Statistically, the fact that INFJ is the rarest means alot of people in the comments are either misguided or delusional. I refuse to believe all 1. 3k people are actually INFJ. Maybe some variation thats similar. The comments look like its an astrology horoscope video.
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Enoch
Just to add on the first one, i also tend to apply that idealism of perfection on myself so I know the imperfect me will just lead eventually to have problems that will then cause our breakupor just suffering; so right now i choose to be single for that reason
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Just to add on the first one, i also tend to apply that idealism of perfection on myself so I know the imperfect me will just lead eventually to have problems that will then cause our breakupor just suffering; so right now i choose to be single for that reason
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jaima
My life is easy going as A true INFJ IT DEDENDS THE WAY YOU CAN HANDLE IT. I CAN ONLY MANAGE ONE FRIEND AND I CAN ASSURE THAT WILL BE HAPPIEST EVER. WHY? IS THAT SO BECAUSE IM FLEXIBLE AND FUNNY JOKER AND MY INSPIRATION IS ABOUT IM A MUSIC LOVER TOO.
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My life is easy going as A true INFJ IT DEDENDS THE WAY YOU CAN HANDLE IT. I CAN ONLY MANAGE ONE FRIEND AND I CAN ASSURE THAT WILL BE HAPPIEST EVER. WHY? IS THAT SO BECAUSE IM FLEXIBLE AND FUNNY JOKER AND MY INSPIRATION IS ABOUT IM A MUSIC LOVER TOO.
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M. O. T
I'm not an INFJ but I wait for others to make the first move and I can see past fake acts. If we go by the people's books, I'm doing everything right. Never been in a relationship though, probably because I'm ginger lol(I'm dying inside)
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I'm not an INFJ but I wait for others to make the first move and I can see past fake acts. If we go by the people's books, I'm doing everything right. Never been in a relationship though, probably because I'm ginger lol(I'm dying inside)
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Snorlax
I'm single because I don't find that one person who's ready to give me as much as I give them. I'm sick of always being the one compromising while they nitpick on trivial things. I'd want someone as understanding & caring as I'm.
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I'm single because I don't find that one person who's ready to give me as much as I give them. I'm sick of always being the one compromising while they nitpick on trivial things. I'd want someone as understanding & caring as I'm.
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BORA
I was mad at my english teacher as she got me 95 instead of 100. And i was going to argue about it and remembers other kids had 50 and 40s. Most high after me was like 87. And then i stopped to descend
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I was mad at my english teacher as she got me 95 instead of 100. And i was going to argue about it and remembers other kids had 50 and 40s. Most high after me was like 87. And then i stopped to descend
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Alpha_Jasperflair
Im an INFJ but im not single anymore, funny thing cuz my bestie feels the same way for me, cuz ive always been so kind and compassionate to him, those were his other complements to me.
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Im an INFJ but im not single anymore, funny thing cuz my bestie feels the same way for me, cuz ive always been so kind and compassionate to him, those were his other complements to me.
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The
Even single sign, I experience. They say it is the rarest personality type in the world. that is probably a good thing, or the human population would have died out due to no one making babies.
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Even single sign, I experience. They say it is the rarest personality type in the world. that is probably a good thing, or the human population would have died out due to no one making babies.
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BC
Being single is fun for me! I cant imagine having to give my attention and energy to another person yet. I think love will find me when Im ready to give and receive love unconditionally.
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Being single is fun for me! I cant imagine having to give my attention and energy to another person yet. I think love will find me when Im ready to give and receive love unconditionally.
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swachitha
I am an infj and my ex boyfriend was an enfp. we were together for 7 years and he broke up with me last month. Is it really true that infj and enfp are meant to be together?
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I am an infj and my ex boyfriend was an enfp. we were together for 7 years and he broke up with me last month. Is it really true that infj and enfp are meant to be together?
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victoria
so arent 2 INFJs the perfect relationship? they would both want that connection, both have great intuition and would both understand each other perfectly?
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so arent 2 INFJs the perfect relationship? they would both want that connection, both have great intuition and would both understand each other perfectly?
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liya
My test result is ENTP. but I don't know why, I feel like a INFJbecause I can almost relate with all actions that INFJ will do, and never with the ENTPs
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My test result is ENTP. but I don't know why, I feel like a INFJbecause I can almost relate with all actions that INFJ will do, and never with the ENTPs
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Anthony
Ma'am I don't appreciate you telling everybody about my life I don't know how you know all these intimate details about me but it's kind of creepy
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Ma'am I don't appreciate you telling everybody about my life I don't know how you know all these intimate details about me but it's kind of creepy
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CallMeNinee
i always thought i'm always alone in my own world, but then again seeing so many people here being INFJ just makes me happy for some reason; D
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i always thought i'm always alone in my own world, but then again seeing so many people here being INFJ just makes me happy for some reason; D
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anime_world668
People always be saying your not an infj so I always be trying to see if there right but in this video it got actually me I cant help it
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People always be saying your not an infj so I always be trying to see if there right but in this video it got actually me I cant help it
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Happy
I dont like to open up because I want the person to REALLY like me, no kidding. And because I dont wanna get hurt at the same time.
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I dont like to open up because I want the person to REALLY like me, no kidding. And because I dont wanna get hurt at the same time.
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Kaleb
I relate with 6 out of 7 reasons. I can take the initiative, but I guess I know now why I still remain single.
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I relate with 6 out of 7 reasons. I can take the initiative, but I guess I know now why I still remain single.
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Arctic
also the case of being so afraid of failure that you fail by either not doing anything or being too slow.
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also the case of being so afraid of failure that you fail by either not doing anything or being too slow.
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Operator
I'm a celibate hermit I avoid dating, romance and just people in general. This is as social as I get.
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I'm a celibate hermit I avoid dating, romance and just people in general. This is as social as I get.
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Rami
im single because i refuse to put up with all the b-s better to do one night flings or short term r-s
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im single because i refuse to put up with all the b-s better to do one night flings or short term r-s
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